Listen everyone prayer does change things in marriages! Married for 16 years and my husband left me and our sons to be of the world! I am still standing on God word! God had to work on me to repent and forgive myself and my husband and now we are working on things but only with God!
I was praying everyday for my partner, and asking god for a miracle, only when I finally shifted the intentions of my prayers, and laid it all in gods hands, my partner contacted me. He told me that he had found an old bible of mine, where I had some old notes left from my teenage years lol, and they also spoke from past love conflicts and my feelings regarding them. He told me he immediately started crying (he is not in a relationship with god, still he "coincidentally" found my bible) and knew he had made a mistake in abandoning me. This was my miracle! Because I specifically asked God to deal with him in his perfect ways, while also please, making him understand my feelings, and in a way allowing me to talk through him.
Praise the Lord. Thank you for sharing this. The way you prayed asking God to do it his way in his timing made all the difference. It’s very hard to stay patient and surrendering like you did because the fear, hurt and desperation drives us to panic and rush restoration and ruin that possibility. May God continue to bless your journey.
Thank you so much for all of your teachings.I found your RU-vid channel 6 mons ago.I have come so far since then.I was a low as you could get.When I started watching your videos they gave me hope.My relationship with God has gotten much stronger.
6 месяцев назад
Wonderful word! Bless You! Thank you! I AM A Conqueror! I forgive them and release any bitterness towad them in Jesus,Name!
Been going through separation for 7 months. We have 2 beautiful children & my spouse has decided to part ways & be single & free. I’ve been praying for marriage restoration & reconciliation. I pray for her daily with devotion & pray for her salvation. I love her deeply agape love. I pray for my children for God to give them peace & strength in this difficult time ahead. I declare & decree Exodus 14.14 in to our lives & surrender my spouse, children & me in Gods hands. 🙏🏽
In the same situation with two children I actually thought that this comment was me for a second. Some ministries that have helped me: 1. Rejoice marriage ministries 2. It’s black and white by breyonia belle
I don’t know what led you to where you are but God gives us the desires of our heart as we abide in Him. Abide in Him brother and May God restore your beautiful family in the name of Jesus
This is some heavy truth that sends me right back to the Altar!😭🙌 I have been reading Matthew 6:23 and praying that God opens my husband's eyes and brings him out darkness! My eyes are now opened and I see my need for healing and Deliverance out of darkness. I thought I was free and now realize my heart is still not ready! 😭😭😭Thank you so much!
That was the place I had to come to. One day it was like I was so broken seeing myself. It was such a beautiful experience...that Godly sorrow. I am now allowing God to work on me.
Thank you for helping me see it from a different perspective that we shouldn’t be acting like the victim but forgiveness and Repentance of every part we played in the Relationship to have it come to this Separation or Divorce and our marriage as well……
Be willing to forgive, and ask The Lord to do the work of forgiveness in you. You do not have to feel like forgiving. Strictly being willing to forgive, out of a desire to obey The Lord (not my will but Thine be done) is acceptable.🙏✝️💟 Forgiveness is not the same as reconciliation. Sometimes the other person is dangerous, etc.
6 месяцев назад
Great teaching! I'm going to make effort to meet with them and forgive them!
Thats a good reminder to always to stay in forgiveness and to see how bitterness and unforgivness hurts us more than the offender. Thanks for the Video very very Good
This Is so Powerful! The cross of Calvary is the Power of God to all Who believe🙌🏽. Thank you for Sharing Gods Powerful truth Man of God! God bless you in Jesus name
Lord Jesus, I take responsibility for my situation, I have sinned against You. I forgive Arnold completely and pray that You will forgive him and protect him. Holy Spirit bless us with a forgiving heart.
