This is so true. Thankyou for addressing it. I am facing the same issue. My baby was born early term with a birth weight of 2.5 kgs. Whoever sees her takes liberty to comment on her weight and suggestions to make her look "healthy", "fat" and "big". Although shes gaining appropriate amount of weight and is healthy according to the doctors. Its very hurtful. Even i dont want to make my baby obese or unhealthy in any way. But its frustrating to hear such things about our baby.
Indian society is good at giving free advices and suggestions even if a mother does not need it…recently me n my husband went to Mysore and in the silk saree factory owned by Karnataka govt all ladies and uncles started giving us advices …”””ooo you are not handling the baby right way ..ooo make her sleep there””” … they need to know parents know for their kids what is best… I love my daughter so much she is my world and I know what is best for her…better to ignore these free advisors…Bina fees k vakeel bante h log
I am witnessing the same situation with my baby. She is 7 months old and my in laws are telling that she is very thin even though I told them that I am feeding her timely and giving her all nutrition which she is required. Atlast I politely told them that my baby is healthy as she can crawl around the house and even she is standing and sitting by her own. These signs show me that she is healthy and strong.
I like watching your vlogs bcoz you’re universal woman😊. What i mean is you spoke and translated english on your vlogs which is very nice bcoz youtube keeps recommending anything and that makes your viewers around the world understands your videos. I also watched Charu Asopa vlogs but she speaks your native language only that made me dropped watching her vlogs.
I have come across this so many times.. Bacchi teri kamzor hai, nai? 9 months done .. Achieving milestones on time. Yet have faced these comments. Best is to ignore
Same thing happened to my baby she is 20 days younger than your vinisha and is 7.4 now in 8th months according to doctor she is perfect but people you know
Hi Mam, My baby is almost 6 months old. Sometimes she is very irritated due to teething process. Could you please tell us the tips to calm the baby or how we can help the baby during this process
I know saying that forget what ppl say, is easy but as a mother we feel everything deep. But for Vinisha I can only say that the girl is intelligent and she covered all her milestones before time. You guys as a parent doing incredible job so these oldies….just leave them with their mentality.. I too heard same things a lot but didn’t bother to reply bcoz I know the truth. My baby is taking time to achieve milestone. Neither she is crawling nor taking steps but this is fine (for me it’s not but it is fine). Some months before I requested you to share your struggling phase as well. One question- have you guys started gym? If yes, how are you handling it with baby vinisha…..? Edit - Vinisha is more like her mother, in looks. ❤️
In India- obese person is healthy and a fit person is kamzor 😂😂😂😂 Same thing is with my son he is 7 months according to doctor he has good weight but my punjabi relatives they think he is kamzor He is active throughout the day i wonder why they don’t see that I reply ki dekho aap hi khila lo khaana shayad weight baad jaye🤪
Thank you for your kind words. I'm sure your baby is doing amazingly well😊🙏 No I have not yet started gymming. I will start now in 2days and will upload the fitness vlogs regularly😊🙏