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Should Christians Use Dating Apps? | My Experience on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Upward 

Sam and Sadie
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Single Christians looking for a godly relationship often ask this question at some point in their singleness walk, should Christians use dating apps? In this video, a Christian guy will tell his stories of using dating apps and if they work for Christian singles. Sam has experience as a Christian on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and Upward, and he's going to give you his advice so that you don't have to try them out for yourself to know if they're any good!
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@kammykam1195
@kammykam1195 9 месяцев назад
I have tried bumble and I actually subscribed so that I’d have to filter my search to only Christians. It turns out that though their profile said Christian the guys didn’t seem like genuine Christians at all. They were into partying and sex and I just didn’t feel valued as a woman by any means. I actually got really depressed recently because so many guys I’ve matched with have ended up not giving me a chance and not even going on a date. I’ve never gone on any dates with the guys I’ve matched with on any dating app. My dating experience has been super discouraging because I just struggle so much meeting people. I’ve gone to churches but I suppose it hasn’t been consistent enough to establish any kind of relationship whatsoever. All in all, I’ve temporarily deleted all my dating apps and allowing God to take me on the road he wants me on. Thanks for this video, it was very insightful
@tainoloco2361
@tainoloco2361 6 месяцев назад
I know exactly how you feel. The “Christian and Catholic” women on the typical dating apps show A LOT of skin and their bio is not really godly or godlike.
@Karencitaxo91
@Karencitaxo91 2 месяца назад
I pray that you find those rejections as a sign that God has someone for you. Although it is harder to date as a Chrisitian and meet someone equally yoked would be the best feeling. Any rejection you get, just take it as God is removing them because that's not what you deserve.
@mandarue5104
@mandarue5104 Год назад
God's telling me I still have a lot to work on between Him and me before I can even consider entering the dating pool. I 100% agree but it is nice to hear what other people have to say regarding Christian dating and what a true Godly marriage is supposed to look like. God willing I won't ever have to use a dating app.
@user-hv2oy3rh1r
@user-hv2oy3rh1r 10 месяцев назад
Amen! "It's not always your foot!"😂😂😂 Love you guys!
@gerrimiller3491
@gerrimiller3491 5 месяцев назад
It's like God is telling me apps isn't best because something good is going to happen when i least expect it. I trust in God in every situation especially meeting a Godly partner ❤
@janicedias138
@janicedias138 Год назад
I've tried dating apps because my friend recommend and that's where she found her husband, but I don't feel at peace about dating apps. I've attempted Hinged(for a week)and it was ok; then I tried this Christian dating app, I forgot the name, but they give you the option to see if you looking for a relationship, marriage, etc. But I knew this app could've not been Christian because they had the option for “Netflix and chill”.
@jenniferwalsh1731
@jenniferwalsh1731 10 месяцев назад
Stay away from dating sites! It's not impossible for God to use it, but why when it's got so many negatives! Just keep trusting God and don't bother!
@ayanaxdanielle
@ayanaxdanielle 2 месяца назад
Nothing is impossible for God I fear
@calebgibson55
@calebgibson55 Месяц назад
What’s the problem with them all?
@KAyLA_K
@KAyLA_K Год назад
There’s no way y’all have just 500 subscribers!! Y’all are doing great posting, editing and story telling!! Not to say 500 isn’t great, but y’all have edited the videos so well I thought it would be so much more!! Y’all are doing great, keep it up!!❤️🔥
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
Thank you so much for the sweet complement, Kayla! We’re happy to have the platform we currently have, and we’ll be happy if the Lord grows us even more! We’re so thankful that He’s used us to touch people so far in our RU-vid journey ♥️ God Bless You! 🙏🏻
@KAyLA_K
@KAyLA_K Год назад
@@samandsadie No problem!!❤️ I’m excited to see how the Lord uses y’all and I know you’ll do great!!
@carmyvasquez318
@carmyvasquez318 9 месяцев назад
Well said 👏🏽👏🏽there’s a lot advantage with meeting people in person. And I agreed with her if you have someone complementing you all the time it become a bond it happened to me on a long distance relationship it was not really love.
@abigailgrace8402
@abigailgrace8402 Год назад
“The least horrible people” 😂 I just adore the two of you and the content on this channel ❤️
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
Hahaha 😂 We’re glad to hear it Abigail! Much more content to come!
@DaughteroftheKingofkings
@DaughteroftheKingofkings Год назад
You guys are so encouraging and have such great advice and reminders! I am learning so much! I am excited for future videos! Can you do a video on how to get to know a guy, and how to communicate with him when you're just friends, and then when your in a relationship with them. (And a guys perspective of getting to know the girl.) Hope that makes sense.
