"If you have a disease, its not your responsibility to tell others" 

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Inconsiderate is how I would describe him

Knowingly infecting someone with HIV is an actual treatable crime iirc. Can anybody either confirm?

@@knes167 I think it is in some areas. I'd have to search.

@@Carol-sn2pz its possible for someone to be on retrovirals and not be infectious with HIV. Still its risky. Maybe that's where he was coming from? www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4196576/

We have failed as a people. Fuck this nigga, figuratively of course.

Didn’t California legalise it?

Exactly!!! Thank you!

California change the law

@@rbob2416 no but they reduced the penalty

Because then he won't get sex

Yunus Ahmed well now he won’t get sex from a lot of people

Ignorance, entitlement and stupidity are a dangerous combination...

@@AlexHero2812 add priviledge to that, cause he is in youtube and sending this to viewers and people are watching him talk about his garbage views.

Selfishness

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FInally I found my thought in comments. I'm surprised A&P didn't make that comparison. That miss with HIV definitely will be spitting fire if partner wouldn't tell about herpes or syphilis.

Bingo!

Hurt people hurt people

Absolutely

Nicely put

Bro, I deal with it all the time

Exactly,. He just went into bitchy mode and did not address where they were wrong.

This should be the ONLY comment ALLOWED here...#GiveMeJESUS

Bam...

That part!

Say it again for the ppl in the back!!! 👏👏👏👏

BIG FACTS!!!!

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Isn't that against the law though? Aren't you supposed to tell someone you got it? I'm pretty sure it's very important to tell a person you gonna have sex with "Hey....I have HIV it might not be a good idea to sleep with me...." If he is sleeping with people he IS actively infecting people with HIV.

@@Melodyofthesea78 Yes. If you knowingly have it, you cannot spread it to other people that don't know you have it.

He aint that cute probably not many of these

nephyril He isn’t talking about spreading it, he talks about disclosing his status. If the levels of the virus is low then you can’t transmit HIV. That being said, everyone should make an informed decision so personally I think he should tell but this comment section just shows the ignorance is abundant.

@@missylarsson3517 - Doesn't matter how low your HIV count it. Once you have it, you are OBLIGATED to inform your sexual prospect(s) of that fact. If they no longer want to have sex with you, that is their choice. My keeping valuable information from them, you have in all intents and purposes committed fraud by omission. When it comes to health risks, if you have a deadly disease and you knowingly spread it, you are in fact performing an act of terrorism. This law came into effect this year due to so many people who had COVID-19 and actively attempted to infect other via coughing, licking other people's food and spitting in people's faces. That will also include these anti-vaxxer crazy folks that take their measles, pox, or otherwise disease ridden children to a park to purposefully infect all the other children. If you have a disease, even if it is herpes, and you know it is catchy, you are OBLIGATED to keep from spreading that illness.

Makes it much worse actually lol, because the most likely cause of him having it is getting it from a person who thinks like him lol.

Yup! It makes him look hypocritical asf teaching HIV positive ppl about protection, testing and whatnot only to get that very disease 🤦🏽‍♀️

Exactly !!!!;

He str8 lying!

Lol u petty

FACT!

js hooper 😂😂😂😂😂

Coronaphobe! I bet you drink Modelo, don’t you?

That would be ironic asf😅

"Slander is something little pussy ass bitches do my nigga"- Diogenes

Thy shall not give thy energy to a bitch nigga Niggalations 4:17

@@khalilali2450 Lmao

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wise philosopher.

Miss Preach*🤣🤣🤣

Similar to Socrates quote. -“When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser”

Even if your as safe as possible you still have the right to be told what the situation is. Nothing is 100% effective, and people have the right to know so they can gives informed consent.

@Great Lakes Bruh just stop. Protection is not 100% full proof. You can keep saying to protect yourself over and over again all you want, it's not going to change the fact that you can still catch something despite all the preparations a person has made.

@Great Lakes and protect others. Don't be a shitbag.

Raptors Post Game Talk "protect yourself" can also mean not engaging in the activity at all after finding out the risk, the best protection is not getting involved in the first place!

