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Is Puerto Rican culture Anti Black? No lies ❌ 

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Let’s talk about the racistism, colorism textureism, and featureism in Puerto Rican culture. The closeness to whiteness is a real thing. ALL non black groups and even within black culture have negative Sentiments about black people especially the darkest among them. This happens in every culture and need to be talked about and acknowledged and not just by black people but other groups as well.
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@boldbabez3985
@boldbabez3985 Год назад
I love when ppl tell the truth...and she is speaking truth....
@p51424
@p51424 Год назад
I would have thought colorism only existed in the United States.
@Tippy2forU
@Tippy2forU Год назад
​@@p51424 : Nope. It's all over.
@p51424
@p51424 Год назад
@@Tippy2forU I know that. I am not American. But I live here. The way black girls behave, you'd think that the colorism in America is worse than it is anywhere in the world. But Kamala Harris would NEVER be the vice president in India.
@pookiesis1465
@pookiesis1465 Год назад
​@@p51424 A lot of Mexicans were upset because Namor from Black Panther from Wakanda Forever was dark. Not black,keep in mind,but dark.
@boxfancb
@boxfancb Год назад
It's easy to hear in her accent she is not born and raised Puertorican. Me living and being born and raised here GenX... we hear people call each other negro or negra and it doesn't mean shit. It's not derogaroty, it's more of a slang, a way to address informally. For example I have a cousin that calls me negro every time he starts a sentence and I'm not even dark skin.
@oldkingwis2
@oldkingwis2 Год назад
I'm black and this puerto rican girl I used to date was one of the "Dark Skinned" ones. Other than her super loose curly hair she looks like an African American girl. One night while she was taking the subway home in NY. She overheard 2 lighter toned Hispanic women saying the most racist shit about her in Spanish thinking she was black and couldn't understand them. Whatever they said about her must have been super fucked up cause she was so angry she was shaking and visibly fuming. She was so upset and hurt that she didn't even want to tell me what they said about her. Moral of the story, these Hispanics be racist asf and as a black man you can't believe in them or their women just cause they throwing you some box.
@Peace2dagawdz
@Peace2dagawdz Год назад
Damn
@DeepBreathingMeditation
@DeepBreathingMeditation Год назад
I'm proud you realize this.. many of your fellow brothers will lost causes because they worship anything non black and don't believe you can be racist towards a fetish
@msreneetaylor7321
@msreneetaylor7321 Год назад
True
@LGnLA
@LGnLA Год назад
The point, they were jealous af of her (BEAUTIFUL 'dirty' no wrinkles, ages slow af DARK SKIN), TUH, she was on their pea-brained minds, NOT the other way around... 💯 💅🏾
@LGnLA
@LGnLA Год назад
​@@DeepBreathingMeditation🗣💯💯💯💯
@numerologicatarot3333
@numerologicatarot3333 Год назад
Hispanics be delusional about colorism.
@1goldbaby
@1goldbaby Год назад
They NEED TO CHECK THE SLAVE SHIPS STOPS TOO.!!
@elizabethw4706
@elizabethw4706 Год назад
They really think it's endearing and not racist.
@TheSmily4ever
@TheSmily4ever Год назад
exactly!
@Aree_TD_
@Aree_TD_ Год назад
@@elizabethw4706 For real. I met these two white Uruguayan guys and they swore up and down that they could say racist things and their Black friends didn’t care. They said it was because they don’t have racism like in America I was like ‘nah they just won’t say anything.’
@rickihosein
@rickihosein Год назад
Delusional about colorism AND racism
@angelverdejo2137
@angelverdejo2137 Год назад
I'm a black Puerto Rican born in PR. 1963. As a child, I experienced racism from adults, family member included. My mother was outcast by her mother for marrying my father a black PR borned, when I was born my grandmother did not claim me as her grandson. You are telling the truth my sister. I hated my culture until around the age of 20. When I was embraced by my father side of the family successful educated teacher. Heck sometime I still remember the racist treatment and then I smile cause it made me stronger and pushed me to do better and today I'm view as a very kind, successful and handsome man and I stand proud as a Black Puerto Rican. I can write a book. Thank you my sister for speaking the truth.
@mariajason3547
@mariajason3547 Год назад
What happened later with your Grandmother when you grew up?
@meikostarling3988
@meikostarling3988 Год назад
The exact same thing happened to me
@anneloren3586
@anneloren3586 Год назад
Beautiful put
@johntirado-glover3574
@johntirado-glover3574 Год назад
Yes!. Thank you my Puertorican sister, for speaking the truth I'm proud to be Black & Puertorican , but i totally agree with you. Racism is alive.
@luiscrespo2562
@luiscrespo2562 Год назад
Ur right cause our family did not allow any black Ricans around and till this day read my comment and if I was over there when it happen they will of never found that person as a child I never ever will forget what my uncles did to a black Rican they took him to the woods and I heard a scream and then silence my uncles came back with blood I ask were is the man they told me that he help them kill a pig and he left I was four at the time but the truth is that they buried his ass and they raised me to know the difference I started working on the fields at 3 years old I got pictures of me and my two brothers with our machete but the curve ones and I will never forget what they made me do to another person with the machete that's back in the early 70 s and I will die with that secret long story short do not go were my family lives cause u will get food water a place to sleep so welcome but u will never leave
@calvinhoward2277
@calvinhoward2277 Год назад
I didn't know this until a Cuban guy I was working with 15 years ago told me about it. He had a really dark tan, and he said his other family members didn't like them because he was too dark. So what she saying is absolutely true. People with melanin in their skin get treated like trash no matter what culture it is, and it's really sad
@beecasssoutherngal8974
@beecasssoutherngal8974 Год назад
Thank you been saying this for years. I’m African American. There is this exact problem in almost every culture. Example: India there is this term they use for darker people , it’s called untouchables. Dark skin people can only have lowly jobs like working as servants or in sewage, it’s extremely sad.
@mitchliam974
@mitchliam974 Год назад
​@@beecasssoutherngal8974 Omg tha "untouchable" thing is horrible!
@zweks
@zweks Год назад
This is thanks to colonialism, Latinoamerica had a cast system spanning from Spaniards born in Spain to Africans forced into slavery, even if you were Spanish but born in America (continent) you were less in society than Spaniards born in spain
@linoleluminum2017
@linoleluminum2017 Год назад
Take a biology class, everyone has melanin
@joyhard1373
@joyhard1373 Год назад
I'm mixed an my black family treated me like trash smh jus saying
@wallacegarrett668
@wallacegarrett668 Год назад
I am black and I had a Puerto Rican best friend when I was a teenager. He told me once that there were a dance down town, and did I want to go and have a nice time and meet some Puerto Rican girls. I said yeah, I got my suit pressed, shoes shined, bathed smelling good, let's go. I went to the dance along with him. When we got there, he approached the door. Two bouncers were at the door and they told him, " You can come into the dance, but your friend can't come in". He looked at me and said, "I guess I'll catch you later". I was shocked. That's when I stopped hanging out with him. I broke off my relationship him after that. And you know what, he never saw anything wrong with what he did to me. That was just him. I know other guys are not like him. I 'm just saying, that was my first experience.
@Jamaican19Girl
@Jamaican19Girl Год назад
Wow, sorry you had to experience this
@heaven8639
@heaven8639 Год назад
That’s horrible 💔😢.💋🕊🥀
@ohcamnam9383
@ohcamnam9383 Год назад
Wow 😯
@snteag
@snteag Год назад
He was truly not a friend.
@Mz.ScorpioSexy76
@Mz.ScorpioSexy76 Год назад
With friends like that, who needs enemies. You're better off without him 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😘
@Heyalexiaa
@Heyalexiaa Год назад
I'm black and a hispanic man called me "cocola" as I walked by. I was looking cute that day so I thought he was saying that I was fine like a tall glass of Coca-Cola. I guess ignorance really is bliss. 😂
@truthliesbeneath3134
@truthliesbeneath3134 Год назад
You are sis he is a jerk
@PinkLaptop
@PinkLaptop Год назад
Girl yes 🤣🤣🤣
@shereencollington7954
@shereencollington7954 Год назад
Sis, yes that's why we're ageless. We don't have all that hatred going on inside. We're not responsible for someone else's lack of inner peace. Go ahead, Coca-cola! He knew he wished he could be free to learn about you but momma and granny said no.
@rainnmoon114
@rainnmoon114 Год назад
I'm rican and black and I'ma tell you this. Since people never tell the whole story. We call people and Nick name them based off of physical appearance. But it's up to context clues to determine if it's friendly or not. Some boul the other day was talking to me and referred to me as negrita because he didn't know my name and I was helping him look for something. Totally innocent, not offensive. He was really sweet as well. Now if he was saying it in a rude tone or trying to talk about me and using that same name, we would have a problem. It's like nigga. If friends use that name with me idc cuz we cool. But if someone I don't know is using it with me and they being dummy aggressive, it's not being used in a friendly way and now we gotta mix. Edit: Long story short, the guy was probably cat calling and complimenting you. Stay fine. :P
@sfr2107
@sfr2107 Год назад
​@@rainnmoon114 yes i think americans have a hard time understanding cultures that are less sensitive about such things. I don't mind that we're sensitive, we have our own history and journey but I wish we wouldn't quickly assume every culture thinks like us about the same things. We're pretty soft on a lot of shit in comparison to other cultures, and that's oookkkk. We don't need to be like other cultures, but we do need more knowledge and respect for other cultures.
@salgado0819
@salgado0819 Год назад
Ugh it's so true and so sad. In Colombia it's the same. If you're dark skinned, you're not appreciated. Literally had a fkn doctor tell my very light skinned cousin he should be a model because his skin tone is the ideal to show off.. what kind of fucked up shit is that?? Racism is engrained. How many times have I heard my grandma straight up say she gets terrified when she sees a 'negro' walking behind her. I am trying so hard to break down those walls, break down these cycles, and become better for my future generation. It's hard man. Telling a 75 yr old what she's saying is wrong and having her look at me like I'm crazy. It's a process everyday but I won't stop. We are here to break cycles. I don't want this to continue.
@Lamont1818
@Lamont1818 Год назад
All my PR friends swears up and down that there’s no racism on the Island! I already knew that they were lying!
@sabir1208
@sabir1208 Год назад
Some Dominican people tried to tell me the same one time and I was AW HELL NAH somebody lying
@curlyb4c95
@curlyb4c95 Год назад
@@sabir1208 And y’all getting your hair done in those Dominican salons and they don’t even like you.
@ChiefGodspeed
@ChiefGodspeed Год назад
Crazy part is I bet most of them have never even stepped foot on the island
@ItsAllAnillusion
@ItsAllAnillusion Год назад
Big lie! Lol 😂
@erowry22
@erowry22 Год назад
​@@curlyb4c95many blk woman are going natural and doing our own hair. If blk woman are going it's because they most likely are Dominican.
@Tricethelibra
@Tricethelibra Год назад
I don’t even see how a Puerto Rican can even try to deny this.
