I really don't know how people keep writing we should be serious,we laugh too much , I look forward everyday for this.. Benjamin and your crew..God bless You for me .
Love the teachings so much but the too much laughters aren't always necessary. I mean you're there seriously hearing the content then they burst into laughter n you have to wait, yet what was said is so serious. 1:42
This is me,i have a scar on my lips and one side of my nose not on the same size and shape but i love myself.Before i used to fear out of place but as am growing up am continuing loving myself more and nothing can make me lose self esteem.Thanks for education us Benjamin
Mostly am not comfortable with adds like making my nails , deep makeups coz I know one day I gonna miss them and I can't be able to go out, am proud of who I am
Be very secure Learn to distinguish sincere men from chasers Work with internal deadlines Give him a taste of your charm not everything Stay on your way until a man decides he doesn't want to lose you.
1. Confidence (be secure)In you’re own skin 🤣🤣🤣 Benjamin I’m learning as a new wife & a new mom been struggling with this….. 2.Good listener ….Be an empathic listener (understand Him) 3.Disciplined keep boundaries 4. To have time limits…..
Ha ha ha Benjamin, I heard Someone say cohabiting with a Man is like being a multi-million dollar Football Player who goes into a soccer field, play for a club without a signed contract. You get injured in that field, you are on your own and have no back up.😅😅😅😅😊😊😊😊
If u get involved in such it means u are read for any out come because all u want is to see if ur love is strong enough to stand any storm and u are ready for the future. Hence living together to avoid divorce after one week of married
The very beautiful peoples they don’t show up every where, they know they are beautiful! If some people saying oh isn’t beautiful they don’t care;but one day some people they will surprise.Always put interrogation point,If someone told you someone you don’t know! Some time the body is need to show up for but isn’t always of in everything.
Very important message, thanks for opening my eyes because all this time l have been concentrating on useless things that's why my relationships don't last long.
I am very confident and my boyfriend said earlier he loved that but now he’s complaining I I’m too confident and that I should calm down cos I’m a woman. Now I don’t know what to do
Hello Benjamin I hope ur doing good. Am Grace from Tz. Naimekuwa fans wako,but please ujitahidi kufanya vipindi pia kwa lugha ya kiswahili ili kuwafikia wengi,majority wanahitaji hii elimu na ninauhakika hawajui kingereza, Be blessed.
Zulu keep talking. You are one of the best thing that has happened to this generation. For sure you have made an excellent contribution. I am always learning and affirmed to excellent in relationship.
Not all men are the same for example men outside Africa might not see some of this qualities important. Different people's love languages are not the same
Be secured about your man,,if you keep tracking, how wl u have the time to encourage him, in tym of trouble, you won't even concentrate on yourself, then you can noticehis collar,etc Don't satisfy his hunger for sex, your marriage is foundation on cheat.. observe the discipline Help him get his career better,,show him ur ability, let them see wat you are doing forever. Listen to him, they don't feel judged in alcohol aos, He shouldn't milk u for free,leave let him make a decision, let him show commitment, is about how much interaction b4 u decide.. Differentiate between a chaser,,to eat ur fruit(selfish) or plant ur garden with u(DNT play games with prince) Be confidence about yourself, shoe that part of your body you don't like, make peace with your body..(is mesmerizing.
How I wish our Women of nowadays would understand and know the meaning of RESPECT... Thank you..Am always inspired and mentored by your advice....keep the Fire Burning....
Thank you so much Mr Benjamin 🙏 I have learnt Alot on this video I'm this Kind of A lady who has Alot of veins on my legs and hands like that of a man 😢 I could feel so nervous even passing by someone when my arms are down oh my goodness But now because of this video am learning to be me NO MATTER How I LOOK ❤
Am from Kenya I would suggest you address lack of intimacy and sexlessness in marriages . Marriages are ailing and it seems to be a taboo to talk about such a topic.Thanks
the challenge men keep on talking respect respect but never get specific with what respect really means .... women don't know , what is it please, be specific... I am female by the way
Initially I wanted to skip this because there is soo much gibberish on this topic on net ...but after listening I think this is more relatable than any content I have ever come across I found myself correcting my faults ...thank you Benjamin and especially for advocating without waiver for no sex before marriage ....thank you
Hello Benjamin , very encouraging your education is . A little question I have . At what level can we introduce minors let's say between 14 and 18 years .
Rather than telling us about men, cause in the year 2023 no one gives 2 cents about them, tell us how our pockets will fall so in love with us, it's inflation time, love doesn't pay the rent in 2023.
@@joycefuraha6403 no offense, but am just tired of every RU-vidr coming up with how to impress the other gender, we are having a lot of young kids nowadays instead of thinking of the future, like how to finish school, or even to tell the women " close your two damn legs it's the best birth control", we as Africans are going backwards, all we think of is the men/women, why bother thinking of relationship if you poor, it should be a crime for a poor person to even love someone, how will you feed your kids or pay your rent, you can't cash out love through the ATM, let our mindset be how to make Africa the best continent, but nope it's the opposite. So the RU-vidrs should aim in sensitizing the youth on how to create jobs, if the government is not doing anything, let us encourage the youth, that's my expectations from this ones, and I will comment my thoughts, coz I never searched for his content RU-vid recommended it, so if I see something I say something, like you said before, to keep my comments to myself,you should do the same, you should leave my comments alone and go to others who love relationships more than growth, then later blame God for your poverty.
@@strong6082Zulu does what he does best as he is a relationship coach and a lot of people love his content as he advices all age groups "interested" in marriage or relationship. There are many other platforms dealing with how to get rich or eliminate poverty etc that you can navigate to.
Benjamin Zulu, you and Chris Hart are my role models in this field of Counseling Psychology.... bless you my mentors, you say it as it is, no sugar coating....
Benjamin, Benjamin, Benjamin Zulu🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 You said it all!!!!! 👌 Awesome!!!! So so true ~ When you meet a gentleman!!! You know ~ but carry on your way if you must... Thank You! Have missed your lessons of Truth! I see you on World Stage Benjamin ~ Not just East Africa, Africa! Every woman on this Earth has to hear you ~ amazing!!! Keep it up!! Am.always in your classes
