INFERTILITY AND BARRENNESS - The Struggle of Childlessness In Marriage 

Oh just wait and see how perfect God's timing is Justin. You will be blessed beyond words.

Jassy don’t lose hope, God’s timing is the best. I waited for nine years but God blessed me with triplets two beautiful girls and one

The women of Uganda are beautiful! Chocolate skin is so beautiful.

I still believe we shouldn't even ask when r u getting pregnant let the women be. They have their own struggles

Pliz Lord, the way you gave me a child of my own when I couldn't believe it that I could, father bless Jassy with a child and bless us with that number of children we long for. Let your will be done in our lives

Oba the episode should have been titled waiting / believing God for a Child. . Because this Beautiful guest is neither Barren nor infertile. And not everyone that is waiting has that diagnosis. It is painful to have that label placed on you. Thanks for the Beautiful Episode. Please bring her back when her baby arrives any day now♡. Standing with her in prayer.

Jassy was my boss ..but she is such akind woman trust me God has smthg good for u en He will not only give u achild but children en grands

I am jamaican, and what Jesse saying about Africans are similar to how jamaicans look at things too

Let's not ignore the fact that Jassy has a beautiful crown(natural hair).

Jessy, l didn't have a child for 12 years after marriage. Infact l had my first child at 37. Before this, my husband and l had reached a point where we were resigned to living our life without a child. I can assure you that those 12 years were the best years of our marriage. Let those who are struggling with childlessness remember that this is the one thing that ONLY GOD will do. And he will do it at HIS time. And if HE chooses not to, be peaceful. God is at work Jessy. My heart goes out to you. And my friend, you are soooo young and beautiful.

Jassy, my elder sister waited for six years and God bless her with quadruplets. Jassy we are a miracle working God. You will get children in Jesus name. Hugs from Kenya 🇰🇪

The people who keep asking and giving unwanted advice irritate me the most.

Psalm 113 says that He (God) settles the barren woman in her home as a happy mother of children. It shall come to pass.

The lesson I have learnt is to have a man who truly loves you not just a rich man coz he will always be there for you no matter what. Did you hear her say her man asked her who is asking you for a child?❤️

21 years infertility and by the grace of God it is a blessing to accept it now and still be happy 😊

Just listening to such stories makes me repent to Our God. because initially I was soo disappointed at the fact that I was pregnant with my amazing son who is now 10 months because I was single and also i took contraceptive pills that time and so was sure i was safe, But GOD had placed in my womb an amazing baby who i cant stop thanking GOD for. May GOD Lift your head sister and bless your womb.

Thank you for this. I marry late in age and then struggling with fibroid, at the time I didn't know that was what causing the I fertility until 4 yrs into marriage I started having heavy periods that lasted longer than usual, went to the Gynae and she was more concerned about getting me pregnant that she overlooked the fact that the fibroids may have to be taken care of before trying. I changed gyane who said this problem need to fix before pregnancy can happen because it is huge, I have to do surgery, surgery date was set but covid threw it all off. I am now 40 yrs old and people who I know and even those whom I'm just meeting kept asking where is our child I got depressed over it until my husband said, we know what our issue is, they don't know and it doesn't have to be their business to know, if it is God's will for us to have a child, it will happen if it's not his will, we praise him none the less because he sees the future.

This is a very interesting to me. I’m a 27 American who doesn’t want kids, see women who want but can’t have them is heart wrenching. However Not being able to bare children shouldn’t be the end, you’re still a woman. Make the best of life, don’t dwell. If it’s meant to happen trust that it will. I don’t think children is connected to my womanhood, it is something I can take on if I want but it doesn’t define who I am.

Ohooo my God.....I don't know how I landed here but am grateful that at last I have found a person going through the same pain like me ...The best thing I treasure most is my hubby who doesn't put me on pressure to have a child but the problem is, the public is driving me crazy 😜 🤪 🎶 🙃to the extent that I had to move to USA where having no child is a normal thing not like in Uganda.

This episode's topic is synonymous to the common, 'when are you getting married?' especially if you are a lady at a certain age or if you have had a child.

