Illicit (Haram) Relationships 

if you leave something for the sake of ALLAH, ALLAH will replace it with something better.

But how do you get over the guilt of this?

@@amna729 Hmm, how to get over the guilt of having being in a relationship? Tbh, I think some part of that guilt will always be there, and that isn't necessarily a bad thing. Use it to make sure you don't fall into that same sin again. Pray to Allah, seek His forgiveness and find peace within yourself for He guided you out of it

Salam brother really good Question can you please help me out my brother help me to get out of haram relationship I know it’s hard and heart full but is there anyway to advise me please please I will really appreciate thank you ❤

thank you so much brother, really felt like someone is with me

Amine😭

My ex husband married me but he was talking to girls but he still married me, he didn't provide for me then after a year of marriage he went Pakistan and got married to another girl, then he divorced her. After sometime he got a girl pregnant, he told her a big bag of lies about me and this Muslim girl didn't know about me but he was still with me. I found out and got divorced but he was cheating on her with other girls and she was pregnant, moved her out of London so she dont find out about me. SubhanAllaah Now my husband lied and tricked me into polygamy marriage, I cry and I'm so upset how a man cant lie and trick me into polygamy marriage SubhanAllaah. The other wife dont know about me, he moved her out of London Tooting area to Blackpool in 2019 summer time, so I dont leave him, now he tells me their is no wife "Sakina", I said because you moved her to Blackpool so I cant tell her now and the wife didn't even question him, the mans moved you out of London SubhanAllaah. Be careful sisters, dont trust noone. Most Muslim brothers have other girls and that's how it is nowadays SubhanAllaah. My was husband had me and her then he was talking to other girls for marriage, he didn't tell these girls he was married with children. He was talking to girls online and his family took him to see other girls at their homes "CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT" you know your son is married with children and your taking him to see other girls for marriage SubhanAllaah. Alot of guys are married or have secret wives and secret girlfriends and secret children SubhanAllaah Ya Allah so please be careful, be careful. I cry so much because I love him, unconditional love Allah swt put in my heart for my husband. Now I'm suffering with mental health issues, emotional abuse too because he was married I got a infection from him too from him having sex with the wife and that's how I found out he was married to another woman SubhanAllaah. The wife still dont know about me Terrible.

@@JahannamHellfire May Allah lead you a peaceful life again sister...

@@041_mirqazim3 May Allah swt bless you ameen.

murtaza khan

Ameen

Aameen

Ameeen

...eff sugar coating ISLAM (they're coming for our children(gays&reSlavery) FEAR ALLAH unless you're nOt a MUSLIM.......NONE of us aRe mute ...verily LOVE should want you want Jennah for another "Muslim" openly damning their soul to HELL(no shame to keep sins between one and ALLAH...shaytaan always encouraging to make a spectacle of oneself .....men aRe the leaders providers maintainers of the women...DHIJAAL-antiChrist is currently looming....SHAYTAAN has his claws in this great big family UNITED we are a neighborhood/city ...family of(Muslim/Christian/kafirs&minions)...say we have land yet we harbor in the city(famine coming soon) ....these people agenda wide open ....We damn our own souls if wE damn the children(by not give them ISLAM as babies ONLY) to be subjected to the open indoctrination of satanic blaspheming ALLAH ....(we don't need electricity to follow Islam (darkness coming) the guide is in QURAN ; it will turn white and I pray my clan die with silk wind of Imam those left WOE unto them ; it is as if I'm the crazy but Islam ain't a sweet cup of tea ...I know I'm doing the right thing (talking-running my mouth with Islam not Leemology101) the woman as ALLAH say are the weaker sex. It's an extinction going on and the corona fear got folk kissing faith in ALLAH ...sad state for a Muslim to NOT TRUST ALLAH only HE say our last breathing date..... ALLAH says your loins and mouth will take you to HELL if you ain't careful ...same laws of the streets it's a jungle out there survival of the fittest and no one leave the streets unscathed (lessons/jail/death) A MUSLIM IS A WARRIOR for ALLAH for all his religions laws; same commandments same sins ...clothes shoes vacations gambling fornicating & faggying ain’t where it’s at🤕

Amine ya rabbih for all of us

AHMED RIYAZ KHAN Amen Ya Rabbi 🙏🏾

Ameen

AHMED RIYAZ KHAN yea amen plus I’m a lone wolf I just like to be alone don’t plan to be in any relationship when I grow up

Ameen

Ameen

Ameen 🤲🏼

Alhamduliliah happy for you brother may Allah swt protect you guys from any harm

Marriage is a big responsibility

Brother don't lose hope and that girl you like is not part of your journey...and Allah(S..W.T) saved you from that girl because Allah(s.w.t) has best plans for you ahead and remember Allah said Halal men are for halal men....have patience and you will truly see the benefits in your future and Today times if you are following deen it's like burning on a coal...but hereafter is best....

@@SohailKhan-sk2jg brother I think you mean to say women in ur comment after the second *halal*

U did do haram u were friends with her men and women can't be FRIENDS

Dont run but walk to marriage.

