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Just left my girl for the same reason. People make time for who they want I don't care what they schedule look like. I refuse to give my all to a person and they only meeting me halfway
1. Takes long time to respond 2. Avoids dinner plans constantly 3. Calls you a friend before others 4. Tells you she's not ready 5. Not interested in a conversation 6. Not attentive to your serious talks 7. Blue ticks you regularly 8. Body language (not focused)
I agree with this. Even people who say "I'm at work." It literally takes seconds to respond with SOMETHING. I see people texting back in meetings even.
Too busy thinking of other things not related to a relationship. Most of the time it’s resentment from not getting the attention they want. Then when an individual does get what they want, it’s too much. Best course of action, let the justices of Karma take control. It will happen and take its toll, exactly where it left off from the previous relationship.
1. She often takes her time in responding to your messages 2. She often cancels plans 3. She calls you a friend 4. She says she’s not ready for a serious relationship 5. You aaalways initiate contact 6. She goes vague when you try to talk about serious things (feelings, the relationship, next step, etc) 7. The reads your messages and doesn’t reply 8. Body language (she’s not present when you’re together, etc)
Don't "fall" in love with a woman. Be kind, responsive, and caring. But overall keep yourself and your own life in check. Think of straightness within yourself, not emotional mergence with her. Let her follow as she chooses. Listen to her views, but be the one that makes the decisions. - Never accept flakiness or disrespect, and don't be afraid to walk away.
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
Guys basically abundance mindset. A girl that wants you will make time for you. And match your energy, if she’s not leave. I promise she’ll be left speechless.
No problem! When they introduce me as a friend, I don't say anything, I just roll with it, stop trying, and I introduce her as a friend to EVERYONE else, especially other women. Oh, she's just a friend.!
Number 1 is accurate. My BF and I text each other throughout the day though we are both busy at work. Messages do not get unread or responded to. Nobody is too busy for someone if they gave a crap.
Another tip gents...if a woman cancels on you but she is interested, in her text or call telling you she is sorry she cannot make it on the agreed day she will seek for alternatives. If she does not, move on
Women want equality I'm all for that. Let them pay for their own darn drinks. Give them a wheelbarrow full of bricks a bag of cement and build there own darn house. Oh yes equality could not come soon enough for me. And yes get them to pay for there own darn meals on a date as well. Let's see how eager they are to jump on the equality band wagon then.
(1) This is one BEAUTIFULLY melanated SISTER! (2) Fellas, don't take it personal when you find yourselves being rejected;just thank them for their conversation and keep it pushing!
1. Takes time to get back to you 2. Cancells plans repeatedly 3. Calls you a friend 4. Tells you she's not ready 5. You always initiate contact 6. When you escalate she goes fade 7. She blueticks you 8. Read her body language
I know for a fact, women are next to their phones, 24/7. If you text, she gets a dopamine signal and she checks her texts immediately. You would be mistaken to believe that she hasn't seen that text 6 seconds after you sent it. Her choice not to respond is a perfect example of not being interested. Not responding in 24hrs means she's concerned about someone else and you're just another secondary on her relationship interests. Don't waste your time or money. Travel and see how women treat their men outside the USA and you will be astounded.
Bro, that's very true. The rudest attitude I ever got from a woman was when I got to the U S. I do not know why. However, there are few cool women as well.
Women in other countries treat men differently because they are treated differently..... in other countries, it's legal for a man to beat his wife with little to no consequences... only in america can a man be punished for physically abusing a woman.... that's why women in other countries "love, honor, cherish & obey" their men.... you can't do that in america so of course women outside the usa treat their male counterpart much better
@@jennymcloving9670 I need to tell you this. 95% of men in Africa don't beat their women. Not that it is legal to beat a woman. No. But the society does not really treat domestic violence very seriously when it happens. The reason being that families intervene and find a way to resolve it so the marriage doesn't break. You will agree with me that divorce rate in Africa is very low compared to the U.S.
@@jennymcloving9670 this always gets brung up as a excuse. every time lmao no it isn't that they were just raised differently overseas vs the USA same goes in reverse for how women are raised in the USA vs Overseas lmao it isn't because of that Men get punished in Canada,Africa, and Russia even in The Ukraine for that it isn't because of what you just said now is that tru in the middle east yes because it is different rules. but to say its all overseas is delusional.
