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Isolophilia ... What is it? 

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Ever felt that your own company is much more fulfilling than others? Would you rather be left alone often? Having a strong affection and preference for solitude, and to be alone is also known as Isolophilia. This is not necessarily a negative term either, or something that has negative effects. In this video, we'll be discussing Isolophilia, what it is, the feelings associated with it, and how it may be linked to having an introverted personality.
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Script editor: Morgan Franz
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VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Zuzia
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Reference
Introversion. 2015, August 11. Retrieved from: www.goodtherapy.org/blog/psych...
Buchholz, E. 2016, June 9. The Call of Solitude. Retrieved from: life.www.psychologytoday.com/artic...
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@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 года назад
We also have a video on INFJ if you haven't watched it here: Signs you're an INFJ: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-D89N3_fFwrA.html
@leafsilvery
@leafsilvery 3 года назад
yea im definitely an infj
@kermity_lmao
@kermity_lmao 3 года назад
E
@Shahtheking540
@Shahtheking540 3 года назад
Video idea: How to get over things you don't like about yourself
@vscoevaaa913
@vscoevaaa913 3 года назад
Psych2Go Yay im a INFJ 🙂
@hobijobi4328
@hobijobi4328 3 года назад
:)
@caitlynzeferino6403
@caitlynzeferino6403 3 года назад
Illustrators: How much food do you want in this video?" Psych2go: "Yes"
@didielle9770
@didielle9770 3 года назад
Its the "yes" for me LMAOO
@karoshi2
@karoshi2 3 года назад
Someone's been hungry while drawing.
@josanthepresident6565
@josanthepresident6565 3 года назад
There isn’t that much food in this video
@soIve_et_coagula
@soIve_et_coagula 3 года назад
I absolutely love the illustrations 💖💖💖
@da_copreee9929
@da_copreee9929 3 года назад
That's also true for references to games, movies and shows. There was a Undertale reference once.
@arunbissoon4630
@arunbissoon4630 3 года назад
I enjoy isolating myself. It helps me dissociate from who I'm not and enjoy who I truly am without judgement.
@RosyKitteh
@RosyKitteh 3 года назад
Me too. Sometimes I find myself wanting to spend time with someone, but I don't like the unpredictable-ness of dealing with others' thoughts and emotions. :/
@briguy459
@briguy459 3 года назад
Preach...let your own flag fly
@alexa_karellepetil9952
@alexa_karellepetil9952 3 года назад
Same
@gabihchaeyoung4650
@gabihchaeyoung4650 3 года назад
I never felt so understood
@cmontrave1755
@cmontrave1755 3 года назад
Agreed 😊
@Idk-uw3rd
@Idk-uw3rd 3 года назад
Hello Fellow time travelers ! (do not tell how we did it, it’s a secret 🤫)
@-randomuser-4897
@-randomuser-4897 3 года назад
Please tell us-
@J3agerist
@J3agerist 3 года назад
I-
@Arctic_and_The_F0X
@Arctic_and_The_F0X 3 года назад
H O W
@callmehbob4814
@callmehbob4814 3 года назад
how...
@ryanmcsharry9405
@ryanmcsharry9405 3 года назад
yeah
@rebeccajustin8525
@rebeccajustin8525 3 года назад
Am I the only one who is active only on youtube and literally on no other social media. I mean I'm not interested in Instagram, Facebook, twitter, snap at all.... too much to handle.
@Owlsworthy
@Owlsworthy 3 года назад
Nope, not the only one 😂
@wildtheim
@wildtheim 3 года назад
Not the only one 😃
@wildtheim
@wildtheim 3 года назад
@Brian M yes youtube is the best because you get to choose what you watch
@skywalker6648
@skywalker6648 3 года назад
Not me. I tend to use one of those you mentioned about once a month to inform others about something. But I do get really annoyed at those that seem addicted to it and must post pics of themselves, endless quotes no one asked for, and other mundane stuff all the time for attention. I just don't get their obsession with doing that.
