OMG when you said you don't have sensitivity in your breasts I felt so normal. I don't either and I've really struggled with it... I always say touching my breasts is for my partner. Thanks for being so open!
I honestly thought boobs being an errogenous zone was a lie men told so they had an excuse to squeeze breasts. And then I talked to friends like Mel and I was like OOOOHHHH it's true.... 😂
@@hannahwitton Omg I thought that too- mine are too sensitive to be pleasurable- I really thought it was for the guy and for me just passing through :)
@@lisamusterman106 I heard nipple piercings increase sensitivity but it had the opposite effect on me. Ever since I got them done nipple play isn’t the same :( gutted
Didn’t realize how much I missed listening to you and Melanie together until this video🥲 can’t wait until quarantine is over so people can see eachother again.
I feel so relieved that I’m not the only one that does it over the knickers. I thought it was something to do with Catholic shame when I started off as a teen but it’s actually normal lol. Thank you so much for sharing this video!
Me too! I always thought something was wrong with me as it find I’m too sensitive for direct contact - I even get my partner to touch me over my underwear which he is fine with but he said he had never experienced that with anyone else before.
‘If women can have wet dreams’ is actually something I was wondering about recently, cool Once again I feel like I’ve learned too much about Mel and your personal lives😳😂 Hope you’re well, Sex Jedi Hannah💛
Dont know if everyone had this experience when at school but every group of friends at the schools ive been at, including mine, had one friend (Like you Hannah) that were that nosy person that wanted to know everything in your life and would share their stuff to you also and tbh my most treasured conversations and times were with those types of people as you knew you could always be open and be yourself around them and although they were some serious topics brought up we always found a way to make everyone laugh and enjoy their lives
Absolutely. I wonder if your friends were mostly boys and if that affected the conversation/made it easier in some way. My best friend from my youth has now been my best friend for 11 years and she was always that nosy friend. She matured and started having relationships before most of us to that curiosity and her relative knowledge compared to our ignorance made her the big authority haha
@@LieutenantSheep Most of my trusted friends have only been female, tbh most of my friend group has only really ever been female. Ive always found myself not getting along with many of the male students throughout my school life and those I did get along with are some of my greatest friends but I wouldn't talk to them about many topics I do with my best friend or other female friends, which when I think back about I dont know when it started and I dont know why but I am not complaining as stated in my first comment I am grateful for those discussions. Ive been moving around all my life so ive gone to around 5 schools excluding College or Uni (where I am now) and I slightly envy those people that have those long friendships as whenever ive tried to connect to people it was time to move again. But for the past 6-7 years now ive stayed in one place so ive actually made some good friends and a first proper 'Best' Friend who id trust with anything and so far its been a good 4 years or so. Most of my friends haven't got any relationships and none of us have matured past the age of 10 haha so none of us have gotten to the big authority just yet. I do apologise for the long comment, i dont know if it all makes sense but hopefully it all does
I've met other people like that but I tend to be that person in a lot of my relationships. I'm very open and comfortable especially when it comes to sex and sexuality topics. I think I have a lot of friends who've learned things just because I went on some rambling rant about a new sex topic I learned about. Its kinda nice to be that person in other peoples lives but sometimes I feel bad cause I don't think they always want to know lmao.
I can totally go for hours before I come. I like to edge myself and take my time. The drawback is that it makes coming with a partner harder, probably because I got too used to taking very long to get there.
In case Mel is reading I lost all nipple sensitivity while breastfeeding but unfortunately I had to stop and now 4 months later they are more sensitive than ever before
Yup. I've never had kids however a medication I was taking affected my prolactin (the hormone that makes you able to breastfeed and secrete milk) levels which made my boobs really big and I just lost all sensitivity. There was absolutely nothing. However, since my levels went back to normal, it's come back, so I wonder if they're related.
Just a couple of hours ago I was chatting in the kitchen with my housemates and shared my recent achievement: getting a butt plug in! And they were so genuinely happy for me, I'm really lucky to have pals I can be so open with
Before this video, I didn't realize that I was having "wet dreams"! I thought my mind was just taunting me since I have never been able to experience it awake, but what you described is exactly my experience when I day nap. Thank you so much for talking about it! I definitely don't feel crazy anymore and know I am physically able to do it!
I check in on your channel from time to time. I know you won't see this but I always wondered why I always feel at home on your channel but I think I get it now (2 yrs after finding your channel). I love your channel because I feel so at home here and with your content and it feels safe. I genuinely appreciate the space you have created.
