Interview With A REAL Filipina - ALL Your Questions Answered 

What a must watch video and the best I have seen ever on knowing your Pinay. Seven weeks in Manila and giving up here,and have a one way to CDO this Monday. Its on my short list for a long time and hope to find a place close, but with cooler weather. Great work!!!! Easy to see why channel is doing so well.

Chrissy is rapidly becoming the main attraction. That said, you work together very well. Great channel!

This information was gold, especially coming from a Filipina, and even more so coming from Chrissy. Chrissy is so sincere in her delivery, and by pausing before her answers, it is indicative of true and deep thought before answering instead of giving canned shallow responses. This is a must see video for anyone wishing to meet a Filipina. Your video was well thought out, well presented, and deeply informative. I personally liked the length of the video as it allowed for non rushed answers and an easy and relaxed delivery. Anyone who is serious about learning about a Filipina, appreciates this video. Quality takes however long it takes. You learn just as much from Chrissy’s body language and pauses as do you learn from her choice of words. I see sincerity, and as such, Chrissy is setting a high standard for other Filipinas. But if you meet someone with her characteristics, you will know you had found a gem.

It always makes me smile when the province Filipina talk about the virtues over say a modern city Filipina. I’ve dated literally plethora of Filipina, in my opinion the sweet spot is the middle class professions Filipina. Middle class…uni educated(all education standards are certainly not equal in the phil’s, say a quality Manila uni is preferred) single never married no kids. I personally did not date governmental workers ..only corporate Filipina say bankers. I will premise that the quality city girl will be have higher standards hence why it’s easier for the older guys to date the province girls.

This was one of the shortest 47 minutes videos ever. Chrissy is *clearly* a Bingo prize and not just for you but for everyone who could get to her first. Very nice replies and reasoning.

You know, Rob, I normally don’t care for videos beyond 30 minutes, however, this video seemed like it was 15 minutes long to me. Chrissy’s answers were so sincere and from the heart, which is very uncommon on RU-vid. As usual, I learned a lot. That’s what I come to RU-vid for. Keep up the good work and I thank you both for another five star video. Godspeed my friends.

"Put a ring on it"!!! 😂😂😂 That was a funny answer. This was a long vid for me, but a very good one.

Having just gotten back from 3 weeks in the Phillipines, this was gold.....47 minutes well spent on digesting all that Chrissy had to express. 1st time going to Phillipines is very overwhelming, in a wonderful way... so being back home with more clarity, this information is spot on! Thanks to the pair of you, and best to your journey of love & life 🤙🏽

Wow. Chrissy is such a well spoken, thoughtful, feminine and kind woman. I think your channel is about to bring a lot more Westerners to the Philippines Rob... Well done on finding her as a partner and on good luck with your channel.

I found this video to be very informative. It is so nice to hear the perspective of a thoughtful, intelligent , almost 31 year old filipina who can articulate her thoughts. Thanks guys.

Smart as a whip! Fresh views and clearer put. Stop putting Chrissy up there's gonna be a flood of guys heading that way!! 😂😉 Good video guys many thanks from yet another wanna be expat.

Ensure your potential pinay partner is not married by requesting a CENOMAR. A person may say they’re separated from spouse but you can still be arrested because of Adultery laws in Philippines. There is no divorce in Philippines only annulment which is very hard to get. Protect yourself guys.

Great video. Underlying reasoning is very helpful. Blessings to both of you.

Hey brother, happy Sunday from Florida to you and Chrissy. Within the next couple months, I do intend on planning a trip there. I might need a few pointers from you. Thank you for the content Rob ✌🏽

It's a simple recipe, shower, brush your teeth, dress nice, (not in old oversized t-shirts and cargo pants) keep yourself fit, clean, neat, haircut, well groom, shave well, fresh breath, apply deodorant, wear a mild cologne, don't flash, let them talk, take your time to get to know them as friends, don't rush, you will pick the right one, remember that how you carry yourself will also attract decent right women.

Trust is something that is earned. Boots on ground is best. Nothing like seeing their eyes with your eyes in the flesh. Actions speak louder than words. When the gut bell goes off, pay attention! Ironclad prenuptial agreements are imperative. Good video. As others have mentioned, it is long, but worth it.