I have randomly come across this & I guess it was for a reason. This is my Prayer 🙏🏾.May God bring you back next year on that same set this time around with a testimony of a Child or Children. AMEN 🙏🏾

It’s been 3.5 years for my husband I and we are still trying. But I’m believing that all things truly do work for our good because we love Yah (God). I did use contraceptions for 2 months and then stopped. Then a few months after that I was diagnosed with PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome or infertility in other words). It’s been hard but I am truly trusting and believing the Most High now. I feel when you say that you’ve gotten a job, then the husband and then the only thing you’re missing is your child. Then seeing people who have “oops” pregnancies and some who admit they aren’t ready for a child, meanwhile, you who are married and sitting in the seat of hot desire for one aren’t able to produce. We are daughters of Sarah and Hannah. Even though it is hard to see it happening now, Abba is faithful. Love you all very much and looking forward to hearing good news some day from you all.

Today's visitor nailed it.wauuuu God will make away for her where seems to be no way

This is a good and interesting conversation. As a young woman who lost her ability to carry a child, I believe we have to stop equating our womanwood with having children. We are more. Life will happen and when life chooses us we have to learn to accept that it is not our fault. It is ok and we will be okay.

I love the guest. May God hear your cry dia sister and continue to believe in God.

Jassy as a Christian, you know that God is the one that makes children. That should be your number one reasoning. God set every time of your life. He will do what He will in His own time. Celebrate this time with your husband. Be blessed

This is Beautiful Jassy, I still remember the day i sat with you in church and you gave me courage

Her words are so comforting....

I went to church with Jassy, she is such a lively lovely person you would never guess her struggles. I am thankful to God for her continued positive attitude. Children are a gift from God. We should stop asking people why they don't have them.

Story of my life. Thankfully God came through for me miraculously. 3 beautiful babies now and still counting ! The joy victory brings made me forget who said what. God is so faithful.

Women are so strong. May God bless you all, such an encouraging talk.

Jassy my sister, God has his ways. I too have fasted and prayed for the fruit of the womb but nothing has happened. It's 9 years now and the money I have spent could buy me a house. Am blessed my husband is with me in this.

It's so painful sister ,we are all waiting for that blessing. Am 10yrs now

Why is there always pressure on women to produce children or their womanhood is questioned. You are still a woman without a child.

My O.G Jassy with such a beautiful soul. God never fails us, please wait for his timing. All will be well

But I love her sense of humor through it all. God will surely bring that bundle up for you dear

Jassy you have a beautiful heart. Surely in God's timing, any time from now, u will have children. You have spoken to many💕💕💕

God is giving many kids in Jesus name and never loose hope in creator

This is beautiful content- a brilliant thought-provoking conversation, sisters. I appreciate Jassy's personal perspective and transparency. She said that God will implant a child in her womb for His name and glory!!! 🙏🏾, yes sis... Hannah Warrior... Gwan.. Rooting for you and your hubby. Your Caribbean sista from London UK

Seriously yo husband is very blessed to have a wife of yo character.... Our God is a faithful, he will bless u in his own time and is the best.... "trust God and leave the consequences to him"

I can relate 101%. May God answer your prayer just like how He answered mine after wating for 12 years.

I resonate to this so much... ten years down the line I am still waiting for my baby. People should just mind their own business!!!!!

The worst happened to me my husband married while still married to me - His wife gave him his child he desperately wanted & I remarried & live a happy life with my husband- No stress nobody asking me questions... l deal with my childlessness - My heart goes out for the women who have to go through this - who feels it knows it💗

I pray that God may finally bless you with the fruit of the womb. The society will always give you pressure as a woman. It's either you are being pressured to get married or to have a baby. It is only God who gives children. Sending love from🇰🇪🇰🇪

I’m absolutely blown away by your faith in God. He is definitely using you for His glory because you have such eloquence and peace about the wait for a child and God’s will and His timing and His planning your child not only for your pleasure, but for His glory and His plan for generations to come. I’m encouraged to keep waiting in peace, fulfillment and serving the Lord just as you are my sister. Let’s rejoice now for the gift God has already blessed us with, but just hasn’t been delivered yet...beautiful babies will surely come Jassy 😇

Everything people say and more. How are the children, what are you waiting for, some just whisper as you walk in and pretend to smile when you get to them, others hug you weirdly to feel your tummy. The wickedness of this world! Then to some people you aren't woman enough because you have no children. But God is the giver of life. Thanks for this episode.

