Decluttering subscriptions. Keeping the ones I truly enjoy on a regular basis that add value to my life, including your channel on youtube. I appreciate you. Thanks for all the inspiration that help me on my minimalist journey .
My motorcycle... With pain in my hart, but I will use the money to pay off some extra mortgage. The most important thing is to realise that I didn't had to be scary for it.
😢My dining room table is my “DUMPING” table…there’s so many piles on it that I have not been able to eat mindfully at a table for MONTHS…I know that I’m using it as the excuse not to tackle the bigger scarier things like starting a business, having people over, journaling, etc. It’s my pseudo crutch to justify my procrastination…freeing it up will give me a beautiful spot to enjoy a healthy meal, to invite others in or to use as a nice reading spot, place to implement goals through writing and FREE up my mind from using it as the excuse not to do things.❤
Very inspireing, thanks a million. I sorted out clothes that I haven't worn for at least two years and books that I haven't read or that I won't read again right away. 10 items in total. I'm proud of myself 😅
I finally got rid of old t shirts that carried sentimental value and some sort of identity (band tshirts I bought at concerts etc) most of them had lost shape or a bit small and washed out, some of them over ten yo so they have served their value by far, I bought ten black-greyish good quality tshirts that go with anything :-) moving on to long sleeve and shirts next
dang.. because of your videos I'm thinking so much about my life, future and mental health.. kudos! do deal with your own self and thoughts is really important and i get it know.
All of your content is inspirational, I think largely because it's so genuine, and kind. This one I especially enjoyed, and can relate to the overlapping diagram. One thought on that, that might help people, when deciding what's relatively "easy" to de-clutter is an area where it's easy to decide where things go an where there are clear places for each. Books were great for that - keep, sell, donate. But I'm realizing that sometimes things like "tools" are tough, because it can be a lot of work to organize the "keep" pile. Anyway, I'm rambling. Thanks for the content.
This was a great addition to this conversation! What you mentioned supports the example I shared from Pamela’s book collection. Thanks for sharing my friend!
After watching a couple of your videos last night, I woke up this morning and finally cleared off my kitchen table. It has served more as a catch all space and cat dining than anything else. I had been intending to clear it off so I can give it to the first person who takes it apart and hauls it out. I am in the process of downsizing my life dramatically so I can begin my vanlife dream. Purging is something I have been practicing for a couple of decades. I've moved around a bunch, often from state to state. Whenever I buy something new, it has to be better than something I already have that serves the same or similar purpose. It's how I keep my possessions relatively low. However, I have also developed a strong attachment to things, like clothes and beads. I have art supplies I have either never used or haven't in awhile. I do intend to use them at some point, but which ones? So the debate begins. Space is incredibly important to me. My living room is larger than it needs to be. Space fills the center, but the edges are filled with furniture. It feels suffocating because I have more than I need. At the same time, I am doing a partial build. Several pieces of my furniture will be coming along with me. They must be able to serve multiple purposes. One of them being storage for my daily life and creativity. I have an amoir dedicated to my jewelry making supplies. I want to add other crafting materials, which means downsizing. There are two great big obstacles. Everything is organized by color and metal. Sort of. There are different sized containers for larger amounts and bulkiness. I have a lot of stuff, which is awesome. But also crippling. I have too much to sift through. I often don't feel inspired until I begin decluttering my mess piles. These consist of failure projects that need to be dismantled and reorganized into my collection. Even when I do get around to those huge piles, I end up stopping and playing. Then I have a bigger mess. When I have a mess, I feel unable to create. This is where I am right now. I feel unable to complete my purging task because of all the things hidingin those piles. Once the project is complete, I can sell the supplies I no longer want or need. Even though I have made some good progress, it seems that only the surface has been scratched because of my giant mess. It may not seem so giant to some people, but the act of taking things apart and reorganizing them is time consuming and often daunting. Yesterday, I decluttered the bathroom. It could use some organization, and maybe even a finer declutter toothed comb. All in all, it was a successful project.
I love your videos. Thank you, Ron. My core values:Faith. Family. Friends. Health. Personal growth. Also, I have a really hard time setting firm physical boundaries for stuff. Sentimental items are hard to let go of. As well as books - with the digital age and people getting canceled (ex Dr Seuss) - it's hard to let go b/c what if I can't find that book (etc) again? Just a very practical issue I have.
Hi Ronald, thank you, your video is just in time for me as I'm struggling to own less😅.💪 But I'm persevering ❤. We are not our stuff or our job title. Fear is the root of so many issues in our lives and society just encourages us in that. And that frozen zone is exactly what I'm in right now. Much love from France 😊
Love your dad’s advice so much I wrote it down! I’m okay giving up clothes and tchotchkes. Crafting identity, too. But lovely old dishes, thick towels and high count sheets…! I imagine myself as a generous, prepared, host. Facing that I like to have a few friends at a time, and we’re around the fire pit in good weather, is hard, and I wonder why. Seeing how your steps work for me…
i have a hard time getting rid of things a lot because of the sentimental value in them. how do i throw out stuff someone gave me, especially my parents, grandparents, family?? sentimentality is a gift. and a curse. :(
My home is sparsely furnished and neat as a pin, surfaces are clear, no clutter anywhere. Just don't look in the closets or cabinets. I have six pairs of boots and it rarely snows.