This is my opinion. We have a criminal data based that anyone can view. Why can we do it for people affected with HIV and AIDS. I know it's HIPPA law, however, it's a deadly disease and the public needs to know. Not everyone going to reveal their status.

TRUTH!!!

if he can't stand been full of shit maybe he should clean his mess and not just putting it under the mop

unlimited971 Didn’t you see the video? This POS has a mop for a head.

@thematic 😂😂😂 straight dookie!

Same. I was in a relationship with one guy who told me he had bipolar disorder. I appreciated that.

Not really because anxiety is genetic and not contagious. Like you should tell your partner but not even remotely for the same reasons.

@@luckybunny9456 the point is there are things that will affect a relationship. Sure mental illness isn't contagious but there are people who view this as a deal breaker if they don't want to deal with it or if they want to have children but there is a chance the children will inherent their parents mental illness.

@@Gabster1990 agree with your perspective! Was it very challenging and difficult to date someone with bipolar? There's differing degrees in severity and types of course and with medication but I have relatives with it which has been difficult to cope with especially when they don't get help.

@@anitaknight3915 Dating wasn't challenging and he took his medications but we ended things because he wasn't treating me well and I felt like it was becoming a one sided relationship.

@mrlnwrld in the context that he misgenders Abba and Peach, it is an insult. If you are intentionally misgendering someone, you're implying some level of superiority and inferiority. He doesn't call Abba and Peach a "greeny" or some immature stupid nickname because the insult has no cultural significance.

@mrlnwrld insults like "you punch like a girl", "stop being a sissy" and others reinforce the general idea that being a woman makes you weak. And for him to misgender Abba and Peach intentionally, he's validating that same reinforcement.

@@deino4753 I don't think it's that deep. Trying to insult someone by purposefully misgendering someone doesn't necessarily imply any level of gender superiority. Insults like "you dress like a boy" or "you have a man's voice" do exist and yet it's not like it implies male inferiority.

@mrlnwrld he's saying being a woman makes you weak, which as a man is bad.

@mrlnwrld the fact of the matter is, he used "miss" as an insult.

That's why that's his name!! LOL

hm it'S funny bcuz in a sens aba is one of the name of GOD but it's written Abba so you feel me, Aba & preach lol 😏 they may have done this on purpose

@Zikomo Langston you gonna go for HIV testing for a one night stand that you met at 8pm in the bar? Nah boo they gotta address that. If they lie they are responsible for lying and should be prosecuted for that.

@Zikomo Langston but it is their responsibility it is illegal in most states to not tell your sexual partner that you have HIV it's the law so yes it is the person's responsibility

CRE8TIV G4MING “do with that as you will” had me rolling for some reason 🤣🤣

This pot ain't cooking my ramen noodles. The hell with that

@@GamingStar1995 lol

My uncle told me, you got a Pretty mouth boy. Ok he didn't say that, but it does fit the topic well.

Wisdom- 100

u wu thank you very much. You're a great person.

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It is absolutely a legal requirement to divulge certain viral infections before sex. I can confirm (uk at least)

It is also the responsibility of the other party to ask no cap

@@Naisy77 No it isn't. At all.

Not alone in that. I feel physically sick knowing that people like him can be in our community.

​@@alhassanetoure3088 As an individualist, I'm generally pleased to hear that. But for this it's hardly irrelevant: 1) Many actually do think this qualification is important, so it can lend authority to a rebuke-particularly those in his identitarian SJW ilk. 2) I do care that I'm gay as someone to whom this mentality can directly impact; I have a stake in this. 3) I do care that I'm gay as someone who cares for others within my community / demographic. 4) I do care that I'm gay as I don't want people to falsely get the impression that his behavior is acceptable (or endorsed) by other gays.

@@AurorXZ that was a knock out punch 😂

@@alhassanetoure3088 offside.

@@richardcletus6026 First thing to understand, youre not a community. Step away from that thought, its a form of tribalism. Youre unique individuals, and be proud of it.