Am glad we have such eloquent, strong women in Uganda. Cnt wait to read that book. Thx ladies

Men can be infertile too, it could be the man's fault that there's no pregnancy

Thank you for your story. I live in Australia and in my family I'm the only one that can't fall pregnant. I hate going to family functions now as I'm 31. My husband has two children from a previous marriage so for me they are my children.

I had a miscarriage with my husband a long time ago. It was the worst thing we’ve ever experienced. Here we are now 6 kids. I’m done! I love my babies!!! 5 girls 1 boy

Hugs Jesse!! God's timing is the best...I wish I could physically hug you and tell you it's okay 🌹🌹🌹🌹

The moment u hold ur child in ur arms nothing can beat that feeling

Woow.....this is beautiful. I love the guest and her energy. Most of I love her love for God. Yes, the right time will come.

Beautiful story Jassy!! May everyone who watches this, pick a leaf.

Am waiting when you will bring the topic of failing to get married

This topic always gets me emotional. Thanks Mrs for sharing your story. And I pray to God, to Graciously hear us. 🙏

Ladies, Ladies.... You have outdone yourselves. This is now my favourite episode of Bump Love. Thank you Thank you Thank you,🙏💖💖💖💖💖🙏

"Inn'Allahu Ma'swabiriina" .... God rewards the patient, so take friends Jassy K. n Mr. Ebwanyu. The babies will come insha'Allah

I was so down and I stumble across this. I am about 8 years without a child. My husband is some1 to be categorized under womenizer. Knowing that I wanted children, yet he went along and impregnated another woman. Two women actually. I have left him now. He wants me back. But I can't accept him back. May God be good to us all. Love my black sisters. Greetings from Papua New Guinea. 🇵🇬

I am in this same situation. Married 2015 and up till now 5 years later......nothing. Even with prayers and faith, check ups etc. Everything she speaks of, i am currently going through. Can't even stress that enough. It is so very frustrating especially as a Christian

God is always on time. never late or early, ur blessing will come Jassy.

After my struggles with infertility for 8 years, I never never ask anyone when will you have kids. It’s a sensitive topic and we should learn to mind our business. Some women and couples maybe doesn’t want children, some I fertile, whatever the reason is, it’s not our place to ask or bring the topic up unless that person brings it up.

Society needs to be better!!!! We shouldn't ask people such sensitive questions!

One thing I've taken from this is how people lose so much from barrenness and it's still not a well talked about topic. Thanks Jassy. Hope to read your book one day.

Thanks, Bump Love for giving us girls such a platform. Every time I watch am learning.

You guys are putting a lot of sense in this generation.. kudos

Can't wait to see the great things God will do through your children. I stand and believe for you!

Thank you for sharing Jassy, you are force to be reckoned with. Thank you for reminding us that we are enough as is.

Jassy, may the good Lord meet your heart’s desires. Thanks for sharing your experience and writing a book , so many people will find peace through your story and we have all been reminded to be sensitive. Bump Love - you rock !!!!!!

I have been married for 12 years without a child. We have tried everything artificially possible to conceive but nothing. We live in Europe and doctors say everything is normal with our reproductive health for both me and my husband. We are in the category of "unknown infertility" meaning there is no known reason why we cannot have a child. It is a very challenging journey when you pay attention to what people say about your situation. What i hate the most is the pity party, i don't like people feeling sorry for me for not having a child. Like Jessy said, it's OK not to have a child. Don't crucify me for not having a child, don't feel sorry for me either, I just want to be happy and live a normal life. I wish there was a forum/community of social media for childless women to be able to share their stories and challenges so we can comfortably and be there for each other. Thanks for sharing your story Jessy. You are a very beautiful woman.