I broke my emotional attachments to my stuff years ago. I was wasting money buying more than I needed. I got rid of a lot of stuff and keep a minimum amount now. Less is better. I think women accumulate and keep more stuff than men but I’ve seen men with too much stuff too. First thing I did was cut back on buying stuff I don't need. I stop buying things to make me happy and accepting and accumulating free stuff and exchanging gifts also. I’m little less happy now but free of stuff.
Hi Ronald, I am kind of stuck with the china that I own. There are multiple sets in my house that I collected over the years. Some are more valuable to me than others. In my thoughts are memories of good times with family and friends, sitting together and celebrating. Most of my family is gone and friends are not coming over so much anymore. My life has changed socially since I work in a full time job. I have the feeling there is no need for all of the China anymore. I startet to take it out of the cupboard. The first set was very clear. It's the one I like the most. The second set is one wich was very expensive. The third and fourth set are in the basement. From there I go to the garden. Where I used to have guests as well. Same story can't decide which one to keep. Or is it necessary, to keep one at all? I had no guests in the garden since 2018! There is a big what if in my had. Connected to an emotion of security, warms and comfort. And on top of the cream, the cherry of standards. As a person of a certain age and lifestyle, I should... expectations! My values are trust, value and self-efficacy.
My problem is that I want to get rid of stupid responsibly and where I live is super limited as far as options. Just throwing stuff away feels awful. Don't really know what to do...feel hopeless. I have gotten rid of some stuff thru our freecycle program but having to meet with people to give them what I have is so nerve wracking.
I’ve heard of people having “yard sales” where they list that they’re putting stuff out for free in their front yard on FB marketplace, and people come by and pick up what they want and need until it’s mostly gone, and then they get rid of the rest in other ways (donation, etc.) I don’t know if that would be a feasible option for you, or maybe even a friend’s house to do that if you can’t where you live. Or a free stuff bench at some condos, etc… a little at a time? In any case, I hope you can find a solution that suits you and feels less nerve wracking! Wishing you the best of luck!
@@21cormorants I appreciate the input. I'm not on FB but I'm sure I can find someone who might be willing to help me out on this. On the plus side, I have been able to donate/ give away quite a bit. I'm not really worried about making money off stuff at this point. I'm just trying to get free. 🤣
@@elistia that’s great! Yeah I’m not on FB either - but the idea is a “free yard sale” really appealed to me when I heard it! I donated some stuff a while back and when I saw it on the donation shop’s floor, the items looked like they’d been through hell! Getting stuff directly into someone’s hands who can use it is a great priority, and making sure it arrives in the nice condition you’ve kept it in is so important too! I’m so happy to hear you’ve been finding ways to get items to their new homes!
Here's the link the the before and after video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-q_mjUcNZGBQ.html I've also updated the description to the video and included the link.
Hey, in some areas I am struggle with letting in others I don’t. But I have another issue of letting go! I often buy things because I think I need it and then I regret the buy and then I have anxiety and have the I need to declutter again. This is at the moment my „little devil“. Do you have an idea how to break this cycle?
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Would love a house tour! Just to show how you function with less in the kitchen, baby space, closet and other places. I struggle with holding onto “extras”. Owning 6 towels when I only need 2 for example. My daughter having so many toys when she only plays with half , etc.
kids and toys - I heard there are studies that show that children with fewer toys develop longer attention spans, are more creative with the toys they have, etc.
Ive heard of people cycling through toys. They set out a few, then when their kids lose interest they switch them out, and store the old toys to cycle back in next time. I believe theminimalmom here on youtube has great tips.
I am trying to declutter my previous collections, mostly figurines. But I do feel guilty of letting them go. I feel that I have moved on from them. They are my past season hobbies. How do I go about that?
The detachment mentality is a huge game-changer. Especially since there is a danger to overly focus on the precious few possessions that remain (or precious few relationships, hobbies, etc.) once we've tarted minimizing. Realizing that you will be okay if something moves on and out of your life is a very liberating feeling, though can be scary at first (perhaps because the word "detach" is often mistakenly interpreted as "casting off"). But the things that really benefit your life and are of high value typically stay around effortlessly anyway. So if I learn to detach from things (and situations and preferences, etc.) only to discover something leaves my life, I try to relax and trust that it was for the best.
I've started removing things and clutter and my room is looking more and more like your background. Cleaning is so easy now. My mind is calm. Ive started feeling bored even since I am not using my time organize, reorganize, etc. Being bored is good. It can allow me to make art maybe. I hope so.
I tried several times in different browsers to download the PDF that is a freebie but wasn't able to...i get an error with google and safari is there another way to get the PDF that you can email thanks so much for the video i found it very helpful ❤
Please send me an email and I'll share the core values worksheet with you. It's unclear to me why you are getting an error, but I'm happy to email it to you.
