Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever can guarantee (the chastity of) what is between his two jaw-bones and what is between his two legs ( his tongue and his private parts), I guarantee Paradise for him." (Sahih al-Bukhari 6474)
Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah was asked about that for which people are admitted into Paradise the most, so he said: Taqwa of Allah (God consciousness), and good character. And he was asked about that for which people are admitted into the Fire the most, and he said: The mouth and the private parts. (Tirmizi 2004)
@@youngyahye4765 why do you say that? The Qur'an being difficult to attribute to him as an author other than God is actually quite impressive. But are there are any others?
@@greenprofile5755 4 books were sent down by Allah swt to 4 different messengers. Taurah ( Moses Peace be upon him) Zubur ( David PBUH) Injeel ( Issa / Jesus PBUH) and Quran ( Muhammad PBUH) However only Quran has been promised to be protected from adulteration and preserved in its original text till the day of judgement hence we are supposed to follow the Quran only. The others you may or can read, however do not follow it since they now contain many errors and adulteration over time. Kindly watch Dr Zakir Naik vidoes on this. He is the best speaker on comparative religion matters.. PS: All of the above means that there is only one God.. Allah and only one religion since the beginning
Why do you say you were a kufar? Because you committed sins? I don't think that makes you a kufar. Did you try and ruin lives or play evil towards good groups and religions? Because then that would make you close to that word but not even. Please my brother don't ever call yourself a kafur because I know your soul is good A kafur destroys lives for fun and has big agendas to destroy large groups of people to benefit thier own gain So God bless you and help you to your path my friend
True. One childhood friend of mine were pregnant a year after she was graduated from high school. His ex husband (they had to get married because she got caught pregnant.) weren't even graduated yet.
I always wondered how prophet Yousef peace be upon him avoided Zina. He is the most beautiful man of all time and yet he resisted it. Of course he is a messenger of Allah and I am nowhere near his level at all, but he always gives me inspiration in this situation. Alhamdullilah 🙏🏼
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Whoever can guarantee (the chastity of) what is between his two jaw-bones and what is between his two legs ( his tongue and his private parts), I guarantee Paradise for him." (Sahih al-Bukhari 6474)
@@Brock-Lesnar-WWEYes, He was, Allah gave Him Half the Beauty of All mankind, then the other half is distributed among the rest of humanity. Women at the king's palace saw him walk past while they were peeling vegetables, they were so Mesmerized to the extent they started cutting their fingers unknowingly while staring at Him. They said according to Qu'ran" This is no Human being but a Noble Angel."
Alhamdulilah in Somali society zinaa we see it embrassment even our society they dress Good and cover up themselves very well except 1% of our society who are not strick to the norms to the society
young we’re one ummah bro, we shouldn’t be talking about how us Somalis are like that. We should attribute it to Islam because if it wasn’t for Islam we’d be just like the west and have 45% aids in our population like all these non Muslim African countries. الحمدلله علي نعمت الإسلام
It’s hard when it’s all around me, especially when they DM you and all that, I haven’t done it yet tho and tbh following the guidelines of the Rasool (S.A.W) I haven’t had a lot of desires because I try not to look at it now, and remember that Allah is always watching and will ask you about it, and mention it to your other friends, even if it wasn’t haram it’d still be disrespectful to look
Sad thing people still do it man I’m just thinking how as we move in the future people get dumber and forget allah 🤦♂️ if only they could realize allah is the one true god
When sometimes I see girls on the road without wearing vail my eyes seems to follow her. I quickly turn back and ask Allah for refuge from shaitan. He tries to pull my gaze towards the girl but I struggle. Mashallah my imaan is so strong. Btw got a question? Is Gf Bf relationships haram?
Yes my brother it is.U know why because in islam you cannot have no relationship with a unknown woman only after marriage may Allah reward for this goodness it is hard mashallah mashallah ❤.
Do not come near zina. What did it meant ? It means no bf gf no friends with opposite gender BC these are tiny steps towards zina. May Allah protect us aameen
You have to find resolve dude, no other way around that. Fast can lessen the energy so you're not horny, but you're right, if it's a habit it won't work. Gotta do lots of soul searching and reflections. Practical tip from me is to just ride the urge, it will subside on its own. If people can do it you can too. It's not that hard, stuff like NoFap etc. Ride the urge. Bear with it.
IF you have posibility spend time in the Gym as much as you can @Grumbo991 at least 3 times a week with 2 or 3 ours each of those days . May God bless You . Muslim Brother ..