I appreciate the way this brother in Christ Jesus breaks down the word of God and life trials. Each teaching is helping my understanding to get better within myself first and let the love of Christ Jesus flow through me in all that I do and say❤
I’ve been praying for 3 years for marital restoration but my wife is against it. I’ve repented and now I even help others avoid the pitfalls I’ve made yet she has no desire to keep the marriage going. We’ve been separated for 3 years and now she wants to do a Christian divorce mediation…. Basically that’s still a divorce without all the lawyers and drama etc. she has the biblical right to divorce and has free will so basically I’m asking for prayer for God to change her heart. And more importantly, that His perfect will be done here. We have 3 daughters and I don’t want them to experience the pain of divorce! My wife has said repeatedly that she forgives me for my past but forgiveness doesn’t mean we have to reconcile. I strongly disagree and feel like she’s holding onto pats hurts. She’s admitted that she’s traumatized and damaged. I trust the Lord that He can and will make a way.
Christian divorce mediation is a devils lie we rebuke it in Jesus name whatever it means to her it’s a lie if you both married and made a vow before Christ even if she has the right it’s not God’s will is cruelty n she won’t be able to marry again neither of you n if children involved is worth trying to reconcile
Honestly I believe it’s not me, I have forgiven this person they’re aware of it, they can call me today, I’m open to them. But there saying they don’t want a relationship with me. So I say short prayers for restoration. 😌 Thank you!
Thank you Dominic ( my father's name ) for sharing so much valuable information I was recently in a 2 year LDR of which I felt God brought her into my life. But after dealing with so many red flags lies manipulation guilt blame that she projected onto me that I honestly created an unhealthy soul tie Perhaps it wasn't even God who placed her into my life but it was He who removed her and closed the door forever never to be reopened. Everything in this video is totally making sense and amazingly applies to this unhealthy situationship. I walked away 7 months ago NO contact and truly believe this is Gods will and I now clearly see Satan used this woman to distract me away from God family and friend friends. It's taken these past 7 months to heal and grieve the loss of a woman I never even met in person even though I booked several flights and hotels to hopefully finally meet her only having to cancel due to her supposedly having personal crisises?? I continue to pray for her as I surrendered over to God in intercession trusting God will restore her broken heart and shattered soul due to several decades of abuse pain and trauma God bless you and yours my good brother Keep on sharing God's word with others 🙏🙏🙏🙌✝️🙌🙏🙏🙏❤
@I am the Storm Soooooo thankful God opened your eyes to the truth....Satan can also put decoys in our path.,..if Gods Will I pray you continue to be strong by keeping that door closed and pray for that person to find Christ....a relationship from God isn't full of manipulation,lies, hurt, hatred...and get that soul tie removed from you!!! Blessings
Something was definitely remiss, her excuses. Is this woman a sincere follower of our Lord? I don't think so. Yes, forgive her and forgive yourself. There was something hurting in you that got you in this predicament. I pray God bring you your beautiful, Christlike wife. Lord heal this man's pain and trauma.
Do you call the Lila? I’m sorry to asked this question but I heard a very similar story at the radio station. A broken heart is very painful, I’m glad God is your strength!! Blessings
Profound perspective on the Father heart of God... How I need this to forgive those I thought I had forgiven!! Thank you Dominick for amazing wisdom to direct us to Calvary!
I pray my husband would realize this. Thank you for your wisdom. Will continue to pray that my husbands heart softens to me and he truly forgives me. He is like you say, he says he forgives me but wants divorce so I don’t see this as forgiveness. Also, do you offer 1:1 sessions?
Thank you. Mo Isom Aiken said, we’re good at knowing about God, but we don’t know God. God is the first relationship, and I feel like a lot of my problems come from doing works “in” Him rather than just letting Him work.
The Lord has allowed by fiancé, and I to be broken apart right now. We both prematurely, took our relationship in a direction that God did not want it to go. We consummated prematurely the marriage to be before we were even married. we acted out of flesh and began to lost after marriage that was promised to us by God. In doing this, we open the doorway for the enemy to come in and cause chaos. I have since learned that things behind the scenes were festering up that were causing us to be fractured. we both need healing in order to reconcile back to each other to do what God is called us to do in a marriage covenant and ministry that he has for us. I pray Work is done through us separately, and that we are brought back collectively for him to finish the work he started. I humbly repent from my sins and asked for forgiveness and I come to you father God as a humble man thank you father God for all you have done Through us and separately through me and my fiancé.
