Still miss companionship though, that's not gonna change. Going to bed at night and hearing silence is the toughest thing to do after being in a relationship for a long time. I spent most of my young adult life w ith girlfriends, eventually we always broke up but then one day I found one that lasted 7 years and ended suddenly. I was beside myself, it's still hard almost 10 years later to fall asleep by myself. Once you have that person you believe is perfect for you and they are suddenly gone, it's a hole that won't ever seem to close. A hole that it seems, Will Smith's marriage is constantly falling down.
@@Kazeromaru my friend, work on yourself this advice seems redundant, but I promise out the energy into healing yourself and good things will come to you. The pain is vibrant I know, but please know that you WILL find a beautiful woman you will love you unconditionally, someone you will build with, but that will never happen if you give up hope. My heart goes out to you brother and I’m here for you my friend. For now surround your self around ppl who love you; friends and family. And if you currently don’t have friends learn to enjoy the company you keep: Yourself, learn to REALLY spend time with yourself and love yourself, and be bold my friend go out into this beautiful world and find good friends, good company. I know you can and you will. I know that everyone needs somebody to love, and you need that; there’s nothing wrong with that. But learning to love yourself and having you as your own world will give you the value and security to be ok if someone ever leaves. Godspeed my friend I have faith in you future…it’s bright. Love is out there for you.
This whole event couldn't have gone better. It's now going to be exposed that Jada is incredibly toxic and manipulative. I love how most people are realizing that will is just broken from how crazy Jada is, and needs support.
Calling it now.... She ordered the hits on Biggie and Tupac. She wanted to be a grieving girlfriend that could live in the limelight of the superstar lover who was taken too young. She is classic narcissist. Totally gaslights her whole family and probably all her "friends" too. The devil lives through Jada, and she is all too willing to give the shameful kiss to Lucifer when he returns to this earth. And we allowed his return, by pedestal placing these heathens and sycophants, allowing them to guide our lives into debauchery and filth. Fuck, we deserve the apocalypse, humanity is not ready for divine salvation yet. May all who read this, repent, pray to Jesus that he may strengthen you, give you some hope, and guide away from these despots and dark worshipers.
Are they do, Charlie had a bad take by saying that this makes Will Smith look bad. Will Smith is a victim people are making fun of him acting like he's weak- like he has any control over what his wife does.
Can we talk about how upset Will looks while she’s filming him, he’s visibly uncomfortable and Jada doesn’t even care. She just proceeds to promote her shitty podcast.
The worst part is she always has such a calm demeanor when he's barely holding it together. I feel like that video was taken in the middle of a fight or something.
That's how some narcissists are. Keep the calm demeanor, even appear to be "enlightened" while manipulating everyone else around them until they have an explosive reaction. They get joy from having people make fools out of themselves.
@@Tenrou2 yeah. And they love violating boundaries and then acting like you’re crazy for trying to even have boundaries. That’s pretty much what Jada did here and then didn’t even have the decency to NOT post it!!!! Totally disgusting.
the devil is calm too.....the devil will never present himself to you as a red beast with horns...if going to come in a form of something you love the most....Maybe the woman you love or like, Maybe the man you love or like.
"Look how well this therapist helped our marriage." "Honey, can you please respect me and not do this right now?" "Well, looks like we need more therapy!" What a terrific endorsement. I bet people are lining up for Esther's services.
I was looking into Esther Perel, and didn't realize I saw her TED talk years ago. She wrote a book on 'rethinking infidelity'. No wonder Jada likes her - she normalizes gaslighting and emotional abuse. I don't know what's going on in their relationship, but it starts to seem like Will needs to GTFO.
I was in a relationship like that. My ex did nothing but abuse me emotionally and gaslight me into thinking I was going insane. One time, I called him out on his bullshit and he crumbled like a cheap accordion in front of me. NYE of 2017, he broke up with me after putting on this facade in front of his parents and family, acting like things were going well with him and I. Not even a month after he broke up with me, he has a new girlfriend and moves her in with him. That's when I realized he was cheating on me along with the random texts he kept receiving and him threatening me if I looked at his phone. I had no intentions of looking at his stupid phone at all. Last I heard, he moved far away and I'm glad he's gone.
