There’s no way I could sleep with someone else .. step outside my marriage. No matter how many hard days my husband has. Otherwise I took allot from this. Thank you. There are so many feelings involved especially with long term illness. Sometimes it can be crippling.
I just watched this and found it really helpful because I realised we are doing a lot of these things already so I was reassured and also, it gave me some new perspectives too.
A man basically abandons his crippled wife and says it’s to preserve his adult intimate life with his wife? I say bull crap! Most married couples take a vow to love their spouse during sickness and in health. This is not love, this is selfishness.
@@suew4609 learn to be celibate!?! That is ridiculous! I didn’t say anything about cheating on your partner. I don’t think that is right either. But, denying basic human needs can make things much worse. Communication is key, and if you can’t do it on your own, go see a professional to help you and teach you how to have the communication. Why so judgmental?
@@jacobwoodring7285 I agree with you! I have MS and epilepsy. I explained to my husband that when the day comes and I'm in a wheel chair, and I have trouble taking care of my basic needs will be the day I move on to a nursing home. I will make sure it happens. You can love someone so much--they can be the love of your life to the point that you'll never love the same again. HOWEVER--when disease, illness, anger, terror, fear, worry etc etc etc etc begins to invade and erode the beauty of what once was--it can destroy what you once had. I want him to remember what we had-- the good and happy times--I want him to go on living life being happy without the burden and resentment. I want him to have the possibility to experience love again if he chooses. I think its selfish to expect your partner to go down the crapper with you. I don't care if your the most loving/caring/giving/amazing person to ever exist---eventually burnout comes, anger, resentment, you name it comes along and its a downward spiral. To each their own.
Fighting with the Drs is the worst. Drs repeatedly saying it is all in your head for multiple years almost made me leave. Even after her genetic disorder diagnosis they are still gaslighting her