Excellent commentary & content. Personally, I think this perspective from Chrissy is invaluable. Sincere thanks for sharing this. 🙏🏻

A great video on both of your parts. Lol. A special thanks for Rob not talking so much. This is one of the best tutorials for anyone thinking about a relationship with a Filipina. Thanks!

very very good vlog to both of you,,,great Qs and As,,,well done guise!

Rob , Chrissy thanks for all videos you do , so hopeful especially this one 👍

You did well, Rob! Chrissy looks like AI. In all seriousness there are a few beauties with pure hearts. So congrats! And, there are still a few of us that are honest, serious and moral. We’re not all looking for a party! Bible says don’t be unequally yoked.

Rob & Chrissy - love the channel. I like the chemistry you both have and the great topics you talk in detail about. Chrissy is a real catch too Rob - lucky man!

Really well done and great advice. One thing i would recommend is to make sure to use the security measures on Facebook. I was very naive and learned the hard way. Block access to your contacts/Facebook friends at a minimum. Thanks again Rob and to your lovely filipina Chrissy for so many critical insights towards having a positive relationship and starting off on the right foot.

Chrissy is an amazing woman. She's obviously very smart, well-spoken, and her English is very good. You're lucky. Great to hear a Filipina's take on all these subjects. You're alright yourself, brother!

Rob hope you really appreciate Chrissy - Best regards from Denmark 😁

You guys are good!! Thank you!! Keep it up!👌

Nice to see both sides off the story, think Rob is not so into addaption but at least he is honest about it, not like vloggers that say they look fore a simple life and then only show fancy hotels and expencive places, keep up the honest and good work👍

Rob, you may be the luckiest man in the Phils. Chrissy is a classy, beautiful, intelligent woman and it's refreshing to see an interview with someone who gives such thoughtful, sincere, and unrehearsed answers. The topics are so relevant and important to those of us coming soon to the Phils. Oh...and she plays golf too! And...btw, Rob..Chrissy is also a lucky woman. You two make a great couple. Great vid as always!

Greaqt video. Thank you very much. Love your channel!

Thank you both, especially Chrissy. Those were difficult questions.

Thanks for the great video….. I really appreciate the time you put into these videos

Wish i watched this video before I looked into dating a filipina.. Perfect & real advice 👌

Honesty is an expensive gift. Don't expect Honesty from Cheap people.

This is a great piece. Chrissy's answers are spot on and well expressed. Too bad the comments start off with a knock about length. There IS a pause button, Bookmarks, Playlists, Watch History, etc. Long form content has a place (besides you can slice it later). Great work from both of you.

I just found your channel and the information being shared is INCREDIBLE

Great video. I enjoyed this video. Even though I’m not shopping. Already married to a Filipina. You two take care.

Generally speaking, this is an excellently prepared and created video. Rob, your questions are deep for relationships, especially for the beginning stages of introduction possibly leading to the completion of preferred matrimony for the remaining years of life. Chrissy, your answers were contemplated and therefore considered sincere. So, this is perhaps the very best video available on YT as a guideline for Westerners (mostly) describing preferred and sincere attitudes of men aspiring to find a rewarding "couple" life with a Filipina. Now then, as I watched you, Chrissy, struggle to be as accurate with descriptive words and sentences reflecting both your own values as well as what other Filipinas might be thinking AND FEELING (two important and different concepts), I realized that your basic values are the same as what Western women (and girls) USED to have when I was a young man, but today there seem to be very few women left here in the USA that still have those values you expressed as I might find in most Filipinas. Of course, there will always be exceptions. I praise you, Chrissy, for your honorable values and your courage to stand by your core beliefs. You are an example of the kind of person I had always searched for here in the USA, alas, for some reason was never able to find. After a marriage lasting 10 years, my wife surprised me when told me that she did not love me, that she never did love me, and that she wanted a divorce. A divorce followed in about 2 years, despite my continued efforts to thwart her intent. Decades later, I am finally able to put all the pieces together to understand what happened (or didn't happen), I know what to avoid and how to protect myself from future disastrous mistakes again. Unfortunately, time is my enemy and I am now too old even for a willing Filipina. However, I might just be the ticket for a fortune hunter from any country since I won't live much longer with no one to leave my modest fortune to. As the French author Camus said, "Life is absurd."

