I was feeling the same way and I thought I was trying to run away from big things but I'm glad other people also have this stage at some point and thank you for posting this video! ☺️
I know that feeling. I was practically crying throughout. Right now, I'm changing my field, however I'm close to graduating. So, thinking about going for my second bachelors in cybersecurity.
@@litmissdiva I was going for graphic design and painting with a minor in marketing. I finished my accounting and art history class last month. After watching videos and reading books about cybersecurity it clicked at the last moment of me about to finish up my undergrad 🙃. And I'm pissed off at myself for it. I dislike like math for the life of me. That was the only reason I walked away from taking cybersecurity. Then, realized the only math I was pretty good at was algebra; the others I was slow,quite slow with it. Take a math classes at a community College it's a tad cheaper compared to college college. The college professors are harder on you than the community College professors (so I heard through the grapevine). If I could start over again at the time i was 18 and chose to go to community College instead, than college it would've been and easy transition for me. My friend did that went into IT and she told me another student friend did the same thing only difference is she got her degree in animation. Had to go back in school went to community College than had to bachelor for cybersecurity. After that got her masters. So, with life you don't know where life can take you. But, since I'm telling you the issue that myself and others before me went through was a struggle. Even when it came with our mental health and wellness. I have given you this small amount information about myself, please don't make same mistakes I made. I would rather go to community College knock those core classes and other class like programing within two year. So, that you're ahead of the game. Once, you finally pick a college that's suitable for you to transfer. Or you can go straight college for 4 yrs. I still say go community College transition from there and be at college for 2yrs. At least with an associate you've already did IT helpdesk (don't stay in this too long, if that's what you want.) Because like I said it will be a breeze for you. plus, less student loans I believe
Sending so much compassion your way ❤️ I am 26 years old, earned a STEM degree right after high school, and then when the time came to enter the work force I felt EXACTLY as you described in this video. It was hard to deviate from that path that I was expected to follow - the path that made sense based on the time and money invested to earn my bachelor's. There's so much pressure coming from family, friends, and even just peers and society. People are so quick to tell you you're crazy and say what they would do if they had your degree. I'm here to tell you that I followed my heart the way you're choosing to follow yours, and I have ZERO REGRETS today. In the last four years I have grown and developed TREMENDOUSLY as a human being. There's so much to learn in school, but school doesn't give you the skills required to be true to yourself - you HAVE to develop that on your own. I'm so glad that you're allowing yourself the space to explore and free lance! If I'd gone straight into corporate after college, I am 100% certain I would have missed out on so much that I value today. Now that I'm 26, I understand myself so much more and am 1000x more sure of myself. Becoming confidently set on a career path happened naturally the more I explored. Once I knew, I KNEW and there was no hesitation. On top of that, I have full trust and confidence that if I want to change paths again in the future, I can and I will because I've done it before. I will never stay in a situation that doesn't align with my heart. Your decision is strong, and it will only make you stronger. Warm wishes ❤️ you said it yourself, you can do ANYTHING you want!
I am a conflicted 21 year old too I was actually wondering if you could guide me, I have studied Engineering in Electronics and telecommunication, I am exploring my options, Masters in Data science or Masters in Cybersec or straight up working in Advertising
All of those sound truly amazing, I would say pick which ever one helps bring you closer to a job you’ll love. Cyber security is SUPER versatile and you can take those skills anywhere, and I’m sure it’s the same with data science & advertising. Risk = Reward, go with which one brings you more peace (even if it might seem like the riskier option! :)
One thing that I do to feel fulfilled is keep a record of my 1x1’s with my supervisor. I keep a OneNote full of each week’s accomplishments (resume bullets), blockers, and “next steps”. This forces me to keep my own metrics of what my contributions are.
Freelance (for me) right now is working with influences to make content and working with small businesses to make their websites. I do Cyber Security with Cyber Collective, but that is all volunteer at the moment.