@_athazqgxra4430
@_athazqgxra4430 3 года назад
Yeah same except for discord i actually like discord since i don't have to show my face or have followers i can just join servers and talk to ppl
@frostlord1246
@frostlord1246 3 года назад
This was interesting but I’m a bit confused about the difference between being an introvert and having isophelia
@callmehbob4814
@callmehbob4814 3 года назад
how did u time travel
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 3 года назад
Introversion is more of a personality trait while isolophilia describes more of a preference or personal choice..
@user-kp1np3pf6x
@user-kp1np3pf6x 3 года назад
time travel indeed
@TwinTails100
@TwinTails100 3 года назад
@@Psych2go Is it possible to have both?
@bearshunnypot302
@bearshunnypot302 3 года назад
To put it simply, being introverted means your social battery _drains_ when you're around people for a long time, as opposed to extroverts who's social battery _charges._ You can still prefer to be around people rather than by yourself as an introvert. Isophilia specifically means that you prefer to be alone though
@pritampurkayastha3371
@pritampurkayastha3371 3 года назад
Thumb nail : do you have islophilia My mind reading : do you have islamophobia
@skywalker6648
@skywalker6648 3 года назад
🤣..
@ifrahjama2215
@ifrahjama2215 3 года назад
Lollll😂😂💀😂😂
@fuertical
@fuertical 3 года назад
I chocked omggg
@lightray9264
@lightray9264 3 года назад
stop that, I'm gonna choke on my food if you keep doing this XD
@persom7824
@persom7824 3 года назад
Man I hope not
@thomasward6022
@thomasward6022 3 года назад
“How extreme is your isophilia?” Me: Yes
@wildtheim
@wildtheim 3 года назад
Same.
@Meenaia
@Meenaia 3 года назад
Yes
@afa4766
@afa4766 3 года назад
I feel that
@ashleythehooman
@ashleythehooman 3 года назад
Yes
@samuraiboi2735
@samuraiboi2735 3 года назад
Yes
@QuietlyMagnetic
@QuietlyMagnetic 3 года назад
As an introvert, I approve this enlightening and entertaining video. They say that introverts live in two worlds. One is the world of people; and the other, the world of solitude and inner solace, which will always be our true home.
@e.a.1297
@e.a.1297 3 года назад
With the right to have privacy among the family members, indeed.. However it doesn't even seem close to that as I'm on the verge of a breakdown inside and so sad no one is ever going to realise it till it becomes "visible" which is called "madness"...
@e.a.1297
@e.a.1297 3 года назад
With the right to have privacy among the family members, indeed.. However it doesn't even seem close to that as I'm on the verge of a breakdown inside and so sad no one is ever going to realise it till it becomes "visible" which is called "madness"...
@QuietlyMagnetic
@QuietlyMagnetic 3 года назад
@@e.a.1297 Sorry to hear that. Is there anyone in your circle you’d be comfortable in confiding in if you think it’ll will help?
@skywalker6648
@skywalker6648 3 года назад
@@e.a.1297 That's why it's not good to live a life of total isolation with too little of social interaction. Human beings sometimes need others for support. Even a pet can be of some comfort (as well as distract you from thinking only about your problems) if you are not ready to interact with more people while seeking help.
@samuraiboi2735
@samuraiboi2735 3 года назад
Well i dont have non of them sooooooo ummm yeah im just going to watch the video anyways
@emilyphippen8742
@emilyphippen8742 3 года назад
I used to be outgoing...now I love being alone. I have definitely developed Social Anxiety. Idk if it came with age or the crazy world we live in 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just have zero tolerance for people.
@skywalker6648
@skywalker6648 3 года назад
I can relate to a certain extent and I do think it's combination of both age (which explains having less tolerance) and also how the world has changed. So at times, It can definitely feel less aggravating to just be on one's own ,lol.
@rayw3332
@rayw3332 3 года назад
People 😬 (shudder)!
@dmgsoultogetherness6667
@dmgsoultogetherness6667 3 года назад
Perfectly worded....
