I know she wishes she hadn’t been trying to make him look better than he was making himself look. Don’t build up anyone that can’t build themselves up.
Most black woman are told to protect the man and the household! Be a lady and keep all things inside the household! All women have done this to an extent putting a man on a pedestal and they really walk around like THEY A KING! When they know the things they do! Dreads and joker smile
That’s the reason when I see these women out here showing off about man and Marriage I’m like go girl if that’s what y’all have to do to be sane go off girl, cause If I’m happy at home I have no need to be on these internets 🛜 showing cr@p views‼️😂😂😂
He resents her success and he wants to embarrass her. That’s why he does these things. She just needs to let him go so she can continue to be blessed. The man you’re with can block your blessings as much as you can…
I’m 👏🏾so👏🏾 tired 👏🏾of 👏🏾these👏🏾 black👏🏾 men👏🏾! Why is she trying to protect a man that doesn’t care about her, or the welfare of their kids. People will die to maintain these facades!
Most black men are this way which is why I have never dated them. I have watched all my friends do it and I don’t need to be hit by a bus. I can’t watch someone else do it and determine that it isn’t for me
Bloop! And the fact the her facade was based on HER ego. Lord, take the L Teyona. You married and procreated with an amoral emotionally stunted dust bucket.
That man is hateful. If I was Teyanna would turn my back and NOT LOOK BACK at anything. Just cut ties and hold yourself accountable to your kids and yourself. He will be the one that will have to crawl back…and he will. Don’t be his victim. Don’t let your kids be his victim.
Why the heck is anything still in Iman’s name at her house? There’s NO way my kids and I would be living like it’s 1608! She needs to get all of her utilities turned back on and let her attorneys deal with Iman’s ignorant ass in court. I mean seriously who cares what he’s leaking to TMZ. Take care of yourself and your children. All of this is so stupid to me.
Ok, I don't have a Dog in this fight but I live in Fulton county and that's considered Abandonedment trust & believe they don't play that, So in my opinion something bout this story ant adding up Just Saying...🤷🏿♀️
As BW who love our families & want all the members to thrive, we often have more smoke for anyone and everyone EXCEPT for the toxic Black husband that destroyed the family and our dreams in the first place it's called misdirected anger. I hope her true support system surrounds her with love and care.
My ex husband “forgot” to pay the gas bill and that’s why he’s an ex-couldn’t trust him. He’s been bitter ever since-he’s a high 6 figure earner and forgot about the gas for his wife and sons? Byeee!!!😊
I believe her ego is damaged, cuz she thought like so many other women, if she agreed to 3somes he would love her more & remain faithful... She bragged about being in control of the women chosen & how things go down as if she was proud & I remember thinking how crazy she made herself look. I don't understand people have open relationships then get mad when it falls apart & if you want to live that way, you should not get married...
@@TisaTells It truly upsets me because they are raising daughters who will normalize this behavior x repeat it in their own lives because it's what they saw growing up. I want better for the kids. Smh
@Ambular imagine using your own children to hurt their mother& not caring if you hurt and damage the children in the process.Sounds like a Narcissist to me. That🥷is the devil punishing her for being successful.He knows family is Important to her he's probably jealous of his own kids a lot of Black Men.First Kevin Samuel's now this🥷another Kang bites the dust. Sick& sad.She might have to have someone put hands on that🥷.
When you love a man more than yourself this is what happens. Opening up your bedroom, your marriage to make him stay shows the lack of respect for yourself and how much he respects you. This is not new however to normalize it is not a good message to young fans
Teyanna is protecting her kids because at some point her beautiful girls are gonna grow up and see this! I respect her for not bringing the mess on social media!
I can't believe I'm saying this but Teyana might could learn a thing or two from Jenny Mai. Jenny Mai was only married to Jeezy for a hot minute and as big as Jeannie's bag is she's begging the judge to throw out the pre-nup. If Jenny aint too proud to beg for support then Teyana shouldn't be either we all know she isn't broke and I have a feeling he's the one who forced her into earlier retirement out of jealousy just to wind up leaving her with the kids. It's sumthin in the air or water down in Atlanta that's creating a dusty ninja epidemic. First Jeezy then Offset...Iman...The viral tiktoker who caught her husband at the ATL airport...In the words of Jamal Bryant, another dusty ATL ninja, "these hoes aint loyal"
This the same man that said he married her because she held him down and build him up? Didn’t he say she was the love of his life because she was his everything when he had nothing? Wow. Crazy how some of these men act once they’re done with you… I should say using you
I'd hate to be a famous person who lives their lives publicly - too stressful. How many times has Janet Jackson been married and we didn't know til way after the fact?