There is plenty of subfields in cybersecurity. You're in such a great spot! I wish I had studied cybersecurity earlier. You can shift to other positions within the tech field. Maybe try web development, UX designer, or software engineering. It's normal to want to switch careers throughout life. We humans change overtime & become more aware of it as we get older. Yes, the degree thing is so true. Majority of my degrees were useless. I mostly did them for personal enrichment, to be keep myself busy & imposter syndrome. Now I'm in a crap load of debt
My CIS program offers three different tracks Business Intelligence, Digital Forensics and Security, and App. Development. Looking back now with your experience do you think any of these other options would have been a better choice coming out of college? Thank you for the videos!
Thank you for watching!!!! I personally would choose app development, but that's mostly because I love development haha. It's really subjective to where your passions lie. I think regardless you'll be successful so try to pick which ever one gets you closer to your dream life.
I started my cybersec internship this month and I know it’s soon but idk if I like it lol. Idk if it’s the company but it’s over whelming! I am considering development over cybersecurity but now I just don’t know! Idk if cyber is for me either tbh! This internship has just made me question everything lol btw good luck with pursuing web development freelance! I hope I can do this one day, I’ll be 22 when I graduate and it feels overwhelming committing to something for the rest of our lives
Committing to anything in your 20's shouldn't be allowed 😂 If you're not feeling it, don't be afraid to switch! I kind of wish I would have studied development but I was scared to waste time and $$$ of course. Also Thank You!! 😭❤️ This means the world to me!
I'm also at the point thinking about is cyber security is really for me or not. Like there is tons off things to learn no problem in learning those things.. Not not sure where will I land what I'm doing.. Don't now where I'm going..
@@chaitanyakhairnar6352 i feel the same way, but im planning on doing a degree in computer science with security and foresensics I hope its the right choice
I never know what I want to do with my life & I feel like it's resulted in some major pros & cons in my life. I love trying different things & I'm preparing to return to school for cybersecurity & information assurance. I'm not sure if cybersecurity is for me but I like the idea of it & interested in becoming an ethical hacker who can work fully remotely while making a lot of money 💰. Goals.
This is was the perfect vid yo. Let me just say thank God for making this video I relate to this so much rn. im current in mt second semester in college and still have no real idea of what I wanted to do but today I just switched my major in cyber security because it interests me lately.However the classes they gave me look impossible I have no experience at all with coding or computer science or it so I keep asking myself if im making a mistake and doubting myself Im at such a lost.
What's your role at your company? I also took an offer at my internship. I wanted to move out west, but I think I'll stay here for 8 mode months and then get something else
I ended up in compliance which is soul draining for me lol, there’s opportunity to try a different role but not till much later. This job is taking a big toll on my mental health and I’m not sure if it’s worth it anymore. But I’m also looking for other cyber roles, I love the field, I just need flexibility + creative work :)
@@techwithbecca so like SOC? Are they over working you? Do you get weekends off or have to work past your shift? Do whats best for your mental health, always.
not so sure now , because youtubers i see in the field say its really stressful on your mental health and demanding just like your saying now, i am currently in a computer programming course and after that plan on getting into information systems security degree, with my future career i want something that is flexible so that i can explore other things in life and not be a robot tied to a desk and most importantly love what i do. Trynna make the right decision before i choose my degree. Definitely looking for a remote job after i am done so that i can have some sort of freedom
Hello, I have several questions I'm really interested in cybersecurity, but because you're an expert in this field, I really want to know more information about it... Does this major have a lot of math? What are the beginnings that I have to do before entering this specialty? I am afraid to enter this specialty and not succeed in it. Is it easy? I mean, is it easy to learn?😭💔
I recently just found your channel an I been watching all your videos and you earned a new subscriber IDK if you will ever see this comment but I’m glad I came across your page. Hopefully to connect with you in the near future.
Do you think there is good work/life balance in cyber security? I am majoring in cyber security but am worried theres not much balance and that’s something important to me. Thank you!
it depends on the culture of the company! It’s important that when you are looking into a potential employer that you check to see if they have work life balance. Calling outside of work hours, sending emails after 5 - that’s culture. Also regardless of where you go, it’s important set boundaries so that you have work life balance. They only have you for 40 hours a week, if they want more ✨they can pay you! ✨