And now I need a video about sex after giving birth as a personnal investigation by Hannah who is trying for a baby... I know nothing about how sex can work after giving birth, it seems so interesting
I really enjoy your videos surrounding solo sex and find them super helpful, as none of my friends masturbate (we are 23/24 years old) and a few of my friends have never even tried or thought about masturbation . They either got into a long term relationship very young and never cared to explore solo sex, have regular one night stands and so don't feel the need to masturbate, or they're simply not interested by the idea of masturbation. So even though I feel like I've got plenty of people to talk to about 'regular' sex, I don't really have anyone to have those chats about masturbation like you did with Mel. Thanks for everything Hannah!
Love this! A friend of mine was shy about talking about this topic and I helped her choose her first vibe. Now we frequently chat about it if we find something new that we like :)
The Curvy 1+ has been said to work for those people too :) it's less expensive and app-controlled. It might not be as good as lelo toys but it's a good way of finding out whether air pulse toys would work without breaking the bank.
I enjoy talking to my friends about sex when they bring it up but I'm always too scared to ask them directly. The video was great tho! Loved the bit with Melanie, I am a sensitive nipple gal myself.
The entire 'coming for hours' is so interesting to me :D! I had never experienced coming for a longer period of time and would say I always had pretty standard organsm-durations until I met my current partner. While first not being able to come for almost a year, now whenever they pleasure me I can basically come for as long as they don't stop doing whatever they are doing. It doesn't get up to an hour as I usually get very exhausted after a while. However, until this day, I have never been able to replicate that completely on my own. So fascinating!
Exploration is key!! Even now I’m still learning things. I’ve even gone back to basics - good old humping with underwear on. It helps me get in the mood which is something I struggle with when I’m on my own. Foreplay ladies!!!
I love this! I really enjoyed the genuine conversation between friends. I definitely share the same curiosity, but I also have shame in having these conversations. This was really helpful for (30 y/o) me!
I can make myself come using just my mind, but only if I'm really in the right head space...so not often! I also feel part of the 'I'm missing out!' club when it comes to lacking sensitive nipples lol. My boyfriend has really sensitive nipples, though! It's so fascinating how differently these things work for us as individuals. :D
I haven't seen your hair long and straight in so long I actually thought this notification was for a really old video. Edit: Also, your Mancurian accent is becoming more noticeable again too. Wondering if you aren't surrounded by London accents as much in lockdown. Regardless, just an observation that I thought was interesting.
Thank you for this video Hannah, I'm 18 and even though I would never shame someone else for masturbation, I feel shame about it as a young woman and I can't really talk about it with anyone
Another really great video Hannah. Since having a baby I value solo sex so much because it really helps me sleep and sleeping in 1-2 hour increments is not a natural thing. So sometimes that really helps me relax enough to sleep. In other news, I learned about wet dreams for people with vulvas when I was pregnant - at one point it happened like once every few days
You are definitely a sex Jedi 😂 this was such an interesting video. I’ve never spoken to anyone but my partner about masturbation but it definitely needs to become less stigmatised so we can learn from each other.
This was the best one yet thank you you shared so much and thank your friend to. You enjoyed this one we enjoyed this one thank you so positive love it
10:26 omg my first girlfriend years ago said that exact same thing. Wow that brings back a lot of memories lol. Other partners says there's no sensation at all. It's so fascinating.
So cool to see Mel! My boobs are also not very sensitive, I prefer my but being groped tbh, but I notice that it sometimes make me come faster, when the nipples are stimulated as well. Like, I don't feel much difference, but It's somehow easier to come.
Just had a thought. With how open you are with us (thank you btw) I'm just wondering if you think you'll be as comfortable talking about this stuff with Kids (?) in the future, or would you send them to watch these videos?
I have a vuvla and experience wet dreams a lot! But because nobody talks about it, I just don't talk about it with my friends... And it's just like you described! So thanks for your video, Hannah. We should talk more often about stuff like this ;)
I’m in my mid 30’s and have had a tight friend group of 5 for 20-25 years...we’ve always talked about sex openly in adulthood, but early last summer we got into a random conversation about toys and discovered 4 of the 5 of us used the same go-to toy (satisfyer pro 2). By the end of the night we had ordered one for the other gal too. We still joke about it today!
If someone asks about something related to this or anything like have you watched this or that or did this... i’d be confident with talking and answering because we all know whatever you do on life you’ve experienced these...
I asked a few of my friends about it once. The reactions were very different. I’ve never mentioned it again. But we are all older now so maybe it would be different if I decided to talk about it now.
has Hanna done a video before how to start talking about (Solo) sex with friends etc? couldn't find any on the channel. but if not I would love to have a video about that :)
I always was confused by women who enjoy boob stimulation because I guess I'm similar to you Hannah, and I just could never wrap my head around the idea that it actually did anything, or that people relied on it even! I thought that we were just all indoctrinated into the male gaze or whatever. Eye opening.