My husband of 27 years cheated on our marriage. I had no idea. My husband cheated on me with his married coworker. She worked and I knew her, she is not a stranger to me. Anyway, they travelled alone on “ business” trips but I knew nothing of their trips alone. I wish someone had told me. I wish I. Oils go back and find out before anything between them started. 😭😭😭😭
Nikkah is easy! Pay mahr and do walimah and your'e done! Marriage is very difficult. It takes self control, discipline, sacrifice, maturity, patience.... all qualities the youth struggle with. Better to fast and work on self control and think about marriage when you can safely manage deen and dunya!!
Trust me man, I live here in Malaysia and it is hard as a student to be here because of the zina that is everywhere and even the married couple always are out there for these activities. But even so, it's not as bad as there of the West. I just pray Allah SWT gives us strength and taqwa to stay firm on our Deen and live our lives according to Muhammad P.B.U.H. Ameen.
I also want to say that because I live in the west now I see all these bfs and gfs in the streets makes me jealous and wanting to get one. it's so hard to resist. May Allah help
Haha I don’t avoid zina, rather, zina avoids me. Alhamdulillah for my short stature. No girl wants a man my height, even though I have a good-looking face Now nikah, on the other hand, I only hope for Allah’s provision… EDIT: I would like to say that over the years, I’ve observed several couples and slowly realized the height isn’t as big of a deal in real life as it is online. I’ve seen plenty of average and even below average height men in relationships. It’s true that 99% of women want a man taller than them but that doesn’t mean 6 ft.
@@mayg7415 Assalamu alaikum I made this comment 2 years ago. My self esteem has improved a lot since then. I’m healthier now (physically and mentally) than I was 2+ years ago. I now see marriage as something definitely attainable as long as I work hard to improve my marriage market value (making more money, being physically fit, grooming, having a more masculine personality, etc.). And of course all of this while I put my trust in Allah.
How does that work out Zina is a massiveeeeeee problem but destroying more then shirk is abit stupid shirk if u die there’s no forgiveness and Allah knows best
So I did a very Haram thing I tried sell my soul to the devil and it was a craziest thing in the world the flame on my candle started bending and getting bigger when I asked Satan to show himself to me and it felt like someone was sitting next to me so before I went to sleep so when I was sleeping in my dream it was dark blank but it felt like I was awake I tried to move my body I couldn't I tried move my right hand and I barely could of moved it it felt like something was pinning me down so I started praying and asked God to help me when I snapped back into reality with my right arm swinging I feel so guilty but I'm not a bad person I smoke weed to myself and I have a good heart and try to help people and show people love but I feel so bad because even tho God helped me I know he's mad at me and I can't find peace anymore is it to late for me? I stopped with the devil stuff but dont know what to do anymore
Surah Az-Zumar, Verse 53: قُلْ يَا عِبَادِيَ الَّذِينَ أَسْرَفُوا عَلَىٰ أَنفُسِهِمْ لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ جَمِيعًا إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ Say: "O 'Ibadi (My slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah, verily Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. Surah Az-Zumar, Verse 54: وَأَنِيبُوا إِلَىٰ رَبِّكُمْ وَأَسْلِمُوا لَهُ مِن قَبْلِ أَن يَأْتِيَكُمُ الْعَذَابُ ثُمَّ لَا تُنصَرُونَ "And turn in repentance and in obedience with true Faith (Islamic Monotheism) to your Lord and submit to Him, (in Islam), before the torment comes upon you, then you will not be helped. (English - Mohsin Khan) via iQuran
Brother it’s never too late. *that feeling you have of guilt and wanting to seek forgiveness and change your ways* is EXACTLY what Allah wants and expects from you. You are already half way to his mercy, just seek forgiveness and repent. Meaning you intend to never do it again.
Never question weather it’s too late fam, or weather Allah will forgive you for something. These are the tricks of the shaytan. May Allah grant you ease.
Thank God 🙏, I am staying away from adultery cuz I am living in a country that forbids adultery, and that is not the main reason I am away from it of course the main reason is that I am scared of Allah
So Allah loves ppl who always commit sins so that they do towbah!!?, Really??! Why shouldn’t we all commit sin then??? Our so called scholars are making zina easy in the society, so why shouldn’t ppl do it???
I agree with you , but one point is with which I can't agree and that it is she was a princess and all that . Tell me about Fatimah ra. You should be content and try to compromise. And every daughter is not a princess; there are many families who are poor and can hardly afford two meals a day.
rabiya sonia sex when it's outside of that which is halal, so sex is halal in marriage but having sex with a random person is haram and that's fornication/zina.
