In Response To "Life Is Bullsh*t" - Rant By A Depressed Young Man

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@RealMenRealStyle 6 месяцев назад

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@Chiefn-ly7yr 6 месяцев назад

Bless your heart you didn't have to share that about your sister and your picture as a kid the transparency and advice are God sent have a great week

@laci272 6 месяцев назад

or read a book about real struggles, like "The gulag archipelago" or "Man's Search for Meaning"

@mike.pittsburgh3466 6 месяцев назад

@@laci272 Logotherapy?

@leahflower9924 6 месяцев назад

@@laci272 or My Struggle 😐

@ChiLordOG 5 месяцев назад

dog. your getting scammed. that guy you just reacted to is so fake he just click baitin and you helpin em ong.

@Marifilms 6 месяцев назад

I'm that guy. Feels a bit embarrasing to be put up on the spotlight haha but I appreciate the support guys. As was stated at the end of the video I recorded this rant as a way to help myself on a particularly bad day. I'm doing better now. I'm just glad I put it up so because then I realize how many others can relate, I hope we can all get better that are struggling with mental health that's all.

@TommyRyan96 6 месяцев назад

How are you doing right now @Marifilms?

@Marifilms 6 месяцев назад

@@TommyRyan96 believe it or not I remember your comment on my video you were one of the first ones haha. I’m doing better now still have struggles but def better than before thanks for asking.

@latinsho11 6 месяцев назад

@@Marifilms so glad you are doing better now. You're such a cutie btw, stay strong.

@TommyRyan96 6 месяцев назад

@@Marifilms glad to hear that. Wish you all the best!

@slaydog5102 6 месяцев назад

You made that video for clout and don't actually believe anything you said.

@flowerpower7065 6 месяцев назад

1. Nothing is new. 2. Everything is changing fast. 3. Social media destroyed human interactions, intimacy, connections. 4. People feel too entitled/main character. 5. Everything has lost meaning. 6. Too many options.

@andreialcaza 5 месяцев назад

So true man

@XXXXBossXXXX 5 месяцев назад

all this is such facts. life was a lot more linear back then, and thats creating the divide in understanding between older and younger generations… yea it was harder to make a dollar bk then, but now you can see endless amount porn as a child in elementary school. this may be a bad example, my apologies if it didnt land.

@osamaqtaitat 2 месяца назад

Everything is hard and complicated! Most things out of control! Shitty people trying to control and indoctrinate us to shitty fitting in..

@osamaqtaitat 2 месяца назад

And everything about shitty money, greed, manipulation, control

@osamaqtaitat 2 месяца назад

And most people are just volatile/fickle with or without reason/intention

@puma1166 21 день назад

I'm 42 and I've been dealing with the same bullshit and still am.

@isbjornen7418 6 месяцев назад

It's to late for society. It will only get worse from here.

@taylorhoch2708 6 месяцев назад

It's not by chance. This sir is completely by design.

@leahflower9924 6 месяцев назад

@@taylorhoch2708i agree it's by design in my case i understood the value of learning and education but the high school experience along with being family black sheep obliterated my self worth

@thetest8777 6 месяцев назад

@@leahflower9924 same I'm the black sheep in my family

@BlowitAllUp 6 месяцев назад

We're in the final stage of the hundred year cycle.

@foodconnoisseur4498 6 месяцев назад

Agreed. I'm 30, no house, no wife, no kids. Work endless hours to barely make an ok living. Shit sucks and won't get better.

@NorseSultan 6 месяцев назад

As a therapist I see this every day. The younger generation is really struggling with self-worth issues, not knowing their place in life, feeling lost, alone and worthless. In a world where it has never been easier to connect with people, no one feels connected. Unfortunately I think this is a systemic issue. We’ve built an individualistic world where no one has the mandate to tell anyone else how to act, what to do or who to be. So the kids growing up (that are in desperate need of guidance) get nothing. Imagine growing up today not knowing who you are and only getting the answer “you can be anyone you want”, that is not helpful, it might come from a good place but it´s not helpful. Social media has corrupted what we think is normal. The fear of being canceled or called out has made people inactive and evil wins when good people do nothing. Parents, talk to your children, make sure they know their own worth, guide them and teach them, be a paragon of what you want your kids to grow up to be.

@TimW668 6 месяцев назад

Yes, I definitely agree that technology and social media is a huge culprit now days. I’m a retired police officer and I was also a crisis negotiator and CIT officer for many years. It’s amazing that we can video chat in real time with people on the other side of the planet, but nobody does it. People have stopped communicating with each other. You send a text, it goes unanswered for days or weeks. The younger generations have become socially inept. With that, you get the loneliness and feelings of worthlessness, which eventually grows to suicidal ideations. One thing I told many parents, was to find time with your kids where the phones were put away (can’t take them away from a teenager, or the two year old temper tantrums will happen). Have that time with your kids where they listen to adult conversations, listen to adult problems, and learn adult ways of handling life. Most of these kids spend way too much time talking to their 15 to 18 year old peers, and actually believe their peers are all knowing with more life experience than their parents. Why? Because of time. Interesting fact…I live in the Philippines now and they are beginning to experience the exact same issues. What do Filipino youth have in common with American youth? Phones….no matter how poor the family, cheap Chinese phones and wifi are everywhere. Depressed youth are becoming prevalent too.

