Is "Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater" True? 

Once someone betrays you, it changes the way you see that person...

A man won’t change for anybody unless HE wants to! 💯

I. Hate. Cheaters. I've never cheated. Never will.

No relationship is the same after someone cheats and you will never trust them again

a man dont change because u tell him to,he only change because he loves you.

I got cheated on...and what was I doing wrong ...getting my degree

Cheating is cheating don't matter the gender... if you end up cheating on your partner sooner or later it'll go back to you that simple

If your going to cheat,just break up with the person. Don't be a selfish greedy cowardly piece of ish. 😌

I don't think every man cheats. But I'm never suprised when one does. Expect the best, but be prepared for the worst.

What you allow is what continues. You allow him to cheat on you once, he’ll cheat again, and again.

Cheating can never be justified. No matter how or why it happened . Cheating is disgusting. But the worst part is the one who suffers the after effects is the one who didnt deserve it in the first place.

I don't know if "Once a cheater always a cheater" is true, but then again, I don't stick around to find out. Once you cheat on me, you're out. There is no second chance, third chance, fourth chance.

A cheating man dose not respect himself, if he cannot respect himself how do you expect him to respect you

Everyone deals with infidelity? Ok. Here’s how I dealt with it: my ex husband cheated, and I left.

I was waiting for Steve to own up to his cheating and possible reformation. Too real I guess.

Hate this idea that a person will change for the RIGHT one. That's putting none of the responsibility on the cheater. Truth of the matter is, their character is shoddy and that's something only they can change, not another person.

There are no excuses for cheating whatsoever, theres no such thing as a “slip-up” in a relationship because why were you in that position to possibly “slip-up” in the first place? You cant ever cheat if you’re never in a position/situation to cheat. (Example: Going to the bar and hooking up with someone for the night....STILL CHEATING, why were you at the bar without your significant other in the first place?)

Once a cheater ALWAYS a CHEATER! If my husband were to ever cheat, hes be out the damned door with NO SECOND CHANCE!!! For myself, I will NOT lower my standards to except him cheating and take him back. THAT is unforgiveable for me! My children deserve better than that too! my integrity means more to me...👍

All my exes cheated on me, Yet- I never cheated back- in the end my loyalty buried them 6ft deep, now I’m single & got big ambitions to open my own business

Saying cheating is part of life makes it more acceptable and easier to get away with cheating. Saying that is the equivalent of telling your man/woman "yeah, what you did was wrong, but please don't do it again, pleeeeaaase". Nah man, life's too short to spend with a cheater. This ain't stealing a pen from someone, this is infidelity, and the only option is to get rid of the human waste a.k.a your ex-to-be

Those red pumps and fishnet socks on the blond is everything!!!!

Every man is not a cheater and every man that has cheated will not always remain a cheater. You simply have to figure out what you are willing to deal with...moving forward or ending things.

Honestly kudos to couples that decided to give it a go after cheating. I haven't been cheated on but my ex lied to me about so many things it really destroyed me as a person and turned me into a bitter, angry and depressed woman.

"There is only one woman we will change for" in this context implies that it is okay to cheat until you finally meet a woman that makes you fall in love enough to not cheat on her... That's pathetic and undeserved love and luckily in most cases kharma. This woman you will change for will most likely cheat on you then. Omg i love life :)

Keri hilson is stunning

3:14 boy clapping hard af

Once he cheats on you he will cheat on YOU again. He will not cheat on the one but on you he will do it again he'll just get better at it

They are all famous? I must be under a rock. I have no idea who they are lol

Steve Harvey is always spot on. I lost the love of my life because I cheated and it’s not like she left me when she found out it was several years later because she had no trust no faith and no respect in me. She stayed because she loved me but when she realized she didn’t feel appreciated, loved, respected she left and took everything with her. I lost her, my home, and our cat over this. Needless to say it changed me completely. I shattered to pieces, was a complete wreck. I found god, confessed to friends and family, became a good person. I am proud that I am no longer the man who took his love for granted and I know, given another chance at love, I will appreciate every single second. I changed because of her leaving but I changed for me. My mind, my heart, and my soul are completely new and I’m grateful for the pain because without it I wouldn’t be the man I am today.

Set your standards yes! 💝💝💝

I don’t t believe once a cheater always a cheater HOWEVER I do believe that immature men cheat!

