No worries church family. This is her custom. It is better not to respond and let her be unhappy. Remember this from the testimonies of Jesus Christ: “May God pity those who are watching, as did the Pharisees, to find something to condemn in their brethren, and who pride themselves on their wonderfully acute discernment. That which they call discernment is cold, satanic criticism, acuteness in suspecting and charging souls with evil intent who are less guilty than themselves. They are, like the enemy of God, accusers of the brethren. These souls, whatever their position or experience, need to humble themselves before God. How can they pray, “Forgive me as I forgive others”? “With what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.” “He shall have judgment without mercy, that hath showed no mercy.” God grants no pardon to him whose penitence produces no humility, and whose faith does not work by love to purify the soul. We need to study the example of Him who was meek and lowly, who, when he was reviled, reviled not again. A vindictive spirit will not be indulged by a true Christian.” - {HM February 1, 1892 Par. 14} “Says the great deceiver…. We must cause distraction and division. We must destroy their anxiety for their own souls, and lead them to criticise, to judge, and to accuse and condemn one another, and to cherish selfishness and enmity. For these sins, God banished us from his presence; and all who follow our example will meet a similar fate.” - {Spirit of Prophecy Vol 4 340.3} “Those who watch their fellow workers to find fault with them dishonor their Leader. Let them remember that God reads the heart and that He has not given to any one the work of judging and condemning others. Each one is to examine his own heart. All judgment has been committed to One who cannot err. Cease the work that you have allowed Satan to lead you to do-the work of finding fault and condemning. You cannot read hearts; therefore be very careful how you judge..” 18LtMs, Ms 2, 1903, par. 36 “Great light and understanding in the Scriptures will not atone for roughness, for thrusts, for bitter words and evident uncharitableness. He who advocates truth in this manner makes a mistake that is fatal to his own soul and to the souls of all those who come in contact with him. Those who advocate truth in this way have need to learn what truth is and what it can do for the soul. How many need to be melted over in the furnace, to have the dross consumed and the image of God stamped upon the soul. He who is thus transformed will not with voice or pen present anything that will seem like a fiery defense. The advocates of truth must lay off the war armor, and be clothed with the garments of Christ, be clothed with humility as with a garment.” - manuscript releases Vol 19 pg 207 Pray that she will Repent and be converted