INTJ Girlfriend: Never Wrong About Anything 

who will be next??

INTJ female squad where u at?!!!?

INTJ SO: I don't want to control you but if you would have just done what I said, we wouldn't be in this mess.

What INTJ females actually need in a partner: - Someone to listen to their great yet complex ideas and theories - Someone who respects their boundaries and opinions - Someone who hates arguing bc when you argue with an INTJ you're either stupid, wrong or simply both - Someone who likes silence and doesn't make situations awkward - Someone who's open minded and ready to deal with our "just do what I say" nature - Someone who fits with our high standards and expectations. *Basically nobody* Thank you for your time. Have a nice day .-.

Actually, it's more like, "I know I'm right about this. I can't tell you *right now* why I'm right; but if you give me 24 hours, I promise to have a 12 page research paper with 25 scholarly sources proving to you that I'm right about this."

As an INTJ female, sometimes I wonder how can I be in a relationship It seems so... exhausting and complex? But, at the same times, I kinda want to be in one...

Read some comments about INTJs having trust issues. That's unfair to our Ni factors. INTJs are the kind of people who trust you after alot of consideration, because whoever enters our life, must be worth the time, effort and space. But if you break our trust once, we will distance ourselves completely. It's like, inputting a linear equation in a calculator, and it gives you the wrong answer. You won't ever trust the calculator again. you will double check all answers yourself, with a separate calculator. INTJs are loyal, but pragmatic. And therefore find it hard to forgive or forget. Sincerely, an INTJ female.

"well you're right" INTJ: "i know."

I've noticed that INTJ's are unusually reserved. They seem to take quite a long period of time before warming up to people.

The "INTJs is the most attractive when they are not trying to be attractive" makes me realize why my bf told me he liked my "dark, lack of sleep, always depressed" undereyes

I love how most of the comments in this video's comment section are well-written and grammatically correct, thereby indicating language proficiency. I am an INTJ female by the way.

INTJ here, you nailed it! My fiance bought me the perfect t-shirt. It says: "I would agree with you but then we'd both be wrong." 🤣

INTJ and married for 12 yrs. My husband says the quality he likes best about my personality is my bluntness. He never has to play the guessing game with me. If he wants to know something I will answer him directly, and if I want something I just tell him. There's none of that "if you truly loved me, you would intuitively know what I want ... blah blah blah" nonsense.

Nothing needs to be next. No one can upstage the INTJ girlfriend.

I’m an INTJ. I can’t stress enough that if I don’t care. I don’t care. 😂

"I will solve you" - yes. "Optimising the relationship" - yes.

INTJ Female here, well I just wanna say, deformed potato is what i really thought, but what came out of my mouth will probably be "yeah the baby looks fine"

For INFJs. Pros of INTJs: -Independent. -Capable. -Reasonable. -Intuitive/don't follow a hive mentality (INFJs share this trait) -Confident. -Calm even when enraged. -Will use all their brainpower to make you as successful/happy as possible (optimizing). -People of actions, not words (this is something an INFJ can appreciate). -Will be glad to sit around and discuss conspiracy theories with you. -Relationship get more intimate with age (they will be comfortable with "I love you" and other forms of traditional affection) -Romance with an INTJ is very deep and cerebral versus vapid/physical. -Mature INTJs are incredible partners and companions, usually well rounded with a lot of skill and ambition. Cons: -Pessimistic. -Do the INFJ "door slam," but in a casual manner, because it's just considered optimizing. -Arrogant. -Need a lot of personal space. -Critical. If they think you are going to fail at something, they won't sugar coat/lie about it, and that can be difficult for F types that need a lot of reassurance. -Often have compulsive tendencies. -Apathy can be socially taboo. e.g. ESFP: "I brought home four puppies!! Isn't that amazing??" INTJ: "No. They will drain your resources and trash your house." ESFP: "Omg. I got engaged" INTJ: "...Do you want to be engaged?" -Terrible improvisers, unless it's an emergency situation. -Immature INTJs are really turbulent/unstable and not good in relationships. Source: INTJ female

If you wrote that in an INTJ valentine's Day card they would absolutely love it. Intj women prefer to be complimented on their abilities rather than their looks

"INTJ girlfriend" 🤔 sounds like an abstract concept. Being an INTJ is the reason why we are single in real life.😒 Edit: Didn't expect 500+ likes tbh. These comments are making me lmao.😂

My boyfriend tells me my personality makes the perfect girlfriend, but he wishes I would stop thinking I was right all the time. What he doesn't know is, I actually am right all the time. #INTJ

I'm a INTJ-t female and I absolutely agreed, when you said that I want to "solve" a man, when I'm in love. But NOT, because I consider him a problem but because I want to thoroughly understand him. It's about being interested in the other. I must agree though, I have been misunderstood my entire life: if I'm interested, people feel scanned and intimidated, if I'm not interested but feel neutral, people think I'm arrogant. But I'm just not used to fake being interested to be nice. I would consider this lying

As a solid INTJ female, I can add that we are as just as sure about something being right as we are about something being wrong. This video is very right.