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
We really love that video idea! I’m actually gonna write those ideas down in our notes right now! We’re so glad you like the channel! 😃🙏🏻
@DaughteroftheKingofkings
@DaughteroftheKingofkings Год назад
@@samandsadie Yes! I am excited for it!
@connieshingange4990
@connieshingange4990 Год назад
I, love you both. God loves you more.😍😍Keep on sharing your God given wisdom.
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
We love you too Connie!! All glory to God 😃🙏🏻
@rilwanj
@rilwanj Год назад
I hate dating apps, I volunteer with refugees, go to church regularly, go to Leisure centre gym regularly, I’m even in an in-person philosophy Meetup group, I’m doing all I can but I haven’t met one compatible Christian woman, I know they are out there but I can’t find them. I’m extroverted and I’m use to speaking to women, I can tell you, since August 2020 (when God cured me of my chronic disease), I haven’t found one woman I’d even want to flirt with. I have no other choice but a dating app.
@NickDrinksWater
@NickDrinksWater Год назад
As a Christian, im gonna give it a hard NO. The majority of people ive gone through on any dating app typically never want any sort of serious connection, so its a waste of time looking for anything like that on an app
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
We completely understand that!!
@MA-yc7pz
@MA-yc7pz 11 месяцев назад
I usually see this in real life
@NickDrinksWater
@NickDrinksWater 11 месяцев назад
@@MA-yc7pz True, but at least in real life theres face-to-face interaction, theres more one on one with the person instead of on the apps where the person you're talking to is also talking to 100 other people at the same time. Real life feels real and natural in comparison
@litpath3633
@litpath3633 17 дней назад
@@NickDrinksWater I met someone on a Christian app, definitely tons of people that weren't Christian and tons of potential problems and tons more of bad profiles that were telling. As a guy sending out nearly 300 messages with maybe 10 replies, then that dwindled to 3 potential interests after some chatting and one stood out. talked more, met up for the first time and things have gone extremely well since. I think the key is being able to filter out the non-sense, knowing what you want, and finding those people that are serious about God first. From there it is personality, beliefs, goals, etc. Most of all put in tons of effort on your picture because that's all that will be seen when scrolling the catalogs. (which is kind of weird tbh).
@LRamey
@LRamey Год назад
Hi guys I just found you.. your story of how God lead you to each other was beautiful 🙏🏾💜
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
Thank you so much!! We’re so glad to have you as a part of our RU-vid family! God bless you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@LRamey
@LRamey Год назад
@@samandsadie 💜💜💜💜💜🙏🏾
@alittleheavenonearth
@alittleheavenonearth Год назад
@@LRamey 🙏🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
@portiacoffie2715
@portiacoffie2715 Год назад
Hi guys I thank God for leading me to you and I love that fact that u said God led both of u to each other
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
We’re so glad God led you to our channel too Portia! God bless you and welcome to our RU-vid family! 😃🙏🏻
@portiacoffie2715
@portiacoffie2715 Год назад
Thank you guys for reaching out to me and for replying my message God bless you both
@muhindoannet154
@muhindoannet154 8 месяцев назад
Dear lord, I pray for everyone seeking love. May you find it, genuinely 🙏. Thank you good people. I am going to share this video with a friend who has been on averge of giving up on finding love. 🙏
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 11 месяцев назад
I was on Hinge, but they banned me from it for violating their terms of service, but I don’t know why.
@marysimiyu7907
@marysimiyu7907 Год назад
Thank you for being exemplary about your faith in Jesus Christ
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
We try our best, but we’re far from perfect! Glory to God!!
@Chanelly93
@Chanelly93 3 месяца назад
There is also a dating app for conservatives only called The Right Stuff. It’s not exclusively Christian, but most conservatives are Christians, so you could probably guess 🥴 And they don’t have homosexual or pronouns options when creating a profile, and they do STRICTLY vet people before letting anyone on. They also require multiple decent photos, and they don’t allow immodest photos. I know because I tried joining one time and was denied for no known reason for me as I made conservative points when creating my profile. Wasn’t sure if it had something to do with one of my photos. 😂 Overall, I decided against trying again as I figured that I’ll just wait for God to provide me the right man.
@naturaldyer
@naturaldyer Год назад
just a fellow Sadie saying hello. I think the name is more common now, i'm 34, but when I was growing up I was the only one. I've only met 3 in my lifetime. I love your love story! 💓
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
Hi there! Sadie is a actually a family name for me, but I’ve never met another Sadie in my lifetime so it’s very nice to meet you! ♥️ You’re so sweet. Welcome to the YT family!