Jassy I feel you deeply !!!!!!!!!! Our ever Loving God will answer your beloved Family. I went through the same journey and God has blessed us. Be strong and God will journey with you no matter what.

Thank you for the testimony of Jassy ! infertility and barrenness are issues that increase everywhere and hit women and men. I am living in Switzerland and hear stories of couple struggling to have a kid and this concerns as well young couples. There are so many reasons : toxicology ( air pollution, endocrine disruptors, incinerators, some medicines-contraceptive pill, ...); food containing more and more heavy metals and chemical fertilizers,and less and less nutriments, too much dairy products are not good either, lack of omega 3, vitamins; all those have a negativ impact on microbiota and vaginal flora... stress : are you in harmony with yourself and with wour daily life ? .... I support the couple in this special journey that is very emotional, painful and difficult and wish good luck to get a healthy baby! Thank you to raise public awareness on this subject.

Sensitive questions banange!Allah knows best bambi his timing.Indeed have peace!c/section thing too love you Manuela!

God's time is perfect.

Thanks for coming out! I have waited for 14years but I believe it’s better for pple to ask because it’s a reminder to God that some thing he promised in exodus 23:26 is not fulfilled! And secondly you fill the pressure in those first years but after some time it becomes normal, though prepare your mind Incase he gets another woman or children elsewhere bse no man is Christian enough to sacrifice for his wife. May God guide you through this journey

I am wishing jassy love and light.. when she has her baby, please interview her again, we would love to see her glowing :)

Father,God! May you open Jassy's womb.In Jesus name i pray.

Wow, this honestly relates with every area of our lives. Don't be focused on your problem that you forgot God's purpose for your life. It is good to marry and have children...but only at God's appointed time. Don't compare yourself with others. Fix your eyes on God and let him Guide you (and me). Just like Jassy said, Everything is for the Glory of God, not any man's glory.

This is one of the best interviews to really dive into infertility. Bless you Jassy

This blessed me! Suuuuch a great perspective Jassy! Bless your heart x

This is a beautiful story. Sometimes it's all about timing. God has a plan.

I have read the book, sooo enlightening. Jassy could not have put it better, I am complete with or without a child. God only wants the best for his children so I will live in peace knowing his time is perfect. Thank you for sharing your story.

We are praying for you Jassy. God will overflow your portion.

She's such a beautiful soul. God bless you love!

OMG thank you so much Jassy!!

She's a wonderful woman! 😍 God bless her ❤ Thank you guys for the insightful discussion. Much love from Germany!

Wow am touched with Jassiez story and I thank God for the courage and boldness he has put in her to share her story. I really believe this has touched and impacted millions of ladies out there irrespective of their nature. And again out of this very story I have realised that God really cares and we should not take him for Granted because its not just automatic that you can get pregnant or sleep and wake up alive the next day we should really be thankfull always no matter what. Once again I thank you for the program

Some wisdom there dear Jessy thanks for sharing, this affects all of us whether you are a parent or not, we need to take it with us and learn from it. Thank you for trusting God with your life, indeed it's for God to decide not you and I know He will do that which He promised for He's not man to lie. God bless you and your family❤️

Wow....very inspiring. You have really encouraged me to use my story to encourage others. God bless you.

I love this interview. It was so real and honest. It touched me on a personal level.

I love what Jessy said , in my understanding its ok to be tried by God , He knows

Wow am loving this.lets share this message

Kids are God are given let’s always keep waiting

Wawoow sweety thanx for sharing. As for me I have aligned this to many aspects of life. He is still God in all situations

Wow I love you. You have so much wisdom and God is watching how you are trusting him

Thank you Jassy for sharing your story. Naye Ugandans must stop being insensitive and must stop poking their noses in places they don't belong. We need to know our place when we relate with people, stop opening our mouths carelessly. You spoke so well Jassy, you oozed wisdom in what you said.

Omg all these women are so beautiful and the accent makes them extremely gorgeous 🤭

I also came across this channel randomly, and I can relate to your story though my case is for a husband.

Don't know how many times I have watched this your faith is beyond me God bless you allow me use your words and thinking.

This BUMP LOVE gives me goosebumps. I am really learning a lot for future use.