@ICEcoldJT
@ICEcoldJT 3 года назад
“Everything that exists in your life does so because of two things: something you did or something you didn’t do.” 🔑
@tinker2054
@tinker2054 3 года назад
Why are you everywhere From Jordan, to Steph now Psych damn you need to get payed for these comments
@Shadow-uq9ut
@Shadow-uq9ut 3 года назад
@@tinker2054 lol ikr
@Shadow-uq9ut
@Shadow-uq9ut 3 года назад
So true
@skywalker6648
@skywalker6648 3 года назад
Or sometimes something you COULD NOT do. There are sometimes forces beyond our control and it leaves limited options.
@littlefishbigmountain
@littlefishbigmountain 3 года назад
@@skywalker6648 I was thinking this too. This quote seems to put all the responsibility on the individual for all the outcomes of their life, which is simply unrealistic (not to mention unhelpful or even damaging)
@beatricebeathyraneniute2298
@beatricebeathyraneniute2298 3 года назад
Looks like I'm both an introvert and have isophilia then.
@javadragon7475
@javadragon7475 3 года назад
The more you know!
@Darcactusofficial
@Darcactusofficial 3 года назад
Samee
@ashleythehooman
@ashleythehooman 3 года назад
Same
@samuraiboi2735
@samuraiboi2735 3 года назад
Im non of them😔
@Darkmattermonkey77
@Darkmattermonkey77 3 года назад
Things are just easier that way. Being alone means there’s no one to make you watch something on TV you don’t want to, no one to give you guilt trips about not wanting to do stuff with them, no one to stay up with you when you are sick, no one to tell you that they love you each day before and after work, and no one to challenge you on your opinions and attitudes, which help you grow as a person.... Oh. Wait... there’s negatives and positives to it. Damnit.
@Tabby3456
@Tabby3456 3 года назад
Evolution: No! you need to talk to others in order to survive Me: mmmm... no distractions!
@Axl4325
@Axl4325 3 года назад
"Haha being alone goes *complete silence*"
@skywalker6648
@skywalker6648 3 года назад
You need both, really.
@therandomshow1265
@therandomshow1265 3 года назад
mE
@maryellenthompson8261
@maryellenthompson8261 3 года назад
I’m perfectly happy at home doing my hobbies with my family nearby. I feel very isolated and lonely in crowds, which leads to depression.
@skywalker6648
@skywalker6648 3 года назад
@@maryellenthompson8261 That's true. It can lead to depression and a sense of helplessness, too.
@mehmetgurdal
@mehmetgurdal 3 года назад
aahhhh :) having a long walk on open areas, sitting on the ground, listening the quite nature, watching my favourite anime without having to deal with my family, than thinking about the life and eventually losing the sense of time, minutes turn to hours, a day pretty much turns in to a month..... I love solitude :D
@lauragadille3384
@lauragadille3384 3 года назад
Yes. I rather be alone then with friends. Makes me feel more sane
@tootyfrooty3072
@tootyfrooty3072 3 года назад
Holy Hera this video explains SO MUCH. I KNEW THERE HAD TO BE A REASON FOR WHY I PREFER BEING ALONE!
@ayshaalex3404
@ayshaalex3404 3 года назад
I smell a queen fan
@aquixza
@aquixza 3 года назад
im dying to have a non active groupchat full of introverts
@Will-pl4tp
@Will-pl4tp 3 года назад
I have the perfect thing for you. It’s a video that’ll has a link of an inactive discord full of introverts ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dQw4w9WgXcQ.html
@Noodles-_
@Noodles-_ 3 года назад
@@Will-pl4tp haha thanks
@AngelA-ym2jz
@AngelA-ym2jz 3 года назад
@@Will-pl4tp I know that link but I'm going to click on it anyway
@Will-pl4tp
@Will-pl4tp 3 года назад
Bruh y’all tripping. There’s nothing wrong with this link. Trust me
@AngelA-ym2jz
@AngelA-ym2jz 3 года назад
@@Will-pl4tp I clicked on it and it showed...yeah maybe I shouldn't say it
@julenacastillo9631
@julenacastillo9631 3 года назад
Video: “A person who enjoys their own company” Me: Hmmm, maybe I have isolophilia Video: “Enjoys going out to places by themselves” Me: *anxiously* no no no no no no no no no
@Casxa
@Casxa 3 года назад
Ikr, I feel the same way, it feels like everyone is watching me and pointing out that I'm alone, even though nobody cares. I wish I could go out more on my own though instead of depending on others (obviously during better times as well).