@mrjones4249
@mrjones4249 Год назад
They deny it because they are not affected by it. It's the same as non-black people in the continental US claim racism doesn't exist. My fiance is dark and my last girlfriend was extremely dark. They go through the same things black people outside PR go through but nobody speaks out about publicly. Look at models in magazines and who is chosen for Ms Puerto Rico and nobody can deny black PRs are left out. Go to fine dining or fancy hotels and see the black PRs in the back and out of sight. The list goes on but people want to pretend.
@Tricethelibra
@Tricethelibra Год назад
@@mrjones4249 This is all so true
@flossyraven
@flossyraven Год назад
The Dominican Republic is the worst. They don't even acknowledge they are black some looking like Wesley Snipes "me no black". At least Puerto Rico acknowledges black even if it's with resentment.
@mrjones4249
@mrjones4249 Год назад
@@flossyraven I've actually ran into some in PR that don't.
@rmaddwilliams5064
@rmaddwilliams5064 Год назад
​@@mrjones4249 no you haven't and if so that's not the majority so 💁🏿‍♀️😘
@tizzynintendho8162
@tizzynintendho8162 Год назад
Facts my dad is black and my mom is Puerto Rican and I’m the darkest out of all the kids. I literally got bullied with colorist insults from my own family.
@MinisterRomilus
@MinisterRomilus Год назад
You are beautiful and DONT let the past or family make you think otherwise ❤
@kaywashington5604
@kaywashington5604 Год назад
Im the opposite...my mom is black and my dad is Puerto Rican and Im the lightest of all the kids. I got picked on bc of it. To this day, I still get called "white" at family functions. They joke but it still hurts my feelings
@TouchofShunshine
@TouchofShunshine Год назад
Your dad allowed this to happen? He should have gotten his wife to stop and not teach your siblings to not be that way.
@NatalieTheRican
@NatalieTheRican Год назад
I'm so sorry you went through this. I'm Puerto Rican and my husband is black and I am not going to have our future kids around my family because I already know most of them are racist. My family in PR are cool but in America....are some weirdos. I will not allow my anyone, especially my family, to make my future kids feel like they are less than because of their skin color. Your parents shouldn't have allowed that to happen to you. Sending you hugs, and hope your heart heals from this 💗 💛 💓
@sparklesp9304
@sparklesp9304 Год назад
That's on your dad for not having a backbone.
@lorenzob3400
@lorenzob3400 8 месяцев назад
I grew up in a predominately Puerto Rican town/city in NJ in the 80/90s. They loved me, treated me like family. I’ve been married to a Puerto Rican woman for 24 years, I love being black but absolutely love Puerto Rican people!
@user-wi4ik9if5f
@user-wi4ik9if5f 4 месяца назад
I’m Puerto Rican American. All my sister’s friends are black Americans. I always get along with black people who don’t complain about racism all the time. This chick is also a Puerto Rican American who has no experience in Latin American countries at all I can tell by the way she speaks.
@violetenergy4392
@violetenergy4392 Год назад
Truth right here and I'm a Mexican. My best friend was black growing up and I had to hide her when kicking it because my parents were brainwashed by the media. I ran away from home because my father saw her walking home with me and covered his nose. I didn't understand why and argued with him that the white kids at school smelled and my best friend smelled like coconuts. That's the day I ran away at 15 yrs old and never looked back. Now I'm a mother and my sons all have black and brown friends and I don't regret cutting of the generational brainwashing from the past. I also tell them NOT to watch the media or anything govt approved. Ending the brainwashing in my home😁
@luveniahayes8150
@luveniahayes8150 Год назад
Thank you. I’m sorry you had to leave your family and so very happy you’re breaking the generational curse! God bless you!
@s.w.3476
@s.w.3476 Год назад
Wow, that's crazy.
@Patienceofthesaints
@Patienceofthesaints Год назад
Wowwwww! Good for you!! All praises to Yahuah!! 😳🙆🏾😘💯
@angelydachalyechevarria114
@angelydachalyechevarria114 Год назад
@@sophiadavies2395 that was a back handed compliment you just did she said “AT MY SCHOOL” she didn’t say all white people and sometimes yes y’all do have the worst hygienes
@ErynElayne
@ErynElayne Год назад
​@@angelydachalyechevarria114for real tho. She was itching to get that comment on here. XD
@CyndiBabes
@CyndiBabes Год назад
Girl preach! My mom is Afro-Mexican from Mexico and she grew up being treated less than because of her hair’s texture and dark skin complexion she still cries and is ashamed of her the way her hair is which isn’t defined curls it’s just a fro and my Dad used to tell me not to bring a black guy home yet his kids and wife then carry African blood - Btw yes there’s AfroMwxicans in Mexico!!!
@blackleague212
@blackleague212 Год назад
My ex used to call me morenito and some of her family thought it was funny, but her mom said thats not nice... So you know the mom had to get her turn too lol since she was honest and lovely. I hit it out the dam park, mom still calls me, saw her in August.
@Sexicita28
@Sexicita28 Год назад
I'm half African American and half Mexican American❤️
@acaciagirl
@acaciagirl Год назад
@@blackleague212 wait what ??
@edmondsaunders7165
@edmondsaunders7165 Год назад
​@@blackleague212 you smashed the mom?
@blackleague212
@blackleague212 Год назад
@@edmondsaunders7165 yea shyte was dope too I tried to get them both at the same time but I didn't finesse it right. Would of worked if I was lighter skinned
@typicaltip0327
@typicaltip0327 Год назад
Can we please appreciate her honesty?!!
@leehayes6586
@leehayes6586 Год назад
THE ONLY WAY TO COMBAT THIS, IS WITH THE TRUTH 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@liyah7783
@liyah7783 Год назад
Hell yea. We love it
@Just_a.Fightfan
@Just_a.Fightfan Год назад
She not right she’s from the states her opinion don’t count
@typicaltip0327
@typicaltip0327 Год назад
@@Just_a.Fightfan says who?
@Just_a.Fightfan
@Just_a.Fightfan Год назад
@@typicaltip0327 says a real Boricua you Gringa
@puertoricanpapi1356
@puertoricanpapi1356 8 месяцев назад
The fact that she said “Trigueño” is a racist term is actually hilarious. I am trigueño and it’s actually a term for someone who is 3 races but doesn’t clearly lean toward either of the 3 and is a solid mix of all 3. Blanca= means white skin but still looks mixed negra= black skin but still looks mixed and morena= is brown skin but still looks mixed. Being from Puerto Rico I can look at a negro Boricua and a black American and see the clear difference. Even if they were the same clothes. The traces of taíno and Spaniard are viable in the negro Boricua still.
@user-wi4ik9if5f
@user-wi4ik9if5f 4 месяца назад
I’m 3rd generation Puerto Rican-American and most of us don’t even use these terms. I can tell she’s also 2nd to 3rd generation American. She’s making all this shit up to kiss ass to black American losers who hate everybody… idk why she’s brainwashed by college or some shit 😂.
@jama3997
@jama3997 Год назад
My grandmother calls me blackie. Says a lot. And my mother, who is Puerto Rican, literally refers to me as her black or darkskinned child. She also does this weird shit where she basically won’t claim black until it’s beneficial. Otherwise she will shit talk Black women and refer to them as “they” like they are some type of other
@eileenwatt8283
@eileenwatt8283 Год назад
They use to do the same in Jamaica but not anymore. The younger generation don't put up with that nonsense.
@tameiadale5210
@tameiadale5210 Год назад
Facts. My husband is Honduran...I've heard all the colorism and racism. I have Indigenous Native roots through my father and many Latin speaking people often mistake me for Latin and approach me speaking Spanish. I understand some Spanish. Once, a Honduran man called out to me in a Walmart saying, "Hey, Black like me," in Spanish. I had to tell him I wasn't Hispanic. He apologized for assuming. I told him it wasn't an offense, I get that assumption all the time, especially when I used to relax my hair and have it bone strait and flowing down my back. I no longer care to use chemical straighteners. My hair is what it is. And I love it.
@jama3997
@jama3997 Год назад
@@tameiadale5210 I have the hair issue in the fact that my mother was scared for so long that I would have “slave hair” as she calls it (when my sisters came out with kinkier hair, she told me that’s what they had) that she permed my hair excessively. I didn’t know I had curly hair until 5 years ago when I did a big chop. And that is when my mother started being nice to me. I have looser curls 3b-4a and she started saying we had the same type of hair, an even larger display of her shame for her black heritage. Her hair is 4c. When I told her the fact it was “no, you have hair like me.” And me pointing out the obvious texture difference was seen like some sin. She is technically biracial as both of my grandparents (one being the grandmother who called me blackie) are half black. But I swear she holds onto the fact that she is also half indigenous like it’s some oh so special thing to be multiracial.
@tameiadale5210
@tameiadale5210 Год назад
@@jama3997 yes. My father used to reference having "good" hair vs. "nappy" hair and constantly adoring my other 4 sisters light complexions (I'm the "dark" one out of all 6 kids, (5 girls and 1 boy)) My mother finally let him have it one day as respectfully as she could. She impressed upon him therecwas no such thing as good or bad hair and no complexion better than another. He came to understand the error of his ways and stop using those stupid phrases and spewing those garbage ideas steeped in colorism. I miss my dad. He certainly is the example of, "When you know better, do better." I had low self esteem until he finally stopped praising my sisters' complexions because he didn't realize tgat by praising them for being fair, he was essentially saying my complexions wasn't worthy of praise because it was darker and thus lesser. When I share this story browner skinned women are confused because to them I'm light. But, it's all relative when your siblings are near white skinned.
@DragonBellyTravels
@DragonBellyTravels Год назад
❤️‍🩹
@Explorista102
@Explorista102 Год назад
Period. I’m so tired of people ignoring the fact that racism exists all over the world.🤬🤦🏽‍♀️
@DaughterofZion-24
@DaughterofZion-24 Год назад
Racism exists but it's not enhanced
@ReneeWright69
@ReneeWright69 Год назад
I'm tired of children like you who know absolutely nothing. Who ejected a black President TWICE in the US? All the racists?
@KKKtrucky2
@KKKtrucky2 Год назад
It's crazy there's so many different variations of white and Caucasian will call black people dirty when I am still to this day. in 2022 meeting Caucasian based people who do not use washcloths, who do not know what a washcloth is for, and who will tell me that showering everyday or even every week is unnecessary........ but we dirty.
@melanatedone8655
@melanatedone8655 Год назад
Prime example yesterday at work the lady told me she was running late and she didn't get a chance to take a shower but she's happy she has a toothbrush in her locker so she could at least brush her teeth 🤔🫢🫢🫢🫢😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐. I casually scooted 10 to 25 ft away from her. Held my breath when she walked in my area also.
@StoneyLover93
@StoneyLover93 Год назад
Exactly! Like make it make sense
@Nubian865
@Nubian865 Год назад
We know the truth about their culture.They have had a issue with water and hygiene for years.I always let that be known to the racist.
@pacific3120
@pacific3120 Год назад
FACTS.
@MiVidaBellisima
@MiVidaBellisima Год назад
The washcloth thing is unnecessary/personal preference but def gotta wash your body everyday lol
@elimendez6164
@elimendez6164 Год назад
I’ve lived over 20 yrs and never experienced any racial profiling against any skin color unlike in the states, although yeah they have nicknames for darker or lighter skin tones of people we aren’t anti black. We’d have songs with words like morena or negrita but it wouldn’t be in an offensive way we are just comfortable with addressing you in that kind of way without any backlash because we don’t mean it like people in the states mean it.