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he fucked up right there 😂😂😂😂

Abu and Peach back at it again

Miss preach bun looking nice in this episode 😍

This is how I got pregnant no lie

Its more like not using it and saying you have the condom on

My first husband used to do this, one of the reasons I divorced him. He wanted us to have kids but I didn't...

@@RosieWilliamOlivia why would you marry if you don't want kids im just curious?

@@inezgant2839 could you not feel the difference

Right! That comment agrd doo eell. Cuz he's still at about the same amount hahal lolz

2M

Nothing the dude says makes sense. He's just avoiding personal responsibility because he's likely ashamed of what others will think. Let's assume someone did ask him and he did confirm he was positive. That person is gonna avoid him or judge him and he's clearly afraid of it.

@@SnowyWolborg Welcome to the progressives, "our feelings are more important than the truth".

But he contradicted himself the moment he said it’s both parties/people responsibility to disclose. You are one of the people. So...

its pretty much like saying " I mean... i stole this car before i sold it to you, but you didn't asked so its your fault that you got caught by the police 30 min afterwards "

@Zikomo Langston I agree

Amen to that

Wait i thought black people can't be racist..... wtf lmao

in cognito anybody can be racist lol don’t let these folks fool you

The thing is we have been letting many black folks getting away with a lot of shit because they were blacks. It is not surprising to see the same people pushing it too far

@@tyrone2608 racism is systematic oppression. Its not not liking somebody because of their race.

Let's correct that 1 million*

I just watched that moment as this comment came

Edit the numbers every month

It's such a petty insult regardless. Even 100 subscribers is a lot.

@@Nitrotix1 yep, I imagine getting even 100 people to follow you based purely on your content must be hard especially when the quality of your videos usually starts off low.

Should be 15 to 20 years if you knew you had it

Andrew Burgess-Linden - should be the equivalent of attempted murder in the first degree. If the partner never finds out they now have HIV, they could die without treatment. Plus the partner can infect tons of other people without even knowing.

Kings Of Read Is From Georgia Which Their Is A Law Saying If U Don't Tell Nobody You Have H.I.V You Could Get Five Years, Especially If They Can Prove You Give It To Them 🤦‍♀️😡😑😒

Gotem!

Except in California because their government hates them and refuses to protect them.

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I hollered!

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Bro. I wish someone would make a supercut of Preach laughing. When he laughs, I instantly feel better because of how infectious and genuine it is

Yes!! Co-Signing Preach laugh super cut!

The best punchline in the video ever

Aba didn’t even realize how he’d put his foot into his mouth at first😂

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😂😂😂😂😂 Im sorry but that shit is hilarious. Then he had the nerve to say "ARE YOU DUMB!?" ummm.... no but you definitely are showing some extreme signs of idiocy over there. 😂 Question: How you become an advocate for something like HIV before you get it, then once you get it you publicly say on Twitter of all places "I dont have to tell anyone" 😂 What happened to being an advocate for the cause? LOL I thought advocates actually stood up for what they advocate. Your parents must be so proud.

Very good point. I bet he doesn’t even realize how dumb he sounded or made himself look.

Great point

I couldn’t believe my ears when he said that! Like sir... look in the mirror 1st, say hello, and now ask “ARE YOUUU DUMB? WTH

🤔😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I CANT!!

Lebogang Seleleko - she probably didn’t want to get tested because she knew she had STDs. Either that or she was afraid of what the test might reveal she had. Ignorance is bliss. Unfortunately she probably didn’t tell her next partner and fooled him into sex.

@@HypocritesExposd right.

do realize her story about her ex cheating was more than likely a lie. she was doing the cheating not the ex

What a weird story to tell anyone, let alone a date. Think you not only dodged an std but a psychopath too

Women are constantly saying that men need to 'grow up' and be REAL men. Ok, 'real men' will have their potential partners vetted. Let me see your legal, medical and financial records, also review your cooking skills. I'm willing to bet 90% of women would get defensive and lose their damn minds over that.

I watch him and laugh because he really gets passionate regarding certain topics but has no real clue on the topic... He yells and throws out all these different ism and it drives me crazy

Thomas Caprara facts

He's built like a bitch and a prime example of toxic feminity.