@kristijan8518 6 месяцев назад

I'm a young man in this situation, I've tried talking to my parents about this and they show zero understand or support. They just don't understand today's struggle. I'm 30 and never had a girlfriend, no girl ever liked me because I'm awkward, boring and asocial. Everyone tells me "just talk to girls" and it just never works.

@robertparsons313 6 месяцев назад

Young men especially get nothing. For 50 years, all the support and focus has been on empowering girls and certain groups that do not usually include the challenges facing young men.

@TimW668 6 месяцев назад

@@kristijan8518 the right person for you will be easy to talk to. Don’t sweat it.

@kristijan8518 6 месяцев назад

@@TimW668 that's not how it works.

@fumanpoo4725 6 месяцев назад

So many people do suck, but we need to rise above the BS...a little bit at a time. Don't let evil win.

@RealMenRealStyle 6 месяцев назад

Agreed!

@alwayspooh1588 6 месяцев назад

Evil never wins in the end, it just fools you into thinking it has won.

@feedbackzaloop 6 месяцев назад

@@alwayspooh1588there's no winning or losing in the end because life is not a game. And in big picture of humanity there is no end too.

@troymazzei5976 6 месяцев назад

Gotta hope in spite of it all

@alwayspooh1588 6 месяцев назад

Exactly!@@troymazzei5976

@ismaelhall3990 6 месяцев назад

I guarantee you there's millions just like that young men that is struggling and nobody cares. We are now living in a dangerous times , times have changed from our forefather's generation. Lets not pretend that we don't see crisis in this world. Men are experiencing suicide , mental health, loneliness. Is there a solution , we don't know.

@nevadataylor 3 месяца назад

The world is never going to wake up. The low brows among us hate being woke.

@nvmffs 2 месяца назад

That's what doesn't give me peace.... that nobody cares. How can the world be so egocentric? I literally can't wrap my mind around that

@JB-pk4ck Месяц назад

My grandfather was born in 1934 to an unwed mother. First ten years of my life, he was my father but we had a terrible relationship. He pushed me away . He was a huge man, said very little. He came across as tough but one or two occasions, i heard him sitting weeping alone. His problems were to do with his young life. Stoicism was important but there was no shortage of troubled men. As a middle aged man, I see it as the ever proliferating number of influencers, role models.. Young guys bombarded with messages as to how they should be. THere needs to be a balance between stoicism and emotional incontinence. The term incel, ive only heard that in the last few years. Girls expectations have gone through the roof. THe marriages ive seen that last the longest are uually couples who were childhood sweethearts.. Is hard to meet people naturally as everyone immersed in their phones . At one time you could be in a bar alone and get into a conversation with someone. Now everyone is in their phones. I m over 50 yet i seek role models I had no father so i seek a fathers guidance now more than ever.. You just have to find people whose message you resonate with,. As for friends, in my 20s i had people as friends who were toxic. I wanted a social life though so i tolerated crap i wouldnt tolerate now. Values change. For me solitude and loneliness are not the same thing. Accepting loneliness as part of the human condition can help. What i really want is that feeling of safety. Id llove a fatherly figure to put his hand around my shoulder. Hed tell me that i am safe and through his example, i will learn to be safe. I believe that lack of a feeling of safety causes so much of the anxiety now.

@runningwithgauntletts9508 3 месяца назад

44 yr old Marine combat veteran. He just described the plight of males today. Spent 10 yrs serving with three tours. I’m still talked down to and ridiculed by complete self centered shallow strangers over nothing except for simply being in their immediate vicinity. If they only knew I could snap their neck with one maneuver. But I don’t. I smile and walk away. Believe me, we are all tired too.

@kopfjaeger308 6 месяцев назад

It's not just young guys, I'm 42 and agree with him. Income down, expenses doubled, health issues, nothing you try makes any difference, no hope in sight. Can't put gas in the car, can't put food on the table, can't make any headway no matter what you try. Once you're behind that's pretty much it.

@asimplenameichose151 3 месяца назад

Similar age, can relate. Single income providing for family of five. Gave up every dream I once had and a 'path' I studied half my life for to chase dollars on a hamster wheel. (For a good cause ... at least our children are getting a solid education and a lot of time / love from their parents.) But I've burned out hard in the last ~2 years doing the work that had to be done - back-to-back months of 80+ hour weeks leading to an eventual mental collapse - primarily for the benefit of everyone around me; between home, growing family needs, and medical issues there is no financial 'getting ahead'. We are still eating, driving, and haven't lost our home, but income crashed about 6 months ago with no immediate solutions; mortgage payments up 25%, insurance costs up 80-100% on the year, along with food, gas, and everything else. Almost everyone around me thinks (apart from loss of income) that I am living in the best of all possible worlds and they can't imagine why I'm having any difficulties. Nothing I can do now but stay on the wheel and try to improve my percentage take from the pie.

@ernstthalmann4306 2 месяца назад

Im 30 and holding on by a string. Hang in there brother. 2024 could be the worst yet.

@Dunge0n 6 дней назад

I lose myself in murderous fantasies. They help. They also make me more irritable and impatient with people but i don't care anymore.

@brokeboy87 6 месяцев назад

I'm in my mid 30s and life hasn't gotten much better. I probably pushed away the only woman that ever loved me, I've pissed away all my money and lately I can't stand the man in the mirror.

@bjornironsides6474 6 месяцев назад

Me too, but life is fun. Gotta change your perspective. If you live in the USA or developed country, we have it so much better than many many other folks in the world. If you live in a big liberal city, you might enjoy a smaller town with less sissy rules.