@anellysolivo-figueroa4978
@anellysolivo-figueroa4978 2 месяца назад
Yes thank you. I was reading some comments and I was sad too see most ppl taking the opposite of how my family taught me. I was taught that that's a way of endearment. My abuela used to call me her negrita.
@bonnie1033
@bonnie1033 Год назад
Thank you lady. ♥️♥️♥️ Racism against Black people is truly an international thing.✅ God help us.🙏🏽
@janiyahsandjujujohnson6755
@janiyahsandjujujohnson6755 Год назад
God's people are always persecuted.
@queerios9925
@queerios9925 Год назад
They're not Black though as Black is an American ethnic group and not a race (race isn't real ) This is an example of colorism not racism.
@queerios9925
@queerios9925 Год назад
​@@janiyahsandjujujohnson6755 have you been sitting out history? It's usually the other way around lol
@prettynikki73
@prettynikki73 Год назад
Thank you for speaking up. I am Black. My mother was Black American from the south., and my father was Afro Puerto Rican. I’m thankful his mother, my grandmother taught her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren that ethnically we are Puerto Rican., but racially we are Black. I’ve heard the stories of how Anti-Black some Puerto Ricans are. And recently after finding Puerto Rican cousins through Ancestry (on my father’s dad’s side) who married white and who apparently identify as white., and being given the cold shoulder by them., I have firsthand experience with being snubbed. It’s sad it’s like that… but it is. My grandmother has stories for days of the mistreatment they received in Puerto Rico. SMH
@jondoe9164
@jondoe9164 Год назад
Gift wrap this message & overnight it to the Dominican Republic...They need to hear this too..🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️
@hassanshabazz3386
@hassanshabazz3386 Год назад
You can phucking say that again! As a country of people that is 98% percent black, it is really disturbing and disgusting of how most Dominicans do not associate with being black, and they hate other groups of black people on top of that. Being born and raised here in NYC I'm around Dominicans all the time. They are an extremely whitewashed and brainwashed group of people, They're former dictator Raphael Trujillo really did a number on them.
@WavyDominican2012
@WavyDominican2012 Год назад
Naaa we good over here bruh ! 🤣
@hassanshabazz3386
@hassanshabazz3386 Год назад
@@WavyDominican2012 stay over there!
@jondoe9164
@jondoe9164 Год назад
@@WavyDominican2012 You good, as in you're okay with the racism & colorism?...🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️
@Sunny-tc3ul
@Sunny-tc3ul Год назад
@@WavyDominican2012 didn’t y’all just get rid of all dark skin people send them to Haiti and probably killed of the rest
@angelbaby8794
@angelbaby8794 Год назад
I’m Latino and the darkest in my family. I would get called Tomasito, negrito, negro, tapón de aberca (because I was slim and black). I am also the only one in my family that has REALLY white teeth. And comments from visitors (my aunts now husband) who would say that I only had white theet because I was black. Or other negative comments about my clear and youthful skin. And I would feel so uncomfortable, not even embarrassed because I always loved everything about me. Also, when my family would make comments about “bettering our race” so that if u bring someone over they have to be lighter skin than you. It was like small micro-aggressions. I know what ever I felt was my responsibility but sometimes I would question if they see me as one of them or if they just see me as part of them… it may sound offensive but you all get what I’m saying? Like I’m not saying I’m different because I grew up with “brown” people- seen as better in society. But I’m question if they even liked me or not bbecause I am darker in shade.
@b.ajackson3937
@b.ajackson3937 Год назад
My Mommy was raised in a convent, because she was darker then the rest of her family...
@nishamarley1416
@nishamarley1416 Год назад
It seems your beauty intimidated them! Never let anyone make you feel less than what you are, family or not. A hater is a hater baby keep shining ❤
@amandagarza4621
@amandagarza4621 Год назад
I'm so sorry that happened to you its sad it's so sad when family talks about you and they wonder why you don't keep in touch with them 🤦‍♀️
@skysthelimitforeveryoung3437
They didn’t like your shade. Mine is like that. I would always call and visit but not once got the same. I stopped and just put me first. PR is really indoctrinated heavy heavy. You’d think you were in Belgium😂
@shelleyharris4176
@shelleyharris4176 Год назад
yes understand what you are saying
@waitwhat6056
@waitwhat6056 Год назад
If Puerto Ricans need to know one thing: black people are some of the most hygenic people. Even more so than some of the othee races that are "acceptable" to bring home.
@cfogle1000
@cfogle1000 Год назад
Yeah we don’t play when it comes to our hygiene
@whyask9864
@whyask9864 Год назад
Period
@sunfirep6416
@sunfirep6416 Год назад
Puerto Ricans know better, trust me
@headcaptainyamamoto7015
@headcaptainyamamoto7015 Год назад
Since when is hygene a color thing? Another one to the list
@wjr1538
@wjr1538 Год назад
Except B simone...she made us look bad fr
@magdalenemartinez2618
@magdalenemartinez2618 Год назад
She is speaking facts. My PR grandmother married a black man from North Carolina. He's the only man on my father's side that I knew as grandpa. He raised my father from young as his own. My father still sat me down when I was in high school and told me to never date a black man because they beat their wives. All old school Puerto Ricans I grew up around were similar. My grand father never put a finger on my grandmother and he still said those words to me. I was shocked at the ignorance.
@eileenwatt8283
@eileenwatt8283 Год назад
Sometimes you have to bring them to reality and say " grandpap is black he never beat grandma. He raised you. You are not even his son. ". Where this hate coming from..check yourself dad" then walk away.
@caribbeantigress
@caribbeantigress Год назад
She’s speaking lies that you’re eating up.
@noi5476
@noi5476 Год назад
I heard from different sources that Puerto Rican males are pedophiles. I used my common sense and think 💬 for myself and know that isn't true.
@delsijoy705
@delsijoy705 Год назад
​@@caribbeantigress Wow! You are delusional! Racism is real.
@delsijoy705
@delsijoy705 Год назад
My jaw hit the floor! This was so shocking to me! Thank you for bravely sharing this reality.
@simayaturner6648
@simayaturner6648 Год назад
I went to Puerto Rico a couple months ago and experienced many instances of being ignored or flat out treated differently than my lighter skin colleagues I traveled with. It got to the point where my white and lighter skin colleagues noticed and started ordering for me so we could eat together or calling waiters who could never seem to see over so I can ask again for food they “forgot”. It was sad for me and embarrassing for us all. I felt like I was in the 50s. The place is beautiful but as a brown skin black woman I felt unseen in way I only read about in books before then, and what’s sad is most of these people look like my family. It was the oddest juxtaposition of sensations. To see yourself so clearly in someone who doesn’t see you at all. 😢
@magemold7943
@magemold7943 Год назад
😂😂 reality checked yo dumbass.. you know now tho and sound to me like you need more “brown skin black women” as friends and you wouldn’t be so embarrassed but you segregated yourself and experienced GET OUT first hand
@simayaturner6648
@simayaturner6648 Год назад
@@magemold7943 calm down baby. It was a work trip. Lmao that’s why I said colleagues. Grow up
@LionIron447
@LionIron447 Год назад
"Racism" is satanic and demonic, not of God Almighty, but it's of the devil...... So hold your head's high, because the Most High God, is going to end this evil mess sooner than later ... Literally. .... Ps it's not going to get better, but worse according to the Bible.... It time to repent and return to our God Almighty.... Like Now Fam
@Black_unity597
@Black_unity597 Год назад
I would have laughed at everyone of them and ignored them the same way when it came to tips and everything else!! It would have pissed them off!! I know just how to get under their skin! Call them boy and girl!!! I really don’t see how a people so poor can actually think that they have the right to try and look down on someone else! That’s why I don’t mix with none of these immigrant groups they are just as bad if not worse than whites! Them whites enjoyed every bit of it also!! Just not to your face we have to unite we just have to the day black people do that that’s the day we turn everything upside down on its head! Stop spending with people who will never spend with you create our own we don’t need anyone they all need us! Without us a lot if not all other communities will fall be dirt poor!! As most are already and all they have to hold on to is dumb shit like our culture so where better nah buddy you want to like us so bad it hurts inside!!! Weird people!!! Love you my sister it’s brothers like me and others out here that will die for you I couldn’t have been their I would shower my natural black a**
@patricegraham8136
@patricegraham8136 Год назад
So sad
@username._copied123
@username._copied123 Месяц назад
Very true 🤦🏻‍♀️ my dad is from Portugal and he is one of the most racist people I have ever met. To this day he is still like that. He stopped talking to me because of the fact that I had friends who were black. Literally makes me sick.
@pennyp7382
@pennyp7382 Год назад
I love that my parents always told me..."Just don't bring home an asshole!"
@nikag5217
@nikag5217 Год назад
Yes! My mama told me when I was about 10 "IDC if he's black white green or purple, so long as he treats you right" and I've never forgotten that, thank you Mom for that!
@magoo9279
@magoo9279 Год назад
I tell mine to make sure they can cook or they come from a family that can cook. I like to eat.
@lillvill6403
@lillvill6403 Год назад
​@@magoo9279don't we all🤣🤣🤣🎂🍪🍩🥤🥟🥡🍦🍡
@ObeseCaligula
@ObeseCaligula Год назад
Girls don't carry the family name so it's irrelevant what they do.
@magoo9279
@magoo9279 Год назад
@Bobby Drago I don't know what century you live in, but women don't always change their names, and their children don't always take on the fathers name, and they don't have to change their name. And what does that have to do with the topic?
@Island.oceanwoman
@Island.oceanwoman Год назад
My moms side is from PR and there was literally a racist incident involving a darker Latino being harassed by another Puerto Rican.. togetherness my ass 😭😭 we are not welcomed
@ziolp
@ziolp Год назад
This is exactly why I only worry about black PR whenever something happens in PR. I know for a fact they wanna divide everything
@Dominican1923
@Dominican1923 Год назад
Darker latino you mean a black latino Afro Puerto Rican 🇵🇷 is what you mean
@TheMichellepr
@TheMichellepr 5 месяцев назад
You mean that case with the crazy old lady? I think she had dementia.
@desiregoncalves5219
@desiregoncalves5219 Год назад
This is so true my moms family is PR . The older generations they are the worst . They eventually stopped being racists , my family would say shit to me and my cousins about not making the family too dark , I was treated a bit different bc of my skin color I’m light brown my dad is also black , my ex is Dominican even his own family treated him differently bc he’s slightly darker than the rest of his siblings .A friend of mine who’s a brown skinned Panamanian & Colombian own grandmother didn’t like her own grandkids bc they were too dark it’s real out here talk about it
@nownalolo2999
@nownalolo2999 Год назад
Do you know why they do and say that?