@@CourtneyLachiver I went thru almost the exact same situation right down to the ex dating a new girl 1 month after breaking up. It breaks one down emotionally in a way where I don't think ill ever truly heal
@@cozycasasmr4510 Hey! I'm a stranger, but I hope this would help you. I've been in a similar situation. Time heal all wounds, if not, it lessens the pain. If there's any way for you to talk to a therapist or counselor, please ask them for help to sort out your emotional issue. And do other activity to distract yourself from the sadness. You got this. Have a good life :)
jada: *filming and interviewing* will: "i don't want to be filmed" jada: *filming and interviewing* will: "i don't want to be filmed" jada: *posting the video* wtf...
Can't imagine how messed up this is for Will. Went out of your way to slap a comedian in front of the entire world because your wife can't take a joke; only for her to tell every news outlet that you were wrong for standing up for her. Now you're banned from the Oscars for 10 years, all your movies are paused, and everyone knows your wife only uses you to promote her show about how she enjoys sleeping with other men. Poor Will, he's literally taking every L thrown at him.
Never forget, back before she announced that they have an 'open relationship' after the whole August affair, she responded to accusations of swinging/seeing other people n shit with "haha I wish!"
@@KabooM1067 He has 2 kids with her and probably has all his assets tied up in their marriage. It's not like he can just throw her out like she deserves, he's kinda stuck with her.
Is he not just waiting for someone to pay him a ton of money to speak out about the whole thing? And didn't he go on with insulting Will and his family for years? Doesn't seem like a great dude neither...
I disagree. I think people should be held responsible for their actions, even if you think they are screwed by it. Poor people should get speeding tickets too even if it means they can’t eat for a couple days. Don’t speed, you’ll kill someone. Suddenly that intermittent fasting doesn’t look so bad when compared to 15 years on manslaughter charges.
You can't convince me that Jada is a good wife after seeing that she basically manipulated their daughter to make a letter to Tupac,who she never met, wishing he was still here.
I just feel bad for Will at this point, Jada is very clearly toxic and is in no way attempting to change. Hopefully Will realizes this and gets the help he needs.
@@alcoholic7112 how? other than the slap i havnt seen much of will be a bad person. (im not saying your wrong, i just dont know whether i should feel bad for will or not)
That’s what I was thinking. Being emasculated, cheated on, compared to Tupac and constantly having your sex skilled mocked and used as content. I’m honestly surprised he hasn’t gotten drunk and started fights to try and go to jail, because it’s less miserable than being at home.
Right? One has to be almost completely lacking in empathy, or very full of hate to make and post that video. I think she is full of hate for Will, and selfish enough to suppress any empathy she has. It has to be hell for Will to live with someone that hates him so much. It was wrong for Will to slap Chris, but we are all seeing what pressures pushed Will to make that mistake.
Unless she’s the type that just doesn’t care because she thinks she’s infallible and the people who dislike her are only doing it out of jealousy or she thinks something similarly crazy
if you're a manipulator like she is, you don't care cause the side that sticks up for her are woooman protectors, and because she be wooman she's fine. She won't have any repercussions. Will will continue to suffer and the media and other corporations will only see him as a horrid man that she'll continue to make him out to be. Don't see the purpose there cause if he's out of a job then pff what money besides whatever she makes? Unless that's what she wants and wants him to be just the stay at home person and she do everything. I mean at this point why not? He made his money, he can retire without worry of that. but let's put it this way....she's the reason why a lot of men don't want to date anymore or stopped or gave up because this is what they fear. And I don't blame them coming from a gal. some girls are terrible and they make good ones like me and others look like horrible monsters out to hurt them and or do that stupid "Me 2" movement. try to make them be this awful person etc. Ik I never would, even if he did something terrible, actually I had a few bfs 10 years ago who did awful things to me and I don't bring that up even now! I leave it where it should be, in the past. but these people will literally go into the past 10 years ago to make anyone look shitty. So even if Ik I wouldn't men don't know that. Nice men just looking for a nice girl don't know that so the nice girls are screwed and the nice guys are afraid and screwed because they refuse to date cause it's less complicated. and all thanks to woman like her that make it difficult and don't even care about other's feelings.