@fancyAlex1993 6 месяцев назад

Any given sunday speech ,

@duckyh9712 6 месяцев назад

Change your name man. Talk nicely to yourself

@mariahconklin4150 5 месяцев назад

No worries I'm behind in rent haha. You're not alone.

@DustDevilRage 5 месяцев назад

@@fancyAlex1993 We either come together, as a team, or we die, as individuals.

@jared3235 6 месяцев назад

I was just like this young man. Now I am 30 years old. And I will say, it gets easier. I went to therapy. Began to understand myself. And began to love myself. Life is so worth living now.

@kristijan8518 6 месяцев назад

If you can afford therapy you're already in better position than 90% of people. I'm also 30 and I can't afford it. I live in a third world country, where therapy is extremely basic. Online therapy costs half of my income. I see no way out.

@jared3235 6 месяцев назад

@@kristijan8518 I absolutely agree with you. Therapy is a luxar many can’t afford. But knowledge is available to you in many places, including RU-vid. A few books I recommend. .Think like a Shrink by Christ Zois .12 Rules for life by Jordan Peterson RU-vid channels I enjoy. Sadua Khan Psychology You can learn so much about yourself just by listening to these people.

@albertomoreta3257 6 месяцев назад

Is it really worth it. Im in the same boat and i have no clue who to talk to or what to do. Nothing seems like its worth it anymore.

@zacatkinson3926 6 месяцев назад

no it doesnt

@TheFracturedfuture 6 месяцев назад

I'm 33 and I'm worse than ever despite trying my best. It can get better but also worse, both scenarios are possible.

@EloteConChurro 6 месяцев назад

I feel this at the age of 28. I understand family struggles and everything being slow and boring but I do hope he can find people to connect with in his life. There’s so much to value in life.

@enterthebruce91 6 месяцев назад

I feel like this at 32. I can't even call myself a 'young man' anymore, and I've completely lost hope in life, I also have mild Cerebral Palsy and most of the time I don't want to be here but I'm still hanging on hoping against hope that one day things just might improve for me, but realistically speaking I highly doubt they ever will improve. I wish you all the best.

@EloteConChurro 6 месяцев назад

@@enterthebruce91 prayer man and surround yourself with family if possible I know it’s gloomy but there is hope

@fueledbymusic3 6 месяцев назад

I'm 53. And im an extreme introvert. And let me tell you. Being introverted is what it is. It's hard to have supposed to be friends if we're introverted. I'm naturally introverted and I had the SAME EXACT complaint when i was 22 in 1992. I even posted a video from 1992 on my RU-vid ranting in that similar way! The thing is, SOME OF US don't want any kind of obnoxious people, and not all of us like going out in the public, because of a threat of coming across troublemakers. Some of us like QUIET TIMES. But society don't want that. Their idea of fun is obnoxious and trouble makers and they think it's COOL to get arrested for doing donuts on the streets

@michaeltoy1813 6 месяцев назад

Young men struggling is an understatement. It really feels like your suffering is a desire of the world. In the past I saw professional help 3 times over, having listed my despairs to them the response I got was "But you are privileged." (emphasis on are) shocked I couldn't utter the words "If I'm so privileged then why do I so desperately want to die?" The worst year of my life to say the least. The one thing I did was not only soak in knowledge by the fire hose but I expanded the input. (one of the reasons I found real men real style) While there were incredible lows, I've reached the outcome of having a good community to be with. Who aren't crazy. Who listen. Who are kind. Not to mention plenty sage advice. Not that it's all roses, because nothing ever will be, but it sure as hell beats my previous position in life. Life will throw a detour at you. It's beyond unpleasant but if you don't give up, you'll reach your destination. And changing your destination isn't a bad thing either. It's what happened to me.

@CT--jv2ur 6 месяцев назад

@@adamt.1390 Definitely👌 There are people who you should listen to, and some others are just plain stupid and give stupid advice, and don’t have anything they should have said

@magneric 6 месяцев назад

I'm assuming those "professionals" were women. Every time I've been seen by a female shrink, she obviously made it clear that my service related ptsd was my fault and the pos woman that betrayed me was in the right. A male shink is way more understanding

@XXXXBossXXXX 5 месяцев назад

"you are privileged" is toxic positivity. minimizes your suffering n makes you wear a mask n neglect how you actually feel, which just digs u into deeper suffering.

@feyehudson1 Месяц назад

I have never been happy in my entire life. Parents were monsters. I just can't get over this misery

@shinndig1293 6 месяцев назад

"I don't need friends they disappoint me..."

@UnemployableFakeGuru 5 месяцев назад

I’m 55, life is indeed bs, make the best out of it. Practice gratitude.

@osamaqtaitat 2 месяца назад

Maybe the things that mitigate this shit a little are to try to be mindful, to meditate, to do what you love or appreciate what you have and control (which are really a few things), try…., fuck outcomes often, mostly nothing is guaranteed, mostly! Try to be a bit stronger, a bit freer….! Fu*k it!!!!! Idk! I’m just try to fool myself and lie to myself, idk! Nit enough

@Dunge0n 6 дней назад

@@osamaqtaitat "Look I wanna say something inspiring but I got nothing, sorry..." At least you're honest, lol!

@MaduroMan 4 месяца назад

Im in my 50s and I see this kids video and think, Don't worry, it'll get worse if you live long enough.