Just like majority of females.

TheTwinkiefoot toxic femininity!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@TheTwinkiefoot lol, wow

A walking contradiction.

Hello brother

Yup that’s how he got it in the first place.

Newton Sparetire facts

Hurt people, hurt people.

When you become a zombie, you are no longer fighting zombies. Equally if you are a zombie sympathizer and get turned into a zombie, you still are on the zombie's side.

@WhatISayMayHurtYou&Idc 😃 I might be wrong but I think that person was simply saying we should stop giving that as a response to serious issues because it makes it SEEM like we as society feel it's okay for hurt people to hurt people.

Right!

Perfume, Tears & Hair tf. You think they are the ting to justify it? They were agreeing with the other comments

Certain places are changing that law. I don't think it's a good idea but yeah this line of thinking is changing those laws

And what this reckless guy doesn't know is that the law helps avoid situations where people might get enraged and attack him because they think he just risked their life and health

I would want to know if you have any type of disease because it's not fair to sex someone and keep them in the blind because you're being selfish.

I think only in California you aren't responsible for telling the other person/ people before engagement 😳 in my state it's against the law.

Being ignorant is a crime if you ask me.... Lot of people going unconvicted

As it should. Shit makes no sense otherwise

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I just checked maybe 1,000 in a yr meanwhile these guys are over a million

@Great Lakes what about your responsibility to protect others? Don't be a piece of shit human. Yes, protect yourself, but also protect others around you. If you can't or you're too afraid, you're a coward.

it's cognitive dissonance at this point.

Great Lakes i agree with what you are saying but two things can be true. So people are pointing out that you should be honest with your sexual partners about diseases and things of that nature... like in a perfect would that is what you should do... however like you said, the world isn’t perfect so people need to be more diligent as well and ask the people instead of waiting for them to assume and also they should use protection and get checked together. Now what you are missing is that Aba and Preach are talking about how things SHOULD BE. So all y’all are correct...

@@Mellymellucky17 it's not that it should be,it IS that way,there's a law for that

Yeah his body language as well as the intonations in his voice

I think he is afraid of being judged or shunned if someone he likes knows he is positive. And that seems to be why he's in denial over why it's someone's responsibility to ensure the disease isn't carelessly spread. It speaks to a serious lack of empathy to put someone in a situation that you already find to be deplorable. But I guess misery loves company.

I agree and i think thats exactly what justin was saying/expressing but it was misinterpreted as him saying "he doesnt have to & not telling anyone.

@T Martin Awful logic tho. Like yes smart people ask questions but if they don't he should still tell, if not for their sake his own bc if they catch his bug he catches a case

I think u should find a partner with hiv too...no persons without giv would want to risk once they knew...its just common sense.

@T Martin you're not informing me of anything! I know what i said & meant, and I agree with the person who's comment we're under. Like Lori's basically saying: Justin shouldn't have to tell the world, but should inform who he's intimate with or plan to be intimate with... which I AGREE! Which is what Justin was trying to say but it was misinterpreted as "he's not telling anybody anything"... Please Listen or Read To Comprehend, Not Just To Respond!!

I think so too

Well, who doesn't really 💁‍♂️

His potential partners probably disliked his personality and this is a clincher.

But then he blasts it on RU-vid? I just don’t get it... if I had something life altering I would not knowingly put someone else at risk.... stigma or not, it’s life altering... I would probably feel too bad to even date... I know eventually ppl move past that and find partners... but it’s probably because they were honest (no matter how hard it is) about the situation....

My question is, how did he advocate for HIV awareness and distigmatization, be knowledgable about HIV and prevention(a lot of people who say HIV status shouldnt be disclosed also say because with medication your viral load can be 0) and STILL end up HIV+? That proves that even with the most knowledge and understanding of how HIV works and how the medications work to prevent it or lower your load, it STILL comes down to transparency. Whoever gave him HIV either lied about being on medication, didnt take it consitantly or lied about their status..so Idk how he can say he doesnt have to disclose it.