@Aa-mi1rv
@Aa-mi1rv 3 года назад
To me it's fun and normal to be alone. But people can't understand.They understand like I'm an alien, friendless and shy. Whenever they see that I spend time alone, they think I have a fight with someone that something has happened to me.They pity me as if I was left alone, but I feel sorry for them not being able to spend quality time with themselves like I did.
@cherrymochatea9877
@cherrymochatea9877 3 года назад
All I really need is music and my own company. Mainly because I get to tired interacting with most people and because others try to get me to be more social when it is just to tiring...
@jennsuicune
@jennsuicune 3 года назад
Please don't have children then. You would be a real pain for them.
@cherrymochatea9877
@cherrymochatea9877 3 года назад
@@jennsuicune No, I'd be fine having kids. I just prefer being alone, and besides, my GF could help me if it gets too overwhelming.
@ihavenoidea2805
@ihavenoidea2805 3 года назад
@@jennsuicune huh no one said anything about children lol 😭
@Dovey12
@Dovey12 3 года назад
Love the aesthetic in this one✨
@SK-sc5pu
@SK-sc5pu 3 года назад
Well, I never knew this was a thing. My Dad shamed me for my whole life for not being social enough. Thank you for this validation because I don’t hate people, but I have always preferred solitude and no one has ever really understood that.
@dwaynesurdu-miller9799
@dwaynesurdu-miller9799 3 года назад
Thanks very much for releasing this video. Now I know that there is a term for my enjoying being away from everyone and for enjoying travelling, camping, hiking, geocaching, and kayaking alone, and that, basically, it's okay to do so. I very much appreciate the sentiment and the ideas expressed in this video.
@MaiaMirabell
@MaiaMirabell 3 года назад
Thank you for not putting music in this vid. Always appreciated.
@BaebiDoll
@BaebiDoll 3 года назад
i really love the color choice and art style in this video :) 💜🤍
@sapphire26
@sapphire26 3 года назад
Can I just say that the animation has such beautiful colors
@NatKhatoon
@NatKhatoon 3 года назад
Me enters youtube everyday: -Me learns there's still a new lable for my behaviors -
@_ray401
@_ray401 3 года назад
The time machine work :0
@thatonedudeiris8932
@thatonedudeiris8932 3 года назад
:0
@rbuh2094
@rbuh2094 3 года назад
:o
@official-deepseacreature863
@official-deepseacreature863 3 года назад
:0
@elisebailey6742
@elisebailey6742 3 года назад
cool
@user-kp1np3pf6x
@user-kp1np3pf6x 3 года назад
:’O
@speedrunninglife2081
@speedrunninglife2081 3 года назад
The art style of this video is so cute!!
@javadragon7475
@javadragon7475 3 года назад
Does the reverse also exist? So people who always want people around them and find it stressful to be alone.
@jennsuicune
@jennsuicune 3 года назад
I think it does, maybe isolophobia, which is what I feel. I really hate being alone.
@hmmmmmnmmmmmm
@hmmmmmnmmmmmm 3 года назад
If so that'd what I have
@hmmmmmnmmmmmm
@hmmmmmnmmmmmm 3 года назад
That's*
@helialycoris4464
@helialycoris4464 3 года назад
Oof what does that feel like... sorry can't relate
@thanhta5728
@thanhta5728 3 года назад
Same.. I have a fear of being alone/ abandon. I hate walking alone outside and being alone anywhere , even sleeping alone. It feels so lonely and scary , makes me overwhelmed
@futuremercy8268
@futuremercy8268 3 года назад
Gosh I love the imagery!!! It’s beautiful
@estelleeke5384
@estelleeke5384 3 года назад
I love this channel so much it knows me more than I know my self and it teaches me more than my school.🥰🥰
@6sillyguy9
@6sillyguy9 3 года назад
I don't have isophelia..... *I just stay in my room doing art WAY too much*
@robinmartz9052
@robinmartz9052 3 года назад
I stay in my apartment doing art.