@J0risM Месяц назад

😆

@Acordionista509 6 месяцев назад

Love how this guy used this young man's mental health problems to peddle his mental health ad on us. Freaking rich.

@maddog7999 6 месяцев назад

*peddle*

@kenmastersmaster 6 месяцев назад

💯

@PowerofRock24 6 месяцев назад

@@maddog7999 My dude is dyslexic

@maddog7999 6 месяцев назад

@@PowerofRock24 thats not dyslexia

@devilsadvocacy 6 месяцев назад

Especially from something as predatory as Better Help, which the Federal Trade Commission is investigating for sharing information about patients with data brokers, in violation of HIPAA

@dmbsituation 6 месяцев назад

There’s a reason that nihilism is so widespread… the American dream that’s been sold for generations has become a nightmare for many and leaves many guys without purpose. Pursue meaning each day.

@osamaqtaitat 2 месяца назад

Fuck meaning

@stevo999 28 дней назад

Baby boomers were the last generation to expierence the american dream, every gen since that has expierenced an american nightmare

@Punishment_for_Decadence 6 месяцев назад

It's a hard sell telling people "don't give up because it gets better". For starters, it sets up a scenario where their expectations can fail, which can catapult them further into a deeper pit of depression even worse than before. There is a very real possibility that luck may dictate that things inadvertently get worse. For a lot of people, despite their best efforts the situation never improves for them due to factors outside of their control. At least in my view, clinging to hope too hard can be as damaging as having a defeatist attitude. There needs to be a balanced expectation of possible outcomes that doesn't involve overt optimism or pessimism.

@thewiseowl8804 4 месяца назад

Perfect.

@leeeatmon5176 3 месяца назад

I feel like i found that balance......i adopted a cat and now my focus, yes, FOCUS is on providing for her, that is life, my friend. No more expectations for me. It truly does get better regardless of age. Heck guy, I am 30 yrs older than you and it took that long to find that kind of balance, but i found it and i can honesty say, life really is a stage. Just that. So get on with it, it goes fast. Really fast.

@kimjohnson8471 6 месяцев назад

Antonio, I'm one of your biggest female fans. Just know there are many women who love, admire, and support men. We need y'all for guidance, leadership, and covering. I pray God's grace upon all the men watching. REAL MEN MATTER. ❤

@leas7830 5 месяцев назад

As a female, I hope teen boys and young men would find here instead of Andrew Tate or similar channels.

@cowsarea 3 месяца назад

Thank you for that ❤

@ernstthalmann4306 2 месяца назад

Thanks, im 30 and suffer alone daily. 😔 sucks

@bunsenn5064 5 месяцев назад

This is the thing about clinical depression. Improving your circumstances doesn’t make it go away, because nothing will. There is a disconnect between quality of life and mental state. You are forced to live with it for the remainder of your life. I know this to be a fact firsthand.

@linkdude600 2 месяца назад

Eh. Sometimes what we think to be a dysfunction in the brain is actually a dysfunctional life and soul. Just speaking from my experience, I was sold on the fact that my brain has a chemical imbalance, but it wasn’t that at all. I think chemical imbalance happens, but it’s rarer than people perceive it as.

@youtuber-cc8sx 2 месяца назад

Bla bla bla clinical depression bla bla introvert bla autism bla bla. All BS. Maybe for 0.00001% but for most part for non NPC actual intelligent people, this life is just too much BS

@naeemabdulayad3861 5 месяцев назад

There's a reason why the Red Pill, Manosphere, Black Pill, Incel movements exist.

@chaucerparks2042 6 месяцев назад

DEPRESSION IS SERIOUS..I'VE SUFFERED WITH THIS MY WHOLE LIFE.

@SickFrillex 3 месяца назад

same lol

@lindasharp8523 3 месяца назад

@SickFrillex same and I'm 62. Hubby killed himself at 42 and my beautiful middle son, 35, killed himself last year. Heartbroken but I have 2 cats I live for.

@fiftyshadesofurban 6 месяцев назад

I've changed my mind slightly about this after seeing the latest thing people are fighting about on Twitter. This kid is absolutely 100% correct, and the reason he feels this way is because he cares about the world and the people in it. What he's missing is getting himself in a place where he is confident about himself and finding his people. But I guarantee even if he finds himself surrounded with people that love him and stuff, if he still focuses on the world and trying to better it, he will always be miserable and angry to some extent. It's extremely sad but the only way that we can thrive in the world is to ignore everything going on, focus on ourselves and live in a bubble. If you constantly are trying to make the world a better place pushing for it you're going to be driven to misery and potentially madness.

@bjornironsides6474 6 месяцев назад

Social media really opened our eyes to just how much trouble society is in. It makes those of us that car very angry. Got to remember we can’t control it and move on with what we like and life is pretty damn awesome.

@WorldKeepsSpinnin 5 месяцев назад

I will choose to suffer if it means a better world. I guess, you have opened my eyes and its true. If i just kept to myself, i would probably be happy. But, I just cant be happy if everyone else is having a shitty time. It feels wrong, like im not fulfilling my purpose. But its hard, and my dreams will probably never come true. Yet, i will try my hardest anyways. I believe in humanities infinite potential, and i dont want it to end here. Evil wins, when good men do nothing. Its very true. We have to be active about things even if it causes us suffering. Even if its just for one person like me in the world.