Ronald, this is my first visit to your RU-vid channel. My problem is I am constantly getting rid of items (which of course means I had too much to begin with) but if I box anything to donate or pass on to someone that could use it my husband gets concerned. Case in point I always wanted white dishes. I have a perfectly good set of blue willow that partly belong to my mother and mother-in-law. I purchased the white dishes about 3 years ago but now I realized I could have survived without having to store more dishes. I want to donate them to a charity but my husband just doesn't understand that I'm 73 and want to get rid of excess while I still can. I don't want the burden of more for myself or my family if I pass.
I have so much clutter because I am poor. I can't afford to replace things so I tend to hold onto a lot "just in case". Or "I can't donate/trash that, it's valuable", but then be so overwhelmed by the chaos I just can't get things together enough to list them for sale.
Do you feel like it’s too much stuff for the space you have? Too much visual clutter and “noise” when you see it? Depending on what’s the root of the feeling of “too much” would be a great start. If it’s too much for the space might mean needing to find ways of downsizing, or storage improvements, for example… visual “noise” might mean finding ways of just making things appear a Little more cohesive whilst being able to keep the same amount, by contrast… etc. wishing you luck; I’m in a similar boat!
@@21cormorants we actually do live in a small apartment and it's tree of us + a doggy . There is no visual clutter at all (it only overwhelms me when we make a mess by everyday living) , but I want the same feel for when I open a drawer or a closet , and this is hard because we have nothing that we are not using 😭
My last attempt at decluttering was in the kitchen, today. I only got rid of a few things. I'm a bit depressed, as I realise what took me several hours over a few days, was basically just "stuff shuffling". I'm going to revisit it in a couple of months. Next stop, the LAUNDRY ROOM.
I have been decluttering since discovering this channel almost 2 years ago. I have made many strides and thank you Ron. These collection of videos have provided clarity for myself and clarity for my path ahead. While I still have a lot of stuff its definitely disappearing at a higher rate than the years before just leaving it in storage. The extra money also helps too. Overall a win/win situation at every angle!
Hey my friend, my only rule here is to be mindful and selective about what you choose to consume. I believe that what we listen to will eventually shape how we think and act. Now as far what I do personally: - My wife and I have a family plan with Spotify - Our playlist are full with a variety of music but we are intentional and selective about type messages we are consuming - We have a speaker on display in our living room and often have “dance parties” with our son.
The hardest thing for me, right now, is my son’s stuff. He is about to turn 4 so he’s still young enough that I’m responsible for all his belongings but family members or friends are constantly gifting him toys, clothes, blankets, books, etc… I tried to purge some stuffed animals just now but the fear of offending the family members that gifted them to us froze me (especially because a LOT of it comes from my husband, because he grew up very poor so he’s always showering our son in gifts). I’m fully aware of this fear but I don’t know how to process it or what to do to get my spouse to understand how our home is making me feel. I also fear hurting his or my son’s feelings by purging something they wanted to keep. When it comes to my own stuff, I don’t have as big of an issue. I’ve been trying to purge a little everyday and it’s going well so far! Being 32 weeks pregnant definitely helps with the urge to purge. However, it’s my son’s and my husband’s stuff causing me the most stress in my home right now. I even cry over it regularly.
I noticed I don’t really need a sofa since I rarely have guests. My hubby rather sit in a chair for his back. I can easily live with an easy chair. This will be my last sofa. 😮
I realised just yesterday my botanical journals that i have been making for 6 years were making me sad. The memories associated with them are heavy not the drawings but it brings emotion that i no longer want in my life The most recent one is about 10 months of drawings and painting that i did in a hard phase of life . I do not want this weight in my life. It is strange how heavy these journals are for me. The are going in the trash asap
👏 Absolutely spot on! Emotional attachment can be a major roadblock when it comes to decluttering. Recognizing and addressing these underlying emotions is key to achieving a clutter-free and goal-oriented lifestyle🧘♂
I'm glad I wear a lot of the same things in and outside of work. I wear jeans everyday...just different colours and a lot of black tops. My shoes are comfortable but cute and go with everything. I also do not like "comfortable pants" so no changing when I get home or weekend wear etc.
I travel a lot but I also love to cook so I have 30 + spices that I need to get rid of, I love all these spices and I want to use them all so I have decided to make medicine balls and other healthy treats to store in my freezer to get rid of the spices, also to minimize the amount of jars I have
Do you have any videos or advice on resisting the accumulation of stuff? I personally feel that decluttering later gives me an excuse to acquire now. The temptation to collect (especially around hobbies and special interests) is a big challenge for me!
Email or I. will just empty everything (!)..*not a good idea, lol). This spring, I will give myself at LEAST a week to slowly go through ALL my emails and unsubscribe, delete, or spam things...*and keep them under Control. Phew...😏
I talked to my friend who has been a realtor her whole life. I said I want to invite her over for coffee. I plan to ask her to be gut honest (I need that & I can handle it) about my home, decor, etc. Now I need to clean, get rid of many things so I can enjoy my home. I have no hoarding, just crowded shelves. My life has changed so much in 10 years, and I want to live in the home for the 2024 Me.