I so agree with you, I saw the same thing, I knew it was something and didn’t have the right description for what I saw, 😢you nailed it, he is empty inside, first it was that Augustine Guy, now it’s another public desolate of shame
Will's biggest mistake I'm sure he regrets was defending Jada like a man would, and Jada is overcome with joy inside, but gaslighting his actions. The truth is that she is a narsistic beast not worth defending. Sinning with her sons friend, when she is old enough to be his mother is strange enough within his home, and she is trying to provoke him. What he needs is to do is play her game, stay calm cool and collective, have no contact with her, and divorce that bitch for being and adulterer, and sue her for trying to damage his career. He would not be in this situation from a slap to Chris Rock if she didn't provoke his actions into doing so. Johny Depp is in the same situation with Amber Heard, he put up with a lot of bullshit for years with that broad. Truth is they are nothing without them, and they need to learn a hard lesson in life. Will will still be loved by many no matter what.
yeah, it's sad everybody mostly thinks that the male in the relationship is always the abuser/ maniuplator in these situations. You don't really see much going around on the internet about the other way around.
I mean that’s unfair lmao. I dislike jada too but let’s not absolve will of blame here. Rolling your eyes at a joke you didn’t like =/= telling someone to walk up and slap the person who just told the joke. Unless there’s a clip I haven’t seen of Jada clearly looking at Will to do something and even then there’s the argument that wanting someone to do something doesn’t directly translate to wanting them to be violent you can want someone to do something but have limitations on what that something is. Will isn’t guiltless here he made the decision to be violent instead of finding another way to “stand up” for Jada. All that being said I CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH. FUCK JADA.
It's especially sad when other people tell you that no, what you have gone through wasn't normal or okay. You realize just how deeply it impacted your views on certain things
@@estelle6528 never thought it was normal, but their skill is convincing you it's your fault! Only when you step back do you realise how much ground you've conceded to make them happy, when you should be looking after yourself.
@@King-of-the-Brittons yes. Escaping away from their abuse and giving yourself time and care to process what happened and how to fix things is the key to finally allowing yourself to heal, and let go of that emotional baggage before it gets too much.
My dad had a lot of relationships like this. Never-ending appeasement doesn't work. Running yourself ragged to keep them satisfied doesn't work. They'll never be satisfied.
Just search up grandiose narcissistic partners with NPD, codependent relationships, and C-PTSD with respect to the Smiths -- Dr. Todd Grande and Dr. Ramani are both great professional resources, who teach with very differing perspectives. Patrick Teahan, an LICSW trauma counsellor, also has a great vid on the codependency. They explain everything in narcissistic households, from the controlling insecure projections, to the egotistical facade, rage shame outbursts, extreme trust issues, destruction of long-term relationships, and so on. Responsibility is on both the dysfunctionally abused and the abuser to break free from each other, and become fully independent adults. Unfortunately, self-entitled and narcissistic parenting that leads to a hypersensitive and overly-empathic person is more the norm than the exception. Will is possibly an example of this kind of abused individual, who is far too easily manipulated and triangulated into drama and guilt. This is even more likely given that Will had an abusive father, which is personally relatable for some of us. Of course, both parties are to be held accountable, which at least Will already has acknowledged. If this helps or informs even one person, I'd be glad. Take care of yourselves.
Yeh the way she said that was like demeaning to what ever “the hurts” were , as if a mother talking down to a child sayin did the kiss fix ur booboo and this man is clearly in pain.
She was clearly only talking about herself when she said "we have been healed" and that healing was probably a lie that had hurt Will even more but justified Jada's actions. I can't imagine how painful living with that woman is. You can clearly see she does not care about Will when she pushes his boundaries and onvades his privacy in his own house. She talks about healing the 'hurts' she most likely caused. It makes me want to vomit as a psychosomatic response to the grossness of this siuatuation.