@bjornironsides6474 5 месяцев назад

@@WorldKeepsSpinninIt's out of your control. People are going to do what they want and let them live with the consequences. The moment you stop caring and focus on you and your circle of friends, is when you'll be happy. Like your name says, "the world keeps spinning" is right. The bigger picture doesn't care about individuals or humans...we are .000001% of Earth's existence. Remember that. We are a blip in space time. The Roman Empire existed longer in time than our current western world!

@XXXXBossXXXX 5 месяцев назад

@@WorldKeepsSpinnin100% agree. i dont know how to live my life when everyone around me is suffering. this gives me purpose. There is still good and those trying to defend against evil, it just feels like an uphill battle around the world, but i believe as sad as we are, it is openning our eyes that theres work to be done. I also agree that there needs to be some selfishness to focus on yourself and in your own bubble, bc how can you help the world if you cant even help yourself? you cant pour from an empty cup. Love your neighbor as self.. but how can you love your neighbor if you havent found how to love yourself. the answers are here.. it’s just been silenced.

@fiftyshadesofurban 4 месяца назад

@@bjornironsides6474 Remember though it's kind of like the news at this point. You get off social media, go outside and it's almost like it all just disappears.

@toddd6563 6 месяцев назад

Very good message, thank you. We must remember that there have been structural changes over the last 20 years, especially for young men. Brothers, must provide support, structure and leadership to the current generation of young men.

@alexaguirre8956 6 месяцев назад

This young man needs a role model, a father figure, a mentor. Someone to talk to, to tell him how to be. How to be a man. Someone to tell his troubles to. To tell him things will workout, but you have to keep trying. He needs a community.

@nicholasflint9480 3 месяца назад

You're not hearing him. You're not hearing shit.

@televirn5879 8 дней назад

Wait how?

@nicholasflint9480 7 дней назад

@televirn5879 he's recognised the full scale of what has been handed down to his generation, well before all of his peers, this game he doesn't want to be a part of, that shouldn't be mandatory, and is for all intents and purposes fucked beyond repair, and of course the only advice he can get is tips on how to get better at that game

@noracoyle4988 7 дней назад

I agree he,s not hearing him.

@joserivera8429 6 месяцев назад

I just want to give that young man a huge hug before anything else.

@MsMojomaster 6 месяцев назад

a person's greatness is measured by the impact he has on other people's life in my opinion, keep helping those young man you will be blessed

@chrispaul7595 6 месяцев назад

One of the worst things being taught now a days is that, trauma will always define and you can never move past it. I hope this young man learns he can.

@prussiansocietyofamerica 5 месяцев назад

That's completely false. Nobody ever moves past trauma.

@thewiseowl8804 4 месяца назад

@@prussiansocietyofamerica This person is lying. Just wanted to put that out there if anyone reads this. You can absolutely move past trauma.

@prussiansocietyofamerica 4 месяца назад

@@thewiseowl8804 Nope...

@joshuabuchanan1141 4 месяца назад

Anyone can and should break the cycle of generational trauma

@stevo999 28 дней назад

@@prussiansocietyofamericaI agree, ur trauma will always be apart of you but you can take the energy from ur trauma and put it into something better for you

@denverdave12 6 месяцев назад

Praying for this young man. Feeling like an outsider is probably the most insider thing we all share. People can suck - so true. But people are also amazing beyond belief. Never give up. Be that amazing person to the people around you.

@steel128 6 месяцев назад

Well said and couldn't agree more

@StatiCRjm 6 месяцев назад

Yeah right, some people are more of an outsider than others. People that are truly "boxed in" not due to their personality or mindset, but appearance.

@bretwojarski5842 6 месяцев назад

People can also be so fake and so phoney I don’t trust all the fake ass comments people leave I can’t find any decent people in real life but everyone’s sooo nice online where are these people in the real world?

@EpicMinecraftFail 5 месяцев назад

People are the worst thing this world has to offer

@youtuber-cc8sx 2 месяца назад

@@bretwojarski5842I feel you man

@kathyhenry2362 6 месяцев назад

"We just gotta try"...nice! Thank you for making content for young men.

@giornogiobama 6 месяцев назад

You have helped me tremendously, keep doing what you’re doing and we love you

@RealMenRealStyle 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for this - I appreciate you.

@StormcastMarine 6 месяцев назад

I struggled like this until I was 37 I did really well professionally, but in my personal life I had no dates until I was 33 Luckily I had < 5 close friends, which really helped But if you're a teenager or early 20s, to think that you might struggle until late thirties is unthinkable. I'm glad I stuck with it though. As difficult as things were 20 years ago, they are very easy now, stick with it, it builds character.

@user-jb6hn1db8x 5 месяцев назад

You sound like me.

@youtuber-cc8sx 2 месяца назад

Nah man I actually have hair loss too. I used to look younger than my age but I lost that too. Im screwed… I aint got time anymore how can I speed this shit up??? I do everything right and getting no results.

@gabrielvazquez1691 6 месяцев назад

I’ve been there plenty of times. Things have gone up but there are still those fragments that tackle you. I’m 25 now and my teens were not easy, hated all of those years. It’s true, the biggest problem is that at that age they just want you to fit a certain mold but with time you can be yourself and you learn to be okay with yourself. That being said, I still look back at my teen self and wish I could go back in time to help him.

