as a bisexual man who's been out for a decade, DL men are some of the worst people i've ever encountered and won't do it again. being discrete is one thing, it's completely different when you're cheating on someone who loves you or ruining your own family.
ABSOLUTELY AND THESE ARE FACTS TOLD BY YOU WHO HAS A CERTAIN LIFESTYLE! I love the fact that you Love LOVE AND SEEM TO TRULY BE SEEKING LOVE AND ARE TRULY BISEXUAL VS DL! #Honesty!
An older white lady came to My university class. I was working on My bachelor's in Health Education. She married her highschool sweetheart. She had never been with anyone other than her husband. She suddenly got sick and was told that she was HIV+. Her husband was sleeping with other men unprotected. That story still resonates with Me years later. There is nothing wrong with being gay, bisexual, asexual, heterosexual or any other sexual that does no harm to anyone without their consent. But lying and hiding a part of your life and placing someone you love at risk is a low vibrational move. This goes for straight people who cheat in their straight relationships as well.
This here is the reason I have been celibate for ever. My life, health & wellbeing come first, as I can only trust myself & not willing to allow anyone in my space. Especially in this era of apps & wanton cheating, hell to the NO 🤺⛔️📛🚫🚷❌
And nowadays in effort to help those “stigmatized” who hiv+, they advocate: they don’t even have to tell you it’s not there business as long as your taking your meds. The LGBT has gotten everything they want, if they don’t check themselves, the other sides of the extreme will answer them eventually. LGBT community as movement is becoming more and more problematic that’s why some of us stay DL we want nothing to do with an excessive political agenda. Plus most you fairies think your the “correct” gay while also talking about how it’s a spectrum n sexuality is fluid.
I jus had this situation with my ex bf last year. With proof of his account on the app and sources that messed with him telling me they had relations, him n his mom still sat up there n said it was all a lie…I never spoke to them again. To this day other ppl n talkin abt him being DL…..bc it’s true!!! N the gay guys that messed wt him r telling.
@user-jh7yg8hq9w Out of the blue my friend's husband became obsessed with backdoor intimacy. She said sometimes she would be awaken at 2pm only to find her husband trying to enter through the backdoor. My friend did not even see the red flags. Turned out he was cheating on her with men.
For women that don’t understand DL men. A word of advice. They HAVE to have a gf or wife for it to be exciting. You are the supply to the DL experience. The sneaking around, taboo and excitement of it all is what it’s about. Without the women then they are just gay. And they can’t come to terms with that reality. Bi sexual is different than being DL. #message
DL meaning down Low? What's grinder? People need to take serious care on the internet, slippery slope. You can't unring a bell. I don't believe any of it is safe, to be honest. Do people know how many are brutally Murdered after finding friends or dates on line. I'd peel rubber the the other direction quick fast and in a hurry. He had sex from on line strange oh h*LL no. ✌️👉😲
I love that her best friend really said, “you’re not going without me.” I know some wouldn’t like it but I’m so glad she has the support. Some people are brilliant in every area but their love life. 💙
Man to me the best friend acts like she wants her and she is also way to envoled with what's going on just another woman letting her friend ruin her relationship so much so to the point that when her friend said she is thinking about going back to the guy she is trying to ruin it again that's to much
@@PrinceEmber323 stfu. do you literally see your fucking youtube page. shes a beautiful women and so is his bestfriend. get your white ass off my comment
I don’t have time to cheat on my wife. My wife has been rock, my confidant, my strength, my weakness, among many other important attributes in my life.
They are 21 and 23 yrs old?? I thought they were in their mid 30s🤦🏽♀️ A person will show you who they really are by their actions. This guy is gay, and dealing with his sexuality...she's forcing him to be the man she wants. You can't give people ultimatums on their character.
I feel that Richard needs to figure out who he really is and who/what he wants in a relationship (male or female) & Airiana needs to learn to love and accept herself so that she will stop accepting less and start demanding more from her partners. They're so young, so plenty of time to get themselves together to attract the kind of love they both deserve.