"I told you so," is my battle anthem.

"Tendency to belive they're always right" We don't BELIVE we're always right, we KNOW we're always right people just can't deal with it

INTJ in a nutshell- "Intellectual tsundere"

It's not easy being an INTJ... not because of who we are, but because society wants us to conform to the general opinion and norms of the majority. People just don't get us, especially the way we think or the kind of lifestyle we choose. But the good thing is, we don't care if people like us or not and to those who do, they stick around because we are the most loyal friend and companion (we don't engage in gossip either because we find it too vapid). Anyway, thanks for this great video. You somehow described my life.

INTJ married to INTJ = perfection. Never having to worry about someone getting offended about telling them how things really are, because hubby will understand and sympathise with always being disliked for being honest.

I'm an INTJ female and I started dating my husband because, on paper, we were a perfect match. The emotion came later. Luckily, he's INTP, so this worked well for him. He pursued me. I ran. We got to know each other. I decided to love him. We now have a very passionate relationship and have been together happily for fourteen years. So yeah, we can be cold and calculating and strategic, but we have emotions too. Mine mostly show up while watching movies, reading a book or in intimate, non-public moments. By show up, I mean, get expressed. They're always present. My mom and best friend are INFJs, and sometimes their expression of emotion can be exhausting, but that's okay too. :)

I'm an INTJ, and I dated an INFJ woman for a while. Didn't work out in the end. Met an INTJ woman, and it was like I was FINALLY being understood. She is amazing. It's like looking into a mirror.

"I will solve you" is our best compliment for any human being. It means you're actually fascinating enough to be understood completely and uniquely as a real person with acknowledged agency rather than be assigned a number in our predictive model of the universe. We don't spend this processing time for just anybody.

I am an INTJ and a girl. I can mostly relate to those tendencies except for the fact that I'm not a "girlfriend". Never to anyone since birth. It's hard for us to fall in love or date. We get attracted to people with an intellect equal to or more than ours but we'd never make the first move unless we're sure we can actually imagine ourselves spending the rest of our lives with that person. When someone confesses, it takes just a short time for us to deduce if there's a chance to date the guy or if further interaction with him will only be annoying. We're usually correct and it's hard to explain why because before we make decisions, we've thought out most (if not all) of the options and weighed out their pros and cons. We're still open-minded though... only if you make sense. We'll only tolerate your nonsense if you're a cat. Also, we are often capable and independent so we don't feel the "need" for a partner but the idea of romance also fascinates us. Most of us are single because our standards are high and yes, we are intimidating. Good luck finding an INTJ girlfriend who'd budge. Hahaha.

I am an INTP, and I have a friend that is an INTJ female and honestly she is absolutely fascinating. Trying to understand her mind is alot of fun, definitely not a boring type of personality. Lol Best conversations ever.

As INTJ, the sentence "I will solve you" is the most romantic I have ever heard to be told to a partner tbh

They can sound bossy. But intjs just.... Have their own way of talking. For example, im counting on you= i love you I value your opinion=they rarely value anyones opinion I like....= no matter how much of a back handed compliment it sounds roll with it. Intjs will ALWAYS find a way it could have been better Another thing i noticed is that intjs are freaking adorable with their terrible Se lmao. They come off as super smart, super structured, and only to make these silly little mistakes. My intj friends will lose stuff right in front of their faces, is always hurting themselves from accidents, and will get so caught up on certain details that their environment seems to fade away Another final side note ive observed is that intjs talk to themselves. A lot. And they can actually get VERY silly while confortable. Im lucky to have known them. Seriously those guys are freaking geniuses

As an INTJ, I'm surprised no one has mentioned one of the greatest tech gifts ever bestowed upon us, the screenshot as we definitely keep the receipts/evidence for future debate, though we don't really engage in debate so much as we inform.