@kristijan8518 6 месяцев назад

I feel the same as him. I've always been awkward and introverted person. My parents gave me ton of insecurities and traumas, I can't do what normal people do. I can't make a conversation with anyone, never had any friends, I can't make any because I'm boring and empty. No woman ever liked me, always been rejected. I spent almost a decade studying medicine and the pay is extremely low, I need to finish residency for 5 years before I get a good pay. By that time I'll be 35-40 and it'll be too late for most things. I live in a shitty third world country, therapy is non existent, the online therapy is too expensive for me (my monthly income is 400$). I have nothing to live for, I have no interests, no hobbies, my work eats up 12+ hours of my day. I'm going to gym, I dress well, grooming myself but it's just pointless. Nothing good has happened in the past 10 years to me and will likely never happen.

@spreadinglove849 3 месяца назад

which country is that?

@TouGerLee 6 месяцев назад

As a mental health professional who spends a lot of time focusing on the well-being of men, I just wanted to say that I appreciate the videos you've been sharing lately around not just styling your wardrobe, but "styling" yourself as a human overall.

@Truman77. 4 месяца назад

I grew up alone in family. No parental figure to talk over the struggles of life with, no mentor... So with the little knowledge and experience I had, I had to figure things out for myself. Looking back, I knew very little and would at times, make less than optimal choices. Tough lessons, but may have been made less difficult by having support and mentorship.

@ArrodiPratama_ 4 месяца назад

I feel you so bad, cause I have a friend sometimes he tell me about what he have been through, kinda same, hopefully everything gets better, hang in there, good thing will bright ur life afterwards

@youtuber-cc8sx 2 месяца назад

Same

@sasapetroski981 5 месяцев назад

Me in my 20s was traveling 4 time to greece and in other countryes, have 10 friends and life was so good, Now in my 40s only work, eat, sleep... Very boring

@Photomonon 6 месяцев назад

Been a subscriber since 2010. Its remarkable to see you're still at it, inspiring.

@timanderson9894 6 месяцев назад

Kid needs to realize and accept he will never be like everybody else. Nobody can be like every else. He can only be himself. Its upto him to be himself and the best version of who that is. Being like everyone else is boring. He needs to study some ancient philosophy. Be stoic.

@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121 6 месяцев назад

I can't tell you how often these types of thoughts run through my head. Of all the guys on RU-vid, I'm happiest to hear your input on the matter. Thanks for doing this, Antonio!

@threalharrydubois 6 месяцев назад

Im Sorry to hear about your sister. Just wanted to let you know you make a difference. As someone whos transitioning into adulthood, youre always my first adress when i need to check some styleadvice. All the best to you!

@CowHorace 4 месяца назад

I and so many of people in society feel just like this kid. He raises good points.

@ShibaMcDripNu 6 месяцев назад

Bro has a bright and long future ahead of him and has a strong will to live. Many people are like him, lost and mentorless. Just need to save up and travel, meet new people. Good video.

@wileyallen1545 6 месяцев назад

I know how this young man feels. I was no a popular guy in school. My family was not high profile but we were true to ourselves and our history. Then I found direction in the service. I still wasn't popular but I had a direction. Later in life I found my calling and met my wonderful wife. My life has never been better. It just took time. The bumps and bruises are all healed once I found what is really important. Who cares what everyone else thinks? I used to care but now I have learned not to.

@warriorstrength6797 5 месяцев назад

Friends can be fake but at least they make you think about life in a philosophical way.

@danieldpa8484 6 месяцев назад

There are millions of young guys like this man - most of them are missing a father in their life to find their direction and goal. If a critical mass of desperate young guys is reached - hell will break lose and “the purge” movies will look like a Disney Pixar production. It’s men who carry society on their shoulders, if they stop, what will happen?!?

@happymess3219 6 месяцев назад

😐 how well are men carrying society on their shoulders if their sons are sitting around feeling this way?

@ericeverett2353 5 месяцев назад

@@happymess3219 That’s the whole problem. See how you’re judging performance? To be blunt, wtf are you? Men and masculinity have been attacked for YEARS in this country. Missed the news for the past 10 years huh? Patriarchal oligarchies and toxic masculinity?

@aliteralcancer2541 6 месяцев назад

The world needs more people like you man.

@the_don836 6 месяцев назад

He’s Just Tapped In The Wrong Crowd. The Moment You Decide To Better Yourself You Become Very Niche, Most Or The Time Outgrowing Your Immediate Surroundings.

@franciscogarza 6 месяцев назад

As men, we gotta school our boys in the art of being men, in giving pain a bear hug. Pain, my friends, is that boiling pot where a man gets his final seasoning. Life, she's got a knack for throwing some heavy-duty lessons our way. When I was about to become a dad for the first time, I had all these grand schemes for my little one, but he came into this world with a touch of Down syndrome, flipped my whole life on its head, you know? Throw in the towel? Never an option. My boy goes by the name of Abraham, and now, at the ripe age of 16, those initial plans are starting to bloom-just a matter of faith and a ton of patience. Blessings upon the kid.

@bsmith1 6 месяцев назад

Antonio, I've seen a shift in your videos the past few weeks and I greatly admire that. I think young men have no online personality with their best interests and its good to see someone with more practical advice for them. Your voice is needed.

@Paul512 6 месяцев назад

Good on you for doing this.

@Spudin7213 3 месяца назад

I am so glad that you took the time to respond to his video! That speaks volumes to me about your character! I saw his video last night and I prayed for him after watching it. I hope he finds someone to help him carry this burden.

@HammBone950 6 месяцев назад

Thanks for the advice. You always make us look and feel good.

@leroycooper1412 21 день назад

You have to understand , for alot of people the target of being hurt and hated stays with them like a curse all through out your life even all through out our adulthood.

