Signs of a toxic person 1: Blamers, play the blame game 2: Take revenge on the wrong person. 3: Small Paradigm. 4: Never admit mistake. 5: Sometimes dishonest. 6: they invalidate your feeling 7: bad listener, pretend to listen 8: they question your sanity 9: not puntual 10: extreame criminal tendency 11: they are psychopaths. Desi nishaniya 1: They are energy suckers Bina baat kiye bhi apki energy suck kr lete hain. 2: aura and energy negative. 3: doubts paida kr dein ge ap mein. 4: symmetry ni hogi. 5: aggrestion 6: ragra lgany mein expert. Solutions 1: Delete a person if possible. 2: Learn to avoid. 3: limited talk with them 4: Ignore them Eagle hain agr to crow k level pe akr ap b crow ni ban jaen. Psychologist ki energy damage ho jati hai cases se. Energy change/neutral krne k liye namaz, tahajud, physical activity, travel krna...
Each of us become toxic at some stage of life , we need to introspect ourself continuously rather than to do it for others. May ALLAH guide us to become as HE loves.
Alhumdolilah MashaAllah شکر الحمدللہ آپ کی باتوں سے جو سکون ملا وہ الفاظ میں بیان کرنا مشکل ہے اللہ پاک آپ کو اور آپ کی فیملی کو خوش و خرم رکھے آمین یاربالعالمین🤲👍😊
اورادو وظائف کی صحيح کتاب لے کر پڑھو ۔سورہ لھب روزانہ 7 بار پڑھو باقی یہ اللهم اكفينيهم بما شئت يہ دعا پڑھو یا رؤف 1000 روزانہ اول اخر درود کوئی سا بھی یا فتاح یا الفتاح روزنہ جتنا ہو پرھ سکتے ہین
Wow sir....u really highlighted the points of toxic. I met such person who sucked my energy...gave me constant anxiety...wanted to marry me...but Allah saved me... alhamdulillah 😊❤️
Alhamdulillah me b bach gae mje lga tha k PYAR tha wo or me brdsht krte ja rhe. the itne salo se or mne shadi se bcha lia khd ko q k me mently bht dstrb the us insan ki wja se .. beshak ALLAH is the best planner …jo hta ha ache k lie hta ha
Sometimes it's so difficult to remove such people from you life as they won't leave you they'll disturb the peace of your mind constantly all you can do is to pray and ask ALLAH to remove them from your life
Well said,especially in a married life and top of that when you have 2 children who suppose to need you in their lives.this situation happens to anyone despite of gender,
Very informative session but I'm emotional after seeing this.we cannot easly throw the life some persons and even cant ignore if u r dependent on them.
Sometimes toxic people come in our life so that we could learn from them and be ready to face thede type of people in future . I have faced a toxic person in my life tooo but it made me stronger than ever . These type of people do their best to find your mistakes,flaws etc and try their best to use them against you if you are not enough clever or a simple person then you are dead. The only rule i think like Qasim Ali Sir also mentioned plan for their exit or simply ignore them Trust me just believe in God These type of people will get in trouble too.
Unfortunately my husband is like that , when ever I complain anything ,he said there is no problem and rapidly heat up n yelled shouted and blame me makes dramas every time.
Assalam u alaikum sir g ap mry roohani ustad hyn ap ki baton n mujhy himmat harny sy bchany m bohat madad ki hy Allah pak n ap ko logon ko mayoosi sy nikalny ka 1 zariya bna diya hy i want to become like you InshAllah
Sir I’m really impressed with your lecture because it happens in our lives Iv seen people who get faint to get attention from their people around They think they are always right and they always suppress who are weaker than themselves They are selfish and they are negative people and make the whole environment toxic and unbearable for others. Allah aisay logon kay shar aur fitnon say hamain mehfooz rakhay ameen
My proud full class fellow Mr. Honorable Qasim Ali Shah you are absolutely right but unfortunately many people are toxic in a large number... Keep up guiding the people...You are in right direction . From: Your college class fellow ..
Very good positive video , I had no idea that why I’m so restless in life then after watching this video , I totally tried to change my relationship and now I’m at peace . At least I now know what was the problem of my life
یا قوی یا عزیز کا ورد کرین ۔ایسے لوگون کے سامنے ۔ اور پھر یہ پڑھو اللهم انا نجعلك فى نحورهم ونعوذبك من شرورهم اور پھر یہ پرھتے جاو یا رافع یا رافع 100 بار پھر یہ بھی یا سلام 133 بار موقع کے حساب سے ان سب کا علاج حفاظت کی دعائین ہین اوراد وظائف کی صحيح عقيده والا عالم کا لکھا ہوا لے کر پڑھو مناجات مقبول مین سب ۔کچھ ہے ڈاون لوڈ کرین یا خرید لے ۔ بہت اسانی ہے اج کل
"Wakhta paya hoya aye saraya nooo tay sensitive aey" This is the core line of Yours Sir G. In my opinion . Thanks Sir. ALLAH paak Aap par khaas fazal farmaein, Aameenn.
