Is It Okay for Christians to be on Dating Apps? | Ask Pastor Mark 

Thanks for being sympathetic to the single ladies out here trying to find a good man.

You seem very in touch by how difficult it is for women to find a godly man to marry, but verrrrry out of touch with how difficult it is for men to find godly women to marry.

The problem with dating in the church is once you ask a girl out and if she says yes (or even no then all her friends see you as a guy that asked out her friends so you could very easily get labeled a creep even if you take the rejection very humbly and don’t complain or anything) and if it eventually doesn’t work out then all of her friends are eliminated because their all her friends. It limits their options. This is why most guys don’t ask girls out or use a dating app, or ask out random girls outside of the church. So yes it is okay to use dating apps. For both. Girls are much more trusting and they don’t slander a guy to all her friends if it doesn’t work out through a dating app, etc. And some guys are just chicken to ask girls out in person let’s be honest.

thank u! i know so many who are agaisnt it for no reason met my amazing husband on it you have to be discerning and intentional ❤good can come out of dating apps!

Good question Mark . I'm over 60 and Married , and myself & my Wife met at a Christian-Fellowship . And when things happened between us , at one of our Fellowship-Meetings , IT WAS AS IF A BOMB WENT OFFFFFFFFFF , ON THE INSIDE OF ME ! AND I KNEW THAT I KNEW , THAT WE WERE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER - FOR - LIFE ! I then had to chase her , as we courted for two years , and were then married , and still are 30 + years later ! I believe that dating of any-kind , is an ' Ishmael ' , for those of us , who know what that means . We either trust the- Lord or we don't . And when you don't , you go fishing/dating and hope for the best ! But do you end up , in a serious mess ? Thank - God He gives us free choice , and the Lord tells us to choose-Life ! Not - Death !

why we just generalizing that all dudes are horrible? we make mistakes when we are young and somehow guys dont want a godly woman according to what your saying. this is incredibly biased

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This guy is out of touch with modern society he has no idea.

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The vast majority of us are not fornicating-we are effectively invisible to women.

don't believe this guy

"There are way more Godly young women than there are are Godly young men", biggest LIE I have ever heard in my life. Ha ha 😂