@6sillyguy9
@6sillyguy9 3 года назад
Holy- 49 likes in 23 minutes... You tube must be drunk
@inconsistentbubbles7632
@inconsistentbubbles7632 3 года назад
@@6sillyguy9 youtube is always drunk
@6sillyguy9
@6sillyguy9 3 года назад
@@inconsistentbubbles7632 holy- its 71 now 0.0
@auriidraws5563
@auriidraws5563 3 года назад
sAme
@noorsabah1766
@noorsabah1766 3 года назад
Whoever needs to know me completely have to follow this channel
@serenity_in_reverie
@serenity_in_reverie 3 года назад
Solitude is my safe haven. Silence is where i feel understood, accepted, and loved. I can be myself 100% and i don't need to "adjust" myself just to please others. The more i try to talk to others, the more i feel lonely and sad because I'd realize that I'm different from them. i feel disconnected from other human but i feel deeply connected to animals and nature. (not self-diagnosed, im indeed a hermit, my human design is the projector 2/4 (hermit/opportunist). my galactic signature is red skywalker, so i feel detached from earth lol, i feel like a stranger here. and astrologically speaking, im emotionally disconnected from family too) thank you for making this video. today i learned new word. 🙏💕
@Broeccel
@Broeccel 3 года назад
These animations are so adorable! It makes the video so much easier and fun to watch/listen! Big credits to the animator!
@humayrau6415
@humayrau6415 3 года назад
Yess i have that social battery where if I hang out with people too much it gets draining it’s like ‘I love you and all but I am getting tired of you’ idk how to say that in a nicer way but that basically sums up how I feel haha
@guidinglight6968
@guidinglight6968 3 года назад
Is nobody gonna talk about how aesthetic the art is? ✨
@shawnafoglesong602
@shawnafoglesong602 3 года назад
And someone mentioned the artwork earlie
@layanthh
@layanthh 3 года назад
Thank you for making these beautiful videos💜💜💜we appreciate your hardwork🥰
@pikachu-uk1bg
@pikachu-uk1bg 3 года назад
I recently did stumble upon this channel and I'll say, the stuff that I watch is really interesting. The visuals help too, and the artstyle that differ are great too (with this one, I do like how there's a small sprout on top of the head that did grow)
@kristahuntington8730
@kristahuntington8730 3 года назад
Interesting. I'm going to share with a friend
@mariomaster101official
@mariomaster101official 3 года назад
I love this channel!!! Keep these awesome videos coming!!!
@someonerandom9731
@someonerandom9731 3 года назад
I do not understand why anyone would dislike this. This channel explains things so well and everything is beautifully drawn
@gingergazethecatbird7466
@gingergazethecatbird7466 3 года назад
Slap this onto my list of introversion! Social Anxiety Introverted Isophilia Constantly low 'social battery' Antisocial Socially Awkward
@gwenlynn8003
@gwenlynn8003 3 года назад
I just wanna say thank you Psych2Go for teaching me so much about psychology and so much more!
