Is a Family Member an Energy Vampire? 

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the people we are surrounded by affect our energy more than we realize. take care of yourself first and foremost. Stay blessed everyone!

Great explanation. This especially applies to people that are empaths. Empaths have a role in life to really help the people around us. When we are around people that draw out our energy and when we are in environments that are negative that throws our vibrations off we will get sick. Many of us come from families that throw us off. Just because they are our parents or siblings ect.... does not mean we have to tolerate them in our lives. My mother and brother are both energy vampires. My brother is so negative and mean that he thinks life is always out to get him. My mother is selfish and puts her friends first and ways puts me down in passive aggressive ways but thinks she is a true Christian. When we fight nothing is ever solved but always pushed under the rug. I finally had enough and realized this is my life and I'm going to live it on my terms. I take them in with small doses and now never divulge personal info to them because they feed on it. In turn I realzed I was so feeding myself in a negative way by thinking I could talk to them, especially my mother and I can't. Being on our own is not a bad thing. I appreciate so much more the amazing things in life when I don't have them around and keep them on a short leash. I am able to learn from my mistakes better and raise my family differently. I will say it is a challenge because after being raised this way it is very hard to break the cycle but it can be done. Everyday the sun comes up God gives us a new life to lead and learn from. When we stop learning we start to die a very slow death on a spiritual level.

Whoever is watching this now, i wish you a beautiful and blessed day with your loved ones 💕🙏

I can never feel free ,happy and energetic around my family members…..only feel good when I am alone.That makes me think they probably all are energy vampires.

Thank you. I just needed to finally hear someone say it. My mother and sisters are terrible vampires. Their hatred of men and the manipulation knows no bounds. I feel guilty about leaving but I have yet to have a normal life because of them. I want to move away to another state and start over. I might even change my name. I dunno. It makes wanting to meet other people a challenge. How to be authentic without alienating yourself. I refuse to let them steal any more of my life.

My mum and brothers are energy vampires and they want to blame others for shortcomings,I accept the way are but don't get sucked in,ones boundaries are the utmost important

Finally, someone is talking about it. Dandapani is always honest and raw. Whatever you ask him, he will definitely give you a clear answer. He won't leave you there confused n perplexed with vast explanations like few spiritual gurus nowadays. If you ask questions about your parents to these gurus, they simply try to avoid the question. But Dandapani said it. He himself has been there. So he knows how is it to live with toxic family members. This is why I love and respect you so much Dandapani. Thank you for existing 🙏❤️

Absolute blessing. Simple and clear, energy is everything. 💯👏🏽👏🏽

Thank you that was a perfect timing for me and so comforting

Always leaves me speechless... Great clarity. Thank You Dandapani.

he is so right .His explanation is concise and easily understood.Others can confuse you trying to explain this or maybe they dont really understand it

The way you explain, leaves me speechless. 🙏

Thank you you have just given the tool I needed Much appreciation

Thank you for this message

Thanks for sharing!! 😊

Amazing brother 👊🏾💯💯💯

Excellently explained

Thankyou for this video ❤️❤️

thankyou for this video...i need this...🙏🏻

Best thing i listened today🙏

You actually gave my answer. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Grattitude to you sir 🙏🏻🌺😇

Amezing 🙏🙏🙏

We can learn to communicate with our cells in our bodies. The body has the ability to heal..... anything. Learn to communicate with your cells and heal whatever you want...we are that powerful! 😇

My mother !

it would have been even more perfect by adding the subtitle down

100% agreed

This video is so useful on my sittuation and not many talk about it. Environment is a huge factor in our persoanl growth and our growth can become stagnant and held back when we are around the wrong people, it’s so hard living with a family member that drains your energy. Esp when it’s your parent bc they are the ones that gave u life and we are required to honor them so boundaries there are quite hard esp when u have no yet gained your independence. Any tips on how to set boundaries?

There is a beautiful peace when you have broken the link with a vampire.