@@vianjelos It's possible he wasn't read up about the subject of STD's before getting it himself, or at least encountering it at somepoint. Either way this man is a great example of how selfish we as a species can be when it comes to our primal instincts, self preservation in lieu of caring for others. 🤷‍♂️ We can only hope he wakes the fuck up someday.

@@TestSubjectQWTD its possible, but IDK how you can advocate for something that you have no knowledge of.

@@vianjelos As I said man, I hope this guy wakes up.

"What's stigma?" "Stigma balls"

Pretty they are one dimensional and very superficial

When you choose to base your identity on your sexual orientation, you get caught in loops.

GHchic I was thinking about that the other day like for example a gay man can slap a straight man for no reason but if the straight man retaliates, it’s automatically a hate crime. “Oh he hit me because I’m gay” like really?

#Facts

jojofromtx hate him? Not exactly what is needed... one should correct him from the community. Especially when he feels “outsiders” are only debating this due to him being gay.

That’s why it’s his legacy: thanks to him not disclosing his status it will be around long after he’s gone

Ned Slanders Inclusive is overrated. Nobody likes or gets along with everyone equally. If people would just learn some respect, tolerance and he passed the fact that everyone won’t like you we’d be fine.

So you tryna be me huh? Well then, get ready to start winning Champ! 🏆🖖🏾

Send location!

@@RizztrainingOrder Self-distance yourself SJW internet tough guy.

I wish yo be like this. But boy them SJW's have the nastiest mouths... oof. I have had my feelings hurt a few times putting them in their place

No, it was colorism. I guess Aba is "lightskinn-ded" and not sure about Preach. Maybe he's hating cause he's darker. LMAO. I know colorism exists, but this guy just pulled that out of his over-stretched ass.

@@chewbacca4778 How exactly would colorism work along gay lines? Cause for straight black men colorism is flipped, dark skin men are prefered while these mixed/light skin dudes are automatically punks who can't fight etc.. This is why you always see these type of dudes trying to act super hard and doing the most to gain respect.

Lol. I have not a clue. He's the one accusing them of colorism even though there were no prejudices expressed in their video.

@@chewbacca4778 ugh... Americans and there "...isem's"

@@SpikeRazzor that's definitely not true in the US. Light skin and mixed, curly hair men and women are preferred for their features and perceived higher social hierarchy. Think organizations like Jack and Jill or boule. Not to mention corporate America as you mentioned see lighter skinned individuals as less threatening.

nah give them credit, lol

Nah that bitch dude is not at their level he can't do shit to them

What he does is slander and defamation of character bc he's ignorant and petty. He's a gross human being, and him being hiv positive had nothing to do with it. He is just a gross human being.

Pre call the vendors and tell them about this POS

*That dude and his HIV some bitches.*

@@mahamedali5068 LMAO!!!

It's ACTUALLY a crime lol

Yannick Mupompa well not disclosing it to a sexual partner is a crime where I am from.

Everywhere it's a crime. Charlie Sheen don't ring a bell to you?

Mary Jane Harris nope, I dont usually follow up on celeb bs

Starting a relationship you don’t have to, but when the conversation of sex come up you should tell before that. I’m positive. Been poz for 7 years. But the first thing i promised myself i will always tell my sexual partners. yes the reactions can be hurtful. But the person who gave it to me did it purposely. N i never want to share that emotional pain i felt with no one. N be that person who “ruined” someone. Life. Sadly a lot of ppl when they first find out has his mind set due to fear.

that's bullshit, you ALWAYS have a chance, IDC how low the load is, it exists. that's like saying birth control is 100% effective and you should never be prepared or worry about pregnancy if you take a pill. it's just not realistic, it's a utopian ideal

@@Burger_pants Actually no, there has been multiple studies across many thousands of intercourses where the viral levels are so suppressed (called undetectable) that you can’t transmit. Not one transmission across all the thousands of intercourses in the studies when levels are undetectable. So it is actually not at all on par with the % of failing pills.

Thanks for commenting Christina, most people are sadly completely unaware of the medical breakthroughs since the 80’s and what it means to live with HIV today and how it is transmitted. Even more sadly most people do not even care to update their information and read up on the topic.