As an INTJ woman I finally cracked the code by dating an INTP man. Our communication is brutally honest and straight to the point. We both enjoy dark humor and lots of alone time. I get to plan out everything way ahead of time and he happily goes along with it. It's perfect.

There’s a INTJ at my job and I’m oddly attracted to her. It’s weird. Because she literally doesn’t say anything at all.

I'm an INFJ... been with an INTJ for 12 years. Best life choice.

Intj Mom explains to me that she told her friend, when comforting her on the recent loss of her husband: "It's better that he's dead. He doesn't have to experience this terror world.". Intj Son to intj Mom: Please don't ever become a funeral director. Your coffinside manner is severe. Truthful, but severe.

"falls in love with a fantasy": every INFJ I've ever met. 😄 As an INTJ female, I'd take a hard pass on the intj gf meme personally. I think for those of us who were raised by Fs or just found some level of growth or maturity, we are completely capable of developing a filter to situations like... telling someone their baby looks like a potato. Of course that's stupid. Also we know we're right and we've done the homework to prove it, not whatever that meme said. The interesting thing I've found in my own life is that a lot of men can form very quick attachments to me because I don't have a problem sharing information with them (but the feelers mistake that for an emotional sharing sometimes I think and can feel let down later on). Emotions are harder but they're not completely absent. We just process them internally **unless we're in a stress grip** then we basically function like ESFPs. 😬 An INTJ in a stress grip is one of the most self-destructive things ever.

My boyfriend: "let's compromise..." Me (INTJ): "No, because I am right and you are wrong, nothing to compromise here"

I am an INTJ female. My INFP husband constantly tells me that he is in love with me and I am an angel. He compares me to Hinata, Naruto’s wife. So I don’t think having a romantic relationship with an INTJ female is necessarily an intimidating factor. The way I act with my husband, is not the way I act with anyone else in my life. For me, my man and my relationship with him is something I protect. I analyze everything, find out what he loves and how he reacts, then adjust accordingly to make his dreams a reality. It’s a very loving, passionate and peaceful relationship. In my world of work and duty, my husband is my own happiness.

Listen here, I'm never trying to attract anyone. I want you to go away.

interviewer: what would you say your strengths and weaknesses are? me: you mean... wacknesses. *smirks into imaginary camera*

I am an INTJ and my boyfriend fell for me when i was looking disgusted at my new classmates. The part with being attractive when not trying to be attractive was correct at my case.

I saw a shirt at the store that said " Sorry for being late I just didn't want to come". This relates so much to me.

I can't relate to this "I'm always right" stuff as all the others here do at all. I'm very open to new ideas, points of views, criticism, etc. to improve my knowledge (from intj)

INTJ male here and i never really had a real relationship until I met this INFJ girl who made me feel welcome, she listened, she empathized, she held my hands for the first time and I never really held anyone's hand before and I felt safe and understood. Damnit is this what falling in love feels like? I don't want all these feelings cuz I know it will hurt me.

I am an INTJ, and a female. I'm so flattered by this video, you have no idea.

I’m an INTJ with ENFP partner. He can do whatever he wants except “upsetting me”. I found him as a homeless guy with no car and now he’s working in construction regularly with his own car. I totally fixed him.

I'm an INTJ female married to my partner of 16 years, who is an ENFP male. We've had our moments, for sure, and he drives me nuts sometimes, but our personalities really complement each other well. He was a full-time single father when we met, and I respected him for that. He told me he was actually quite intimidated by me, at first, but very drawn to me. He thinks I'm the best thing ever. He can understand my emotions when I'm having a hard time expressing them. We talk a lot about the future together. I chose to marry him because he loves me for who I am, he has integrity, and he values commitment. We're an unusual pairing, the two of us, but it works.

Lolz. My husband is an INTJ, been together 10 years. This video was spot on. He's my arch nemesis... I'd be bored otherwise. Best partner hands down!

"I know that I'm right, I just can't tell you why I'm right..." This INTJ girl can tell you EXACTLY why I am right, presented in bullet form, lol

My boyfriend is an INFJ and I'm an INTJ. I've told him multiple times that he truly is my unicorn. Aside from INFJs being the rarest of the MBTI types he's the only person I'vr ever met who instinctually just gets me and knows how to care for me. We are insanely in tune with each other and often answer the question before the other even asks it even though they were just thinking it. This is quite possibly the match made in heaven of all matches🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

INTJ here. As a girlfriend , we do take our time to get to know the person but once we like you, we slowly open up. I can be silly and affectionate , and bluntly honest. Very black and white. I guess Some guys can’t handle it without feeling too sensitive ? I dont Know. You know what’s a mystery? Guys are!

