Isithembu 1. Requires a man who will treat all wives the same 2. A man who will be able to satisfy all woman's needs 3. Requires financial stability not necessarily millions
@@giftkorope5968 I dont respond to stupid misogynists. Some of us have voices, our own money and brains. Most of these idiots who want isithembu lately cant even afford themselves financially they are struggling, isithembu boosts their broken egos. So miss me with that " accept it or not " rubbish.
Mmmm ngempelaaa babu Mtshali qinisile mele ube yindoda ezaziyo especially ephaketheni nokuba strong cz u must satisfy dem nango cansi,mostly sthembu esekengazbona kunzima cz kunobandlululo especially komdala nkosikazi,even muzi,I ndlela ondla ngayo nezingane azondliwa kokfanayo,it was my first time to see isthembu esiphethwe nge ndlela efanayo ngo Musa Mseleku,chaaaa Mseleku I just wish He can teach amadoda anesthembu ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani...even sinenzondo kumakhosikazi bt it's better if nephethwe nge ndlela eyodwa,cz izingane azizondani.. Mseleku ngbonga I ndlela esakhe asphethe ngayo 👍
Isithembu is not for everyone. You can have imali but not be able to manage isithembu. Just like growing up esithenjini does nit mean uzokhona ukuganga or ukuganwa isithembu.
On the point of 1st wife keep bearing girls..... then the husband has to take a second wife!!!! IT IS A MAN WHO DETERMINES THE GENDER OF A CHILD!!!!! Please guys hayibo
That is what eurocentric view tells u,that gender of a child is determined by men, Afrocentric view tells us that women determines the gender n hence men that have taken isithembu,they did get sons on da second wife...we are tired of ppl believing lies that we r fed by Europeans n then we look down on what is ours as Africans.
Mina ningifonele when you airing our views.I have a story to tell....@Gagasi FM.I would like to remain anonymous kodwa men need to learn the damage ngobudlabha ababenzayo when they initiate isthembu whether sivunywe ithongo or not.