Well done 👍 sir I need this counseling in both way’s I can say only JazakaAllah Sir aksar life me hum toxic ho jaty hen doosron ki negativity absorb kr kr k
Very very true sir Alhumdulillah mager main aisay toxic logon ki family sy Allah ny mjhy bacha lya hai sir g ye sari batain unky har single person main paye jati thin nikal lya hai main bss mently sick ho gaye thi sukar hai Allah pak ka k main mentle hospitle nai gyae ...
Thank you sooo muchhhhhh for all your videos it helps me soo muchh ❤️❤️❤️ ... while listening to it i was thinking it could be someone around me but then i realized it could be myself being toxic as you mentioned all those signs.. Also thank you soo much for the AYAT E KARIMA treatment
Mashalah Allah ne ap ki bato me itni taseer rakhi hy k jab b suny aysy hi lg3rda hy k muj sr bat ker rhy hy mery problems ko solve ker rhy hy ap Allah or pyary nbi ka ziker kerty hy isi liy ap ki bato me aser hy
Qasim shah sahib main ne app ki latad videos dekhen Hain lakin iss video me mughe apple bian aur knowledge ka gerveeda ker dia thank u sir it was such an amazing video
Awsome !!! MashaAllah Allah aap ko jaza day you are spreading so much wisdom to the masses. Allah aap ko salamat rakhay. Aameen !! Qasim bhai main aap ka bohat bara fan huun.
100% durust Sir Aisa lga jesey ap ne Meri aap beti suna di ho. Men ne ye sb baten khud bardasht ki hen us waqt samajh b nahi thi.. Boht suffer Kiya, now I simply avoid n ignore. There's no other way out.
sir this lecture is so true. I am facing this from a long time Caz of my partner. with passage of time I learn to avoid .lot of Duas for u .May Allah tallah bless u more knowledge.
Aoa،mashallah Allah pak apko trki dy Apka lecture son kr boring nhi hoti blky mza ata h keyon k apki mesaly hsany wali hoti hy Jo AP msal dety Hy osy bat bohat jldi smaj mean ajati Hy mery kheyal mean AP ek molvi Sy ziyada gahri bat krty Hy Jo sidi Dil mean or jati h Allah oak sehat wali zendagi dy ameeeeeen
Haroon listen ..remember when prophet Muhammad S.A.W came then it was toxic ppl everywhere..what happened..how those same jaahil change..prophet Muhammad S.A.W didn't do anything..He only convey the massage i.e QURAN .CHANGE came when those Arab did some inner work..No youth club can change you..YOU WILL HAVE TO DO LOTS AND LOTS OF WORK WITHIN..it's the crap that stems from yours childhood..you are suffering from narcissistic personality disorder aka toxicity..it's hard to change..no narcissist ever changed..if they decided to change then change happens..but narcissists never want to change.. It's urs JOURNEY ..and you have to cover it on yours own..look u will decide in this life about yours next life if HELL OR HEAVEN..
@@Haroonjayy if you afford it then go for consultation..find some counsellor who specialises in NARCISSISM..the normal psychiatrist or therapist can't help you..it's only who has specialises in this branch..
@@mumin1115 thankyou for your kind suggestion I don't have time for getting proper consultation but I started Qur'an with tafseer Alhamdulilah. Trying to become a better human and a better Muslim
Toxic people defend themselves and have controling attributes, take credit for their actions, very good at lying. Plays Victim are two faced people, they are good at seeking sympathy, k mera to koi nahi hai, kuch acha nahi lagta. Are Highly or overly judgemental. They are not givers but are takers as if it is their right. They always blame you for even their mistakes. They will retaliate from the wrong person.
Very struggling life with a toxic person, one thing to deal with him to divert ur attention whole sole towards ur responsibilities and recognize ur skills and make Quran , namaz ur support system. Allah will help those who have destiny to stay in abusive relationship. Allah give strength to all
¶Short lec notes.....Remedy (Self realzation ho jay kay ya kia hai....Ayat kareema with full conviction......sacha sajdha.....)12-they never admit their mistake.....13-create darama......14-sometime dishonest hoty hain....they invaidate ur feeling......15- listening ability less....16-agr jurat ho to argue....17-mazlom ko dabaty hain.....18-dream crusher.....19-ya feel karwain gy ap achy nahi.....20-istaqamat nahi hai....21-they are selfish magr admit nahi karty.....
Aslaamo alaikum ww Qasim bhai Jazakallah for such a detailed explanation My Mother in law is toxic but she’s not bad person I love her but I was getting drained loosing my energy Alhumdulillah now Allah ka bada fazl or kerm he now I let my hubby to deal with her I’m ok to do any kind of work for her but not ok with her Tongue 👅 her waqt rona taane complaints but Alhumdulillah I’m in peace now Allah bada Meherban he mujh pe.
Well explained sir thank you so much. Sir plz try to discuss if our own siblings are becoming toxic what to do plz do discuss. Thank you jazakallah khair