Yes.

That's the reason why I want to move countries. I don't want to move from the few family and friends I love but I have to. (When I say few family, I mean my dad, my older brother, my sisters but somehow they got emotionally far from me and said I'm delusional)

What if you live with a toxic sister?

Dandapani sir, please can you translate your video's to Tamil. Some of things not able to understand... Please do the needful

in Economic Science promoting free market capitalism, Milton Friedman said that if you allow people to work for their best self interest everyone will be benefitted in the society, but we all see how horribly people interpreted Friedman's advice by mindlessly pursuing hedonism at the cost of poor and vulnerable. In this video Dandapani concludes that if you take care of yourself it will do good service to everyone because best version of you can serve everyone else in best way. I think its important that we shouldn't misunderstand him. Both the advices are similar and must not be interpreted in egoistic, narcissist, "My way or highway" or hedonistic manner. By "self interest" and "self care" both Friedman and Dandapani are referring to benign and constructive self interest/care which while benefiting an individual is not harming the society/community/family. This polarity between an Individual & community/family needs a very careful balancing to ensure justice & benefits to both. So please ensure that you are not mindlessly labelling people "Energy Vampires" and start shunning them out of your life and become an island unto yourself. While you follow his advice, learn to forgive and constantly push/persuade the lost travellers towards the "right path" instead of outrightly avoiding suffering by abandoning them. "Suffering is inherently a part of life"-Buddha His advice must be thought out deeply. Thanks Dandapani.

Yesssss

Pls make video on how to handle husband who doesn't allow their wives who cannot express themselves n getting suffocated...

Will be back in a few minutes have something that I would like to talk to you about

Oh yeah

My kid too

Hi pooja i loved the content of yr video but this is not related to narcissistic husband, ....

yep

One of my family member,she got depression,she is my little sis,when she is unhappy,she wants to ruin our lives.in that particular situation,I thought she is not my family,her mind was controlled by low energy.She hates light and she hates happiness.Lucky now I lived far away from her.Its just really a nightmare.😭

How can I send you my questions please give some way

To BE whatever is split into 2 different words in spanish. To be a human being is what you are existentially. Que ser. To be. But if you are in spain, that's not something existential. Its contextual. Que estar. You estar in spain. This is important to have built in to your perception when dealing with depression. ARE you despressed. Or are YOU a depression. Having it or being it. To be honest i dont think anyone are wired to be depressive at all. I think it's software and context all the way. Except of course if you have some tumor growing yhat supresses some function or whatever. But again that is not being depressed. Thats just having a tumor. Telling people they ARE depression, is a good way to keep people in the dark even when exposing the sun. They will think that they are, and so they will act appropriately. Same with violent, angry, in pain, a doctor, rich or whatever people think they are. English is... contemporary english anyway... is just so... daft. Poder is also a really interesting spanish word. Taught me what the word power really means.

Can you please tell me if our mind is energy vampire then how to deal with it as we cannot run away from our mind

Check out Scott Kiloby. He figured out how to help people through this stuff

Many blessings to all of you that have had to face real energy vampires... my family are generational vampires that carry the curse proudly and willingly... I am the one who will shed light upon them until they wake up!!!

But I don’t understand the part where if we have energy vampire parents? What do we do, do we just abandon them?

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I will not Abandon any of my family member because they are energy vampires!! That’s so inhuman !!

Smells like updog

Isn't this be a BAD KARMA?

This type of teaching is not for common people, this is ment for healers, bramacharies, saints and gurues. Need to be conscious of audience, when speaking on such critical topics. This will harm more than doing good for common people.

The weird thing is that some people might regard a person as an energy vampire while others would consider them engaging or entertaining. The beauty of life is that we can find people that fulfill a gap that we have in ourselves and whom are, in turn, fulfilled by us. We are each other's puzzle piece. And we make a beautiful, albeit incomplete, jigsaw puzzle together.