It IS God's Perfect Will to Restore Your Marriage 

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It can be so discouraging to hear people say that my marriage may not be restored. But I believe it will, God told me He would restore my marriage. And I have postured myself to work on myself and allow God to work on my husband. I am also trusting God for my teens hearts to also turn back towards God. Even when I struggle or anger surfaces I take it to God and lament to Him and then I ask forgiveness for my anger and hurt, give it back to God and thank Him for all He is doing and will do. I speak scripture in prayer and worship or listen to biblical teaching (like this) to get myself only back in an attitude of gratitude. Sometimes the teachings are about marriage some times they are not, as long as they are biblically based and teaching God’s character as the Bible teaches they bring great comfort…truth brings comfort. Then I can walk in peace even though nothing has seemed to change (in the physical) because I know God is working in the spiritual. Even if I drift into wanting to give up by the time I am done with this process I confess that I am not giving up…I am believing and trusting God.

God please restore my marriage and turn my husband's stoney heart into a heart of flesh 😪

I'm praying for my marriage of 43 years that god will heal my marriage and my family 💘 my oldest son just went to heaven please pray 🙏

True. Only God can fix a broken marriage! We have to take our hands off and let Him work! 🙏

Please God- Take my ex husband’s heart and soften it .. restore my heart to his. Reconcile our marriage. I cannot understand how to separate my heart from his. Our flesh is one. I see divorce as a desperate attempt to help me to change. All praise to God for changing me. Restore my family. Please help me to keep my hands off of this matter. I have changed . Please show me hope that we can be reunited In Jesus mighty name Amen

Father God in heaven set me & my husband Johnny free from this bondage of the evil, seperation & martial hurt. Die our flesh and lay us on your alter of healing and deliverance. Restore our marriage and bring us back to you in Jesus Mighty Name!! I trust you God !!

I am also struggling now....i believe God will restore my marriage its been 3 months....praying that God will touch the heart of my husband.

We tend not to realize it's ALL about salvation of self and of the prodigal spouse. When the prodigal returns to God he/she realizes what they have done and return. But it takes a REAL relationship with God first. And God does all the work

Lord please heal my marriage. It's all I can ask. There's nothing I can do.

Lord please restore my marriage. We need you more than ever.

The covenant of marriage 2 first time marrieds male and female is Gods will! Churches have completely lost this! Remain unmarried or reconcile! Favor and peace comes ❤

My wife left August 2020 and we married September 2012. I was sick from 2015 right up until she left. I understand that she had many burdens to carry at the same time.( her mom was dying of lung cancer, her 2 boys were living in tumultuous circumstances, her boss was hateful towards her and my health.) I thought there was times when she was going to come back but the past year or so, she is more resentful towards me than ever. I still miss her so much but she blames me for a variety of reasons. I was a Christian but i wasnt really living for the Lord and she was way more devoted. But it seems that it has really reciprocated now. Im asking for restoration prayers and healing of her heart from anger, bitterness, resentment etc.. i know that im supposed to stand in faith for both of us and let God work in her spirit and soul. Thank you so much, Dwayne 🙏🙏🙏

Dear friends, please pray for my family. The enemy is trying to destroy it. Thank you and God bless.

I'm giving my marriage to God. There really isn't much left of this marriage; it seems doomed to lead to divorce. I'm praying that God will restore us and bring us back together. The heartbreak of being apart is devastating. But I trust that God can save it.

I just want to surrender my life completely to Jesus - I want that peace that only he can give me. Lord Jesus take control of my life!!!

So many people hurting but God will restore all these marriages in Jesus name.

Lord please renew my husbands heart and mind let him forgive me and take me back with a renewed marriage in true holy matrimony in Jesus name 🙌🏻

AMEN!🙏🏾… ”My mind and body may fail; but God is the rock for my mind and my portion forever.“ - ‭‭Tehillim (Psa)‬ ‭73‬:‭26‬ ‭CJB‬‬

Lord God I repent for wanting to comment suicide forgive me for not appreciating the life you gave to me. I worship you and thank you . Lift me up and remove depression from me console me in this afflictions and place a HEDGE OF THORNS AROUND me, my husband and family I surrender my pain,my life and marriage to you..God take all this hurt and doubt from me

I pray that God will heal & restore my relationship with Mads. May God reveal Himself to Mads to strengthen his faith in Him. May God remove Mads' stubbornness, desperation, impulsiveness, rush decisions & relying on his own plans...May God reveal to Mads that His plans are way better than his. Amen.