@jayatighosal7946
@jayatighosal7946 3 года назад
I love the animation style so much! The aesthetic is too ✨💫✨💫✨
@nutmeg9593
@nutmeg9593 11 месяцев назад
I didnt know this had a name. I always have to remind my family that just because im alone doesnt mean im lonely. I even love taking myself to concerts and vacations. I learned something important today. Thanks for that. Also i loved your visuals. ❤
@SuperBlessedKing
@SuperBlessedKing 3 года назад
I’m naturally an introvert and I’m at my most peaceful place when I’m having time for myself. ♥️♥️♥️♥️
@AriBunch
@AriBunch 3 года назад
This sounds a lot like me, I might have it
@luminanightfall4111
@luminanightfall4111 3 года назад
I just wanted to say that the aesthetic of this video is gorgeous! It had two of my favorite color schemes
@MT-ek9te
@MT-ek9te 3 года назад
I thank you for making this .... Many people call me fruity or crazy because Im so quiet and I ghost a lot and I hardly socialize with anyone. Im all business. I meet my clients. We talk numbers and law and contracts. Many of them are multi million dollar deals and acquisitions. Its stressful and it drains me. And it makes me sick to my stomach. But I understand now. Im not crazy or fruity. I will not change for anyone. If I crave alone time. And I want to just walk away and stay home or camp in a forest all by myself for days or weeks at a time and its nobody's business where I go and where Ive been. I embrace my isolophilia
@zeldian4638
@zeldian4638 3 года назад
Fun fact: *we are all watching this in quarantine*
@misconceptionofus2506
@misconceptionofus2506 3 года назад
when you said "it gives you time to rest physically and emotionally" i 100% agree, it helps me a lot to be on my own letting myself rest from the tiring outside world. I would not describe it at loneliness but rather solitude.
@anjilenagrace9868
@anjilenagrace9868 3 года назад
oh hi! it’s me , enjoying my alone time and stumbling across a video that describes me better than i probably could :) also just wanted to say that those of us who do feel introverted or have isophilia aren’t against being social completely, i love being around my loved once’s and having meaningful time spent. i just also need my alone time to recover, i think it’s a trait of being an empath too 💗
@alicialagos3130
@alicialagos3130 3 года назад
This is just me! Thank u for sharing.
@hl5217
@hl5217 3 года назад
RU-vid: Isolophilia... what is it? Me at 2am: **Hmm lets find out**
@BCSchmerker
@BCSchmerker 3 года назад
+Psych2Go *The autism spectrum has a fairly large subset of isolophiles, who use alone time to recharge.*
@liberationgz4120
@liberationgz4120 3 года назад
I have autism and this is very true! Unfortunately it's hard to keep friends bc I really prefer my own company and finding quality friends my age (I'm 24) that can talk about things other than current events or pop culture trends or gossip about other ppl is very hard to find these days
@lovechas7661
@lovechas7661 3 года назад
Yes this is definitely me. Thanks so much for making this video. 🦋🌹💙😊
@lee-ws9dv
@lee-ws9dv 3 года назад
thank you so much for the captions omg it helps me a lot
@diemendjay1169
@diemendjay1169 3 года назад
I love y’all’s videos they really help me when I’m in a bad place mentally or just sad so thank y’all!
@pancakeperson582
@pancakeperson582 3 года назад
✨The time travelers are Patreons, folks✨
@laracomn
@laracomn 3 года назад
The animations for this one are particularly beautiful 🥰🥰
@hwrgfn7029
@hwrgfn7029 3 года назад
This art style is so cute! You have some great artists. Video great as always
@sonicthewerehog2263
@sonicthewerehog2263 3 года назад
I've always loved to be alone at times, especially with relaxing music 🎶
@paulbennell3313
@paulbennell3313 3 года назад
I'm not sure if I have isolophilia but alone time is very important to me. I'm lucky because my friends understand that.
@skywalker6648
@skywalker6648 3 года назад
Well, I think alone time is different from what she is describing. She is describing those that always yearn to be alone, period.
@paulbennell3313
@paulbennell3313 3 года назад
@@skywalker6648 Yeah, I do spend most of my time by myself but it's not a vital 24/7 thing. I get what you mean.
@paulbennell3313
@paulbennell3313 3 года назад
@HeyIt'sMe XoXo Do you really need to change your habits or do people need to listen to you when you say you need to chill on your own? It's important to make the distinction!
@palomadelrosario3812
@palomadelrosario3812 3 года назад
Yay!!! Early I love your videos they have helped me to understand my friends and family and my self THANK YOU!💖
@thatoneravenclaw7001
@thatoneravenclaw7001 3 года назад
the art in these videos is gorgeous :0
@hanahcafe
@hanahcafe 3 года назад
Looks like I’m an isolophilia and an introvert then...