This is one of the best I’ve ever seen on this topic! 🎉 The advice and information is priceless 😊🎉. I pray I will find such an amazing lady someday. 😊

Hi Rob & Chrissy, See, this is “EXACTLY”, what I’m talking about, 😉😎👍🏼!!! When Chrissy shared that, some Filipina women are tattooed. They’re announcing to the world, they’re “liberated.” It might not be that big of a deal in the west. But in the Philippines, it more likely than not, should be consider a huge red flag, as disrespect towards their parents. What I love about Chrissy’s common, is that it is an opinion shared by many, many, many 👍🏼Filipina bloggers 👍🏼.” Please let me say it again, Chrissy is a wise, an intelligent woman, who tells it like it is. This is why I, and every other American subscriber, should consider Chrissy, the 😉EF HUTTON😉, when she speaks about the Filipino culture, and what men should consider, before dating a Filipino. Rob, it’s not just about her, it’s also about you. You are a great, down to earth, and intelligent man, because you know how to perform a great interview, in the questions and comments you contribute when talking with Chrissy, in your blocks. Once again, you are the Johnny Carson, and Ed McMahon, of bloggers. Rob, you are an intelligent and resourceful man. Please find Johnny Carson, examples of RU-vid, and EF and commercials, so that Chrissy can truly appreciate, the compliment. I’m trying to give the both of you. as always, keep up the great work guys, and God bless, 😉👍🏼😎❤️…

I can tell that you are intelligent, thoughtful and your Englis is very good btw good luck on your channel here.....

Hello, Nice video. This video is one of the best I've seen of a Filipina responding to an interview. The questions and answers are very interesting. Thank you to do it.

Thank you for all the informations. I greatly appreciate it. The videos are done very professionally. I’m visiting CDO. Hopefully I bump into yall. You have a lot to do with why I’m coming there.

OMG - you struck GOLD with your Beautiful, Educated, Personable, Articulate wife. Taking a chance with her as a single mom was a bold move and your openness to her situation was your Win. Congratulations. I hope you have a long and happy life together. 😊🙏💕

Hi Rob & Chrissy, 😎😉👍🏼👋🏼, Wow, another one, knocked out of the park, and into the parking lot, 😎😉👍🏼👏🏼⚾️!!! Rob, you really ask great questions. Asking Chrissy what to do if a Filipina is in an LDR (long distance relationship), and she meets a potential great man in the Philippines, is a million dollar great question, 😉😎👍🏼!!! And OMG Chrissy, you’re so incredibly awesome, ☺️👍🏼👏🏼!!! You’re intelligent, very well spoken, and what I especially love about you, is that when Rob asks’s his million dollar questions, you don’t just say the first thing, that comes to your mind. You pause, process, & evaluate, before answering. You truly are, “ The E. F. HUTTON”, and queen of what we consider, a good, Godly, traditional Filipina woman. When you speak, we’re all listening, 🙏🏼😌❤️. And Rob, Rob, Rob, when you ask your million dollar questions, you allow Miss HUTTON, lol, to express herself, and finish her thoughts, “before” moving on, to the next question. You guys are truly, the “JOHNNY CARSON, and ED McMAHON, the ❤️Hari, and Reyna❤️, of vloggers, 😎😉🙏🏼👏🏼❤️.

Lots of really good advice on your videos, in an enjoyable and interesting format. Thanks for sharing, I’m sure your channel will continue to grow.

What a thorough and thoughtful review of what Western men should watch out for if they are serious about finding a life companion in the Philippines rather than just getting inside of her. Great questions and clear responses from Chrissy. Great info on the traits to look for and also how to discern what is real versus amped up, or outright lies. I have been married to a lovely Filipina for 8 1/2 years now. We met online on Filipino Cupid and I went to meet her a month later after a business trip to Malaysia. We became engaged within days of my arrival after having spent hours chatting every day for the previous month. I filed for the K-1 visa shortly thereafter and she moved to join me in California in early November.

another great vid Rob. my experience talking to Filipinas is pretty much in line with everything Chrissy said. i video call Filipinas in whatsap when im at the gym, grocery store, Chinese carry-out place, meeting my sons for dinner, everywhere. Filipinas are so jealous, they think you are cheating on them when they cant see what you are doing. its kind of ridiculous really. why is that? do Filipino men cheat on them all over the place. im not sure i can handle a woman monitoring my every activity all the time, even if she is 25 years old and gorgeous😂 i like my space. i have been single for the past 15 years🤷‍♂️

Manganda and smart . You Rob got a winner 🏆. I'm blessed as well. Enjoy all the best to you both. ❤

Chrissy mentioned in passing "Monthsaversary." Guys, this is a real thing in the Philippines. Early in the relationship, marking the day you two met monthly is important to many Filipinas.