@mikaelholopainen4950 6 месяцев назад

Hiya, thanks for sharing. I've been through it myself and am privileged to help a number of men in their 30's-60's, through their struggles. It's a tremendous encouragement to see them come out at the other end. Keep it up men, Mike

@Robbielazar 6 месяцев назад

Life is like that. Tough

@CybinTalus 6 месяцев назад

I'm 41 and I feel the same since these past three years. I have a corpo job where I don't matter, lost most of my 'friends', so I'm working on making a hobby (fashion design) into a side gig and beyond. Stay strong brother - God put us here to lift one another up, so we are all we have

@fastdeliveryl708 6 месяцев назад

Im in the same boat.. 34 yrs old . Shittt job, no friends.. i live in a small town so thats make it even worst…

@robertvanderbush737 6 месяцев назад

Another thing I'd like to point out is how much us men are solitary and isolated, reach out to your fellow man with words of encouragement. If you see your fellow man has taken style tips from here or elsewhere and is hitting the mark don't be afraid to compliment him. Be supportive, we're all going through it together. 💪

@jdwxflyer 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for posting this. I found myself agreeing with you while watching his video. I hope he sees this and possibly reaches out to you. Thanks Antonio!

@christopherhunter5730 6 месяцев назад

I think most of us can relate to this young man. We all go through that peer pressure age to be like every one else. The problem is all the bullies are just trying to be cool and are not being genuine themselves. If I could give this kid any advice it would be to continue being himself and become the best version of himself that he can and will attract true friends and true love that are like minded individuals who will give him a positive supportive surrounding.

@gaddaitherage8204 6 месяцев назад

You are doing a really good thing bringing this man’s video to people’s awareness. I’ll hop on over to show my support also!

@alansajid114 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for taking the time to give this subject a broader audience. It's not getting anywhere near the level of attention it deserves. Part of what helped me get through feelings of worthlessness and hopelessness was joining the Marines. When I became a part of the brotherhood, after much blood sweat and tears, I gained the confidence to pursue anything. I never had anyone believe in me growing up so I had to learn what I was capable of when I put my mind to something and quitting was not an option. It helped that my drill instructors didn't let me quit either even when I didn't think I had it in me. It's not for everybody, but it worked for me. I met a lot of other dudes that came from messed up situations too that honestly were as messed upas mine. When you're isolated, you think you're the only one. I learned that life is messed up for a lot of us and you have to be tougher. The hottest fires make the strongest steel.

@Studmuf-Rockin 6 месяцев назад

I’ve been following you for many years and I can tell you that you have given me a lot of the tools I needed to increase the confidence within me in part because dressing nicely amplified how I felt about myself. And I’m glad you’re looking out to our misguided youth, especially in this particular generation of self loathing and romanticized pity/doubts

@karmshep.3203 3 месяца назад

Well done for posting this in response to this young man. There are many people out there who are being hurt by a cruel world.

@AUT1234567 6 месяцев назад

I am a 38 years old very unattractive man, trust me it doesn’t getting better! Is getting worse with every year….

@SpartanLawyer 6 месяцев назад

This is 100% one of your best videos to date. I never comment, but I've been following your channel for the last few years and taking your fashion and fragrance suggestions to heart. Thanks for addressing the issues that us young men are facing, and I for one appreciate the effort you've put in to improving our lives.

@SecretPersonComment 6 месяцев назад

You are a great man, sir. Keep up your good work!

@amayafnf5867 5 месяцев назад

My sister almost took her life when I was 12. True facts. In this life, there's nothing but struggles. The things that I want are out of reach. What's worse, I have no confidence in myself anymore. When I face difficulties, I blame my parents. 1# They could've enrolled me in a school for gifted people. 2# They don't mentor me.

@XXXXBossXXXX 5 месяцев назад

i blame my parents on not having the emotional support. my condolences about your sister. im dealing with mental suffering. 2023 was definitely my most difficult year… im just working on making the most of what i can today even if its small. bc if nothing is ever done, tmrw i will be just as sad… i hope you continue on man. it saddens me that things are like this, but i just hope to keep making better decisions for myself, and in the future, help those who are in my current situation mentally and provide guidance.. cuz i really wish i had some now..

@jonmatrix2033 6 месяцев назад

Overthinking everything is really the problem.

@nvmffs 2 месяца назад

From an overthinking person's point of view everyone else is underthinking...

@VerryLongName 6 месяцев назад

I’ve seen videos like this pop up and I’ve even put them in my watch later playlist. The titles end up being something like “26 year old and have no friends”

@Mia-qs1zi 6 месяцев назад

you know what i realized? the scary thing bout your mind even if you have everything if you keep thinking you don't have any everyday even,you just don't have any

@Chase_Waldo 6 месяцев назад

i’m 19 so i can feel him, it is hard to find genuine good relationships in todays day but it does get better and i’m probably the happiest i’ve been in a really long time

@sethjamison1 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for that video. Everyone's life gets to a point where they are down. I am so glad that he was able to take the good out of those comments and strive on.

@vincentsaia6545 6 месяцев назад

I know exactly what this guy is going through. I felt the same way when I was his age. I felt numb inside. It didn't make a difference to me whether I lived or died because life was meaningless to me. I felt like a total failure and every time I tried to fight it I got knocked on my butt: I would lose a job, a girl would turn me down for a date, family and friends wouldn't listen or they would minimize what I was going through. Please let this man know that he is not alone and there is a positive way out. Things WILL get better.

