Most Ugandan millennials & Gen X were raised in fear because of the trauma of war, lack, scarcity. Which is so different with Gen Z and Gen Alpha who are a lot more confident and push the boundaries
Well done 👏 team,thanks so much for the efforts you put in making us better people. 👏 May the Almighty bless you all abundantly. To you Manuela,thanks for being intentional and for building the foundation of making us better people.
Great show ladies thank you for being so open and vulnerable so we can learn from you and grow. Please do an episode on how these toxic traits follow us into our professional lives and in some cases impede our growth.
Iam not yet a mother.but i feel i might be a toxic parent and i want to work on myself before that time.i se this because am in Turkey as a nanny now and am parenting kids that am looking after because i spend more time with them more than their parents.i know they love me but i find myself being toxi
Queens: this was good, it was needed, it was done with authenticity. Naye… please… please come back and go a little deeper into narcissistic parents and the resulting trauma and required healing… You may need to bring a psychologist to add to the conversation.
Naturally I ask questions. I think because our dad used to have free and loving conversations with us. But now people complain that I ask a lot yet in my mind, I be thinking we're having a conversation and am just trying to understand so that the conversation flows well.
me i even fear to fall in love with the ladies because i fear to get heart attack again when thy say they've parted ways; but i feel my heart getting inclined to a particular one.
Ladies ladies, always lovely to see you bring all the energy. Beverley's enthusiasm and depth on things just woke up the vibrant person I used to be, a person I had tucked away. Thank you all for sharing your lives with us. I want to travel to various places, just for the experience, I always loved Europe specifically Scandinavian countries. Fortunately for me, I was raised by a liberal dad, a strict dad on responsibility but nothing toxic; communication was something he emphasizes and it has worked throughout the year. I, however, saw my maternal relatives be so helicopter to this day to their 35+ year-olds; it is crazy. That opening doors was normal, searches through our bags, books, etc. My mother ( r.i.p ) was really like Barbara, she took us everywhere at any time even places we had no business being. It was cool some days but not all days, she smothered us and I had a small stint of parenting my parent at this stage. Emotional dysregulation as if the parent and child are peers. Train and let them go; they will get it right someday. There is a thin line between love and smothering. Why do I feel like no matter what we do, we shall still be toxic at some point. Ah!
today, am forced to comment😀 lets just entrust God with our children and do what we feel is right because i feel the toxicity has shaped us to be better people now somehow. a level of toxicity is needed to raise the child....bampelezeyo chai because toxicity is inevitable somehow😂😂😂
Talking about temperature in a home... Uhmmmm I remember there was a time when mummy was upper grading her studies and we stayed home alone but every time we heard Dad's car coming everyone would run to their beds like we were always avoiding him and no one wanted to talk to him. The fear was too high 😢😢😢. I agree with Babrah life is pain
Am not yet a mother but after watching this video and listening attentively I have realised that I have been a toxic auntie to my niece so I have to pull up my socks and do better.
Bev, you have lived the life. Those experiences at the beginning shared are so great. Barbara, same dream destination and Manuela, your dreams for your mum are so uplifting and inspiring.