1- Busy and never get back to you. 2- If cancel plan repeatedly with you. 3- She introduce you as her friend. 4- She tell you that she's not ready for the relationship 5- You are the one who have to initiate contact. When you said you wanna take this relationship forward she laughs. 6- When you escalate she goes vague. 7- She blue text you. 8- Body language
I had a friend that I simped over for years. I did literally every red flag you stated because I was hoping for something to change. After taking some time to really address my own attachment issues, I told her I still care for her after 3-4 years, but I don't care to fight for it anymore. Walked away from that long term friendship. She tried calling me a few times to "pickup where we left off" before me standing my ground. I had to block her... She wants a bitch boy, she can find it elsewhere. Thanks for the video @GHANA. Really helps keep my life in perspective watching vids like yours.
The major problem that creates all these actions is Indecision, which happens when she has other options. So don't be in a relationship where you are tolerated be in a relationship where you are celebrated.
I love how you're out there looking after the interests of men. Since the women's lib movement which was definitely needed, men's needs have been diminished to zero. So thanks for speaking for men as a woman.
I found out that my ex girlfriend wasn’t worth being with when I figured out why she was always broke. She has her own place and a car but has a Vudu account with nearly 500 movies on it. 😳I was like yeah this isn’t gonna work.
The bottom line is this: 1) Ppl make time for "who & what" they want to make time for. 2) "Your time" is the only thing you really have of value, so don't let anyone waste it with child's play bc time is at a premium. 3) Last but not least, you have to believe that "you're a prize too", don't let anyone think that they're more important than you. Interest must be reciprocated, if it's not move on!!!
I. Entirely agree with your comment so every time you meet one don't right away put them on a. Pedestal the only way you are going to know a. Person is that you both. Should aggre to spend time together.?
If she is interested genuinely, she has to text you back within at least couple of hours. If she takes days and that too on more than three occasions, just stop texting. This is a clear message to you. Forget her and move on. Don't waste your time. Don't chase a mirage. Save your self from disappointment and disaster.
Nobody is "that" busy and trust me I get busy. Everyone has their phones on them and see the messages almost instantly or not long after. It's all games. Facts.
Thank you so much Auset. I just got my heart crushed by a young woman who just happened to have been through previous trauma that wasn't fully communicated to me so I could handle it accordingly. I accepted her back after she cheated with a random man , came up missing for 4 days. Now she's left again without no response for the last month and a half. All I did was a man is reflect on my wrongs and take accountability, apologize, check in concerning about her and still no response from her. After chest and stomach pains for 30+ days I have concluded,,,,FORGET THIS🤣 I'm a great guy, a great father, loving, caring, fit, spiritual etc... ♥️🖤💚
Sounds like you was dealing with a Female Covert Narcissist , espacially the part were you said you was dealing with chest and stomach pains 30+ , same thing am feeling too
I found the best thing to do was always leave them !!! Then I didn't have to bother getting married, having children, meeting her relatives, putting up with her moods, spending money on her, etc. I have owned my own house since I was 30 yrs old so I would never have a relationship with a woman who had nothing !!! Every woman I ever knew was thousands of pounds in debt and lived in rented accommodation. So if anything went wrong she would take my house away from me !!!! No woman would ever let that happen, neither would I !!!!! Every woman I ever met wanted a free meal ticket and some mug to give her a house !!!! So the wise thing to do was......Stay Single !!!!! Nice informative videos !!!!!
Tip no.2 & 1. I've just dumped her less than 24 hours now. Today, I sent her clothes to her. Men see these red flags but some still choose to stay and finally, it ends in premium tears.
On number 1: the excuse is usually, "I'm such a terrible communicator and I'm so busy", but we all know that ain't it. Number 2: SHE CAN'T ALWAYS BE THAT BUSY. Thank you very much
I like that a woman is out here helping us out. I met someone online, we chatted heavy..exchanged numbers. But one day I came to the conclusion that I was always initiating contact. I put her on ice. I feel so much lighter now. 💯
Love the content Jessica. Truthfully, In the past i have been so blinded by the physical attraction toward certain women that i failed to recognize her obvious lack of interest in me. Part of the reason for this incognizance was a lack of a healthy relationship with myself. I’ve learned that it is absolutely necessary to realize a healthy nurturing self-caring relationship with myself before bringing another person the picture. Often times people look for others to fill a void in our lives. In my opinion, a partner should compliment us rather than complete us.