@@missylarsson3517 nothing you ever say will ever get me to be ok with not telling someone you have an STD. My partner had hepititis once, but she did the treatment plan and it was cured, she no longer carries it, but even so, she TOLD ME, because she isn't dis-honest. If you feel the need to defend a lie, under ANY circumstance, you should re-evaluate your moral compass.

@@Burger_pants Difference is that your partner with hepatitis can actually transmit it to you, while someone with undetectable levels of HIV can’t transmit. If you mean she told you years after she was cured and still felt the need to tell you props to her for being transparent and working against the stigma. Still I don’t think a law should require her to tell you.

He’s too self righteous. For some reason he thinks he is lightyears ahead of ppl.

DAMN you got to it before I did!

It's because this dude is letting this nonsense come out of his mouth while sounding bold as fucking brass. As if he is actually making sense. This dude is a coward avoiding personal responsibility because he's afraid of being judged.

LMAO!!

👏👏 yes Mick thats how its supposed to be

I agree, but so few know this.

Honesty is a beautiful thing!

@@mic7able I have the utmost respect for you both as a couple!! Kudos to you because honesty and communication is so important. I have sympathy for your mrs. as I had endometriosis as well and it's no joke.

Definitely unsubbing

Yup I unsubbed as well

I definitely unsubscribed from him as well. I can't believe he thinks this way.

I unsubbed after Flame. He wants everyone to listen n except his talking points, but is a crazed maniac with everyone else. He also perpetuates the stigma that the LGBT comm. can be mentally unstable.

I unsubbed as well after seeing the video

mj XOXO exactly!

He'd still be a rotted piece of green shit if that was his reason tho. If you got HIV, you either abstain from romantic relationship to stop spreading, or tell them.

@OP .1 IS higher than 0 so I guess I have to agree with you on that

@@vkak1 Legit if everyone who had HIV either stopped having sex or ONLY had sex with each other this shit could be phased out and done with in 50-60 yrs after everyone with it passes. But mfs lube this putting they're own sexual wants over another person's health. Disgusting

Nope, not an excuse. The fact is, this is what we know without him having to say it. People hide things about themselves that others may find objectionable so that they aren't rejected. That's human nature. We all want acceptance from someone. We have to stop putting people's feeling over logic, rational thinking and more poignantly, right and wrong. I sympathize with his position and I understand why he would want to hide his status. But based on sheer principle given the facts of the situation. He is still unequivocally wrong. His feelings do not negate that. We have to be able to say "I understand ,still love you aaaaaaand respect you as a fellow human being but you are wrong "period! Your feelings do not absolve you.

Totally ignoring the fact that both men in the video are varying shades of the ethnicity all three share. Hilarious.

Onyxsolo factsss

Chew Bacca exactly!

Shawn C tell em

musicvixen24 Most of his followers condemned him for the same thing Ana n Preach did. Well, maybe “condemned” is a strong word but none of his subbies, that I saw, agreed with him.

I think you put this so eloquently, being vulnerable with someone only to find that they have fatally betrayed you would be so heartbreaking on so many levels

Boggles the mind, doesn't it? Also, what he is advocating for, is criminal and a felony in 49 States and a misdemeanor in CA.

@Jake McCoy is right but I am going to add this So true my man. So true!

@Jake McCoy is right but I am going to add this it's aggravating and puzzling how they received thag power too. Then you remember "It's who you know" + "Hard work". At least in my experience in the workplace at least.

I was thinking the same thing!

I was wondering about why they don't acknowledge each other anymore

Period

thats what you call fucked up priorities.

Spread the love lol.

None of which was evident in A&P's initial video. He just imagined a whole bunch of crimes against himself that weren't committed. This is lunacy.

O.o hiv-phobic is a thing now? Even in the way they are misusing the suffix phobia hatred of HIV is completely acceptable for all people to have, it is a disease that kills people, what are we supposed to do? Love it?

@@lilchristuten7568 well said

Techno Master 😂😂😂😂😂

Techno Master stfuuuuu 💀💀💀😂😂😂

@Techno Master 💀💀💀💀