My husband invested in me ,I had 5 little children ,He paid a lot for full time Nanny / maid who would take care of every thing in the house and I joined a Madarassa and learned how to read Quran and memorization full time. I would only spend time with my family and children and no house work. RESULT = today I am an older lady with very well respected and knowledgeable children and I teach tajweed and tafseer to other women in the community .thanks to my husband to make my youth productive
@@epicvlogs2181no dear you misunderstood ghar kay kaam hum nay bohat un neccasssry increase kar leay hain too many extra things / work which are not priority .raising a good generation should be on top list Then comes cooking and other house works you should do other small works in house 💯but again don’t make your daughter in law or wife a nokarni , give her free time to become a good mother who can spend time with children become their friend and guide them in life
Hazmat Muhammad ❤ (PBUH) told the Muslims: "Fear Allah in respect of women." And: "The best of you are they who behave best to their wives." And: "A Muslim must not hate his wife, and if he be displeased with one bad quality in her, let him be pleased with one that is good." And:"The more civil and kind a Muslim is to his wife ❤
Sister, if you start a job, which probably you'll do. That's why you are doing AI. Please don't leave your husband. Because in the majority of cases, once wives start jobs, they leave their husbands because they think they can earn now and can live like a freedom life.
Dr sahib salute to you the way you are setting example for others the way bhabi g is still continuing her studies... And trust me it's a healthy investment it will pay you back not only it's impact will be seen in your generation but in your upcoming generation... Mary wastay b dua kijiya ga ma b jald apni PhD mukamal kr lon...
bakhuda mene bhi shaadi ke pehle din yahi soocha meri bhi yahi soch hai shukria zeeshan saab brothers and other family members tried to stop me but i took admission for her in a girls school and now in just 2 months she is in class two and enjoying the school and we are living a happy life inshallah in the next 2 years she will be able to give class 8th exams she had not been to any school before its her first time.
Masha Allah bhaijaan mere Dil ki baat boli hai aapne... Mera bhi yahi maan na hai...❤ Abhi meri shaadi ki baat chal rahi hai aur mein bhi yahin sochh raha tha.. Jazakallahu khair 😊
Great point, I believe you hit it on the point , only thing I add up for females be motivated and have interest in education and learning by your self too , learn driving , learn all aspects of life so you don’t feel behind , stop be dependent.
Mashallah barakallah aapne sahi baat kahi..apni shareek e hayaat ko bhi aagey badhne ka maukha de...biwi sirf ghar ki zumedaari aur bacchon ko paalne k liye nahi hoti...uska bhi kuch future ban sakta hai...Zeeshan sahab Allah aapku acchi sahet aur darazi e umar se nawaazey..ameen
Alhamdulillah summa Alhamdulillah mere shahur❤ ku Allah sahet mand zindagi de aur khoob tarakkhi de ameen❤mere miyaan ne bhi mujhe padhaya aaj Alhamdulillah Mai aaj unki wajha se aaj acchey mukham per hun job kar rahi hun..Alhamdulillah
It is the need of the time. Agreed, Sir. But it has been observed that some wives are reluctant to grow and play their role and some become over wise. Both situations become very difficult to handle.
پہلے بھی ساری سہولیات دئ ہوئی ہیں۔۔لیکن ایک چیز آپ سے سیکھی ہے اب اپنی بیوی کو خودمختار کرنا ہے تا کہ میری آچانک موت کے بعد میرے بچے کسی پہ بوجھ نا بنیں وہ پہلے سے آنے والے وقت کے لیئے تیار ہوں۔۔بچے ابھی چھوٹے ہیں لحاظہ ابھی وقت نہی گزرا۔۔۔شکریہ آپکا
Aap ki video kitni achi hai. Mein to parh kr rhi. Me 11th grade mey thi to meri shadee huwi, ab mein ne PhD in mass media , IR masters , journalism masters , mass communication and filmmaking kr liya hai. Main ne bhi bachay payda bhi kiye, job bhi ki, country ke liye kaam mrti hu. Saudi nationality mili, ab meri 5 companies hn. Mein jeddah mein rehti hu. . Lekin mujh pr kisi ne invest nahi kiya. To Mein ne khud hi apnay aap ko kaam krkr ke afford kiya. Alhamdulillah. (Or aik fact, mujhay payso ki personally kbhi zarurat nahi thi. Lekin mein ney khud apnay dam pr apna career banaya alhamdulillah)
Sir boht information wali video, agar ap is topic pay guide kr da "shadi kb kray aur kis trah ka partner dhonda" to boht help ho gi shukriya allah pak ap dahro khusiyan atta farmae.
Ge bilkul sahee. Husband ko biwi ki zarorat ka khtyal rakhna chaey. Hamary Sath ko 23 years ho gay Hain likin koi alag se kharcha nhi milta. Bs Kathy Hain k kitchen chal Raha ha. Ab to mujhy diabetes bhi ho gaee ha. Likin os ki medicine bhi muskil se he aate ha. Kosish karti hon k diet se control ma rahy. Yahe soch KR RU-vid channel start Kya ha k Yahan pr Kam KR k Kuch apny leay kharcha nikalon . Bs umeed ha jab tak Zindagi ha. Inshallah. I'm Pakistani house wife. Plz Dua kejey k ma kamyab ho jawon.
You should have used better word than " invest" it is farz to feed her ,so when i give her money i don't feel like that i am investing on her btw u are a good man
One of my friend invested in her wife for higher education and then she got a professional job in a reputable company. And then, she left him. As she is now educated and employed 😅