@kittylikemebluejay9723
@kittylikemebluejay9723 3 года назад
So im too then
@alfrednaconas7190
@alfrednaconas7190 3 года назад
I feel so good when I"m alone.
@TArrow16
@TArrow16 3 года назад
The voice narrating is so calming
@mistraltone8004
@mistraltone8004 6 месяцев назад
I have always liked my solitude, ever since i was a kid, i remember the first days i realized this was when my older sister could no longer play with me, with her away at school, i had to play on my own, and i grew into that person, that kid. While i enjoyed being alone i would always crave people, while i never have liked being the center of attention, i just liked to be there, to sit among them and listen to their stories and their interests and insights. They inspire me to this very day.. But those same people have seen me slowly changing, ive seen myself change... It is now that i realized back when i would crave to be around people, i remember saying in my head "time for about a hour or more of socializing", thats scary becuase i knew what i was doing even then but didnt truly realize it. And today.. I'm so excited to get my own house, and to be alone.. Though a man in my dream told me i would be lonely, and i would wish that i had never gotten my wish, i know also that it will probably be something i have to learn on my own, in my own time, even if its to late. I want to be alone so much that i believe i have started to worry my mother, and the rest of my family even... But im not worried, because my mental state needs it so much right now, and im coming to terms with it. If i insist on being alone as much as possible then maybe i can get better, and reach my goals, my dreams. If i dont, im stuck permanently as the same person that has been created to many times.. I will die. Being alone is helping me, even if it has strings attached, Con: people get worried and your mental state could never open up and explain. Pro: you change, In-Action is no more, you are free. Dont be afraid to change.. Even if it takes years, Learn to love yourself, i promise, you aren't so bad. Im not so bad myself. I know that becuase of my self protection, i protect two people... Even though i dont really know who either are. P.s. i love you, dont give up, on anything, youll make it out someday, just enjoy the ride, be present.
@itscesarbtch3451
@itscesarbtch3451 3 года назад
Haven’t you noticed that being on your own is boring but it keeps you out of trouble
@Xyz46786
@Xyz46786 3 года назад
Being around others bores me
@Xyz46786
@Xyz46786 3 года назад
@Jy Louise Kruger also true!
@skywalker6648
@skywalker6648 3 года назад
Either way, never bored. There's so much to do and you better do it because none of us are getting any younger.
@ihavenoidea2805
@ihavenoidea2805 3 года назад
personally I'm not bored, I enjoy it (maybe you have social anxiety if you feel like that)
@minakrinah8655
@minakrinah8655 3 года назад
I am the only one who Imagine being talktive when I'm really not?
@Orchidlettux
@Orchidlettux 3 года назад
The art in this video is aesthetically pleasing
@TheRealVolk
@TheRealVolk 3 года назад
I loved the popcorn cake at 0:56. Lol! So creative! 🐾
@rileymichael2694
@rileymichael2694 3 года назад
first comment that’s not something about time traveling
@javadragon7475
@javadragon7475 3 года назад
Wait isn’t this comment about not being about time travel about time travel?
@RosyKitteh
@RosyKitteh 3 года назад
I don't understand how the ___ ago's are messed up
@hungryblondie2803
@hungryblondie2803 3 года назад
@@RosyKitteh they’re not messed up, the people with longer hours ago had gotten earlier access due to their membership to the channel
@radxianixe
@radxianixe 3 года назад
@@hungryblondie2803 you don't need to have a membership to be a time traveler though
@ewwhumans6828
@ewwhumans6828 3 года назад
It has 69 likes i dnt wanna ruin that
@glenngoble4697
@glenngoble4697 3 года назад
2:09 Is that... A Tamagotchi reference? I love Tamagotchi!
@ommmmara
@ommmmara 3 года назад
i love the little bottles and juice boxes this artist does, they're very aesthetically pleasing :)
@thelemondropgirl2140
@thelemondropgirl2140 3 года назад
The art in this one is really cool!