One of my close friends was an INTJ female. I told her she was a good friend to me. She replied "We aren't friends but I can see why you would think so." This was after several years of knowing them. I finally had to stop being friends as I would often end up crying after spending time with them.

As an INTJ woman. Relationships are an exhausting burden that restrict freedom and cause you to take time out of your day to worry about another person, which is completely ridiculous and a waste of my time.

My brother is an INTJ and his wife is INFJ and they are really happy. On paper it might not sound that cool, but when you're with an INTJ it feels like you're with a more practical and better organized version of yourself, whose jokes you get, and who gets your jokes. It's a good vibe.

I'm INTJ having long distance relationship with ENFP. Every phonecall be like Him: (does the 90% of talking) Me: (answer with short response) But I love him. It's just how I am.

INTJ: disappears in 3 months Me (intj): but i dont come back? lol

I’m an INTJ female. And these are about 89% correct lolzzz

Haha this is brilliant Frank! I'm an INTJ who has an incredibly deep, loving, affectionate and successful relationship with my INFJ boyfriend. It works so well! A lot of our communication is non verbal and for our types, that is important and makes us feel comfortable around each other when we are silent and focused on other things.

Fascinating. So this is why people tell me I’m intimidating. I love that. Totally good with being intimidating.

Pretty accurate (I'm an INTJ). Although, I am willing to whip out a PowerPoint anywhere, anytime, if I think I am right. :)

My sister is INTJ and she forgets to reply to my text sometimes for weeks at a time.

"I will solve you... because you're just a problem" Let's just leave it at that. That's hilarious

I’m an INFJ and my SO of almost 10 years is an INTJ. it’s a great relationship and we’re still each other’s favorite person after all these years. Dunno how it’ll work if the genders switch though as us INFJs can be “emotionally needy” from time to time and they are so still emotionally *snuggles grumpily on demand*. That line “I’m sorry you got hurt because you’re wrong” is so true! And no, they won’t disappear unless they don’t really like you :D

INTJ's benefit from INFJ's slightly better social acumen. INFJ's benefit from INTJ's intelligence and organization skills. I had a best friend at work who was an INTJ (gay man). He rubbed some people the wrong way because INTJ's can come across as arrogant (and they don't understand why others don't do every stupid thing the exact same way they do) and I think it held him back a little bit in that context. When he was looking for a job he didn't want to put a summary at the top because he felt like it was the interviewer's job to read his resume and figure it out. I explained to him that most people only scan a resume initially, so a strong summary statement was a concession he needed to make to human nature if he wanted anyone to actually not throw his resume in the trash. He did ultimately take my advice. He has a really good job now. So, INFJ-INTJ is very symbiotic, and if you can find an INTJ whose T is not quite so high as my friend's you'll probably get along really well.

Everything is so true except the hug part, for me, I love hugs, that's just shows how much I care for my close friends without needing to talk

I sent my ENTP boyfriend when he tried to first ask me out, a spreadsheet of things I wasn't going to tolerate from previous relationships. INTJ women are the same as men when it comes to being upfront with communication, which because of most social expectations of women in relationships is to be the coy one, doesn't mesh with us. We're blunt, straightforward, and do not tolerate or understand the unnecessary script of romantic banter. It just seems a waste of time to us (it just is, ok). Boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years, so as blunt and weird as my 'spreadsheet' was, maybe it worked. He still often says I'm eccentric, can be cold in my approach, but appreciates it when it comes to hard truths since I don't mince words. Another factor might be because he's the type that will spend hours mentally sparring or shooting ideas back and forth with me, we both have a drive and appreciation for accomplishment in some manner and that is what helps.

So where’s our “anxiety is the root of desire” FJ merch?? 😂 I have a good friend who’s an INTJ that mistyped as an INFJ for a long time. She’s awesome. If she’s any indication of what the average INTJ is like, they’re good people to know, and actually more caring than I think people typically give them credit for.

My mind can definitely be changed by facts. Also I don’t have anxiety except around social interaction and expectations both of which I avoid and therefore rarely have. I like to be right, but if I am wrong and you are right I immediately adopt the “right” point of view so as to be as right as possible at all times. It gives me no pleasure to pretend I’m right if I’m not

Hello I'm INFJ female. I'm in love with my INTJ boyfriend for 7 years. He is the best man i have. Very understanding and caring. Such a lovely person. I want to be with him forever.