Sisters plz allow yourselves to enter a polygamy marriage and never treat your husband as if he is a criminal if he decided to go for polygamy. Otherwise you may be the cause of him being a real criminal in the sight of Allah
I am not It’s a serious matter. Muslims have turned away from Islamic cultural norms to non Islamic thinking and practises. Look how many Muslim women in their 30’s have never previously married. In Pakistan many of them are happily living with their co wives Alhamdullilah
I think the brother is trying to say that bearing a child is as a result of zina causes a lot of problems especially in the teen years because of the problems it brings, meaning the girl will probably be all on her own, plus it is not a thing that causes someone to receive blessings from Allah. In contrast, a child in teenage years inside marriage/nikkah is halal and fine because then you have a dedicated husband/family support system, as well as blessings from Allah. Therefore making it easier.
*What If You do Zinna and no one gets pregnant, and what is the difference btwn the ones who are married and do sex and those who are not married and they sex* without any harm on them?
@Kanzaki 1 *My brother, Sex that is done in marriage is the same sex done in fornication. the difference is just the agreement of doing it done in masjid and the other done outside the rules of masjid. but the act is just the same. sex is haraam in which way. now there is protective measures on family planning and prevention of diseases. why is sex haraam as an ACT . and its the same thing done by married and non married people?*
RIDER 254 TV Assalamuwalakum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu, brother Yes there are family planning/disease preventing measures. However, Allah has commanded in the Quran in many clear cut verses to *avoid sex outside marriage* . There is no concession in the shariah allowing one to have sex outside marriage if they use condoms/family planning/whatever else there is. Otherwise the people would have justified zina (sex outside marriage) from the beginning of time. Allah in his infinite mercy has prohibited such a thing. The point of banning zina is not to just avoid pregnancy and disease. These are just a *few* reasons. Just look at western society and how it has changed in the last 100 years. It used to have morals, people used to marry, the *family bond was strong* . Now, divorce rates are at an all time high, single mothers exist at an all time high, lewdness and corruption has spread all around society *because zina leads to shamelessness* . The reason why Allah has commanded to only have sex inside marriage are many. But as a result, he blesses these relationships more than those with zina. In conclusion, the purpose of banning sex outside marriage isn’t to just prevent a few things like you mentioned, but it is ultimately a prohibition from Allah himself. Which is why we as muslims *just hear and obey* . Otherwise just think, using the same logic we would be justifying alcohol by saying that it’s ok to drink as long as we don’t get drunk. But Allah and his messenger have completely prohibited Alcohol no matter how much. The same goes for sex outside marriage. When Allah and his messenger have prohibited it completely, we cannot try to find a way or a reason to somehow make it ok. The point being, sex itself is not a sin. But it is HOW and WHEN you do it. Simply put, sex inside marriage is halal, and outside of marriage brings the anger of Allah because it goes against his commands.
@@symbiotezilla12345 Waalaikum Salaam Brother. thank you for making me understand may Allah reward your efforts. But sorry to say that Apart from Allah's Command to not commit zinaa we follow it because it is a command. But still i don't see any harm of Zinaa . i have witnessed marriages whom they used to fornicate but they are still good and ok with their respect. I hereby say that i don't see how Zinaa Create Shame... The act is sex .. how were people doing Sex b4 Islam? The word Nikah means agreement between a man and a woman. so if the two agrees and have protected sex where is the danger? *please brother lets think it logically and not in Perspective of Allah's Command because we believe Allah prohibited zinaa so lets think it outside this context*
So this guys arguments is based on having children from zina. Okay so what’s the issue then if you use protection and the woman uses the pill to avoid pregnancy? What’s wrong with zina in this case?
Sleeping around will follow and then u're in Real Danger, as the initial hesitance and regrets get dulled and finally disappear. The capacity to form a lasting bond, especially for the woman, Decays with Every new sex partner. Thus the alarming and ever growing divorce rates in the west, among Muslins too.
most poverty is in muslim bouseholds anyways except oil rich lazy islamic countries. And whats wrong with being poor? Wasnt muhammad the child mol poor?
It is also an honor thing, when two people commit zina you are sleeping with someones sister/daughter, 90% of fathers and brothers out there would feel completely devastated if they found out their sister or daughter had been having sex with a boyfriend without asking for their permission first. It is more than avoiding pregnancy, it is about showing respect to the family