@kamyqween532
@kamyqween532 3 года назад
Someone is reading the comments in the same time as me- I'm talking to you y'know *oh jeez, you're liking the comments too- I CAN SEE WHAT YOU DOIN'*
@shawnafoglesong602
@shawnafoglesong602 3 года назад
Its me I thiniv
@shawnafoglesong602
@shawnafoglesong602 3 года назад
Me to
@lissyquinn_va
@lissyquinn_va 3 года назад
Could you make a video about obsessive-compulsive disorder ? I really love ur videos t y always help me to feel better !💖💖
@sterntaler64
@sterntaler64 3 года назад
Great explanation, many thanks 🙏🙏🙏
@putrijoyceirawati2638
@putrijoyceirawati2638 3 года назад
A video on isophilia and introversion...finally my time to shine!
@bagelqueen7555
@bagelqueen7555 3 года назад
The art style is so cute I love this so much! And can you make a signs you are a introvert video?
@supersolomob422
@supersolomob422 3 года назад
She starts saying "Isophilia" instead of "Isolophilia" around then end, including 3 times during the outro. I don't blame her though, slightly confusing word.
@polterglitched
@polterglitched 3 года назад
I found this video really helpful, thanks!
@Ads_1001
@Ads_1001 3 года назад
Hey Psych2go. Thnx 4 making these vids. They r really very helpful. Love ur Vids ❤️
@chickennugget9211
@chickennugget9211 3 года назад
Hee gurll. I’m blushing so unbelievably fast. Ik heard it also is a phobia and people are scared of blushing. Can you make a video of that?
@dusky._.milkywayim16
@dusky._.milkywayim16 3 года назад
that is true! I'm scared of blushing
@dusky._.milkywayim16
@dusky._.milkywayim16 3 года назад
I think she had many videos including the fear of blushing.
@chickennugget9211
@chickennugget9211 3 года назад
@@dusky._.milkywayim16 oh thx I will take a look
@Coolman0893
@Coolman0893 3 года назад
Isolophilia is like a battery that never charges or a device that has to be connected to a wall socket at all times.
@Owlsworthy
@Owlsworthy 3 года назад
Lol
@HystericalDark
@HystericalDark 3 года назад
Yeah, thats sorta how I feel most of the time
@christademarco5602
@christademarco5602 3 года назад
Thank you for sharing this. Due to recent personal realizations and the whole end of the world, I've discovered I prefer being alone. I can be very gregarious and open, but I feel it as a social obligation more than a personal means of expression. Plus, now I have another word for scrabble.
@Aaron-sq3sg
@Aaron-sq3sg 3 года назад
Ok I am watching at night and your soft voice on the videos just made relaxed
@jazon85k
@jazon85k 3 года назад
1:51 anti- meaning against, so antisocial: hostility toward the society; asocial is the correct word.
@lbwfsw
@lbwfsw 3 года назад
Always discorvering more things about introvertion.
@psychoweasley5971
@psychoweasley5971 3 года назад
I'm mostly introverted, but always thought I was ambiverted because I love hanging out with people, and being social is often really fun for me, plus sometimes it makes me feel really energized. However I'm very socially awkward sometimes, and the introvertedness shines through because sometimes even being around just a few friends or family members totally exhausts me. So I'm pretty confused on the whole thing
@prairiestoners7042
@prairiestoners7042 3 года назад
Thank you ❣️ for sharing this
@just_a_turtle_chad
@just_a_turtle_chad 3 года назад
A Turtle will always be here to keep you company.
@funkyyt-rexxius5564
@funkyyt-rexxius5564 3 года назад
Thank you, Turtle.
@sarahrahal48
@sarahrahal48 3 года назад
Sometimes we are alone by obligation not by choice .
@idkanymorelol1512
@idkanymorelol1512 3 года назад
Thank you, this was really helpful!
@maeve9181
@maeve9181 3 года назад
Thank you for working so hard to give us information about psychology everyday! We really appreciate it. I am really confused about a certain topic: Trust problems. Can we have a video about it?
@hobijobi4328
@hobijobi4328 3 года назад
The first people to watch this squad say i
@Mii.2.0
@Mii.2.0 3 года назад
*I* am not. 😉
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