@desiregoncalves5219
@desiregoncalves5219 Год назад
@@nownalolo2999 it’s rooted in colonialism and passed down there’s other stuff too but that’s the gist of it but honestly blacks do this as well “treat the light ones a little better” just with being Hispanic it’s not a race so it’s a wider spectrum of races I’m caught in the middle so I see both sides but I am glad that more Latinos are speaking more publicly about it bc it was the elephant in the room conversation growing up
@nownalolo2999
@nownalolo2999 Год назад
@@desiregoncalves5219 You say it's rooted in colonialism and passed down there's other stuff too. mmhhmm blacks? black is not a color. Why do you and others say people black? Who said people should call themselves that? They treat light ones better, why? You say Hispanic it's not a race. But it's a wider spectrum of races? What's a race?
@desiregoncalves5219
@desiregoncalves5219 Год назад
@@nownalolo2999 ya I answered a question u asked I’m not concerned with the technicalities and terms , collectively that’s what people call themselves whether it’s accurate or historically inaccurate .
@tommiebrooks8573
@tommiebrooks8573 Год назад
That is so sad 😥
@marcuzcruz248
@marcuzcruz248 Год назад
you know what the real problem is I'm Puerto Rican but I was born in New York you have a lot of reggaeton artists from Puerto Rico that giving love to all these Hispanic countries these reggaeton artists have never been in the streets
@keyme52525
@keyme52525 Год назад
and they be the first to say my nigga 😂then say oh im black to just to continue to say nigga
@daniellelynch5592
@daniellelynch5592 Год назад
Preach everyone loves to use that black card when it beneficial ! it’s the same even with the mixed girls that claim white.
@KendiaMarie
@KendiaMarie Год назад
They say it more than we do
@darondawilliams9097
@darondawilliams9097 Год назад
I get so sick and tired of hearing that b.s.
@tinamarie8061
@tinamarie8061 Год назад
All the facts
@lynndennis6325
@lynndennis6325 Год назад
​@@daniellelynch5592
@rodra167
@rodra167 Год назад
Racism sure does exist within many cultures I believe. I’m Dominican and my great grandfather was Haitian. What’s crazy to me is that the DR and Haiti SHARE an island. So people there have been coexisting for centuries. There are no 100% Dominicans with out Haitian roots/Haitians without Dominican roots. Yet in the DR they are constantly deporting Haitians and discriminating against darker skin people there. Its mind blowing.
@johnrodriguez9839
@johnrodriguez9839 Год назад
I knew my country (D.R.) wasn't far behind in all this hate. Lol. Yo, yes it's messed up if you ever felt shunned within your OWN family just cuz of your skin tone. No one should have to go through that. Now, like it or not, being called negr(@) in D.R. is a compliment. Like it or not!!! Having lived thru both types of racisms, u.s. /D.r. I say the difference is abysmal. I'm sure black latinos do not feel offended by being called negro or moreno by me. Shooot, they call me the same and we move on. I call my black niece mi chocolata, or my love, or my hunny or by her name. She is NOT self conscious about her beautiful skin tone at all. Black is beautiful! My 4 kids mommas are all black. Black American women whom never had those hang ups either, thank God. Granted, racism is an evil disease. I'm so glad It was never a thing at home. I felt it daily in the streets for sure, but not at home. I grew up around mainly boricuas, Cubans, black Americans and Dominicans and even white boys. The only condition needed was that you were fully down. That you were real and you kept your word. This race or color b.s. was never a BIG thing back then. We were poor and we put our energy towards bigger concerns, like getting paid to provide for all our families. We came up proper and provided our kids what we never enjoyed and at the same time, we raised some soft ass children. That's how I see it. This chick in the video ain't explaining it fully tho. She making black Americans think that racism in l.a. countries is exactly the same as in u.s.a. when it is not. Then, she does nothing to clarify the difference. Sounds more like she come from a messed up family. But it certainly ain't the rule, but the exception. She shoulda checked her gramma then n there for calling black people dirty. THAT IS FOUL! As far as the d.r. deporting haitianos cuz they black, no ma'am, they deporting ilegals. Not only haitianos. You cannot be dee peed if you legit period! Like UNICEF, reported on an international news outlet that d.r. separated 1800 haitiano kids forcefully from their parents and dee peed them to their luck all alone. BUT, UNICEF D.R. reports in a local d.r. paper that the country did no such thing! But they won't report both internationally. The hypocrisy is glaring. Back to the chick in the vid, she talking like she invented the wheel lmaoo. So ask black latinos how they feel, what changes would they like to see. Seems to me like your dumb ass the only 1 annoyed or worried about this. Maybe others in these countries have so much more to worry about than this that it ain't nothing maybe...ion know myself, but I never heard this being an issue in my years. If it indeed is that big of an issue now, address the damm thing. These are real interesting times we living in today. Soon, men gonna cry cuz manicure prices are too high...
@globalbutterfly
@globalbutterfly Год назад
Facts. I just came back from DR and the way I was treated and other dark skinned ppl were treated was disgusting. Just rude. Yet they treated the white ppl like Gods.
@Cashizeverything
@Cashizeverything Год назад
Do you remember the history between these ppl ? You understand what Haitians did to Dominicans ? Just wondering we’re actually mixed alot more because of the rape went on when Haiti liberated itself 😮😢❤
@jameszkelly
@jameszkelly Год назад
This negatively destructive racist behavior introduced to the world by melanin recessive (wht/blanco) people is a poison to ALL indigenous/native melanin dominant people (blk/brwn/red/yellow) in the way they want to imitate and assimilate their european oppressor and enemies ill racist behavior therefore some becoming even more racist than their oppressor and enemy.
@youtubehasfallenoff3842
@youtubehasfallenoff3842 Год назад
Lol you island nekkas heads all jacked up. I understand now why those countries are only seen only good for sex tourism.
@Warchild-007
@Warchild-007 Год назад
OMG. I'm Panamanian 🇵🇦 and I grew up with this shit too. And I vowed not to live my life that way like it was around my family.
@ricoletocubano
@ricoletocubano Год назад
When you are mix-race, you don't belong to either group. You can go to África and Africans will discriminate against you, they know you are not pure black. God blacks discriminate against blacks. White European people bought slave from black, they didn't go hunting blacks in Africa. White bought slave from established slave markets. Do your kids a favor and don't race mix, protect your ethnic group, its important.
@1over23
@1over23 Год назад
Panamanian here too and can confirm lol
@maxantile8873
@maxantile8873 Год назад
My dad is black and my moms is Puerto Rican I moved to the island when I was 13 and I can tell you from experience there are racist latinos but it really be crazy cause all Puerto ricans have African ancestry, the food the music the culture mostly all comes from Africa
@Memeofme
@Memeofme Год назад
I’m a passing white Puerto Rican, my dad is Afro Latino (with 2A hair) and my mom is fair skinned with 3B hair, although there is colorism in PR, in my family, whenever my dad or grandma would make statement like that around me or my siblings, we would check them and explain to them that it was wrong and a very racist viewpoint. She eventually stopped and now speaks of her side of the family as beautiful because when her grandkids spoke up, she listened (she’s my fathers mother) my cousin is fair skin (from my moms side) and has the most beautiful Afro hair (4c) and we love her hair. As a child I never understood why my dad and grandma thought that way but they explained that that’s just how they grew up. Sometimes it takes loved ones stepping up and speaking out to make the elders change their minds and end the bs of colorism because we are Latino, we come in all colors shapes and sizes and we (as a family) are proud of our culture and heritage.
@staroromia2597
@staroromia2597 Год назад
Respect to you for teaching your family to be better instead of excusing and justifying their bigotry
@KCarey-cw4yp
@KCarey-cw4yp Год назад
Well said and done!
@johneta7665
@johneta7665 Год назад
how are you teaching your family anything about racism when you are admittedly “passing”? Stop being ashamed of who you are. 🤣
@michelebradley7813
@michelebradley7813 Год назад
Amen❣️ Colorism/Racism within cultures is generational & toxic.
@patriciacasenave5515
@patriciacasenave5515 Год назад
Exactly 💯.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 If you stay silent with the excuse (they won't change or can't talk back to parents and grand parents)
@risingphoenix6223
@risingphoenix6223 Год назад
Yes I’m Dominican I can tell you my family are like this and my mom had seven kids from dark skin to light and we all got treated differently just because of that. I’m lighter skin with 4c hair so they treated me differently just because of the texture of my hair.
@dfaro8453
@dfaro8453 Год назад
@@inspirequeens because they are confused. Brainwash by a system white colonizers put in place to segregate us. You can change how they think but you must confront the problem with then.
@skillyknight5689
@skillyknight5689 Год назад
@@inspirequeens mental illness, igonorance and the programming of this society is real. Smh!
@mizzpoetrics
@mizzpoetrics Год назад
​@@inspirequeens Internalized self hatred!
@solobeats1
@solobeats1 Год назад
I'm new....but wtf is 4c and 3b hair ? I was taught, Straight, Wavy or Course.
@freddy8942
@freddy8942 Год назад
Being Dominican and born with “good hair” is a thing. Seen it all my life.
@jayy2949
@jayy2949 Год назад
So true! And the darker you are the more derogatory it is said, and I'm done with my Tia's telling the kids " don't play in the sun too much, you will get dark, you won't be pretty anymore" or some variation of that. I'm done with that, no matter what color we are we need to knock it off.
@dominicandream4898
@dominicandream4898 Год назад
Facts
@mirzarm429
@mirzarm429 Год назад
But dont play in the sun too much because skin cancer aint pretty
@jayy2949
@jayy2949 Год назад
@@mirzarm429 it would just be normal time in sun and skin cancer is interesting cuz my fam always have labor in the field type jobs the majority of the time and none ever got moles or skin cancer, I'm in the sun constantly too all spring and summer for outdoor work with never having used sunscreen and I've never had a sun burn to the point when I was little I felt left out cuz I never had a sun burn like the white friends at school lol, im not kidding I really had a jealousy moment and vocalized it to a family member who told me burn is actually really bad and I should be extremely thankful we as a ppl don't burn, but some of our people must be having sun burns and skin cancer sometime cuz it might have skipped my known family and all but it's not logical our whole race/ ethnicity is not subjected to it at all. It's just cuz this I never think about skin cancer or burns but I think it's just not common with us cuz melanin does protect against bad effects from sun exposure at least a teacher said that and tried to prove it with facts from geographic and genetic proof she'd gathered but I had faded in and out of that class with paying attention cuz ADHD is rough , but I've heard similar arguments online which I know isn't a great source lol, anyway, skin cancer doesn't seem prevalent among us but again, I am just going on experience and half a class time talk I looked out the window allot during 😐 so what do I really know? Just my 2 cents . ✌🏽👍🏽
@jayy2949
@jayy2949 Год назад
@Muhminin oh I am now interested enough talking to the other person and now you that on Friday at my doctor appointment ( thyroid) I'm going to talk to her and get a answer. Cuz my skin changes immediately in sun, but just to my deeper normal color and I've never had problem, even my old regular doctor told me my time outdoors is good because my vitamin d levels were too low then I start my work out in April in sun all day half the week every week and she rechecked my blood for something else completely but asked what changed cuz vitamin d went from low to perfect without her yet prescribing a daily supplement and I when my panel is done frequently for my thyroid they check everything and d stayed good , she told me this is good for me cuz it can make you feel depression to be low on d and I'm prone to depression from a childhood trauma, but now I have new doctor same office just retired old doctor, I will talk about it now I'm thinking and wondering so much about it
@thegreatkingscorpion
@thegreatkingscorpion Год назад
​@@mirzarm429skin cancer is really prefer to white folks our body inheres the vitamin D that the Sun give off
@tracyeshoestv7649
@tracyeshoestv7649 Год назад
Wow, I’m so surprised. I supposed to go to Puerto Rico with two other black women who runs a mentoring group for black and brown college students. Listening to the video and reading a lot of comments I’m not sure if I really want to go there because I am a black African-American dark skinned woman. The other women are lighter skin. This saddens me, but I’m glad to hear the education behind racism that it exists all over the world not just in the United States. I can’t relate to what you are saying because it happened in my own family. I was called Blackie as a child by my aunt and my mom would say she got me from the Cabbage Patch. My mom is light skin with green eyes. My brother is light, skin with gray eyes, and my other two siblings are brown skin with hazel eyes. And I am dark skin with dark brown eyes today as a grown woman my mom still shows favoritism when it comes to skin color with my grandchildren for her if you’re light you’re right. I tell her all the time she is racist….. it’s really sad.