One of the best video

Spotting a fake or a scammer to me is easy

Great vedio ❤and all content

Great informative video, guys. Rob, you have found someone very special. I don't know if you are married yet or have any plans, but if you take this step, you will want to bring Chrissy back to the US for a total of 3 years or more (doesn't have to be continuous) so she will be eligible for your Social Security survival benefits when you're gone. This would be about what you yourself are getting now plus cola adjustments. Check into the details and fine print at SSA.

You sound like me; same reasons, same problems with life in the U.S. Thanks for the rundown.

You’re truly blessed brother; your wife is very pretty and pleasant. The Philippines & SE Asia in general is one of the few places left for Western Men to meet & eventually marry an attractive conservative or traditional Lady.

This Chrissy is intelligent and a real gem :-)

00:16 🇵🇭 Western men seeking advice about bringing a 25-year-old Filipina to their home country should consider the speaker's personal advice later in the video. 01:39 📱 Filipinas, particularly those with local knowledge, can often detect fake profiles on dating sites due to their familiarity with typical Filipino appearances and behaviors. 02:34 💄 Filipinas commonly use filters in their online photos to appear more attractive, but Western men should be cautious as these filtered images may not reflect reality. 05:08 💬 While tattoos on Filipino women may indicate liberation, Western men should approach the topic with sensitivity and consider the context of the individual's background and values. 06:26 📚 Verifying a Filipina's educational background can be important for Western men seeking a highly educated partner, and requesting professional IDs or educational documents can be a helpful step in establishing trust. 07:46 🚩 Western men should be cautious if a Filipina sends risqué photos early in the conversation, as it could indicate a lack of sincerity or potential involvement with multiple individuals. 10:54 🥚 Western men should avoid putting all their focus on one Filipina when dating online, as exploring multiple options can lead to better decision-making and finding a more compatible match. 12:26 ⚠ Red flags for Western men when meeting Filipinas online include reluctance to video call, lack of time despite not having a job, and requests for financial assistance. 14:21 🕵‍♂ Investigating a Filipina's Facebook profile can provide valuable insights, and reluctance to share or discrepancies in information can be red flags. 17:05 📸 Western men can make their dating profiles more attractive to Filipinas by including recent photos, being honest about their preferences, and showcasing their real selves. 19:33 🛐 Understanding the importance of religion to Filipinas can help Western men in their interactions, as shared values can facilitate mutual understanding and respect. 21:18 💬 Making a good impression on Filipinas involves being thoughtful, respectful, and patient, avoiding pressuring for intimate photos too soon in the conversation. 22:10 💕 Engaging in emotionally and mentally connecting activities, like the 36 questions game, can help create a strong bond with a Filipina beyond just physical attraction. 23:37 👀 Physical appearance is considered a bonus rather than a primary factor by Filipinas, who prioritize personality, values, and moral standing in a partner. 24:10 💬 In the early stages of a relationship with a Filipina, avoid discussing intimate topics like sex, religion, and politics. 25:44 💑 Romantic gestures like writing letters during holidays or sending daily greetings can impress a Filipina and make her feel loved. 26:37 💝 Giving simple gifts in later stages of the relationship signifies trust and commitment to a Filipina, not necessarily materialism. 28:24 💍 Filipinas value faithfulness, support, understanding, and romance in a man. 29:15 🏠 Family is crucial for Filipinas, and they expect a man to be attentive, supportive, and accepting of their family. 30:08 💰 While some Filipinas may expect financial support from foreign partners, it depends on individual circumstances and pressures from the environment. 32:17 🤝 Building trust and confidence in a long-distance relationship requires clear communication, consistency, and mutual support. 33:54 ⌛ Filipinas may not necessarily two-time in a relationship, but it depends on the strength of the connection and individual circumstances. 36:11 📱 Common dating apps for meeting Filipinas include Filipino Cupid and Christian Filipina, but caution is advised due to scammers and fake profiles. 38:51 💬 Filipinas respond differently based on the approach of the Western man, with longer messages often leading to more engagement. 40:31 🚩 Excuses or sudden departures during conversations could be red flags indicating lack of interest from the Filipina. 41:11 ❤ Signs of genuine romantic interest from a Filipina include consistency in communication, sharing personal stories, and introducing the man to family members. 43:29 🌍 Dating a Western man has exposed the speaker to Western culture and lifestyle while still living in the Philippines, providing a blend of both worlds. 45:31 🛑 Exercise caution when considering relocating a Filipina to the man's home country, and build a strong relationship foundation before making such a move. 46:29 🏡 Testing the strength of the relationship by bringing the Filipina to the man's country temporarily can help assess her adaptability and commitment before permanent relocation.