Yes, "...the enemy confronted me in the day of my calamity." SO real. My wife and I both are Spirit-filled and called, she's a minister and I have 14 years on worship teams plus intercessory prayer. We separated in January 2022 and torment began, no sleep, making it harder to fight the thought battles. God HAS A PLAN though. I spent years praying for my Pastor and church and when I saw occasional errors He would always tell me, don't say anything, pray about it. And I would see change. FIGHT for your marriages in prayer, Thank you for sharing this wonderful video. Keep me in prayer please, still waking this out.

Amen. I receive it in Jesus name. My marriage is FULLY restored and better than ever!

Thank you brother I declare & decree a full marriage restoration & reconciliation in Jesus amen

My husband Richard, was screaming at me in the car. I had to jump out of the car.omg please please pray for him.

I do believed God wanted to restore my marriage. But now, after 28 years, my husband divorced me and worse, he left me for the woman he has been involved with. I’m shattered and my world seems forever dark. This holiday season is absolutely brutal. Every morning, every day, I surrender the pain, the hurt, the feelings of abandonment and neglect, and even my desire for the marriage to be restored. I know he needs healing and only God can do that. But my God, this daily pain and disappointment threatens to break me every day. My God, how much more!! It is not true that God will not give you more than you can bear because this is unbearable.

Thank you so much!!! This is so timely and confirming that salvation is simple when we give it to JESUS CHRIST. I don't know if my marriage would ever be restored, but I pray that there are many out there that are... and even if marriages aren't restored, families are still brought together in the love and friendship in forgiveness of CHRIST JESUS... very much so... 🙇‍♀️🕊 AMEN AMEN AMEN and AMEN

Thank you!! God has definitely used you in a mighty way in my life! Thank you for speaking the truth in love. I feel as though I am living exactly what you teach where I am becoming less bound to the outcome of my marriage and more excited about my relationship with Jesus and what my future holds with him!!!

Lord I love my husband Johnny nomatter what he has done or doing I know you have him and u love him I bind the devil and demons that is trying to cause him to hurt me and hisself

I am standing firm and will not quit on my marriage. I love you DLKC

Im Stephanie, with everything that happened, i hope that my husband will come home,so we can take all our difficulties to Jesus,and for God to restore us to stand in ministry again, so we can Only please God,when i come across things we did in ministry, it hurts

Out of all the counseling from the last year and this, but THIS video is the exactly correct! I feel so good after watching this I did like 30 pushups! Thank you Thank you Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Amen, I am giving You my marriage Jesus Christ, Only you can heal us. in Your Holy Name Jesus, Amen

What a word, thank you!

I’m so grateful for these videos🙏❤️

I’m in a lot of pain

Father in heaven please touch Ann’s heart and reconcile my family and bring her back to you. In the mighty name of Jesus

I absolutely love this man of God! I wish i could walk thru calvary but it’s so expensive. But These videos are so amazing🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Great Word hallelujah 🙌🏻

thank you - Please pray for me and my wife, sometime in November 2021, my wife told me that she doesn’t love me as husband any more, we have been to counselling and it didn’t work, she has been drifting away for me slowing, I love her she my wife but don’t how??? Please pray

Amazing video. Very helpful.

Please pray for the Lord to heal, restore and make my marriage better than it was before. Pray my husband will want me

Blessings, I came across your page on yesterday and I’ve watched many of the videos already. Thankful for these encouraging godly messages.

Thank you so much brother…so much truth and wisdom. I took so many notes. God Bless You & God’s ministry!!

Excellent, insightful message, thank you jesus,for restoration

I pray for creation of a marriage as FATHER designed and restoration my husband , my , and my children’s manners and purity. Heal the breach in our spirits!