@flatbedladyv2191
@flatbedladyv2191 Год назад
In the English speaking caribbean islands too..colorism
@delimawalker2523
@delimawalker2523 Год назад
Yes!! Let's talk about it . 🥰🥰🥰
@elifoster4367
@elifoster4367 Год назад
Yup let’s make it a discussion
@causeeffect7624
@causeeffect7624 Год назад
Results of colonization. You've got to keep them separated...
@daisyterry9508
@daisyterry9508 Год назад
Hell, right here in the good ole USA ⁉️ Anyone remember the 'brown paper bag test' ??🤔
@LoveyourzAF
@LoveyourzAF Год назад
facts
@mattiewilliams1138
@mattiewilliams1138 Год назад
This is true because I worked with a PR girl and she was telling me stories like this. She said that her family called her little girl NEGRA because she was dark skinned. When I met the little girl I was expecting a dark person like me, that little girl was light caramel and they were calling her negro…..just wow!!!!! I was truly shocked; because to them I must have been really NEGRO.
@cherryblossom6702
@cherryblossom6702 Год назад
it's truly sad how the colonial times have brainwashed these people and that there is no in-between black and white. poor girl as a mother I will go off on anyone who dares to speak negative against my daughter. I even went off on my mother because she tried to be slick by saying something about my daughter in a derogatory way. anyone can get it I don't play when it comes to mine.
@marydavis7894
@marydavis7894 Год назад
​God will fix all.
@rainnmoon114
@rainnmoon114 Год назад
It's not always due to racism. People from the islands tend to refer to people by their physical attributes. Gorda, flacca, blanca, negra, etc etc. Because I was the first dark baby in the family (and my abuela was practicing English) she literally calls me her chocolate candy bar. It's endearing. No one complains when light skinned Ricans are nicknamed Blanca (white).
@brandygee9954
@brandygee9954 Год назад
That's sad.
@omokaroojiire
@omokaroojiire Год назад
​@@rainnmoon114 Now c'mon, how endearing is it to call dark skinned people dirty? Telling your children not to bring a black man, or black woman home is NOT endearing!!!
@imawarethatimrare7474
@imawarethatimrare7474 Год назад
This is definitely not surprising.
@AGYFTFROMGOD
@AGYFTFROMGOD Год назад
Literally like biii stfu 😑!!! Next! But y’all love us though… it’s ok just admit it 😜😂🎉👊🏾🫵🏽🫵🏽🫵🏽🫵🏽🤷🏽‍♀️😼🪄🪄🪄
@BreezeWithAfrica
@BreezeWithAfrica Год назад
Right! They think they White…
@nuballa2917
@nuballa2917 Год назад
​@@AGYFTFROMGOD who is y'all? U stfuu l0serrr😘
@mau6099
@mau6099 Год назад
As a black Mexican and when I say black I mean from the black culture of Mexico. I have to say this because outside of Latin America people from the USA seem to forget that black means anyone of African ancestry from any country who had slavery lol I agree with you. Growing up in a Mexican household and culture I heard it all. So many friends of the family would say the most racist things in front of us about black people and then turn around and say to us, “But not you. You’re Mexican. We’re talking about other black people.” Like wtf! It is so normalized to point out someone’s skin color in our culture and also say racist shit about their skin color as if it’s a joke and it’s not. It’s not being sensitive to all of those saying that you see it as endearing. Give us negros and morenos a good reason why it has to be pointed out when speaking about someone endearingly & then maybe we can see your point. Even light skinned people should not have their skin toned pointed out. There’s no reason for it. We have eyes we can see the differences without them being pointed out. Also let black latinos be proud of being black. If you’re proud of whatever you are then be it! But don’t stop people from being proud of their roots just cause you are proud of who you are and think that is more important. For us we are proud of being black that does not mean we are not proud of being Latinos! We are who we are! Enough said, have a good day everyone lol!!
@reek.8505
@reek.8505 Год назад
I’m dominican and african american and what she said in this video is 100% true. Needless to say, not all latinos are like this. I visit hispanic stores and markets all the time where I’m from and usually am welcomed w no issue. (Quick story for those willing to read) But I remember this one time I dated this puerto rican girl in college and she introduced me some of her family. It was cool until the car ride back w her mom and sister, who ig thought I was just black and didn’t understand spanish lol basically called my ex a snowbunny and me “el perro” (the dog)? They called me a fucking dog bro😂 so when we got back to campus to drop us off, her mom was saying goodbye and I responded back “gracias por invitarme” (basically thanks for having me in english) and they all went 😮👀”habla español?” and I told them I’m half dominican. Should go without saying that relationship didn’t last for very long😂😂 Moral of the story is, the girl in the video told the truth and more ppl need to start being honest with themselves about the racism in our culture.
@denisewilliams1626
@denisewilliams1626 Год назад
I agree with you 💯% and people need to know we’re that mentality stem from it goes way back to slavery and colonization this is why I always say people need to do the research, and know who they are as a people.
@dalialto
@dalialto Год назад
My dark skinned BLACK grandmother will look me dead in the eye and tell me she is NOT Black...🥴 And one time I made the mistake of asking her about her roller set routine and how she got her coily 4a hair so straight! Mannnnnn, you would have thought I insulted her by suggesting her hair was coily!!! She insisted she has good hair now, that she trained her hair to be good hair. And my white Puerto Rican grandmother would scold my mother on letting my hair be wild and big and curly in public and staying out in the sun. That I should diet cuz my curves are getting way too big like black people. My mother would yell at her back and say her father is black and leave her children alone!
@rickh9811
@rickh9811 Год назад
I appreciate your honesty
@towoawawaboofficial
@towoawawaboofficial Год назад
Wow that's sad, but black people know themselves and that's all matter ✊🏿
@kungfuhustle6363
@kungfuhustle6363 Год назад
Brainwashed
@nitroluskincaid
@nitroluskincaid Год назад
Its not your grandmothers fault. Its how they were taught and conditioned by their own parents going back to slavery. Where the white man taught our ancestors to HATE THEMSELVES!!! To hate their skin and heritage. Our ancestors would be PROUD of us today to know that we love ourselves and our culture and kinky hair and wide hips and thick lips!! Thats why the term "Black is Beautiful!" is so REVOLUTIONARY!!! Cause they taught us to hate Everything about ourselves and to try to assimilate to white society!! Not just in America but white supremacy exists all over the world. So its bigger than Granny!! lol And we just have to Educate her!!! Bless you and your fam!! POWER TO THE PEOPLE!!! 💯✊🏽💪🏾🙏🏽🤎🖤🤍
@richardgreen1245
@richardgreen1245 Год назад
That's wild I can remember this Puerto Rican girl told me she wasn't black. I'm looking at her with a wider nose and kinky hair than mines. Looking at me like I was stupid or something😂🤣😂
@Dojshay
@Dojshay Год назад
I was discriminated against by Puerto Rican’s when I went on a trip to Puerto Rico. I was horrified and had no idea they were racist against black people there. I met a kind man whose mother was African American and his father was Puerto Rican. He said his mother is discriminated against and he helped me get some things I needed while there. I don’t really want to visit there again: The audacity of a culture that’s literally mixed with African ancestry to behave like this is crazy.
@elsikpych
@elsikpych Год назад
Well quit rioting over laws you defend
@kelvinhernandez1976
@kelvinhernandez1976 Год назад
It not all Puerto Ricans because Puerto Rico is known to be the only carribean island (correct me if I’m wrong) to embrace their African roots and culture for example bomba dance. But it depends what area cuz sadly some are ignorant but trust me racism isn’t that much in pr but I’m sorry you experienced that
@Vegeta-er1su
@Vegeta-er1su Год назад
@@kelvinhernandez1976that’s what I’m saying lmaoo I was born in Puerto Rico and went to school I been around lightskin and dark skin people my mom is Dominican and she went to Puerto Rico that’s how she met my dad my Puerto Rican grandmother is white complexion and my grandfather is black complexion, and all my moms Puerto Rican friends are black complexion so I really get confuse when they say theirs racism I mean, don’t get me wrong. There are some racist people(ignorant) but majority of them are not racist.
@kelvinhernandez1976
@kelvinhernandez1976 Год назад
@@Vegeta-er1su right like Puerto Rico have a lot of mixed, dark skinned, black, light skin I seen them and I’m mixed like yes their is white Puerto Ricans but that rarely because I’ve seen so many color skinned in Puerto Rico so their barely any racism besides old ignorant people
@maxhidalgo2766
@maxhidalgo2766 Год назад
its not the black people. its the African American culture which is basically hood culture that Puerto Ricans hate . I know i grew up in ny and they destroy everything. crime families cities neighborhoods.
@ivanasmall142
@ivanasmall142 Год назад
Yassssssss!!! She ain’t lying I’m an Afro Latina 🇵🇦 and I identify as such. I dated a Puertorican and his cousin told him: That’s your girlfriend? Pero ella es negra, no se te ocurra tener nenes con ella que te van a salir con el pelo malo!! I have long curly hair but he couldn’t see past my skin color!!! Poor soul
@The10thManRules
@The10thManRules Год назад
How about dinner and a movie?
@panama2468
@panama2468 Год назад
Damn, I hope he put her in her place bc that's straight disgusting, especially coming from a portorican. Panama is full of black and native people, and I have never thought to think down on them.
@ivanasmall142
@ivanasmall142 Год назад
@@panama2468 His cousin was a male and no he didn’t put him in his place! Needless to say that was a wound the relationship couldn’t survive. You know how we Panamanians move 💯
@VILL4NELLE
@VILL4NELLE Год назад
no preocupes chica ellos no se como tú hermosa tu eres💗🤎💗
@geni412
@geni412 9 месяцев назад
Racist don’t give af about your length of hair. You can be black with any length of hair but racist don’t care about hair length because they hate your race aka your skin color and features
@bmoe3503
@bmoe3503 Год назад
Damn... we're dirty??