This is a prime example of a low self esteem woman who will do and put up with anything to have a man. She needs to start loving herself and work on her self esteem. The man is gay and is using her as a cover up and his been telling her everything she needs to know by his action. She seems like a good person and wish her well.
I love how he’s able to speak to both parties without judgement and with clear explanation of mental and emotional pathways leading to the decisions being made. He makes everyone feel comfortable and comforted while also telling them what they need to hear. The mother energy in him is so heavy, Karamo is such a beautiful soul out here.
Same.. had he said in the beginning that he was bicurious or whatever then I would’ve made the decision for myself not to see him. Withholding information like that is just selfish.
He has an addiction that 1 woman alone cant fix. But She is a QUEEN. Shes giving me Jill Scott vibes. So beautiful!!! 😍😍😍 She will be okay and im glad she has a loyal and great friend.
Did I just hear a 21yo say sex is the foundation of a relationship (dating) and if you take it off the table your house crumbles (and literally the whole audience shook their head in disagreement)? What does a person that age even know about any foundations of relationships?! I mean, he's only just getting started... He really has a long journey to go in understanding these things, I must say.
So what’s the issue here??? The real issue cuz I’m confused. He’s on Grindr but supposed to be in a heterosexual relationship. We just gonna act like he wasn’t seeking men and then getting cold feet when it’s time to meet? Or does she already know his sexuality ? Is this just about cheating or is she fine with her man looking for men. 🤔😕😐
Let's be honest. She(23) doesn't want a man(21) who has sexual desires (same sex at that) to abstain yet she doesn't want to leave him. Draw your own conclusions but he is only sorry because he got caught. She doesn't want to be alone and she'll settle for a piece of man then none at all❣🌹
That was some sound advice he gave him!! I totally agree!! When you are alone, you are able to figure out who you are & what you like!! What you can take!! I’ve been single for 4 yrs by choice & I can be honest with ppl & still receive the same love!! If not more!!! Integrity is everything!! I maybe a lot of things BUT DEFINITELY NOT AN INTENTIONAL LIAR 🤥
Sending love and prayer for that young man to have a quickened journey to heal from his trauma surrounding identity and receiving love. He's probably never been loved for who he is or told that his existence is acceptable. In two quintessential areas of his life, relationships and work, he seems to want to both escape and hide which is common for people told this from a young age. The closet even for people who aren't LGBTQ+ is where we all hide in the beginning, while we paint the front door to appease others and receive attention- not true love- especially when we are young and fed the message that we cannot be or express who we truly are. It perpetuates so much unnecessary suffering- and we only become aware of our suffering through being alone and gathering tools from professionals like therapists and counseling. Karamo was spot on with this one. And as far as the woman, she will be okay. She likewise has to heal from past trauma probably having to do with her father and boundaries. Like all of us strong women do, taking back our power by not playing the "forgiveness" and "he'll change" record in our minds, she'll develop stronger boundaries and therefore stronger confidence, and won't even attract this kind of man anymore.
Does he? How? Like when he got the pink sauce girl to open up and show how disgusting and abusive she was to customers? Or the abuse tha karamo himself delivered to the poor girl from Allured beauty for a justified review?? I'm sorry, karamo bot- this comment ain't it. Smh karamos pr team needs better training. They're stinky
Yall pressed af about this pink sauce lady arent yall 🤔 how about just stop watching his videos if you're that "disturbed!" It's annoying to see yall still talking about that when this video has absolutely nothing to do with it! Please go heal and move on!
Bro fr! I didnt really agree with how the episode went but yall need to chill. No one died, you dont have to buy the sauce, the tiktok girl is okay too. 😭
Thank you. I said this a while ago. It's harassment at this point. You would think these people would have the same energy for abusers but nah. They're crucifying this man for one mistake....
It's the fact that people are trying to force an apology... seems immoral to me. Apologies should come from a genuine place, not forced. But since he won't apologize or "take accountability" it's time to bully this man for making a mistake. It's really not that deep.