I was very shocked to hear about this in Pakistan except when I went on Twitter today and saw so many Pakistanis taking about their haram relationships. I’m not Pakistani I’m an Arab Libyan American but I always thought Pakistan was one of the countries that truly followed Islam but I guess I was wrong. Inshallah our ummah gets stronger and returns to the right path 🙏🏼

@@TheRealNabil bro zina too common is Pakistan trust me, it is not religiously country anymore

@@zohebansari947 That is truly sad to hear. The worst part is they are proud of it. May Allah guide them or destroy them.

Help me out going through same

@@faizabagban21 I am very sorry to hear…

Just ended mine yesterday It hurts but InshaAllah it will be okay The other person is a really nice person but i hope they understand

I'm going through it rn. Wallahi I'm not happy, but somehow I see myself back with her... I'm always feeling guilty, and when I try to leave, somehow I'm back at it.. please make dua for me.

Nicely said!!

Suhaib Rashid man city 💙💙💙

@@zoy17426 Haha yes brother.. #citYzen

True 100

Really even in Kashmir? I’m honestly shocked. May Allah help us all.

In Kerala too 😞

Do tahajjud, make duaa for yourself everyday in and out of salah. Sujood, make duaa in sujood and cry to Allah swt. Make your intentions (I'm doing tahajjud for Allah's sake only) then go to sleep wake up about 1am do salah, read Quran about 3:30am start making duaa for yourself, The more you do tahajjud the better.

So, we can't have any GF right?

@@hossain457 According to Islam, Love should exist after marriage, not before marriage. ✨

@@Nabeel.Kamal.Ansari ookkk, Yes yes, that's really important. Really, Islam is such a lovely religion.

@@hossain457 is that the same guy "Mere naam Mukesh hei" before every film 🤣

@@Nabeel.Kamal.Ansari yess,🤦🤦 don't laugh.

In islam its not wrong to interact with females and vice versa and we are strictly instructed to highly respect them, however we shouldn't get too close or unprofessional etc. In the Quran the interaction between Musa a.s. and the women is even written, and the prophet Muhammad s.a.w used to talk to non Mahram women too! therefore its not an issue at all, and not at work either. Nor in school, but there must be this distance, for example trying to show respect, not staring, not being too giggly and giving too much information about yourself. Being extremely professional lets say... is permissible

You can, we are never given something more than our soul can bare

which pain dear?

You will over come this too Hannah ❤️❤️ I'll pray for you sister.

it's been a year since you posted this comment, give us an update of your current mental health condition

As Salaamu Alaykum my noble brother. Hope everything is fine. Just wanted to share with you know for the sake of Allah that one should ask forgiveness from Allah rather than say sorry because sorry in a conversation means that you have harmed the one you are conversing with and Alhamdulilah man will never cause failure to Allah rather we do it against our own selves. May Allah bless you and grant you Jannah and all the Muslims

My guy how?

@@thatboiayb7942 😭

Fathima be grateful... al Hamdoulilah you r in life just be grateful and do sport )))

Fathima dear sister sometimes it takes time for some scars to heal, the second important thing next to dua and expecting the good from Allah Azzawajal, is to put effort yourself to try to forget and move on. Some people it takes longer time to heal then others. Rasoolullah said: every hardship, grief, sadness or pricking of a torn a muslim experiences, which through Allah expiates some of his sins👌👌 Ps: every pain has it’s beginning and his end, so dont despair❤️👊

asalamu alaykum sometimes our past is bad but our future is beautiful. remember any bad thoughts you get are from shaytan, so try and keep sayin *a-uthu-billa-himinay-shaytan-nirajeem* over and over make sure you dont forget it is VERY VERY VERY IMPORTANT you do that because sometimes shaytaan will trick you into not sayin it. remember allah loves you for who you are. allah knows your pain and he knows whats in your heart and he is closer to you than your jugular vein(vein on neck) keep bein patient and it will work out in the end. shaytan will constantly remind you of bad memories to mock you and turn you away from allah but dont think allah is not answering to you he will but in time. allah has already answered to your dua but what you want (remove bad memories) is good for you but allah wants something even better for you so he will respond in a better way which is why right now he hasnt and remember every trials you go through there will be reward that is immeasurable so much so people after hardships will ask allah why they didnt have harder life, when they just SEE their reward (nevermind experience it) think of like how a baker is making bread he puts bread in oven (tests trials your bad memories is trials) and sure the oven is hot but slowly the bread is rising (we rise in status and character) till eventually the bread has reached a good state and is taken out of oven (tests stop) in the end bread gets eaten but we gets reward. be patient with these thoughts and remember bad thought/memories are just from shaytan so keep saying this *a-uthu-billa-himinay-shaytan-nirajeem* (make sure you do i always forget). trust me in the right now it seems tough but keep being patient for that little bit longer and youll see what allah has in store for you and youll see it will be worth the pain.

Fathima be patient because if you’re right and patient then you’ll always win, it may come now, it may come later but you’ll be immensely rewarded by Allah amongst the people and in the next life via his mercy, just stay patient In’Shaa’Allah

Remember that Allah forgives all sins except shirk, and don't tell anyone about your sins , let it be between you and Allah only, and ask for forgiveness in you supplication and prayers. Then do more good (ex: pray in the night where no one sees you) and forgive yourself, don't EVER think Allah will not forgive you, that is from the shaytaan... and don't feel sad when you are still alive and can repent.

hey can you elaborate on this? it sounds like a great idea