@jemdollhentai
@jemdollhentai Год назад
We dirty . And they wet backs. I'm a fair racist
@GodisReal43
@GodisReal43 Год назад
Trust me,I've worked with with several Latinas and Latino men,and they do NOT like us. They really do think that we are dirty,and they're better than us. And please don't dare try to be confident and self assured with your feminity as a black woman around a latina or African woman because they will hate you vehemently 🤦🏿
@flossyraven
@flossyraven Год назад
Sometimes I feel numb that WS has convinced the whole world that us black people are anything but a child of God, but when I really sit and think about it I feel so depressed about it. It's so crazy like living in an alternative universe that we can be so despised by the world to the point it's demonic even by some of our own.
@immaculatepeter5529
@immaculatepeter5529 Год назад
@@flossyraven it’s really scary to think about. There is really no place safe to be black.
@flossyraven
@flossyraven Год назад
@@immaculatepeter5529 absolutely scary nowhere safe for us.
@abellabarbie
@abellabarbie Год назад
Literally. I was the darkest person in my family, and I ALWAYS heard about it my whole life.
@theamazinblasian1
@theamazinblasian1 Год назад
😔
@jamiekoga1903
@jamiekoga1903 Год назад
Fuck'em! You're beautiful. Melanin is the color of all living things on this planet. The Universe is black.
@abellabarbie
@abellabarbie Год назад
@@jamiekoga1903 thank you, sis! You are, too! In adulthood I had to restructure all my thinking. When I was younger I was told to avoid the sun, try and find skin lighteners, etc. And when I came back from college in my first semester, having to walk across campus in the sun, EVERYONE in the family commented on how "black" I got, not even "dark." My mom was a white Spaniard Puerto Rican with green eyes and reddish hair. And my dad was the taino/black Puerto Ricans, but was light skinned. And all my sisters came out like my mom except me. There is a lot of both racism and colorism, but now I love my skin and hair, and I'm proud of all parts me. Everything she said is the truth.
@judithreyes4664
@judithreyes4664 Год назад
My parents are from PR and me and my siblings were all born here. We all have blue or green eyes. I was red haired and had freckles. I have been told by so many and I mean many Puerto Rican’s that I’m not Puerto Rican because of how I look. Even when I would speak Spanish they pretended they didn’t hear me and call me The White Girl. Thank God I’m older now and I do my best to not pay attention to people’s BS. I’m grateful that in my family my sisters and brother married who ever they wanted and we have a beautiful mix of colors and races. We know what racism looks and sounds like and refuse to participate in it. The older generation was good at labeling for sure but we just need to do bettter. God Bless you all!
@petergeramin7195
@petergeramin7195 Год назад
Where these Mexicans and Central Americans
@judithreyes4664
@judithreyes4664 Год назад
@@petergeramin7195 I’ve been more accepted by Every other Race but my own unfortunately. I wish that wasn’t true but it is.
@bertlenny5571
@bertlenny5571 Год назад
As a Puerto Rican, this black girl doesn't speak for me.
@sherayyvette7878
@sherayyvette7878 4 месяца назад
& you just proved her point
@bertlenny5571
@bertlenny5571 4 месяца назад
@@sherayyvette7878 Explain to me what is her point
@user-wi4ik9if5f
@user-wi4ik9if5f 4 месяца назад
Bruh most black ppl wouldn’t even claim her lmao, she’s not black she’s just brainwashed.
@aliceowiredu3650
@aliceowiredu3650 3 месяца назад
So that said black girl can’t be from Puerto Rico right? You sound racist
@christianrowell1081
@christianrowell1081 2 месяца назад
@bertlenny5571 I absolutely agree with you. She trying to be black if you asked me. I'm Puerto Rican and Identify as Puerto Rican
@sschumer23
@sschumer23 Год назад
I see no lies! Being someone who's mixed blk/domin/PR and dark chocolate. I always got the "you're pretty for a dark blk girl" or "you're dark but you've gotta be mixed with something" 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️. Got to the point I don't even tell ppl I'm mixed. Just say I'm Black!!
@mariekom81
@mariekom81 Год назад
I hate that shit so much. Like why the fuck do I have to be mixed to be pretty. Or why do any of us have to be mixed to have a certain hair type. Like no bitch, we range the spectrum in every way there is... That's That
@Teddy_Graham
@Teddy_Graham Год назад
You can’t be mixed with a place of origin. That’s how dumb y’all be sounding. I might as well say I’m mixed with Georgia and South Carolina.
@joycewilson8546
@joycewilson8546 Год назад
Do not allow anyone's ignorance control your voice in identifying who you are!!!
@blueismylove3128
@blueismylove3128 Год назад
​@@Teddy_Grahamyou can though? That's just how language works. You often refer to yourself as the place you were born. Like how Chinese person is from China. If one of their parents is Japanese then they be mixed with Chinese and Japanese like I really don't understand what you're trying to say here?
@BigMoney398
@BigMoney398 Год назад
​@@blueismylove3128black is not a place tho so saying I'm mixed black and Dominican don't make no sense.
@MommaKong7
@MommaKong7 Год назад
My grandmother was dark-skinned, she told my mom not to date this guy at church whom my mom had a crush on cuz she "didn't want any dark grandchildren." My mom didn't agree. Some of our family members used to call us white and high yellow all the time in a negative way. It's taught through generations. Divide ➗️ and conquer.
@TheRenegadeStarr
@TheRenegadeStarr Год назад
That’s your grandparents self hate coming out
@Cream_of_wheat
@Cream_of_wheat Год назад
Yup, I’m the lightest one in my family & throughout my childhood was called high yellow, lil yella, YT girl, light bright & so on. And @ 39, my family still feels the need to acknowledge my color as compared to the rest. It could be divisive but I would always just laugh it off & not feed into it, though clearly it was more of a thing for everyone else than it was for me.
@MommaKong7
@MommaKong7 Год назад
Yes, it is ingrained in a lot of black families over generations
@ScorpioMojo
@ScorpioMojo Год назад
I'm mixed with black and white. The worse racism I experienced growing up, was by white kids at Catholic school. The black community accepted me as a light skinned black man
@MommaKong7
@MommaKong7 Год назад
@Ricky Raven wow. I'm sorry. I have heard if you are mixed they see you as black. Hate is taught. We love you. ❤️
@fall4daeyez
@fall4daeyez Год назад
Facts! Time to break those generational curses, it’s so sad! Being the darkest in my family was hard growing up, they said so many negative comments on how I should bleach my skin “as a joke”, and when I had biracial children with a black man! Forget it! I was devastated at the things my grandmother said to me! She doesn’t even talk to me now. It’s Disgusting, let’s stop acting like it doesn’t exist! 💯
@flamboyant731
@flamboyant731 Год назад
Wowww
@JerseyJD24
@JerseyJD24 Год назад
Sorry to hear that 😢 sending you love ❤
@fall4daeyez
@fall4daeyez Год назад
@@JerseyJD24 Thank you so much boo 🙏🏽❤️
@joydorsy3341
@joydorsy3341 Год назад
God LOVES U!
@fall4daeyez
@fall4daeyez Год назад
@@joydorsy3341 Thank you so much amen 🙏🏽
@thereisonlycis3566
@thereisonlycis3566 Год назад
I know a Puerto Rican girl from the island, and has a twin sister. She's dark her twin is light they're fraternal twins. She's been treated like garbage her entire life for being dark in Puerto Rican to the point she doesn't even feel comfortable with her skin. People don't even believe she's Puerto Rican when she's more Puerto Rican than than American Puerto Ricans with pale skin because she was actually born and raised there. Yet people act like that shit is only in America. People make me so sick.
@Inappropriateradiotv
@Inappropriateradiotv Год назад
It’s colorism in every culture the darker you are the worse you are treated any and everywhere
@mayanaware2763
@mayanaware2763 Год назад
…when they gone accept the fact we all came from one place😂😂😂
@tim0877
@tim0877 Год назад
We did come from the same ball of dirt.
@chuckymcchuckleston8410
@chuckymcchuckleston8410 Год назад
Yesssss 🤝🏼
@linnerellie209
@linnerellie209 Год назад
We didn't
@kareempusey5032
@kareempusey5032 Год назад
never they never will
@Deenique16
@Deenique16 Год назад
It’s never going to happen
@williambryant5844
@williambryant5844 Год назад
I love this woman’s speech….the same thing happen in the Dominican Republic. They way they treat the Haitians is demonic….
@apologiaromana4123
@apologiaromana4123 20 дней назад
Haitians should stop acting demonically
@jadiesh2
@jadiesh2 Год назад
I am Panamanian, I AM SOOOO GLAD YOU SAID THIS‼️
@prettybrowneyes9683
@prettybrowneyes9683 Год назад
I'm half Panamanian and half Puerto Rican, shes speaking facts
@Thinkaboutit121
@Thinkaboutit121 Год назад
My brown Panamanian grandmother told me stories how she was treated compared to fair skinned sisters. Disgusting.
@prettybrowneyes9683
@prettybrowneyes9683 Год назад
@@Thinkaboutit121 My aunt told me when I went to Panama. I always wondered why I never really seen her growing up when visiting. That's why. She left home a very young age
@StoneyLover93
@StoneyLover93 Год назад
I remember at my old job I was cool with the only few black ppl there and one day these Dominican girls who I was cordial with invited me to have lunch with them and they were like oh why do you hang out with them? they’re dirty, they make you look bad and you need to be with your own ppl smh and I was like i am and they were like wait you’re not Dominican? I was like no and I proceeded to go off on them and never spoke to them again. I was so mad and disgusted
@asiachestnut4210
@asiachestnut4210 Год назад
They be looking like us (black folks) but talking shit
@asiachestnut4210
@asiachestnut4210 Год назад
Some of them be looking more black then some actual black folks
@StoneyLover93
@StoneyLover93 Год назад
@@asiachestnut4210 exactly smh it’s nothing but self hate
@LGnLA
@LGnLA Год назад
It's pea-brained racist foolishness... and they could NEVA, that's why they stay mad...💯
@thefifthanproud4031
@thefifthanproud4031 Год назад
​@@StoneyLover93 went through the same thing. They racists as hell smh...
@staycuteabroad179
@staycuteabroad179 Год назад
I appreciate her honesty. Cause it's been very uncomfortable sitting around a house of latin or Mexican people talking shit about my culture and ancestors with no full understanding about what that are really saying and doing.
@Dominican1923
@Dominican1923 Год назад
There's more people with African ancestors in latin America than USA even Mexico has black people the first Mexican president was a black man
@Dominican1923
@Dominican1923 Год назад
Look it up
@heru-deshet359
@heru-deshet359 Год назад
I lived and worked in PR for 12 years between 1970 and 1982. I never came across anything racist. There was no racism. Folks were just folks.
@MadAudi
@MadAudi Год назад
I worked with a blond green eyed Puerto Rican lady that was married to a dark skinned dark eyed Puerto Rican man. I made the mistake of saying he was black… she lost it. She screamed “He’s NNNOT BLLLAAACK!!” I’m a high light skinned black female and her husband looked deep dark. I didn’t know there was a distinction. Nor did I know… she was racist against black people. Sure know now.