Ariana you are so beautiful inside and out. I know it’s hard to have good self esteem, I struggle too. But with therapy and finding self love you will find a man who actually deserves you. ❤❤❤
True. But even if they were married, she doesnt owe him sex and he cant use that as an excuse to cheat 🤷🏻♀️ pretty much reveals that he cares more about sex than he does about who she is as a person if he's willing to meet up with random men at night the second she turns around 😬
21 & 23 and y’all going through this 😞. Sis just leave if your not happy, your both young enough to explore what’s out there and find your individual happiness for many years to come
When you found out he was on a website that’s of different sex why ask him to change who he really is? Not your tea move on, because when someone shows you who they are and you don’t agree with it get out that relationship and save yourself painful future heartaches….
Ms. Airiana!!! Mama!!! Your energy and your confidence exudes A True Queen. His energy and your energy dont even match. And when it comes to your friend you have a real one. Let him go kick rocks with open toe shoe And you go and live your BEST LIFE 🫴🏿💕💕💕💕
I see that it's been burried under the many positive comments how you gaslit an honest woman with good intentions as a bad person and you still won't even address your mistake you should really do better.
Exactly. They are trying to suppress all of us who want him to take accountability for how awful he was. Deleting the video, pretending like it never happened and now suppressing us who want accountability is making it soooooo much worse!
If you deleted the video than you know what you did was wrong. I think this is something to be learned from. Acknowledge your mistakes and apologize for them 😐.
If y'all haven't gotten it by now, the man is not going to apologize. Since everyone is so close to Alli and is concerned about how she was treated, ask her how she feels about the situation. Is she still even bothered by it or if she was bothered by it from the beginning. Heck he could have apologized to her privately. So the next time she pays Y'all bills or call Y'all ask her about it. Y'all are so worried about other people problems. If you don't like Karmo or don't support him, how about just stay off his channel. It's done and over with and it's getting kind of old for the people like myself that comes to his channel just for entertainment and know that in no way by Karmo apologizing is going to make me sleep better at night.
@@user-Tina8462 Nobody cares about idiots who support a man who uses his platform to wrongfully shame someone who had valid criticism of an overpriced product that could potentially harm people. Though I'm only here to see the funny comments 😂 dudes a dbag though
You’re missing the entire point. This man is virtue signaling and demanding accountability from people who did nothing wrong when HE can’t take accountability for his extreme wrongdoings. It’s about principal and about us wanting someone with power to do this again, to take some damn accountability and learn from it.
The segg probably slowed up or stopped because her body was trying to warn her of this man real true sexuality people think they really cam hide stuff your partner know can feel and sense it ❤
People are bashing Karmo for defending the pink sauce lady. Talking about she could have killed someone. But people need to take accountability for even buying that garbage. Why would you buy something off line from a complete stranger. You don't know what was in it, where or when it was made. I don't even like getting things from a restaurant if the people or the business doesn't look clean. I don't like using my debit card on line or giving non legit business my info. She is not a real chef or business owner but y'all gave her y'all money, no one forced people to buy it. They did it from their own free will. Yes she was wrong but if people use common sense sometimes she wouldn't been able to push the garbage without proper knowledge of how to run a business. Y'all say that karmo should have done his research but so should the people that bought the sauce. As a child y'all should have learned not to put everything in your mouth. It looks like pink throw up. Oh I forgot because it was the latest fad it was ok to buy it!! That's what wrong with this world, social media is taking over people's minds.
@@user-Tina8462 the point still stands. He did a show on it. He didn’t get the reaction he wanted so he took it down. That’s dishonest. If he stands by his work he should put the video back up and release the lab results. He was the one saying the pink sauce wasn’t all that bad so why did he take it down? Stand by your work or release a statement. Don’t gaslight your viewers.