@williamcramer724
@williamcramer724 Год назад
Im sorry its really long, lol. But please read the whole thing. Hi guys, my name is Will. I live in Washington State. I just came across your videos and have watched a few of them including this one. You guys seem like really cool people. Its nice to see younger generations embracing Jesus whole heartedly and building their lives on the words of The Bible, and not shying away because society doesnt like what it says. Anyway i just wanted to introduce myself and say i actually met my wife on a dating app lol, (plenty of fish). I was not saved when we met but shes the one who brought me to Christ. We are celebrating our 7 year wedding anniversary on April 29th, and our 8 year anniversary of officially being together on June 8th. As well as God blessed us with our first child in February so hes a new new born, lol. We both love Jesus and the Bible (every word). Just wanted to say that even though i met my wife on one, and there are success stories from dating apps, i agree with you they are the exception not the rule. Anyway, i also watched your car accident video and Praise Jesus you survived, that was pretty narly. I have a similar story thats to long to put in this message, lol. Keep up the good work, stay stronh in God, stay strong in each other and dont ever forget there are people who support what you do and the message you are trying to spread even if they dont agree with you on every single topic. Idk if you need to hear this right now but as someone who is used to receiving intense backlash for sharing his faith i felt i should tell you that i have your back. Your channel looks like its new and not very old so keep the videos coming. I know you kinda did it on your "our story" video but i always enjoy getting to know the people i watch on a personal level so like your backstories of childhood, siblings, that kinda thing. So if your taking video suggestions thats always a good one i like. Testimonials and how you came to faith is also a good one. Take care Sending love from Washington State God Bless
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
Hi William! First and foremost, thank you so much for sharing your story and your testimony! We also really did need to hear the part about staying encouraged even through receiving hate, because our last video or two have certainly been controversial in the world’s eyes 😂 we would love to share more of our personal experiences and testimonies too! I think that would be really powerful! I like the idea of us kind of rotating between personal stories and advice content! God bless you and thanks for blessing us with your comment! Love from Florida! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@FranciscoPereira-cn6jm
@FranciscoPereira-cn6jm Год назад
Hello, I found your channel a little while ago and I really liked it. On this topic I would like to share a little bit of my story. I never dated much less other things (you know ahah) and with that I fell into the world of tinder and other apps and falling into corn before but Im free from it since few months ago. With that, I believe that I will never find someone (someone Christian) because it is almost impossible to find someone Christian and who has Christian values these days, in this pathetic world. I was also never very religious but I would like to start following the word of God but I still have a long way to go. What advices could you give me for this situation? Sending love from the UK and God bless you both.
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
Hi Francisco! Sam here! I know what it’s like to fall into the traps that are dating apps. I’m so incredibly glad to hear that you ended up getting off of them and that God broke your addiction to p*rn! (Just don’t wanna make RU-vid flag this comment, that’s why I’m using a “*” haha) If I could give you one piece of advice, it would be to get involved with a Church that preaches The Word of God unapologetically and some friends that will walk with Jesus with you! Then I’ll also tell you that listening to preachers like Paul Washer, David Wilkerson, and Chip Ingram are some GREAT pastors to listen to that will get you started! God bless you!! 😃🙏🏻
@angeejane2563
@angeejane2563 Год назад
It's well 🙏
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 11 месяцев назад
I think Bumble is the best one. I had a bad experience on Hinge.
@lorigroeneveld8374
@lorigroeneveld8374 Год назад
You all should create a dating app!!
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
We would love to do that someday!! We just have no idea how 😂
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 11 месяцев назад
I’m starting to think you should let love come to you. Let go and let God.
@LifeInSouthFL
@LifeInSouthFL Месяц назад
If Abraham would have taken this advice, Isaac would have never have met his wife and Israel would not exist
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 11 месяцев назад
I met a woman named Anne on Tinder and we talked for awhile.
@be_salt
@be_salt Месяц назад
You should see what we're doing on SALT Christian Dating App... you'll be surprised!
@MA-yc7pz
@MA-yc7pz 11 месяцев назад
Tbh in real life is the same😂I never give it a real chance to dating apps that is my last resource as all the ppl I know only know married ppl or in relationships -The problem with visiting Churches is different doctrines and lack of singles
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 11 месяцев назад
I’ve never tried Upward.