@@nuckingfuts3017 nothing to do with technology. Some couples do their jobs as public figures, don't/refuse to live their lives via social media. Have to get the balance right. Talent first - be judged on that.
@@leevihemmings707 Very much has to do with technology bc cameras are everywhere even if you're not on social media. Many are recorded against their will
Teyana is trying to take the high~road and keeping her head HIGH! Just because he’s trying to drag her doesn’t mean that she has to recieve it, return to sender! He’s fighting with his damn self. Why should she vibe low just because he is? “Don’t complain, don’t explain” 🤷♀️
@@Phoenixzen365 Now, you really kno that she knows what to do, right? And, you Kno she has the $ to take care of whatever she needs, right...ok...just making sure you know she didn't need your advise, right?
@@user-xs9gd1tp5q It wasn’t advised. I was responding to a comment about her attempting to take the “high road” while ranting at TMZ. Clearly, her issues are greater than having money to pay her utilities.😂
you wonder how long has this been going on. She's definitely another Cassie, but more on a mental level. It's a Stockholm syndrome and battle with vanity. She cares more about how she looks to outsiders, then dealing with the trash that's internally tearing her down. I pray for those children. Hopefully, she has someone to protect those children since, to the public, it seems she's lacking clearly in that area bc of vanity. You are a mother!! Protect those children Teyana!!
@@Butterfly32464 umm not sure how her wellbeing supercedes the wellbeing of children in your mind but LOTS of children are harmed due to the HUBRIS of thier mothers. And it better to involve/report authorities than pray for her feelings. And she willingly put her private life on TV for public consumption so spare me. A 🐀 in Harlem
@@Butterfly32464 ummm... what are screenshots supposed to do?? 😂 and BTW, you should REALLY not be using your real name as your handle online. (I AM a kind person... that cares about the welfare of children... and the ignorant ☺)
As soon as Iman walked out that door the utilities would be in my name, and locks would be changed. He wouldn’t have one thing to say to me & my kids!!! Just visits on your days. We would be cordial concerning the kids but that would be IT!!!! Mediators & lawyers would be working it out. Not me & him!!!
Idc what a husband and wife go through,but how you treat ur beautiful daughters that way? Idk why men don’t think that later on in life ur going to need ur kids or ur be alone once. SMH this is truly sad!
they always look good at first but after reading energies I knew he was never a match for her. I truly see and feel like gps, cant get nun past me. And in my spritual path I’ve learned when women have multiple daughters she has a lot of self-reflecting to do before it bites her in the face. AS A MOTHER OF A DAUGHTER I 100% beieve this, but outside of personal beliefs…I would get those renovations, rent out the house, take the babies to another state, and take his name off everything, sue for emotional distress and get an emergency restraining order and put him on child support and supervised visits bc he’s the type to get worse.
@@courtneymoller225 yass a blessing to raise the next generation of women, we have direct effect on the future, you’re literally polishing up your best lessons through them. Your family may have needed more women!
Teyana's acting career is on a great path. She is slated to play Dionne Warwick and other projects. She doesn't need this heat ... it could jeopardize her opportunities. He knows this and wants to break her.
People have let dusties mold their minds into believing bw should be strong and "i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-t do you know what I mean" and not a "gold digger" etc. People of all persuasions will praise her for doing nothing to him and call it "showing restraint and grace" instead of encouraging her to be taken care of like other women are.
So someone told her Iman was going to shut the utilities off..that was the cue to switch it to her name. You never give anyone the chance to flip on you..husband or not.
When you are immune to a long history of abuse, you cannot stop yourself from playing in a certain role. One of those coping roles is the role of the “dormat”. The dormat person is downtrodden, highly emotionally insecure and afraid to defend themselves. They are highly secretive and creative at hiding their beatdowns from others, resisting a support group. In front of others, they come off as strong, independent and attractive. I’ve seen it a thousand times in abused shelters, especially the uppity ones for higher prestiged people.