Thank you Jesus ❤

Praying for my marriage. Hurts of the past came to light in marriage. I've submitted to God to restore me, husband hasn't yet. A lot of strongholds need to come down but I proclaim it will in Jesus name!

Thank you brother you were so wise this is perfect timing and a perfect message you are speaking so much to me. Please pray for me and my spouse I think he tried meth and ever since then his mind is totally corrupted and tormented by Satan he’s accusing me of all sorts of things from having people in the bedroom when he’s in the backyard

Excellent

What a blessing this teaching has been. The Lord has indeed spoken to me through this teaching. Thank you and Glory be to God!

Please pray for me my husband want it to divorce me he said he doesn't love me anymore.

It's my will to forget about God and my ex husband who God verbally promised to me. I obeyed that promise for 18 years and now Im left with nothing. Im having trouble figuring out who was the worst mistake I ever made... my ex, or God.

Just a comment its amazing that many parents say would die for their children but won't work on their marriage eg we are different people now we just grew apart. i.pray that marriages are restored through God and families healed

I pray God would still heal & restore my relationship with Mads. May God show His face to him & make his faith strong in Him. May God soften Mads' heart & remove his stubbornness, desperation, impulsiveness, irrationality in all of his own plans in life, but see God's plans are way better than his. In Jesus' name I ask. Amen. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Amen!!

What do you do when there's been no honeymoon, no contact, bedroom time...not even once. Like we're total strangers. Need lots of prayers. Don't know what to do.

I have been standing for my marriage for 4 years after being abandoned, emotionally abused, neglected and completely told that my husband never loved me and that he came into our marriage knowing how many years he was going to spend with me. I'm not perfect but I could never lie to someone about something so sacred. Love is a gift from God we should never take it for granted. I'm finally ready to do what I need to do for myself. I love my husband and I pray for nothing but the best for him and that he finds a Godly great woman. I pray he puts the work into himself to become a better person. I pray he finds a woman that he won't be ashamed of and I pray God brings me a kingdom husband that will treat me like the Queen I have become through Jesus Christ 🙏!!! God bless all of you I pray your marriages always stand firm in the foundation of God's word!!!

God is Great

God doesn't lie....Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:" ~ Matthew 7:7 KJV. I refuse to accept defeat. Even if you have faith the size of a mustard seed. Its his opinion..... pray and believe. I feel that those who divorced is bc of lack of prayer? Or what?. So confusing

You mentioned a group to join? What is that and where can I find more? Thanks so much for your message. I needed to hear it! God Bless your ministry and I pray your efforts continue to bring more fruit for the Kingdom of God and His Glory!

Hi,i am Stephanie,husband moved out in 2019 and went for divorce in 2020,we are still in battle of the divorce proceedings,as he dont want to give me lifetime maintenance and medical aid, and change his settlement documents for the 4th time,but i refuse to sign because i have to make proper decisions,for the sake of our son who desires to go study next year,as the woman he is involve with controls him not to be in his son's life,my husband is an ordained pastor, and that woman is busy with evil dark witchcraft which break the marriage, so she can have my life,she was attending church with us,my husband was the leading pastor,and they said that they are doing nothing wrong for being involve,as long as his parents and family accepts their affair

Thank u I love u god I trust in u to bring my wife back

Father God I ask that you fix me and if it's in your will to fix my marriage

I am.thinkinh to file a suit against my husband who abandoned me and my 3children

I don't know how I could ever trust him again, he attacked me, I was so terrified by the sudden explosive inappropriate rage I have never seen before, and then the exposure to all the lies after the fact. I loved him, I do so deeply desire God restore my husband to Himself, I have no hope in my heart for the marriage.

The Spirit world is a different reality. The more I pray for my separated wife, the more evil she becomes.

Thank you so much Dominic. I am currently dealing wurh this issue. I am doing the course online but still waiting for insight. What might be signposts to watch for. How do I give my pain to the Lord. What dies that look like and how can I support my spouse in her pain. Thanks so much again

Lord Jesus please restore my daughters marriage.

Amen

Am divorced and I need strength to raise my girls. God restore my marriage

I am going through a lot we have been married only for 2 years we have a little girl. We separated since September last year until then I have not had peace in my heart a single day. I tears everyday for restauration, I don’t think if it’s really done if I could remarried again. I need prayers.