@mary-elizabethcroy
@mary-elizabethcroy 11 месяцев назад
My sister and brother-in-law meet on the dating app Upward and they've been married for 9 months now.
@samandsadie
@samandsadie 11 месяцев назад
That’s awesome!!
@saraissza
@saraissza Год назад
Whew you two cute together!! 😍
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
Awww thanks!! God bless you! 😃
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 11 месяцев назад
I don’t struggle with pornography I think it’s obscene.
@alittleheavenonearth
@alittleheavenonearth Год назад
New subscriber live to have you come along as well ❤❤
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
Thanks so much for subscribing!! God bless you 😃🙏🏻
@alittleheavenonearth
@alittleheavenonearth Год назад
@@samandsadie 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 11 месяцев назад
I tried Christian Mingle I wasn’t impressed.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 11 месяцев назад
I tried Tinder it was okay.
@marccolas7531
@marccolas7531 Год назад
Hello ! But how to meet singe ladies then ? I have 39 years old, and I dont have energy to out after work, and weekend. Meeting... I ma introvert and all person I met are ignoring me or bullying me. At church (I am Roman catholic), only old ladies and young women are clearely no intention to talk to me. I leave in a new city, new country, I dont have group of friend. At my work, all my female colleague are married, and as they are close-minded, they dont even talk to me. Until now, I've never used dating apps, but I am single since I am born, I want to try my luck.
@ehsgodswarrior
@ehsgodswarrior Год назад
It is hard to meet people these days and age. You feel a sense of rejection. If you choose to meet someone on the dating app. Never give out personal information, never give them money regardless of what they tell you, never invite them to your home until you get to know them. Your first date should be around people. Get a Google phone number.
@marccolas7531
@marccolas7531 Год назад
@@ehsgodswarrior Thank you for thes tips :)
@kennethrenquist9414
@kennethrenquist9414 Год назад
my bro and sis-in-law met on upward
@Jennifer-vp2ov
@Jennifer-vp2ov Год назад
I met a guy on upward, and ended up dating for a few months. But he was just wayyy too much and wanted to rushed everything and was like warm. I broke up with him. Now i don’t know if i should go back on any dating apps but for now I’m all set
@Pinkfluffybunny1007
@Pinkfluffybunny1007 Год назад
In the UK there’s a Christian dating app called Salt, it might be available in America too?
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
I’m not sure on that one! I don’t know if that’s in America or not!
@Jennifer-vp2ov
@Jennifer-vp2ov Год назад
It is in America
@temandzabandzaba691
@temandzabandzaba691 10 месяцев назад
I'm ready to be someone's girl😊...where's hubby at?
@lykaballon405
@lykaballon405 Год назад
How about Boo?
@sophl12
@sophl12 Год назад
What about cdff christian dating app
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
Hi Steph! Neither of us had heard of that app until you commented, so we won’t be able to give you a real review of it! God bless you!
@bria7885
@bria7885 10 месяцев назад
You remind me of gigi hadid/ jennifer lawrence! Ur so pretty
@samandsadie
@samandsadie 10 месяцев назад
Oh my goodness you made my day! Thank you 🥹🤍
@TqFinax
@TqFinax Год назад
Facebook Dating is okay. Lots of people and you can filter to only see "Christians", and the age range you are interested in.
@user-hp3hg1zy7g
@user-hp3hg1zy7g 5 месяцев назад
I love the video but if she got mad and upset. There is room for improvement. As men we can become prideful and this is from the Lord I feel to teach you and humble you. We want to try and draw them closer to Christ and minister his love. I don’t think biblically saying I don’t think we worship the same God is the right answer. Jesus never said anything like that. He raised God up and healed people. He didn’t judge or prosecute others. He taught them and prayed over them. And it might be funny to the world but to God it’s not. That was an opportunity to draw her closer and I believe that was a test from God. I feel that response was a prideful one and we can always learn how Jesus would have done it and keep trying.
@allybally0021
@allybally0021 7 месяцев назад
Christians can cuss....not blaspheme....but cussing is not against the faith.
@jomh832
@jomh832 Год назад
Christian should not used dating apps
@samandsadie
@samandsadie Год назад
In a lot of cases I would agree! I would encourage anyone reading this to watch the video to see why and what the exceptions are!
@naggayiimeldah5145
@naggayiimeldah5145 Год назад
Why do you think so .cause there some for Christians
@divreenable
@divreenable Год назад
I don’t think people realize that they are also being weird on dating apps, they think it’s only other people because everyone has different perspective, I’m sure this guy bothered a few girls on there because you can’t force anything that’s why dating apps don’t work
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