@Victor-it6bv 6 месяцев назад

Sorry hear about your loss. Lots of people have felt that way once in thier life and the feelings are warranted. Hopefully you can help and save as many people as possible with your platform.

@kirkdarling4120 6 месяцев назад

"Where you are is not who you are" -- Me I agree, Antonio, that society today makes the wrong point about trauma. We are normalizing continued existence in trauma rather than normalizing overcoming trauma. They focus on the trauma. It's like constantly pulling off the scab of a wound.

@Legru76 6 месяцев назад

I hope you continue to give young men this kind of advice. Thanks.

@banjopiggottwright1802 6 месяцев назад

As someone who was once suicidal this quote has helped me get through my darkest times "The way I see it life is a pile of good things and bad things. The good things don't always soften the bad things, but vice-versa, the bad things don't necessarily spoil the good things and make them unimportant." - The Eleventh Doctor Stay strong out there, gents.

@thispersonrighthere9024 6 месяцев назад

the people i can't stand the most are those who minimize another person's trauma, and just tell them to get over it, as if a f**ked up childhood has no effects on an adult.

@needmoney666 6 месяцев назад

Great message that you shared. I, along with others, tried encouraging him in the comments. In a later video he did say that he was feeling better.

@sethjamison1 6 месяцев назад

Thank you for that video. Everyone's life gets to a point where they are down. I am so glad that he was able to take the good out of those comments and strive on

@DarrylCobb 6 месяцев назад

Glad you're reaching out to these young men and letting them know life is a marathon, not a sprint.

@alexmic7941 5 месяцев назад

Love your stuff Antonio. I feel sorry for this guy & hope he gets better. I'm a bit older than this guy. I'm 28 & also feel screwed & lost. My life's a mess & I feel like a failure

@Mr.Edwards233 6 месяцев назад

Wow this was hard hitting. As one who've worked with and coached young men, I've definitively been in his shoes before. This is a 3 fold process thing here: 1. He's having problem attracting friends and he could be an introvert, causing him not to trust people like that. 2. He's having bad cases with getting a gf or being girls his age (a couple of lines he said gave me the inkling). 3. His parents/family don't understand him or so he think, and he's not communicating it properly by shutting down. But this is a cry for immediate help, he's operating in depression and despair.

@aaronaustrie 6 месяцев назад

I actually watched this man's vid. Sad 😢

@RealMenRealStyle 6 месяцев назад

It is and I'm glad he's okay.

@benfox6292 6 месяцев назад

When I was 18 I felt pretty much this same way and I thought that the trauma of being bullied as a kid in school would have me being a certain way for the rest of my life. 4 years later now and I made some changes in my life, I started dressing better and cutting out the parts of my life that aren’t getting me anywhere. Turns out that makes a huge difference and has me in a much better headspace.

@jamarvaughn2798 6 месяцев назад

No one doesn't need a fucking therapy it dealing with reality and people that's the problem The sad part about this video is I don't think no one's truly getting the message He's absolutely right everything you do in life is dealing with people and we all know dealing with peoples bullshit is not particularly fun.

@kevflair 6 месяцев назад

We all go through really bad times and all of us have had those moments where we don’t know what to do, we don’t want to do anything but we need to find the strength to make ourselves go out there and try to do something, eventually we get out of that loophole and when you’re down again you remind yourself that you already did it and you can do it again. My best wishes to all of you!

@teogamzua4956 6 месяцев назад

I hear myself and sometimes I would talk at times when I heard this. God bless that man

@joyhappiness 6 месяцев назад

This is the kind of video that self improvement channels should uphold. Bless up

@yesiagree3833 6 месяцев назад

It's easy to say "it gets better with time. When time moves so slow. And you look to your left and see the homeless people numbers are going up and the price of living is going up. It's easy to say it'll get better with time. But is it really?? I'm 28 and to some that's considered young but I've seen and been through a fair amount of sh*%. I remember when I was 24 and had 5 licenses for insurance in all 50 states, a associates in finance from a community college. And a year of experience in the field. And STILL nobody would respond to me for employment. I started to think that because I was black that nobody wanted a black young guy for insurance, because they'd assume i didn't know what I was doing. Then I thought maybe it's because I had very little experience. Just to see young guys in my same age group with no experience or license get employment. And it just made me think, what's the point. Coming from Detroit, and a black family what I had put in work to get was ALOT but everywhere else it's looked at as nothing, bare minimum if anything. And to put the cherry on top bills kick you ass and they don't stop. 4 years later and not much has changed. I'm working at a warehouse and feels like all my hard work is for not.

@nick111655 6 месяцев назад

Acceptance. WE all need this to feel like we belong.

@MrFancyPants_ 6 месяцев назад

When I was younger I found comfort in the idea that nothing mattered. Nihilism was a familiar and understandable ideology. The reality was that I was running from the much more frightening and more meaningful truth. That everything matters.

@whatsnext9657 6 месяцев назад

Best video of yours brother, thank you for sharing and taking the time this is a very important subject and We as role models can impact positively a young man’s life, keep up the good work

@static9061 6 месяцев назад

Thats crazy i just commented on a video of yet another man saying nearly the same thing about life/people. I left my feedback saying he is not alone bc im going to similar feelings. But we live to fight another day , keep pushing fellas 💪🏾

@static9061 6 месяцев назад

One song that gets me by is Destiny by NEFFEX. Check it out ✔️