Signs of TOXIC People and How To Deal Them - Qasim Ali Shah 

Signs of a toxic person 1: Blamers, play the blame game 2: Take revenge on the wrong person. 3: Small Paradigm. 4: Never admit mistake. 5: Sometimes dishonest. 6: they invalidate your feeling 7: bad listener, pretend to listen 8: they question your sanity 9: not puntual 10: extreame criminal tendency 11: they are psychopaths. Desi nishaniya 1: They are energy suckers Bina baat kiye bhi apki energy suck kr lete hain. 2: aura and energy negative. 3: doubts paida kr dein ge ap mein. 4: symmetry ni hogi. 5: aggrestion 6: ragra lgany mein expert. Solutions 1: Delete a person if possible. 2: Learn to avoid. 3: limited talk with them 4: Ignore them Eagle hain agr to crow k level pe akr ap b crow ni ban jaen. Psychologist ki energy damage ho jati hai cases se. Energy change/neutral krne k liye namaz, tahajud, physical activity, travel krna...

جو بھائی نماز نہیں پڑھتا اس سے گزارش ہے کہ نماز پڑھا کریں اللہ کا عذاب بہت سخت ہے تمام بھائی نماز کی پابندی کریں۔کہو ان شاءاللہ🤲

ہمارا المیہ یہ ہے کہ خود بھی کچھ کرنا نہیں چاہتے اور نہ کرسکتے ہیں اور دوسروں کو بھی آرام سے جینے نہیں دیتے۔

سر : اللہ آپکو لمبی عمر عطا فرمائے۔ آپ نے تو میری زندگی ہی بدل دی۔ آپکی باتوں میں بہت جادوئی اثر ہے۔

Each of us become toxic at some stage of life , we need to introspect ourself continuously rather than to do it for others. May ALLAH guide us to become as HE loves.

یا اللہ ھم سب کے والدین کو عمر دراز عطا فرمائے۔ آمین ثمہ آمین۔.

Alhumdolilah MashaAllah شکر الحمدللہ آپ کی باتوں سے جو سکون ملا وہ الفاظ میں بیان کرنا مشکل ہے اللہ پاک آپ کو اور آپ کی فیملی کو خوش و خرم رکھے آمین یاربالعالمین🤲👍😊

Wow sir....u really highlighted the points of toxic. I met such person who sucked my energy...gave me constant anxiety...wanted to marry me...but Allah saved me... alhamdulillah 😊❤️

Sometimes it's so difficult to remove such people from you life as they won't leave you they'll disturb the peace of your mind constantly all you can do is to pray and ask ALLAH to remove them from your life

لَّآ إِلَٰهَ إِلَّآ أَنتَ سُبْحَٰنَكَ إِنِّى كُنتُ مِنَ ٱلظَّٰلِمِينَ

اگر زندگی میں آگے بڑھنا ہے تو بہرے ہو جاؤ کیونکہ بعض لوگوں کی باتیں مایوسی میں اضافہ کر دیتی ہے۔

Ma Sha Allah, Subhan Allah

Very informative session but I'm emotional after seeing this.we cannot easly throw the life some persons and even cant ignore if u r dependent on them.

I honestly have no words to express my gratitude for your kind information. I would simply say that, "alhamdulillah!"

Boht acha lecture hy. Jis ki jitni b tareef ki jai. Boht kam hy. Jazak Allah Sir

Sometimes toxic people come in our life so that we could learn from them and be ready to face thede type of people in future . I have faced a toxic person in my life tooo but it made me stronger than ever . These type of people do their best to find your mistakes,flaws etc and try their best to use them against you if you are not enough clever or a simple person then you are dead. The only rule i think like Qasim Ali Sir also mentioned plan for their exit or simply ignore them Trust me just believe in God These type of people will get in trouble too.

Bohat Khub !! Kahtay hain *Sanp 🐍 ya Bichoo* kay Zaher ka ilaj hai lakin Negative Insan ka koi ilajj *Nahi* . *In ko Apni Life say Delet karein* .

بہت اعلیٰ بہت خوب جناب ! اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آ پ سے خوش ہو ! آ مین ۔

Unfortunately my husband is like that , when ever I complain anything ,he said there is no problem and rapidly heat up n yelled shouted and blame me makes dramas every time.

Qasim Sir, this is one of the best lectures.Amazingly well explained.

Assalam u alaikum sir g ap mry roohani ustad hyn ap ki baton n mujhy himmat harny sy bchany m bohat madad ki hy Allah pak n ap ko logon ko mayoosi sy nikalny ka 1 zariya bna diya hy i want to become like you InshAllah

One of the best lectures Qasim Ali Shah ever gave!

Exit, avoid or have boundaries ( no discussion or personal) keep contact professional and short ( so ignore).