I think if you are cheated on, the most important deciding factor of whether you want to get back or not should be how YOU feel about it. Can you forgive him? Are you willing to contribute to building back up the trust? How much will you be able to trust him after that? Can you get past this and make peace with yourself and your partner? Is working through this painful experience which will be psychologically and emotionally draining for possibly the rest of your relationship worth it to YOU? Or has your trust been broken so badly that you believe you cannot salvage the relationship to a point where YOU will feel comfortable? In that case, it's better to move on.... You just gotta be completely honest with yourself. All that other stuff about whether it's a repeat or not, whether it meant something or not, whether he was drunk or not, why did he do it, was he unhappy etc. None of that matters bc in the end of the day it all comes down to the same thing... he betrayed your trust. Period. Your relationship will never feel as good to you as it was before he betrayed you. You will never feel as safe. Even if he doesn't do it again, you will always wonder....No explanation will ever be enough. It will hurt like hell. Are the remains of that damage worth holding on to and trying to salvage?

Love this Steve. Didn't want it to end. Can you bring these ladies back? Or reassemble, but just like this? Soooo engaging.

Even if someone cheats only once that relationship will be forever tainted.

I agree with Steve here. Ppl change. But that person has to make the decision to change.

I actually appreciated this forum. I wish more went like this. No arguing, no talking over each other, just a great conversations from different perspectives coming to a common ground even though they don't necessarily agree on everything, good stuff

But keri is slaying

3:10 | HARVEY WEINSTEIN, HARVEY WEINSTEIN😂 Lord Jesus I can't Steve

People can change. But they rarely do.

My cousin (who constantly cheated on his wife) pulled me aside at a family reunion and said " I ran the streets but what I was looking for was at home all the time " He realized the good woman he had and didn't want to lose, and stopped cheating. Men CAN change.Once a cheater always a cheater is not true.

You change for the person you CANNOT live without. My boyfriend and I are living proof of this.

I need Keri's hair!!

If a man cheats on me once it just won't feel right after that.

I firmly believe the way you get them is the way they leave. But I also know first hand that not everyone is honest about that. My ex was still involved with a women who he told me was a crazy ex. Over three years more and more of the truth came out and when I left him I called his “crazy ex” and apologized because I knew what he had told me about her 3 years earlier wasn’t true. Her and I had a great conversation and she was a great support for me during a very hard time in my life. My ex was a narcissist. And sometimes you don’t see the truth until you’ve lived the hell. And I don’t think that all men can change. Some just like being cheating jerks. My ex will be 57 this year. He’s just like his dad, with a rotating door of ex “crazy” girlfriends. The only one who is crazy is him and how he treats women.

Keri seemed really embarrassed when she spilled her drink. Poor thing.

Latina speaking All Facts . No man cheating on a woman he wants to be with PERIODT if you are the 1 for him there would not be a 2 .

Yes, a man can change. I knew someone who did admitted to cheating on this wife, he made the effort on changing for himself, for his wife, three years later they reconcile, and now they're happily in love all over again. #TrueStory

It’s very true! My partner and I met at the absolute worst time in both of our lives.. Ironically we bonded as friends over the fact that neither of us believed we wanted another relationship again! Needless to say, two very passionate people in denial made for a roller coaster of mistakes. He was still casually sleeping with his ex from about 10 years ago, which I knew of, but then when we got more serious, they both began to lie about it.. Cut to a few months later and he was given a major reality check when he was thrown in jail because of a charge he had about 4 years prior! The moment I heard his voice on the phone, I knew everything was different.. He now has a full time job with overtime, he is saving for a home for us, we have pets, we go to family events, he is honestly a new man! And best of all, because of all that we went through in the beginning, I know in my heart that without a doubt, he changed his whole life in order to be enough for me and the family we hope to start someday. Set your standards ladies. Men do not want a woman who is just like all the others. The right one will step up to be with you! Regardless of the unlucky hand he has been dealt in life. And although I feel I am still healing from certain things, I know I have his full support on both the good days and bad. I also know he is more transparent with me than I think he would have been had this not have happened at the beginning. Every cloud has a silver lining!

I dont know if a cheater is always a cheater because i never give a cheater a second chance. When a man shows what he is, believe him.

YES!! I never cheated on the Man I loved... And never will. Cheaters never stop Cheating!

People do change, so it all comes down to the individual person. When I was a young man I used sex as a means to numb my pain from my past, so I cheated on every woman I had a relationship with. Overtime I realized how my actions were effecting people in my life and how everything else was taking a back seat to pursuing a numb state, so I decided to change. I sought out counseling, the lord and looked at how my behavior was hurting others and took responsibility for my mistakes. I successfully stoped being a player and became a man. A man should value a woman. Sex should be reserved for someone you love and that you are committed to. I would never cheat again because I have changed the person I was and became a new version of myself. Once you view your partners beauty based on what's inside, their character and the love you have for each other, physical temptation from another woman would simply be something that you wouldn't even give a second thought to because you know the woman waiting at home has everything you want and need. No other woman could even compare to the way she makes you feel. Unfortunately some people never change and continue their destruction. It has to come from within, not from someone telling you have too.