I am an INTJ female and I LOVED this! I laughed the entire presentation. I have my eye on an INFJ male so here's hoping we make that connection! I've already made a list of the Top 10 reasons he needs me in his life. 😶

The "I'm soooo INTJ" is a sarcastic meme, mimicking the "I'm so not the other girls" meme. Memeology is clearly a science.

I am and INFJ and I have been with an INTJ for almost 15 years. He does think he’s always right and he is very intimidating for other people but inside there is definitely a soft center. Small but it’s there. Lol They come across as harsh but if you can get one that has matured and developed as a person you will find a lot of similarities. I do find that he is good at things that I’m not good at. This is incredibly handy on the day to day. I know that he enjoys the softness that I bring into his world. It’s actually a pretty good match.

Well, shit. I'm an INFJ guy and my crush is an INTJ. This is so accurate at how she is. *Disappears for 3 months*, in the feels. *Didn't respond because she didn't want to*, mine didn't respond for 2 weeks and one day. Eventually told me that she doesn't have time for dates. She is literally the perfect girl that I have in my head, like you spoke about in "INFJ: 10 reasons you're still single", we seek that perfect person, I found her, but I'll never be perfect in her eyes and it breaks my heart... I forced myself to get over her during this quarantine, I did and this video made me think about her again, back to square one. Loving your content though, keep it up.

Gave a thought to what may seem so intimidating about me - an INTJ female. I seem sweet but when confronted with a problem of someone else, I try to solve it and that's not the reaction people expect or want. But I am not going to just sigh and say it all sucks - why bother sharing a problem with someone if you do not want to be confronted with (although often uncomfortable) solution that often requires some kind of personal growth / change on your side? Yep, I think I can startle people and make them think I was this snake the entire time, seeming smiley (yes, I smile, I do not have the infamous INTJ death stare) and then BOOM brutally honest. Sorry for my mediocre English. P.S. Enjoyed the video!

HAHA I’m an INTJ and I made a blueprint of the trajectory of my life when I was like 7

I'm INFJ male with a INTJ girlfriend. Definitely a unicorn but had nothing but positive results,even when she's up in her head or reading/researching,it gives my INFJ self the space I need. Seems to work out ok for the last 2.5 years. My ex was an ENTJ. Got more and more unbearable over the years until I slammed the door on her in all ways of my life.

Frank James, thank you for making your videos! As silly as it may sound, I have actually been able to realize that a lot of the things I've felt insecure, not normal, or have been told to change are actually just a part of my personality and there is nothing wrong with me. Thanks to you and the comments, I know now that I'm not alone in the ways I think about and desires/standards I have in life. It's good to know that there are people who can see past the intimidation factor and can appreciate us for who we are. Thank you INFJ and thank you comment section for allowing me to relate and accept/love myself for who I am! 😄🥰

"INTJ in love. I will solve you." LMAO!!! "INTJ female. It's like finding a unicorn. A really intimidating one." Also, LMAO!!! These people are too funny and correct. XD "Don't ask her what she thinks if you don't want to hear it." THANK YOU! Not even kidding, it took me until COLLEGE to realize when someone asks you, "How are you?" they don't actually want to know! I feel like that is so rude! "Fine, I'll apologize. I'm sorry your feelings got hurt because you were wrong." Yeah....I'm dealing with this at work. One co-worker in particular dislikes me because she thinks I'm a know-it-all bitch. I soooooo want to tell her, "Then stop being wrong." I'm just going to stay single forever. It's easier that way. Maybe that's why there are so few of us in the world. We never pass on our genes. XD

I have a coffee mug that my friend bought for me that says, "if everyone agreed with me, they'd all be right. " 😂 #truth

INTJ female here. My relationship with my boyfriend who is INFJ works out Extremely well for both of us. Ni and Ne functions keep us on same page for a ton of things. We also enjoy 10 hr conversations and 10 hr silence. I learned how to apologize and he learned how to stop explaining himself. BTW our orientation are both bi/non binary so INTJ sis in comments go find ya self INFJ partners!