I will never understand why Teyana was trying so hard to make us believe she had the perfect family while she was going through this. Above all I feel for those children and I hope that they are being protected in this situation.
Damn Tisa you definitely preached on this. I do feel bad for her and I feel like there’s nothing wrong with her not wanting to go down that road publicly with iman. But it’s time to be nice nasty because he indeed is playing in her and his kids face. Deep in my heart I feel like she is treading lightly because iman seems like he would air out , leak a lot of the personal business. Y’all know they both were some freaks and had no problem letting it be known but I’m sure it’s a lot of scandals tea he could spill. He know her weak spot. He is gonna use embarrassment as a way to humble her because she became the bread winner when it was all said and done. Smh what a fragile man!
BUT GOD….. IS THE AUTHOR AND FINISHER… TEYANA…CONTINUE TO HOLD YOUR PEACE AND LETTTTTTTTTT GOD FIGHT YOUR BATTLES…. BECAUSE THE VERDICT THAT GOD RENDERS IS FAR BEYOND ANYTHING MAN CAN DO! HOLD YOUR PEACE…AND WATCH GOD DO HIS THANG! 🙏🏽👊🏽🔥♥️🙏🏽
This is the prime example when you put the media in your buisness way too much!!! When you post a lot about the good ,we're going to hear all the bad too!!!💯💯💯💯
Teyana should just ignore everything and handle her business in private as she's requesting UNLESS her responses are going to be used against him in their divorce settlement. 😉
Help me understand. A woman gets a divorce, and the husband moves out. He doesn’t pay child support but you still believe that he will pay the utilities on a house that he no longer lives at? Am I tripping?
They are still married going through a divorce. The judge puts certain court orders out that the they must follow. And you definitely DO NOT turn off the utilities where your children live.
@@glitchwxrld5683 She knew she was going to file for divorce and she knew that Iman wouldn’t and does not pay child support. If my soon to be ex refuses to pay child support then I have enough common sense to know that he doesn’t care about any utilities being paid.
I hope she changed the locks and put the utilities in her name and keep the receipts to give to her lawyer. Those kids are his too and he is responsible to care for his children. Which means school, healthcare, housing, electric, internet, water and heat minimum. She needs to talk to Jeanie Mai.
I don’t need to hear anymore bc I was over it when he put his 2 little princesses in an Uber while he took a separate ride to the same place! One of us wud be in jail 💁🏽♀️
All that means is that he didn’t have a hand in raising that little girl/ if what ur saying is true. That’s embarrassing as a parent - you have to Mold your children. He sounds absent or absent minded if true.
@@AnaAcuraErica They were married he was there with his wife and child/children he wasn't an absentee father. She's an alpha female. And raising Junee to be the same way. Nothing wrong with that but the blame is not all on him. They were both doing 3 somes so how is he worse than her. Us BW are sometimes the worst when it comes to taking accountability.wanna blame everything but the right thing.
@@elishasmith4640 you’re not hearing what I’m saying! They can live together and he can still be absent in raising that little girl. You either must but have kids or you just plain don’t know how life works but that wouldn’t be a good sign on his part and it explains how he’s able to easily hurt his children like this 🫤
Who the fool in that relationship??? Teyana knew he was not shyte had her tricking on other women, and him not paying anything ever!! Called get your own bank account and should have had him giving her money every month.
My MIL is JUST like tbis. Her ex-hubbs cheated on her their whole marriage, had a baby on her during a "break" before they got married, and then he caught a murder case and she paid to bail him out even AFTER he asked for a divorce. Long story short she helped him win his case and he STILL divorced her and moved on with his life and she tryna make it seem like she was graceful about the entire thing, meanwhile she plotted and schemed on me becuase she didn't want her son to be with me, cursed me out, paid her friend to come rob me, and talked my hubbs into getting my youngest daughter taken from me and tried to help my hubbs divorce me. All for her to pad him with over 2k while we were separated, and for him to come back and now he no longer talks to her. 🤭🤭🤭 What a mighty God we serve cause I never had to retaliate He fought my battles for me. Moral of the story have the negative energy towards the one who hurt you not the world, we didn't do nun to you
Smh this aint new aint mew news folks get petty and messy . Knowing he wasnt good to the family why wouldnt the bills names be switched IMMEDIATELY especially if she the one paying most...makes no sense....seems like she living the life of that movie she just did.