Sir bilkul thek kha apne ..mere Zindagi mein aisa he insan hi .. jis ne Meri energy chos li hi

یا اللہ ہم سب کی مشکلات آسان فرمائیں آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین

Sir I’m really impressed with your lecture because it happens in our lives Iv seen people who get faint to get attention from their people around They think they are always right and they always suppress who are weaker than themselves They are selfish and they are negative people and make the whole environment toxic and unbearable for others. Allah aisay logon kay shar aur fitnon say hamain mehfooz rakhay ameen

Shukriya. ❤️. ALLAH aise logon par Fazl Farmayein.

Qasim Ali Shah Sb, You are the Best who described this topic so beautifully, based on reality.... I am your big Big Fan

My proud full class fellow Mr. Honorable Qasim Ali Shah you are absolutely right but unfortunately many people are toxic in a large number... Keep up guiding the people...You are in right direction . From: Your college class fellow ..

اور ایسا بھی ہوتا ہے کہ کوئی اچھا بھلا بندا ایسے انسان کی ہمدردی کرتے کرتے خود بھی toxicہو جاتا ہے؟اس کی بیچارگی کو سچ جان کر اس کی باتوں میں آجاتا ہے

ہر لفظ حق۔۔ ہر لفظ سچ۔ ۔۔

Very good positive video , I had no idea that why I’m so restless in life then after watching this video , I totally tried to change my relationship and now I’m at peace . At least I now know what was the problem of my life

“People inspire you, or they drain you. Pick them wisely.”

پیارے محترم قاسم علی شاہ پاک أستاذ کریم أللہ کریم 🌷 آپ کو شاندار دائمی جزاء سے نوازے إلہی آمین بےحد کارآمد پروگرام بےحد شکریہ 🙂 سر جی ♥️

جزاک اللہ خیر قاسم سر۔ گھر میں اسکا بہت پروبلم ہے۔ اللہ مجھے بھی اس سے حفاظت فرمائے۔

Respected Sir you are great or Allaha ki khas rehmat hay aap par,,may Allaha bless you always.

Allah bless him and his family 👪 ❤️ jazak Allah khear.

اللّٰہ تعالیٰ ہم سب کو ہدایت دے آمین یارب العالمین !

"Wakhta paya hoya aye saraya nooo tay sensitive aey" This is the core line of Yours Sir G. In my opinion . Thanks Sir. ALLAH paak Aap par khaas fazal farmaein, Aameenn.

Much needed❤ ustaad jee Allah pak salamat rkhy apko ❤ Ameen

Well done 👍 sir I need this counseling in both way’s I can say only JazakaAllah Sir aksar life me hum toxic ho jaty hen doosron ki negativity absorb kr kr k

Sir g koi ilfaaz nahi hen mere pass how correct u r...1000% true sir g...

Write write write aap bilkul thik keh rahay hain jazakALLAH for the explain

Bht he fruitful video khuda apka hr naik tamana pori hu

Ap ny dil halka kr dia l have suffered with that people but Alhamdulillah ab mey ny inko life sy nikal dia

Very very true sir Alhumdulillah mager main aisay toxic logon ki family sy Allah ny mjhy bacha lya hai sir g ye sari batain unky har single person main paye jati thin nikal lya hai main bss mently sick ho gaye thi sukar hai Allah pak ka k main mentle hospitle nai gyae ...

Thank you sooo muchhhhhh for all your videos it helps me soo muchh ❤️❤️❤️ ... while listening to it i was thinking it could be someone around me but then i realized it could be myself being toxic as you mentioned all those signs.. Also thank you soo much for the AYAT E KARIMA treatment

wah, kia zabardast batain ki hain,

جزاک اللہ خیر 🌹🌹🌹اللہ تعالی 🌹🌹🌹آپ کو سلامت رکھے امین امین یا رب العالمين 🤲

Mashalah Allah ne ap ki bato me itni taseer rakhi hy k jab b suny aysy hi lg3rda hy k muj sr bat ker rhy hy mery problems ko solve ker rhy hy ap Allah or pyary nbi ka ziker kerty hy isi liy ap ki bato me aser hy

One of the best lectures ever! Thanks a Mill!

Sare signs ap ne bilkul thik btaey hn100%

Mashallah, very informative lecture and base on reality.

May Allah protect us from these types of negative toxic people aamin aamin aamin

Deep penetration to subject Dil se salaam sir......

Qasim shah sahib main ne app ki latad videos dekhen Hain lakin iss video me mughe apple bian aur knowledge ka gerveeda ker dia thank u sir it was such an amazing video

Awsome !!! MashaAllah Allah aap ko jaza day you are spreading so much wisdom to the masses. Allah aap ko salamat rakhay. Aameen !! Qasim bhai main aap ka bohat bara fan huun.

100% durust Sir Aisa lga jesey ap ne Meri aap beti suna di ho. Men ne ye sb baten khud bardasht ki hen us waqt samajh b nahi thi.. Boht suffer Kiya, now I simply avoid n ignore. There's no other way out.