Thank you for your amazing work helped me so much! Iam just struggling every time I forgive and he hurt me again iam back in the hurt mode and have to forgive again but then he again hurt me.. This goes on since a year.. I know why he act like out of his wounds but... It's so hard to be not offended every time they hurt you
I am in need of so much prayers…. My wife is leaving me… we have a beautiful family two beautiful kids who are going to be absolutely devastated by this. She’s been talking to a guy from her past, lied to me about it. This guy who only likes pictures of her in it, none that I was in. A snake whose always waiting in the wings for his moment to get in. The password on her phone is 7926 which stands for this guys name Ryan…. She doesn’t know I know. Talking about buying a house and shit together…. I can forgive her, but how can I get her to stop…. To stop talking to him and stop looking for apartments, stop trying to tear my family apart….. do I confront this guy? What do I do lord…. Please pray for me…. I am not in a good place
First my brother you need to be born again and then allow the Lord to cleanse you from your anger and bitterness. Then pray for the salvation of your wife and reconciliation of your relationship. It’s going to be a hard road but you can do this. Look up rejoice marriage ministries
My wife and I have been together for over 20 years. Now suddenly out of nowhere she just doesn't love me anymore. Yes it was literally out of nowhere. One day we were madly in love, the next day I was getting the silent treatment. (Which is highly unusual for my wife considering usually i can't get her to shut up). So I asked if everything was ok. And that's when she told me that she just doesn't love me anymore. And I can't hardly eat or sleep. Food just has no taste anymore, Their is no warmth or joy in our home anymore since she walked out the door from me and the kids. I still love her just as much as I did when we first started our relationship, if not more. The love I have for her is just as strong and as powerful as it ever was. So I keep praying that God will step in and ignite the fire in her heart once again so that she will want to come home.
I'm sorry to hear this, I really don't get how people fall out of love it makes you wonder if it was ever true, I hope god can show her your love and bring reconciliation
It happened to me. People grow apart and my ex husband is not a Christian, therefore we were unequally yoked. I divorced him after 23 years and now I regret it. I never thought to just separate from him.
@@Caolan-b6rhearts can be hurt but our love is not true; it’s conditional but Gods love is unconditional and so when we know christ and we emulate Him when then can love people as much as we can as God loves them
please pray for my husband to soften his heart. he block off my phone. shut me off and avoid any communication with me. whatever i do he sees negatively, we both Christian and married under the convenant of God i do not want to divorce, i pray to God to remove the bitterness inside me, is not easy, i keep hearing voices saying he will divorce me, it makes me scare and fear everyday i cannot get on with my life, even i pray so hard the pain is still there but i will continue to ask Jesus to help me only through Him we are able to repent, please pray for us too ❤
Fear is from the devil , the fact that you fear is a sign satan is destroying your marriage, God will not let you divorce he will not go against his own word Forgive and repent , and ask God for hidden sins
Lord please to restore my relationship with dainton and onish in you we have fall from uour path but please bring us back together in your precious name i pray amen.
this is so...true..i m deep in bitterness ..i can t let go..as i m still paying for his betrayal.. we live together, he came back fof kids and cz she left him..but never said sorry.. and opposites parenting.. struggles.there s little trust or respect to eachothers.. he s not christian.. I wished he didn t come back ...now i don t know..i j7st wixh we could work together for the kids.. znd i m soo lost .insecure ..i realized i hzve not been good wife either.. but cannot get out of victim mode...
My at home Prodigal spouse is actively in adultery and I 100% forgive him( 4 months ago NEVER). In November 2023 I gave God my life, 100% surrendered to him. God has forgiven 100% of my sins. Yes, it hurts 😢 but it hurt God when I was in sin also. The Holy Spirit revealed my concealed wounds so I could get rid of my bitter root. We are living together, but separated, not intimate. I just pray to God for his transformation, just as he did with me. I’m now focusing on Worshipping God instead of focusing on the marriage. ❤I will update you.