My deepest wish as an INTJ is that people follows my advice because I'm always right. And when they don't follow it, and everything goes wrong, telling "told you so" is exhausting. Also, I see a lot of INTJ-INFJ couples over there. Do you recomend it? I've just been with a ENFP (known as perfect match)

I am an INTJ and my boyfriend of 3 years is a ENFP and it’s a good mix.. 10/10 recommend

100% true about improving everything and optimizing relationships...never stops

I'm an INTJ and this made me laugh so hard it made my side ache. 😂

My husband is an intj. This info is the very typical stereotype for intjs (it’s similar to what I find online too) but they have so much more to them! Idk if it’s the way he was raised... but he’s only those things mentioned when he’s really upset lol. Then he can be “cold” and “sarcastic” etc... he’s otherwise very sweet and intelligent and hard working and funny! I can write so much more but I’ll leave it at that. I know this video was meant for laughs and it really was great! Keep it up FJ 😆

"fall in love with the fantasy, not the real thing" well that describes my love life...

I’m an INFJ dude that dated an INTJ for awhile. It’s really hard in a good and bad way. For one, the conversations are never uninteresting, each level of depth is engaging-whether you’re talking about philosophy or food. Two, your time together can feel very relaxing and intimate after a few dates and getting to know each other, they take you on adventures and make you try things you probably wouldn’t have without them. Three, they’re great at board games, at least my girlfriend was, so spending time letting them win, or actually trying to get better is a lot of fun. Not to mention, they don’t judge to much when you do the signature “INFJ stare” it doesn’t really faze them like other people. However, there’s also bad. Sometimes they feel distant, like they don’t really wanna engage you on an emotional level, almost like they’re ignoring you. I remember specific times when I was alone with my thoughts and really needed someone there for me and she couldn’t be. Arguments don’t end well, either they go on too long, or they make it apparent you’ve done something wrong. I remember a few arguments that we got through because we actually wanted too, but every now and then, you’d mess up, or they would, and they’d ignore your attempts to rebuild the bridge and just shut off for a long time. Although these bad things can seem to sometimes outweigh the good, you won’t regret dating an INTJ-or at least I didn’t. My Fe helped them grow to be more empathetic, and they’re Ti helped me develop new ways of analyzing things, even if I retreat to my own mind in the end. So yeah, INTJ’s are fun.

As an INTJ female, you have amused me with your sarcastic, yet remarkably accurate, analysis of our theoretical match potential.

as an INTJ Female before getting into a relationship: over analyzes all the possible outcomes, concludes that I can handle any situational or permanent consequences both negative and positive that might result from the relationship, literally conducts a proper SWOT analysis, questions like "what are we trying to achieve by engaging in this relationship?" or "what if he's a one flat note full of small talk" pop up, in conclusion relationships are just really tasking. such an accurate take in the video, love from Dubai x

My girlfriend is an INTJ and I’m a INFJ and we function really well together

“I will solve you” does not imply you are a problem which need to be solved, but a question that need to be answered.

I've trained myself to prepend my responses with something to the effect of "It's not my taste, but..." when I don't like something. Inside, I'm saying, "Uh, no".

[INTJ] I'm glad you were intimidated to do this, that's what we're going for lol (jk, but not really) In my experience, INFJ guys are the ones I've gotten along with the best tbh. 3 of my co-workers are INFJs and they're probably the only ones whose company I enjoy. Admittedly I've never been romantically involved with an INFJ before, so I suppose your opinion is universal xD Also just thought I'd give my two cents here: 1. Optimizing the relationship is definitely a biggie. If there are inefficiencies in the relationship, they need to be dealt with. I don't have time in my busy schedule of reading, gaming and planning every day of my life indefinitely to be worrying about all the ways the relationship is lacking 2. I don't think I'm intimidating ngl, but perhaps the RBF makes it seem that way? Why exactly do people find us intimidating lol 3. Sorry that we ignore people for 9 days. We're busy planning what we're gonna have for dinner in 3 years gosh 4. For the most part these were pretty accurate, but my mom is an INFJ and she was pretty adamant about teaching me to filter comments like 'your baby is ugly' lol. I don't share my emotions publicly but I do deal with them in my own, comfortable space. Complete lack of emotional release is an immature way of dealing with problems, and INTJs who blatantly refuse to do anything but internalise those emotions are sure to hit a pitfall. P.S. That Wednesday Adams meme is now my life

Ugh. INTJ, woman, and Virgo. One of my BFs (yes I have more than one) told me I don't need a man. I'm analyzing all the reasons why this might be true.

"I'm looking at INTJ. I'm a little intimidated" 🤣