@@zandrulousmakesmusic I am copying and pasted my response because people has been saying the same thing for weeks and nth has changed. If they don't like him or don't support him stay off the channel, it's that simple. I guess me saying she was wrong, saying she had no knowledge of how to run a business and that her product looks like pink throw up is defending her, oh ok, sorry about that. Let me clear it up, she was wrong when she made the sauce and on the show. I think her sauce looks like throw up and i don't understand why people bought it because she is not a legit business owner, she wasn't fda approved and was making the crap in her kitchen. Tick tok blew her up and Karmo is just getting started with his talk show and someone wrongly advised him to put her on without knowing the full background of the story. When he realized that she was so hated it was to late and he took it down. He did side with chef phi to much. But that was is right to. Everyone has a right to their own opinions. You can't get mad because Ally chose to sit there and tolerate the b.s. if she was bothered by it or disagreed she should have left or spoken up. I have not on any of my comments depended any of them. The only reason I commented about it now because it has been almost 3 weeks now and I am sorry I still like Karmo and I watch him and want read and respond to the comments about the Episode that I just watched. Not comments trying to force a man to say something that he obviously not going to or mean.
First .. lemme say this if we can’t hold hands or lay down with each other in the same bed if we can’t hold hands if we can’t kiss if we can’t show affection at all in a relationship I don’t wanna be in it .. I really don’t
So let me get this straight the relationship started off with them being physical then your religious beliefs kick in all of a sudden now you want to change the dynamic with someone who was happy with the way things were and you’ve broken up with him because you were stuck on your ex and yes cheating and lying isn’t the right move but damn give him some slack
In April 2004, J.L. King introduced millions of Oprah Show viewers to the phrase "Living on the Down Low." During the show, J.L. opened up about the dirty little secret of men who have relationships with women but have sex with other men. Throughout his entire dating life and eight years of marriage, J.L. said he had sex with multiple male partners. Sometimes, these undercover encounters happened in his own home while his wife slept upstairs. When Oprah first met J.L., he denied being gay, but over the past six years, he's changed his story. "I have accepted the fact that I am a black, gay, proud man," he says. "Fear is what kept me on the down low. The fear of losing my family. The fear of losing my children. The fear of hurting my parents. The fear of losing my relationships with cousins and extended family and the church." After meeting some strong, gay men who gave him a "gay crash course," J.L. says his opinion of homosexuality changed. "[They] taught me and showed me that who you sleep with does not define who you are," he says. J.L. also wants to make it clear that the term "down low" is used a lot in the black community, but it applies to all ethnic groups. "It's not just a black thing; I want to be real clear about that," he says. "Down low is not a black thing."
They are not looking for the same things. She wants a companion and he is looking to be sexually fulfilled. They're not compatible. Being bisexual aside, they have different needs.
As a gay man, DL men disgust me! The amount of messages I get from men with a wife and children talking about "Its complicated" no its not yall make it complicated... There are signs ladies and fellow young gay men, he will never be with you or love you, its all about the sex, so do not go wrecking homes and ruining families.
Basically he and the pink sauce lady ganged up on this poor lady who made a ticktock questioning the legitimacy of the sauce because she found glitter in it And instead of the pink sauce lady apologizing and telling everyone what she can do to make it right she told the lady that she "wasn't special" and her and the host basically told the lady it wasn't right what she did (even though she's a customer with a legitimate concern) and shamed her in the show
Karamo literally told a girl who wrote a nice review, that she should take this as a learning moment. Hope karamo can take all this hate and use it as A LeRnInG MoMeNt. God I hate this man
As Christians we must NOT be unequally yoked. This means God is saying in the bible, if the person does not have the same Christian belief they will not understand the concept of marriage before sex or the way a Jesus believer should live. trying to live. And the bible is the morale compass. This means no sex before marriage, be a light in the world, no judging but also means we must not conform to things that will defile us. Pray for others without judging, be kind, helpful...etc etc etc. You can't change someone unless they want to change with the help of Jesus. Christian women be patient... God will position you to meet your Boaz. Same message for Christian men, patience and your Ruth will turn up. Always seriously pray about potential partners and God will direct. Shalom.