I think you should wait to get to the philipenes before you start dating,there is just too many factors that go on while your in the states.

Thank you for doing this :) the one thing I can say to you is I just am not a fan of tattoos on women. I can handle them on the arms or legs but not on the main body at all in fact that's a deal-breaker for me.

Lost passwords have littered Facebook with abandoned profiles. A defunct Facebook profile is not, typically, a warning signal.

And NEVER give money to anyone. Especially in public. You become a target. It's the same as getting robbed. Beggar child asks for money. Then all of a sudden one or two beggars turns into 15 to 20 plus groping beggars. On the flip side, if You draw too much attention, You end up getting robbed. Either way, You're left with nothing. If any of You have ever been robbed, You know exactly what I AM talking about.

Hello, fantastic video, I would love to get to know a woman like you. You are a very lucky man, this video reveals an important amount of characteristics of personal value in her. I wish you a long life together, building the love of a couple.

Thank you for the video. Great job!

It gave me some veluble info. thanks You two. I have thought of this lifestile for the last 10 years, and You two made me thought of it in another way. So where do we come if we need your assistance in doing it right the first time around ?

This is an incredible woman.

I really, REALLY don't have a facebook, never had, never wanted it, it goes for all social media> I see the effect on individuals, families and society - it's enough reason!

No woman anywhere can fully love & be true to you if she doesn't love God first ! And that is the fact of life !

Good advice I want a girl like you,

I put my Facebook profile on and in 1 hours I got 80 replied from Filipino girls it took me along time to sort out the good from the bad and I was only left with 2 sort I was message them both before I took pick the 1 I like the most

Requesting a cenomar is all good. But most of us, more than we want to admit, had no idea what a cenomar is prior to connecting on line with a filipina. Once the truth comes out it way too late to correct any thing. U either have to accept her mairrage status an try to move forward on very limitted options or walk away empty handed. Either way the man loses. Not exactly what leaving the USA dating scene was supposed to be ???

That was nice, thank you.

Asking Filipina to show their diploma or transcript of records to prove that they are a university graduate will not all the time work. Because, you know what? We have what we call here in Philippines "Recto University". Where you can buy all sorts of things, like : transcript of records, diploma, university ID, driver's license, etc. Maybe some graduation pictures? If hey will not edit it. 😁

great vlog ty

Good answer 🌷❤️👍🙏🙏🙏

I think a good potential business idea for the Philippines would be to print t-shirts for foreigners with the text "I am not your ATM, but we can be friends or partners anyway"!! I think it would sell very well. I think it is time for the Philippines and the Filipinas to grow up a little bit and be less backward in terms of religion, relationships, equlity, individual freedoms and the fact that the world has moved on a bit as well. This doesnt mean that one cannot have and follow good values. People e.g. who are not believing in some "God" or the like have great values as well. One doesnt have to be religious to be a good person. Great video I must say!

Myself im not getting on a dating site i much rather be there in person having the ladies screened in cebu i feel that in person is better and feel much more comfortable doing so should be the same for them its a overwhelming circumstance for both i want to know everything about them as well they should know everything about you

Great video.

This video should show men that are looking for a serious woman its possible. Chrissy is nice,educated intelligent and shows theres definitely more than bar girls in those countries

I agree about the tattoos here in the US it says fun girl for good time not wife material...