@carlhall1091
@carlhall1091 Год назад
She's ignorant asf a lotta people are under the impression that if a Black person lives in a Latin American country and speaks Spanish he's not Black! But if this same person was born in Chicago and his name was Maurice Jackson and English was his primary language then he would be considered Black.Smh it's a lotta ignint mfers out there!😂
@roshellegouldbourne787
@roshellegouldbourne787 Год назад
She more than likely meant that he's not African American since the word Black is Synonymous with them.
@MadAudi
@MadAudi Год назад
@@roshellegouldbourne787 No. she meant blaaaaack. I know a sneer when I see it. I know mortification when I see it. I know racism when it’s slapping me in the face. No. I’m not overly sensitive or traumatized or whatever your going to say is wrong with me. That puerto ricana was/is racist. She’s card carrying. I knew her. Worked with her. You never met her. Go sit somewhere. You have no clue as you weren’t there, don’t know her or me. 🙄
@Nature-ep5cu
@Nature-ep5cu Год назад
But he is black regardless
@ria0991
@ria0991 Год назад
@@Nature-ep5cu black is a culture not a race. Only in america is it a race. To our brothers and sisters living in the islands and latin america when we call them black they get mad because to them black is a culture and culturally THEY ARE NOT BLACK. Racially they are mixed with African the same west african we are mixed with to varying degrees which some of them do not deny and some do. Racially we are indegenious and African. Read they were here before Columbus.
@queenandcrown
@queenandcrown Год назад
Couldn't care less. Usually those who look down on certain groups of people are definitely not the best examples of humanity themselves.
@rochellegivens5245
@rochellegivens5245 Год назад
😳👊🏿🤦🏿‍♀️👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿😇🧚🏿‍♀️
@countrygirlxo7188
@countrygirlxo7188 Год назад
It’s so normal for everyone to be so rude and mean now a days. It’s rare to see a genuinely nice person anymore
@VickHushpuppy215
@VickHushpuppy215 Год назад
It’s because social media made it ok & almost cool to be a rude douchenozzle to ppl and it’s starting to leak out & effect society on a major level .Really just a bunch of mean, anxious & drugged out people with a lot of malice in their hearts taking their issues out on others and sabotaging good things coming to a good person because of jealousy. I still try to believe majority of people are inherently good but it’s becoming harder & harder everyday🤦🏽‍♂️
@theresac.9203
@theresac.9203 Год назад
I was up till after 6am this morning 🌄 thinking the same thing. It is very disheartening.
@countrygirlxo7188
@countrygirlxo7188 Год назад
@@theresac.9203 I’m a big lord of the rings/hobbit fan. And there’s this quote Gandalf said that stuck with me. “I have found that it is the small everyday deed of ordinary folks that keeps the darkness at bay. Small acts of kindness and love.” It encourages me ❤️
@wblk
@wblk Год назад
The saddest thing I ever seen was a white American tell a white Spanish person that you're not white. Spanish guy was crushed
@Nature-ep5cu
@Nature-ep5cu Год назад
😁😁🤭🤭 poor guy But do u mean Spanish speaking though not originally from Spain?
@cherleze4790
@cherleze4790 Год назад
There's so many things wrong with this statement but sometimes u just gotta let ppl do geography 🤣🤣
@shelleyharris4176
@shelleyharris4176 Год назад
People are dumb
@shalbec3232
@shalbec3232 Год назад
Damn😂
@Iraaklobster
@Iraaklobster 11 месяцев назад
@@Nature-ep5cuand whats that about?
@charliej766
@charliej766 Год назад
My college roommate was from Argentina and her best friend in the dorm was Mexican. One day she commented, isn’t she pretty for a Mexican. I’m not even Mexican (I’m black) and I was offended. She then went on to explain there’s a hierarchy with regards to people from Latin countries and Mexicans and Dominicans were on the bottom of her list and people from Spain and Argentina were at the top 😳
@TFPG62
@TFPG62 Год назад
Colorism at its worst.
@mrs.tcampbell1249
@mrs.tcampbell1249 Год назад
Sad!
@dreamcompletion9671
@dreamcompletion9671 Год назад
So sad!
@chenanigans
@chenanigans Год назад
That exists in Asian cultures as well. It's not even surprising to me anymore. I work with a lot of Asians as a flight attendant since we go to lots of Asian countries with my airline. There's a pecking order I've learned. Korean and Japanese like to believe they are top. Chinese after that. And then of course all the darker Asians like Philippines are seen as the "blacks of Asians" and at the bottom of the totem pole. Literally I've been told this straight from their mouths. They even have drama on their flights when they work together cuz it's like they clique up and look down on one another. It's so sad. Colorism is global unfortunately.
@pterodactylbull
@pterodactylbull Год назад
Smfh this shit gets under my skin.
@leroywest5015
@leroywest5015 Год назад
she is facting not acting...n she is intoxicatingly beautiful.
@jackmeoff5121
@jackmeoff5121 Год назад
Crooked tooth bro on the screen????
@wings5211
@wings5211 Год назад
@@jackmeoff5121 still gorgeous af lets see a picture of you
@sparklesp9304
@sparklesp9304 Год назад
I hope that you'd say the same about Monica, smh.
@erowry22
@erowry22 Год назад
​@@jackmeoff5121a crooked tooth means she is not beautiful? Yall are grown ass bullies.
@reallynah
@reallynah Год назад
@@jackmeoff5121 at least she’s not hiding that pretty face. where’s your pic ?🤣
@jasvelisSamuda
@jasvelisSamuda Год назад
as a Dominican woman with black features , I’ve been told by Puertoricans , indirectly that i am not what their parents would like to see brought home. Disgustingly enough the same happened to my son , he cant be best freinds with his childhood freind anymore because her puertorican mama says my son looks like he steals 😂. Other latinos kill me, this is why my loving husband black.
@boxfancb
@boxfancb Год назад
This doesn't happen in PR like you saw it in the states though
@truthliesbeneath3134
@truthliesbeneath3134 Год назад
You have pride and know who you are people like that are disgusting
@emo12886
@emo12886 Год назад
Lol DR woman w/ blk features 🤣 YOU ARE BLACK (Haitian) born n raised in DR!!
@jasvelisSamuda
@jasvelisSamuda Год назад
@@emo12886 born in DR raised in America .and i say black features so you understand what i look like. I may be light skinned but there is no mistaking when you see my face i am black thats that and yup with Haitian familia
@jasvelisSamuda
@jasvelisSamuda Год назад
@@boxfancb i live in New york.
@eldmorales3867
@eldmorales3867 Год назад
I'm sorry I'm white Puerto Rican
@RepnBKNY
@RepnBKNY Год назад
That's true sometimes my mother would call me negro Wich means black in Spanish but of course it comes from a term of endearment I'm a brown skin Puerto Rican from NYC And it's true there are a lot of Latino families that would tell there kids that stereotype about black people I have four kids and all 4 by the same black woman
@rmaddwilliams5064
@rmaddwilliams5064 Год назад
You said that to say what exactly???
@Pocahontas502
@Pocahontas502 Год назад
Yea we are some dark skinned Mexicans and my parents call us Negra and negro 🤦‍♀️
@unapologetictkzma8236
@unapologetictkzma8236 Год назад
So how r u Puerto Rican if u r from NYC? Were u born n Puerto Rico? Wouldn’t that simply b ur heritage/lineage?
@mscocobread5106
@mscocobread5106 Год назад
I kid you not, there’s a Spanish family across the street that don’t like Blacks BUT has an Afro wearing father 😮 he tries his best to intervene when there’s drama tho 😅
@coci2729
@coci2729 Год назад
My niece is black and very light skin she hate when people call her red but she tells them I am black .
@Finstabaybee
@Finstabaybee Год назад
Same in Cuba, Mexico, Peru ... I remember watching some talk show years ago and the actress from Desperate Housewives Eva Longoria talked about how in her family she was the darkest and her family called her little Negra and made her feel like an outcast. Then she became famous and they wanna be all family now.
@LD-cn1rz
@LD-cn1rz Год назад
Wow
@mc5549
@mc5549 Год назад
Every race including mine (black Americans) need to speak the truth about what role we play in staying in the state we are. Love her for bringing light on darkness. We all need to clean our closets.
@melanatedcutie748
@melanatedcutie748 Год назад
The funny thing is as a Black American I heard this argument for YEARS from a lot of my non-Black Latinx friends here in the states. One of my (Mexican) homegirls who I knew since middle school and I was in class (now High School) when I saw this fine!! Brown skin BROTHA entered our class he turned out to be her man who she was telling me about all day that day. I was curious because she told me she wasn't into Black guys (I now know she meant Black American men) so I told her straight up yo man sure looks Black to me, honey. We laughed and she told me straight up I kid you not. Word for word "I know but he gets MAD when ppl call him Black." "But he is Black" "He looks Black but he's actually Cuban" "But there are Black people in Cuba..." Chile long story short they were not tryna hear that and they literally said the same thing she said here in this video. "We don't call each other Black,white etc etc." I wasn't as equipped to have the conversation the way I can today but I always think of her and other similar situations as previously described, whenever I stumble upon videos like this. That's why very few people have permission to speak to me now.
@timelesslove8678
@timelesslove8678 Год назад
It breaks my heart that people have to be so mean and unloving to one another all the time. Why is it so hard for others to be loving and kind?
@erowry22
@erowry22 Год назад
Because that's all they know. Pathetic really.
@RoyalTea54
@RoyalTea54 Год назад
Good point! Why? No one has yet to get the Answers...so sad! Stop the hate!!! People. For the Record!! I'm not Dirty!!! Ever!! Ever!!! What the Hell????
@ReneeWright69
@ReneeWright69 Год назад
The ones who are yelling, screaming, being demanding and cruel to others are these same people! Ironic, huh?
@NESWPRODUCTIONS
@NESWPRODUCTIONS Год назад
Oh we know. It's never been a secret. All I have to do is sit back and watch people for a while and their disgusting behavior comes out
@nicoleraheem1195
@nicoleraheem1195 Год назад
True
@blacqdiamond6670
@blacqdiamond6670 Год назад
I had Puerto Rican friends and their family didn't want me in their house💯🤦‍♀️‼
@chocolatebunny2064
@chocolatebunny2064 Год назад
wow I'm sorry you went through that you precious beautiful soul I'm African American and I'm all natraul I'm dark skin with a large afro and I have lots of haters but I don't care long as they don't touch me
@Black_unity597
@Black_unity597 Год назад
@blacq And the sad thing about what you just said is YOU STILL CALL THEM FRIENDS!!! The mind fuck is real!!! Oh one last thing why is your emoji white??? ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
@blacqdiamond6670
@blacqdiamond6670 Год назад
@@Black_unity597 if you know how to read the keyword i had NoT my friends ‼‼‼🤦‍♀️ I know your mind is f bye🤡🚮🥱.
@tatertot27826
@tatertot27826 Год назад
Wow how true. My 1st child is half Puerto Rican and back in “96” my boyfriends dad was very “old fashion”. He didn’t like me coming over their house, he thought that they should be with their “kind”. It took me to have his 1st granddaughter for him to change his “old fashion” ways.