Steve had a brilliant response to the drink spill. Well done

I’ll be honest I cheated once in my life and I felt extremely guilty 3 relationship later I’ve never cheated on someone but karma did came for me

All of us are not perfect. I agree with Steve 'You can make mistakes, grow from it and learn from it.' Men can really change for one woman when they really love them.

I absolutely adore you Uncle Steve, I look up to you, I take in everything you say and I agree with all that you say, There is hope that there is some good men out there in the world 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

I really liked that panel the variety and beauty and opinions.

men grow up and men change...lol how many times did steve cheat...

*2:57** Water Spills on her* “Are you okay?”😂

Lov the way he is honest and charming

Great point Steve.

Steve has great advice, he's telling it as it is.

My ex boyfriend cheated on me (sexually) with a girl after 4 days of talking to her. He even went into explicit detail like we both had no feelings. I truly feel that cheating is something that’s more mental than anything els and theirs underlying issues that the cheaters have.

Being faithful is not only a staple in a relationship but a common understanding in how love should work. You love someone. Simple. Love only that person that way.

I look foward that men who is changing for me, until this time I will be working on myself and living my best life !

Being cheated on is the most disgraceful thing somebody can do to their partner. Unforgivable, unacceptable. I have been cheated on by every woman I have been with. They all say the same thing, "you care more about your job than me". My job is the reason we have all these nice things and pay all the bills while they can buy whatever they want with their own money. I will not let another woman in my life ever again.

Steve should know !

I just love this ladies, Steve

I love this panel!!!

My husband cheated on me, I saw the signs and I knew something was up. Checked his phone bam proof. The texts talking about it. It took him 6 months to stop taking to her, our kids suffered, I was doing nothing but praying. He almost ended his life over it. I forgave him. So far so good going on 1 year without the cheating. I said if he does it again I’m leaving.

It depends on how the guy reflects after he cheated. If he’s saying “oh I did it because she didn’t satisfy me enough” and not being sorry and is finding excuses, then obviously he’s going to do it again. If he’s like “wrong is wrong and I have no excuse for what I did” and he is actively trying to change on that then I’d give him another chance. Everyone makes mistakes but not everyone learn from them.

Thank you . I understand .

Yassssssssss!!!! Church! I’m with Siggy on this one and some parts of Steve’s commentary!! Good talk though!

You can make mistakes and learn from them and not do them again i agree. But that is only true when it comes to mistakes u did not know were mistakes like baking something on a higher temperature than u should, sunbathing without sunscreen thinking u won't get a sunburn or drinking that fourth drink thinking u will not end up throwing up. Cheating, betraying, lying and hurting your bf's/gf's/spouse's feelings thinking it's not a mistake is inconceivable to me.

That guy at 3:15 is clapping like a maniac

Love this

Every man "can" change BUT doesn't mean they will. Most men don't change thus wondering why they single & miserable.

He has to lose something for him to understand that he needs to grow up. We can only wish him the best and hopefully his new girlfriend will meet this full grown man

I can agree that people can change but if you are cheated on do not stay with the person because they might change. They didn’t respect you when they cheated and they probably still don’t respect you after.

Kerry is just out here looking beautiful!!!! Shine Kerry! Glowww girl!

Great video content...

Didn't Steve cheat on his previous wives?

A man according to this woman will give up everything if he loves a woman if he's really into her but half of the panel Won't Give Up their ex-boyfriend do the math to that

I love this clip so much! (:

I'm gonna save this clip. Thanks

if your girl does relationships like jobs? and looks for one while she still has one.. ...be very aware you aren't her last interview, she sees you as a stepping stone, and there is somewhere around zero percent chance that your affection will be reciprocated on anything but a guilt-based level. She probably only likes you for your stuff.

We need to do more shows about women who cheat it always feels like we’re always the victim

Steve is right!

Amen Siggy 💯💯💯💯

Even Mr Steve can’t say it publicly that he has never cheated before.

Those stockings and red heels Yaaas

I love Steve Harvey show ❤️❤️😙😙😙❤️

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Love these words ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I hate cheaters!Once a cheater always a cheater so true!

If men have to “change”, I don’t want them.

Good video, very good one

I loveee Keri’s hair

My ex was with my friends. Dated them after our divorce. That's a deal breaker. Not only about of course the divorce but about the friends..because everyone knew about it but me Until I saw them together

I hate the “drunk” situations

I like the way harvey played that off when the water spillt

Didn’t even watch the video - just saw the title and came to say “YUP!”