You're a God sent woman to enlighten men about the complexity of different women...bcoz it's hard for 1 gender to speak negative truth about the same gender
Women will just drag you down the rabbit hole. Its best to to focus on yourself. Its 2020 people. This is not the the 90s and below. I encourage all of the men here to focus on themselves.
Out of all the things you said in this video. If a man does these types of things to a woman, they say we are Playing Games...... But when a woman does these same things its called not being interested... 💯
Too true! Also... When her only compliment to you is "You're a nice guy". When she asks for money, early in the relationship. A history of abuse and abusive relationships.
Hi Jessica, I'm a new subscriber from S.A 🇿🇦 I love your make up. By the way you are not only helping guys, you are also teaching women what to do. We can't keep losing guys with these silly mistakes. Thank you so much
Jess I think you left one important point out, that's is if she interested, she will try and reciprocate very kind gestures even if its very little. I have this saying, if they love you, move a mountain for you will be like moving just a finger, but if they don't, moving a finger for you will be like you asking them to move a mountain for you. Thanks for sharing such great wisdom. Bless you
I bit of advice I read that has served me well in life! "Stop taking advice from women on what women like or want in a man! If women were truly honest about what they want in a relationship, bad boys would not be so successful with them." (The Basic Instruction Before Lovin Eve). Now do with that advice as you please.
The problem is you only find out this after you've got married and had children, after which it's too late. Don't waste your time on women. Do me myself and I. They really are not worth it.
Thank you Jessica. Contrary to popular belief, there are really nice guys out here who just want a good woman to be in a mutually and equally committed relationship. Seriously, our intentions are honorable. Well, life continues. Keep up the good work!
If a woman doesn't get back to you within 24 hours and not in hospital after you contact her and doesn't show up for two dates stop talking to her. If she really was interested she will contact you . Otherwise she is only wasting your time. There are lots of other woman who be interested in dating you.
It’s so much worse when a woman is hurting you because as a man you can’t hit her like you could a man so being in a toxic relationship where she really hurts you then calls you like nothing ever happened it’s so sick
I feel like women don't realize that an indirect rejection is even more hurtful than just saying it straight, because it leaves a lot to your (now dark) imagination. Just say it ladies, it's better for everyone.
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Ever since I subscribed to this channel I've been getting lots of help In reading women and the signs they show. Us guys 85% can't read the signs women show and having one of them break down sign by sign is just another level of love. Thank you so much lots of love from me 💖💯
guys remember to take all relationship advice with a grain of salt...every relationship is unique so in the end you need to make the best decision you can
If your girl calls you a friend, seriously walk away stop overthinking and watching these videos. She's trying to make you unsure which has truth in it...shes telling u there's another guy in the background.
I don't know why we men should decipher how a woman acts...if she acts cold and hot, move on. Don't waste anytime on a woman who plays games. A woman who loves you is easy to understand and genuinely proves her love with her actions. Men shouldn't waste their time trying to figure out women, it's a waste of time.
@Sta Sea You are also a stranger to that person...what if he/she acts cold too.....You can act normal without been seen as easy to get....uf that's all you care. Mind games are shit....Be yourself and stop acting...if you don't feel someone's vibe...let them know. Most of the times....you act cold and end up falling for a persistent player.
7 things if woman do leave her... 1...she takes her time to getting back to you like she dosnt rply or reoly after many times...... 2....if she cancel plan repdely what you ask her to dinner or meet means she is not intrested.... 3....she calls you a friend.... 4.... If she tells you she not ready for relationship...... 5..... This is only you to initiate contact.... 6... When u accelate or take steps to forward she fades away reject or dont coopreate.... 7.... She bluetiks you means dont reply in chats.....
In this generation, you don't need to waste time with anyone. If a female want to be with you, she would create time. You hundred percent right. What I want to share with some dude's is, never force yourself on a female. She would hurt your feelings and you can hurt yourself.. It's not a do or die.
Basically if she’s not putting you first, you aren’t. It’s not you, just move on. She wasn’t all that anyway. You’re just trying to save your dignity but you’ve already lost it by chasing someone that doesn’t want you 😂 but listen you still can have your dignity by ditching her. Move smarter and work on yourself. You da man.
Goodluck to my younger bretheren on the dating scene... My biggest tip is: Look after your future first and ignore dating until you notice someone with more passion than you in the direction you're headed in life. Even then still, you don't have to date. Just enjoy your exploits together and succeed together.