Thank you for great help...this is video helps me alot ...

ap buhat help krty hain hr situation mai thank u so much sir Allah ap ko aisy e motivate krny ki tofeeq dy.buhat acha kam kr rhy hain ap ❤

sir this lecture is so true. I am facing this from a long time Caz of my partner. with passage of time I learn to avoid .lot of Duas for u .May Allah tallah bless u more knowledge.

Can't believe all the points are sooooooo accurate

Aoa،mashallah Allah pak apko trki dy Apka lecture son kr boring nhi hoti blky mza ata h keyon k apki mesaly hsany wali hoti hy Jo AP msal dety Hy osy bat bohat jldi smaj mean ajati Hy mery kheyal mean AP ek molvi Sy ziyada gahri bat krty Hy Jo sidi Dil mean or jati h Allah oak sehat wali zendagi dy ameeeeeen

Sir you are too good and absolutely right. I'm experiencing this kind of person in my life from last 27 years. 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

سبحان اللہ

Allah ap ko boht jaza e khair day ameen

Ma sha Allah 👏

Very well said... Toxic person don't listen... Be careful

Aoa sir . Allah pak apko bohhht taraqqi dy . dil happy hogya ap ka ye lecture sun kr .

Kia banda h yr zbrdst MashAllah bht hi zbrdst baten kri hn yr 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

I'm toxic and I wanna improve my lifestyle. 🙂 May Allah SWT help me with my weaknesses.

زیادہ ججمنتل آدمی بھی اکثر خوش نہیں رہ سکتا۔ 💯💯

Thank you very much g, ghar main free lecture mil raha hai. ♡ Alhamdulillah.

AWESOME MASHALLAH

بہترین

Qasim sahib I have learn lot of things from you alhumdulillah. At your stage being a mentor more laughing is not expressing

Toxic people defend themselves and have controling attributes, take credit for their actions, very good at lying. Plays Victim are two faced people, they are good at seeking sympathy, k mera to koi nahi hai, kuch acha nahi lagta. Are Highly or overly judgemental. They are not givers but are takers as if it is their right. They always blame you for even their mistakes. They will retaliate from the wrong person.

Very good Sir, Buhut Ala .. Briefinhg di hai toxic person per .. Exactly aise hi hotey hain....

The best person ♥️ This video is very helpful to remove the toxic people from the life🫀thank you for explaining like this🌸

Yes ji jitna ap me btaya us se zeyada hoty h mery to apny qarebi log aesy h ab to meny uny aviate Karna shuro kar dia h ab Kuch life ma sakon h shuker

Qasim bhai, ap ne bohat acha topic select kia hy. Is topic ke bary mein karna bohat zaror tha.

i agree with all your points. perfectly examined by you

Beutiful and very powerful motivational . . . Sir mjhe apse millne ka bht crase ha

Very struggling life with a toxic person, one thing to deal with him to divert ur attention whole sole towards ur responsibilities and recognize ur skills and make Quran , namaz ur support system. Allah will help those who have destiny to stay in abusive relationship. Allah give strength to all

Thank u so much for solving a huge problem of my life. JazakAllah

Thank you for highlighting this important topic 👍 Avoidance is the best option 😊

Mazzy ki BAAT ye hai sir Jo batain ap bta ray hain,wesay wesay banday ka face sahmne ana Shuru ho jata hai

Bilkul Sach kaha ap ne.. Sab sahi kaha.

Very helpful

My husband is toxic and has all these toxic qualtities- zero listening and understanding ability. But Iam living with him with sabar and patience

¶Short lec notes.....Remedy (Self realzation ho jay kay ya kia hai....Ayat kareema with full conviction......sacha sajdha.....)12-they never admit their mistake.....13-create darama......14-sometime dishonest hoty hain....they invaidate ur feeling......15- listening ability less....16-agr jurat ho to argue....17-mazlom ko dabaty hain.....18-dream crusher.....19-ya feel karwain gy ap achy nahi.....20-istaqamat nahi hai....21-they are selfish magr admit nahi karty.....

Masha Allah ♡

Nice msg to people jazak Allah

Aslaamo alaikum ww Qasim bhai Jazakallah for such a detailed explanation My Mother in law is toxic but she’s not bad person I love her but I was getting drained loosing my energy Alhumdulillah now Allah ka bada fazl or kerm he now I let my hubby to deal with her I’m ok to do any kind of work for her but not ok with her Tongue 👅 her waqt rona taane complaints but Alhumdulillah I’m in peace now Allah bada Meherban he mujh pe.

Well explained sir thank you so much. Sir plz try to discuss if our own siblings are becoming toxic what to do plz do discuss. Thank you jazakallah khair

Perfect sir.

Sir you are absolutely right!!!!

BHT jarurt thi aj is lecture ko sunne ki.

Yes true ...... i face toxic person very tough personality.bilkul sach kaha ap ny

Your dignose is absolutely right & you gave us good solution jazakAllah