This is dope! My Filipina is afraid to be This honest

Great questions Rob 😊

I understand there's no changing the attitude, but what brings on this dislike of those who don't believe in a god? I've seen so many videos where the foreigner could practice a complete opposite religion - but that's ok. Most 'atheists', agnostics, and humanists do believe in things, like reason, logic, and humanity - they just don't necessarily attribute it to a higher power. Even Buddhists don't believe in an all powerful god but so many interviews say that's absolutely fine. Is it just a lack of exposure? Is it because they think they're bad people?

My expirience is that support the family often makes them lazy, there is no real drive to get a better life but…… they have no stress😀

Great content Rob and Crissy !! I like the way you questioned Crissy with the things I want to know before coming there. I know I’ll probably still make mistakes but hopefully I won’t make as many mistakes because I’m learning from your videos. I like Chrissy’s candid answers and your questions were also questions I’ve wondered about. Thanks again to both of you for your informative content. Rob…I do have questions about banking there. How easy or difficult is it to get funds from the bank quickly? In the states I use a debit card and getting cash is easy but I’ve heard that in the Philippines cash is king and bank cards aren’t popular there. I don’t want to carry cash so I’m curious what is your opinion on this topic? I’ve heard that it takes about 30 days for a check to be deposited in bank accounts. Is that right ? Have you made a video on this topic already or do you want to discuss this topic ? Thanks again for the information both of you do to inform those of us coming there.

Great interview Rob and Crissy, my favorite one yet with such important topics. We all have 3 parts to us: mind,body,and spirit and its important to support and encourage growth in each one in our partner to help the part not become too fat and lazy. Western women have gone too far chasing feminism and being caught up in the culture here that'theyve lost much of their femininity. Short hair,tatoos,cussing like a sailor are not exactly qualities I seek in a woman. So I think Chrissy is correct in saying be careful exposing a filapina to this. As for tattoos on women, why put a bumper sticker on a Lexus? I don't get it. Thank you both again for this one!

Shes a interesting lady, when i look at Filipina profiles i dont click on those with sexy or revealing pictures as i want a woman who is conservative not showing bits of her self i like a respectful woman 😊 im old fashioned in my look on life and im only a very young 55.

I think Chrissy and I are gonna start dating

In the past, if a female says no twice. I move on. Even if she shows alittle attraction towards me. I AM too busy foolish challenges. I AM now grateful for the last 12 years and the present-future, married.

Rob, when it came to money I think you mentioned giving money for small items like load. How quickly and how much did you send. It was at 2 weeks that Chrissy shared verification ID correct? I know all the Vloggers do the Red Flag vids, but this one was really insightful. Thanks to you both. Peace and Love, B Goat

Great video Crissy

If you are an atheist forget about the Philippines 🇵🇭 😮. One of the absolute best things I love about the Philippines is widespread Christianity. I’m not saying it guarantees anything but a woman who is into her faith is more likely to be a good wife and mother.

Rob any chance you can do a video about golf courses in the Phillipeans and where would be a good place to come and spend some time while being able to play golf.

I am retired and thinking of visiting the Philippines...I have never been on a dating site, so is it easier to just come there and meet someone?

Good video!!! How do Filipina women feel about western men with tattoos?

Happy Easter guys

Cool. You play golf. Yes teach her so you guys can play together. Do something together.

Tell me, I'm Wiccan which is when Roman Catholic's take pagan religion and changed the names of the events. In America Wiccans seems to be when disillusioned Catholics and atheist get together and work it out. A Wiccan would be very interested in talking to an indigenous "witch doctor" because they have traditional understanding. And I have no understanding of how that will play out in the Phillippses. Can you tell me?

gppd advose...that is my advice as well since the military and being there....trust but verify no verify is a non starter and no go.....

@FlyMeToThePhilippines Chrissy when should a man ask her to marry him? Is there a time thats too early? Too late?

I live in Bohol. I know a few beautiful Flipinas here. We are Pentecostal. Which means women never cut their hair, never wear pants only dresses or makeup or jewelry .Think the kindness of Flipina's x 10. If you are thinking of moving here to retire, can come to church every Sunday. You don't drink at all smoke etc. and would like to really meet the women of your dreams ask me and maybe I can introduce you.