A lot of times they truly are in love with you, then they self-sabotage because of different reasons. Low self-esteem, trauma bonded, insecure, depression, or anxiety. (Anxiety is a form of depression )... It's something she has to fix within herself. It's not our responsibility. This can go for a man or woman
I’m dealing with a women with these same mental challenges. I tried my hardest, read about depression and anxiety, processed, took advice and all to no avail. I broke up with her because I felt I wasn’t being treated right. I rethought everything and tried to get her back and she’s not with it. We still talked and made love a couple of times but ultimately she couldn’t get over the fact that I left and feels I’ll do it again. It doesn’t help she’s super bad so guys will definitely be gasin her up and giving her a false sense of entitlement, with will I believe not allow her to address her issues. I wish I wouldn’t have left and tried harder, but maybe not. Sometimes you have to break your own heart to save your soul 💯💔💪🏾
When I was 18 I was dating this girl that would barely text me back... I noticed while we were on a date that her face was glued to her phone and furiously texting.... I realized that I was probably plan Z... one day I dropped her off to a hair appointment and never looked back. I was an idiot but u live and learn. And I learned how to spot a bunch of red flags from just dating her.
1. She's too busy 2. She cancels plans 3. She calls you a friend 4. She tells you she's not ready 5. You always make the first conversation 6. When you escalate she goes fake 7. She blue thicks you
Thank you for your advice! I needed this right now! Two years with a great woman, who started showing all of these signs when another couple with money started offering to take her to Aruba 5 months ago, and everything you just mentioned started happening!
I came here to say that everything you said is true! In GH, men are taught to be the pursuers, and usually most of the things you mentioned are seen by the men as a challenge, or to try harder (I know some of the girls usually do this to "pull legs"), but I call BS on it and I see it as a sign of immaturity. I urge the men to take your sage advice, if the woman you are interested has the characteristics listed, please, do not think your patience is being tested, just move on quickly
Im a man now and i used to get shamed for refusing to chase a women. I also refuse to make any kind of first move. Some men are going to be reading this and they are going to be thinking "He's not man enough" but i have made the first move enough times to not want to make the first move anymore.
Keep that going. You don't lose anything, believe me. 1 year of women stress free and drama, and still counting. Peace and self enjoyment is the key for a calm life. Work for yourself and treat yourself with priority but after you treat God with priority first. Pray to Him and thank Him for everything daily 🙏🏼 God bless and He will take care of us!
I just stumbled on to Jessica and have been more than pleasantly surprised. I'm not sure I expected to get this kind of counsel from Ghana...not sure why...don't know Ghana very well, but Jessica seems very practically grounded in what she's doing and saying. Outstanding advice, great presence...as said, a very pleasant surprise. I'll continue to watch out for her clips. Thanks to JOS. PS: with over 2M views I realize I'm a very late comer :)
If a woman likes you... It'll be too obvious.... You'll just know... It'll mostly creep you out in fact... Especially when you don't like her as much... Attention! Interest! Overdoing things! Regard! It'll show ... Trust me...
You will know,like he said,it will be to the point where she's almost boarding annoying/ obsessed. And it will usually be with the women in your rotation who you like the least lol
The ultimate mode is prayer mode, simply stay prayed up. When the devil want to destroy you, he will send you a woman, when God want to bless you, He will send you a wife.
This is facts! I was dating/talking to this woman that I knew for years. It was a spin the block situation, which I don’t advise anyone doing, unless it was a bad timing thing. So she told me that she just wanted to date, but wanted me to still show up/be there for her (because you want to) vibe. I should have walked away. But I took it as a challenge and things got worse because I was genuinely showing up and supporting her. And when I wasn’t getting anything in return, not even basic respect it would cause conflict. She bamboozled/manipulated me into taking a urine sample for her so that she could get a government job. Of course I did it because I didn’t want her to struggle. But after that it got even worse. See essentially the day before Thanksgiving said that we needed to talk, and did not want to resolve anything, the issues that were causing the conflicts but she wanted to just end it. After that she reached back out to me in December I didn’t respond. I reached back a week ago and she blocked me and the whole nine. But to the point if she says that she doesn’t want anything from you, walk away. If she disrespects you walk away. If having a conversation is like hosting a job interview walk away.
Brothers don't go out here seeking . Before you seek first evaluate and correct yourself so when you are "seeking" a partner you more so attractive what is needed in your current state . Elevate and attract don't search and be desperate