@gameguru42392
@gameguru42392 Год назад
This is why i get so mad when they think they can just say the n word like bro no we are not the same
@chuckburg6818
@chuckburg6818 Год назад
BIG FACTS 💯
@a.d.8252
@a.d.8252 Год назад
Exactly right 👍🏾
@mrcead
@mrcead Год назад
Exactly. They get that work in the south when they try it tho
@Dominican1923
@Dominican1923 Год назад
Black Hispanics and Afro Latinos are black i assume you mean the ones who ain't BLACK....
@Dominican1923
@Dominican1923 Год назад
All the latino rappers say the n word cardi b pop smoke ice spice fat joe big pun nore fabolous cypress hill jim jones Juelz Santana joell ortiz etc
@mrs.tcampbell1249
@mrs.tcampbell1249 Год назад
My friend move to the states with her son because he was born darker than anyone in the family on both sides and was treated poorly by his own family. Here he was accepted by neighbors friends and the family here. It's just sad...
@yolandabacon3662
@yolandabacon3662 Год назад
Great move! He came first and you did not join in.
@sparklesp9304
@sparklesp9304 Год назад
That's a commendable mama
@focusedallday5620
@focusedallday5620 Год назад
Funny enough lol the first time I ever heard of “cocolo” was from a Dominican dude. I didn’t even know it was a hateful term until another Dominican person told me it was disrespectful. Stay Focused!
@mayaj291
@mayaj291 Год назад
What does it mean??
@lovelygrandtress9397
@lovelygrandtress9397 Год назад
Meaning if you're black you're not even human. They're white Supremacists. They literally breed the blackness out of their blood proudly.
@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 Год назад
@@mayaj291 Cocola is a twist on Coca-Cola which is the dark colour of the drink.
@carmensantiago1689
@carmensantiago1689 Год назад
I'm NY Rican, but I was raised in Puerto Rico. My first granddaughter from my son is mixed, blk and Puerto Rican. And like 7 years ago my lil cousin that lives out there sad something about black people and I was so furious that I cursed him out, I told him you're talking about my granddaughter and he was like no. I said whatever you say about black people is towards my granddaughter you know her mom is black so you're talking about her. And it seems like you didn't pay attention in school, cause our heritage is black, Taino and Espanol. I never went to there house again. I was so offended that til this day I don't speak to them. My baby is a gorgeous light skinned black, Puerto Rican girl, with mixed hair. I will shut you up quickly. This person is saying the truth about people in the island.
@dahabizizy
@dahabizizy Год назад
Iam so proud of u that u didn’t let ur daughter grow in that negative energy
@Sexicita28
@Sexicita28 Год назад
❤️
@christinacooper8955
@christinacooper8955 Год назад
So you showed your ass because you didn't like something somebody said? That made you know better than them.
@Leos_corner9326
@Leos_corner9326 Год назад
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@acemanifester1401
@acemanifester1401 Год назад
so true my mom was told by my grandfather that if I came out looking black id be disowned. My father is Moreno so I was always reminded about how different I looked from the rest of the light skinned part of my family and the white part and now all of them are not even in my life. Its sucks cause I'm Stuck in the middle being mixed & I don't look like any of my fam and it sucks that it even matters so much.
@birdielee6718
@birdielee6718 Год назад
@Ace. Hi🙋🏽‍♀️ The first time i heard the word -Morano-was in Mexico... Are you from mexico?? Years ago when the Slave ships docked in Mexico, the people there said 'We are not like them-We are Moreno people. So the Blacks from the ships we given a different side of mexico to live, now down through the years they are All Mixed Up through births...
@acemanifester1401
@acemanifester1401 Год назад
@@birdielee6718 So my father was the result of Taino people mixing with the African slaves. this would be considered Moreno The Taino we'er the Native American Indians from "Puerto Rico". In Mexico you have the incas & mayans and if they mixed with blacks they would be considered Moreno as well. To get an idea my father looks Ethiopian with loose curls and a sprinkle of Native American. Now so that we are clear Moreno means BROWN - its when a negra dark skinned person mated with gringo or native light skinned person and has a baby that's not ' white or light passing ' essentially. BUT if the child comes too light with dominate white features - they won't be considered Moreno or Morena - if your features are in the middle you will be considered Moreno or morena the color of your skin determines the nick name. we should consider that Spanish culture is different because if your fat you'll be called "gordo(a)" or if too skinny called flaka(O) it just depends on how you look and what's the feature that sticks out the most about you. I'ts kinda like a term of endearment Another example is that the Irish somehow got enslaved in Puerto Rico so there's a lot of white assssssss people from Puerto Rico so freckles and green eyes are common and they would be called gringa(o) but be talking Spanish right along with you And because of this mix of people a lot of Morenos also have green and hazel eyes but more darker skin and features.
@birdielee6718
@birdielee6718 Год назад
@@acemanifester1401 Oh Thanks a lot..👍🏿
@marissasf7196
@marissasf7196 Год назад
@@acemanifester1401 my rican sister you good love!! I’ve read n heard about racism in PR && Brazil being the worst. I know families mean a lot to us but just learn to love yourself from the inside out. Peace be on to you
@Lindamorena
@Lindamorena Год назад
@birdie lee in other countries Morena can mean a black person
@sofiabutterflies1635
@sofiabutterflies1635 Год назад
She's not lying, I seen racism with the hispanic culture when it come to Afro Cubans, Mexicans, Dominicans which some refuse to acknowledge they are black even though some have dark skin tone, Puerto Ricans. Racism will always exist someone out there is raising their child how to be racist.
@mimifranklin9887
@mimifranklin9887 Год назад
Gosh I'm glad that you guys are having this discussion within your own community. I'm glad and proud to be A/A as we have had a "Black and Proud movement" and a "Civil Rights Movement". But, we are consistently having conversations on racism and colorism in the Black American community as it's very indicative of deep seeded notions of inferiority that was planted hundreds of year ago...Keep being open and honest about the issues as it's the only way it will change.
@DadeHudson93
@DadeHudson93 Год назад
I was born here in the states but my background is Dominican, I'm so glad my mom didn't put this buffoonery on me. She told me early I have African, Spanish and a bit of European (Italian) in me, and to take pride in all of it. I also never took part in any of the beefs between the countries like Dr and Haiti or Dr and Puerto Rico. All y'all my ppl, whether you're from the Caribbean, or Africa. We got to be better then the previous generations
@fernieu3537
@fernieu3537 Год назад
u are so smart my friend. do not indulge in all the hatred and negative vibes 🙏
@kaleenajean
@kaleenajean Год назад
Spanish in nothing but the colonizer and the language spoke bc of them smh * sigh*
@Drando1989
@Drando1989 Год назад
Afro Latinx ppl need to continue unapologetically speaking up about their experiences. Spain was a super colonizer.
@ellakutedudi6881
@ellakutedudi6881 Год назад
I just love being black. I love my black skin and I love my long, luscious locks!❤️#fba
@leroyangry255
@leroyangry255 Год назад
Keep it up young black girl proud of yourself.
@XxpoisinkittyxX
@XxpoisinkittyxX 6 дней назад
I am Puerto Rican and one of my tías was treated less than by my great grandparents because she was darker than her siblings. There is soo many issues with colorism and racism. I have always been criticized by my abuela for dating darker skinned people, all the offensive shit she would say would have me fuming!! I started saying "oh so would you say that to *grandkid name* or *grandkid name*, no ok pues stop sayin it periodt."
@catherinethompson8956
@catherinethompson8956 Год назад
A famous Latina footballer called a black British footballer a racist word and it nearly caused a fight during the game.
@syeneingram1218
@syeneingram1218 Год назад
Honestly this is something that I was always taught growing up and something that I rarely if ever get to speak on.😔
@mauriceblackmon6662
@mauriceblackmon6662 Год назад
Wake up black people...pay attention! Stay with your own baby. Embrace your blackness..Black queens and Black Kings..love 1 another..FORGET WHAT YOU HEARD..IM PRO BLACK AS IT COME!! LOVE THE GROUND A BLACK WOMAN WALKS ON....YES SIRRR
@ronwatford7331
@ronwatford7331 Год назад
So you're a black supremacist? Exactly counter to what this country/world needs right now.
@maya-mu3ce
@maya-mu3ce Год назад
as a morena colombiana from cartagena i feel this
@xDEADP00Lx
@xDEADP00Lx Год назад
You do? With both hands or just one?🤣
@calligraphyfairy6693
@calligraphyfairy6693 Год назад
Gaslighting. It's sad when they wanna lie to you. Ty for spreading the truth
@amapparatistkwabena
@amapparatistkwabena Год назад
She’s speaking truth. I studied in PR for one semester and was shocked that they referred to two brothers from Panama as “los negros”. I asked them privately how they felt about it and they said it was stupid, but they understood why. I was HOT. When people deny their racism, it’s the worst-trust me, we Americans know.
@StrangersIteDomum
@StrangersIteDomum Год назад
Seriously, democrat commies are quick to make the worst racist comments if you even question their religion of climate gender change.
@rimuruslime23
@rimuruslime23 Год назад
Some do it as an endearing tone. Not derogatory way.
@Dominican1923
@Dominican1923 Год назад
Why would an afro Latino get mad at being called black when we're literally black
@daydecz673
@daydecz673 Год назад
I would say it is not racism... it is colorism. 🤔
@Dontbesosoft
@Dontbesosoft 4 месяца назад
Racism taught through colonialism supported by social caste systems
@kaind.badguy
@kaind.badguy Год назад
Language barriers allow lies to continue unchallenged.
@lonely_plant
@lonely_plant Год назад
sadly this is so true. when I had my child, it was all my tias and tios wishing they had white features. Hispanics and Latinos try to act like they aren't racists but it's this old thinking that makes us look foolish. know better, do better.
@Musicfeinn
@Musicfeinn Год назад
That’s sad
@LEA-yr7bb
@LEA-yr7bb Год назад
They are very racist I’ve only experienced racism from Mexicans never the white ppl and I’m black and white. They often confuse me for being one of them and get mad at me for not knowing Spanish
@ms.m9582
@ms.m9582 Год назад
THIS THIS THIS PLEASE AS A PUERTO RICAN AND SALVADORIAN WHO WAS BORN IN NJ AND RAISED IN L.A. I SEE IT DAILY WE ARE BEAUTIFUL AMAZING SHADES OF BROWNS JUST LIKE THE EARTH CANT WE SEE THE BEAUTY WITHIN EACHOTHER AS WE DO THE HILLS AND VIEWS IF THIS MAJESTIC WORLD??? TO MORE LOVE FOR OUR MELANIN BROTHERS AND SISTERS😘🇵🇷❤️‍🔥🙌🏼
@greeneyedboricua2473
@greeneyedboricua2473 Год назад
🇵🇷🎯🇵🇷🎯🇵🇷
@meep3035
@meep3035 Год назад
Shades of brown? lol have you heard of Spaniards?
@orandobroom9261
@orandobroom9261 Год назад
@@meep3035 so racist there is a whole ass informal way of talking to one another in the language that they didn’t teach it to indigenous peoples? Doesn’t mean we have to perpetuate the hate.
@meep3035
@meep3035 Год назад
@@orandobroom9261 wtf are u on about? Lol
@GeeZeeX3
@GeeZeeX3 Год назад
​@@meep3035 Latinos are the real colored people. We come in all shades.
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