I been divorced for 2 yrs was married for 33yrs husband and I both became Christian’s , during these 2yrs of divorce we never really! stopped seeing each other.I got cancer now I remission, and he been with me through it. But I tell myself I’m I committing Sin by having a intertwined relationship with him even if it’s my ex husband. I tell him maybe we are by not being married?

My husbands new woman told me that my marriages failed. I say no it didn’t fail it’s being renewed.

Husband, if you're reading this. I would like to have a honeymoon, romance, ect. We can not keep going no contact. I'm so deprived. Everyone is.

Please pray for my family and my innocent kids.its too much for the heart.This is the worse test of my life. Its really a shock.Then does it mean our whole marriage was just a lie

Glory to God!!! I don't know what happened to us but he asked for a divorce and hurtfully I gave it to him 😥 So we've been spending time together he'll call and ask if I can come over for whatever reason (NO SEX) and then do something stupid like leave me sitting house sitting or say something stupid. By me going to him am I getting in God's way? Please help me.. .... Us😔

He really scared me.

O lord please o god give My wife back after 23 years please o god please give me my wife please pray for me

I believed this, prayed and fasted for this for almost 11 years. Suffered betrayal trauma from his lies and financial abuse, been neglected, ignored, blamed for everything, disregarded, discarded, replaced by porn and masterbation, been yelled at and hurt in every way. Yet, I've stayed and been a faithful and praying wife. Instead of getting better he's only gotten worse. He refuses to accept or acknowledge any wrongdoing, much less seek or acept help. "Nothing is impossible for God...." except intervene in someone's free will. If my husband doesn't want to stop his sinful life and surrender himself to the Lord, nothing I can do will change that. So, what now? I've been to Christian therapists, pastors, Chaplain, and women's ministry leaders trying to save my marriage and heal my brokenness caused by my husbands betrayals and abuse. What has he DONE to show me he wants to change? NOTHING.

Help us this is so painful. Financially how do we manage.

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I need prayer regarding my Marriage, my husband Justen Martin. He is neglecting me, seeking divorce to be with Strange Women. NOW MICHELE JOHNSON IS his desire to take care of. This woman is living with his mother and my husband in same building living with his father. Lord hear my prayer. He doesn't believe in God anymore. As his wife I am standing in the gap of unholy relationships

Well it would be a miracle seems to be jumping around looking for wife, instead of admitting his wrong doing, getting his way all the time , he gets engaged to someone when He didn’t come home all night, just to hurt me, to get some papers done illegally, I wanted to do the right way Please pray for me I have extremely chronic stress disorder trying hard being close to Jesus, but it’ s been in my body too long along with other losses to many too quick

Can this help me when I’m a believer and my husband isn’t, he deceived me and said he was a believer

It is a vain thing to put our trust in man!!!

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Is restoration possible if he marries someone else?

😢🙏💚😔

What about seeking a Christian marriage counselor?

He divorced!

What about the marriages that are restored and the two people are not believers? I have seen marriages restored and the two restored don't even believe in God. Can we all agree to disagree that restoration is a hit or miss whether you believe or not? I used to be on a restoration journey. Im here praying for my spouse while hes out sleeping with anything with a pause, hiding money so he wouldn't provide for the children he prayed for. I have seen my life go from great to being saved and seeing my life go straight to hell. I am saved and I do believe in God. However I believe our spouses get tired of testing the waters and realize that they want the "stupid" woman back who saved herself, prayed for him, took good care of his children etc. Or he lost everything or comes back with some illness. In that case did they come back because of God or came back because now theyre useless and noonne else wants them but their praying family? Restoration doesn't exist! And plus God gave grounds for divorce Abuse, Adultery and Abandonment. Im separated from my spouse, celibate, caring for our children and NO i dont want him back!

God restore my marriage from the hands of Nancy Baskaria who has snatched my husband

Yeah. I messed up with secular advice. It was already bad, I made it worse

No it's not! I used to listen your videos , while all time is was God's will not to be married to my ex.

Amen