@@GioL1980LLso, I did walking through Calvary. 3 weeks in, the Prodigal’s heart has softened toward me, he is mostly pleasant toward me (but he has brief moments of angry words), he compliments my physical appearance again, he has asked questions about what our restoration would look like. He is requesting intimacy again, but I am not interested…it’s been months. I’m holding out, he isn’t transformed. I’m trusting God.
@@GioL1980LL restored! It’s been a little less than a year. It’s not perfect but it’s better than it was before it went bad, seriously. My advice, don’t snoop, don’t ask questions you can’t handle, give 100% of your pain and tears to God, don’t expect sympathy from the prodigal( let God work on them), focus on your walk with God not the spouse, don’t preach to them. LET YOUR BEHAVIOR BE YOUR MINISTRY, MIRROR GOD IN EVERYTHING YOU DO and you will see God move in your marriage. This is all hard if you fight it, if you just do it things move faster.
Hey Dominic, this is beautiful, however how does one practically continue to live with your loved one who continues to offend their partner, and reconcile that with establishing boundaries to sinful behavior. Let’s say your partner continues to devalue you in preferring others over you by overlooking mistreatment by other family members. Should we not establish healthy boundaries while the offending partner learns how NOT to sin against us in this way?
Can you tell me how I can take my focus off my x my daughter lives with him and his new girlfriend but she is giving my daughter a hard time she treats her horrible attitude towards her I keep praying over this entire situation
Similar experience here, trust me when I say let God be the centre of your heart ... When you surrender to him and experience his love It'll be worth it
I get it. It hurts like crazy. One reason it hurts so bad is because of your rejection & abandonment issues. God wants to heal that. It won't be easy but move on and trust that God will bring your spouse in the right timing. Get in alignment. Get in your calling and it won't hurt so much.
@@danilaroche1156don't give false hope, I know plenty of people waited for god to bring a spouse and he never did, we have to do that for ourselves unfortunately
We were together for 6 years. We were planning our wedding in the begging of the year. A fear grew in her and said she was feeling empty. I messed up and let my pride get in the way and didn’t pray with her during the breakup. She broke up with me and disobeyed and kept trying to contact this poor girl, I feel like I distorted intimacy in her life from hearing things from friends… at first she was hoping God would bring us back together down the road, then few weeks later she told me she wanted me to move and responded back to her once again. And again and again. I’ve repented, been working on myself. I realize I don’t need her but there is still a hope we may get back together since I know we had a strong bondage..
im praying for you Marie... Continue to seek God & seek forgiveness from your husband. But also forgive yourself for whatever you had done. You are a daughter of the most high God and he loves you more than you will ever know. Pray, Pray, Pray.
I know your story. I know your believing for restoration. Your husband sounds very prideful. I don't want to be cynical or negative..but I'd let him go.
So when i ask for truth and God has shown me truth several times and the truth is constant betrayal, am i supposed to continue the relationship or isn’t God showing me truth so i can run because this relationship is not for me?
Don't continue the relationship. I know it's painful but he's not your spouse. My guess is there's a strong soul tie. All the betrayal is indicating the relationship is not founded in Christ. He doesn't sound like a born again believer.
Not good advice because at the end of the day no matter how far gone someone looks like I’m the flesh that’s all it is the flesh and God almighty has the power to change and transform that person and has the last say. If you feel in your heart to stand for this relationship and you believe that God wants this person in your life then pray, seek the Lord and seek His counsel and then stand.
Because his heart is deceived. It's basically a rhetorical question. Only God really knows. I'd focus on something else or you'll go crazy. Focus on helping others. Get fit. Feed the sheep. Don't focus on your spouse.
You need to first completely forgive the spouse for their wrongdoings. Repent your sins, ask god to forgive your partner's sins, ask god to make you a better person, fix anything that got in the way between you and god, completely submit yourself and your relationship to god. Change your prayers instead of asking god to put you back together, ask god to guide both of you together through him. May it be in god's will he'll restore the relationship back when the time is right, when you both are the best versions of you for each other.