I met Will Smith as a kid, when he was filming "Enemy of the State" in Baltimore, MD, and he took time out of his day to talk to my dad and I, and really seemed down to earth and humble. He easily could have walked off or went to his trailer, but he stood in the cold and talked to a working class white guy and his teenage son for several minutes. Keep in mind this was right after Independence Day and Men in Black, so Will was at the absolute height of his career, and he gave off nothing but positive energy, above and beyond anything he was obligated to do. With that said, I was terribly disappointed with the "slap", but if Chris Rock is willing to give him a chance and forgive him, so am I. And seeing just how toxic Jada is, it's not hard to see how Will could end up this messed up. I pity him, and hope he finds his way out of that relationship.
I dont think that will happen, he just wants to make it work but hes the only one putting effort while jada is probably still on her high probably feeling like amber when she fucked over johnny depp
Yup this was funny for awhile and Will kinda deserved backlash for the slap incident but now it reached to a point where people are just piling on the poor guy. From 2-bit stand-up comedian grandstanding on social media calling for his head to a not so stand-up "comedian" using his transgression to make herself look like a victim. Will always did looked like a positive person despite what people perceived was happening in his private life. Will really do need to ditch Jada and if his kids wants any chance of actually being a decent normal person, they need to follow him and not her toxic butt.
Will literally ruined his career for her and she proceeds to go straight to an interview and say “i do not support my husband or want to be married to him”
I’ve been down that road too, that’s how she kept me hooked. If I left I was giving up on her and I failed her just like he said, if I stayed I was just like my dad and didn’t deserve her, BUT if I worked on things and “fixed myself” maybe someday I’d be good enough and be healthy for her, better than my dad was for my family. I never truly considered whether or not she was good or healthy for me.
@@casadilla111 That's very brave of you to admit that. I know a lot of men struggle with admitting they've been in abusive relationships (namely because society never tends to believe them). You're still a good man even if you need to focus on yourself. Stay strong!
When she turns the camera around and just stares at it for several seconds it just is absolutely horrifying. It looks like it's straight out of a Stanley Kubrick horror movie or something; just several long, uncomfortable moments of her looking into the viewer's very soul.
Yeah, she's a seething mass of cluster b personality disorders and she's psychologically abusive because of that. Will should have slapped her that night instead of Chris.
I mean look I get he slapped someone. But is it weird I actually wanted something good to happen to him after that incident? Damn, I mean you could tell he was in a weird and disturbed state of mind. This is getting depressing....
Makes all the interactions creepier knowing she is tied with the church of Scientology. She got super cult vibes along with being such a unlikeable human.
She has absolutely no respect for him. It's terrible, and almost feels like she's doing her best to break him down bit by bit. All of this feels very purposeful.
from an intreview he did a while back talking about marriage, be basically said that no matter what he won't get a divorce and wants the family whole, maybe he faced trauma as a kid from his parents getting a divorce or one of his parents not being around and so he doesn't want the same thing to happen to his kids...but his kids are no longer kids, they are adults. he is just torturing himself at this point for no reason.
“She’s helped us a lot, can’t you tell?” NO! Not to mention, this Esther person that supposedly helped them is basically being INSULTED as much as Will is being insulted! Esther has NOT been doing a great job lol. Jada literally doesn’t care who’s feelings she hurts. The heck? She’s like an evil Disney villain lol
Just to be clear, Esther Perel teaches that infidelity is a good way to clear out problems in a relationship, and that strong women should feel free to find satisfaction outside their marriage as a form of, "healing."
*“I’m still dealing with foolishness”* This line alone, just angers me. She’s obviously the leech that’s just eating Will’s life away. I hope his circumstances get better.
She cucks him, and then threatens to say he abuses her if he ever tries to leave her probably. Don't get married guys, at least never sign marriage papers.
She is manipulative, a freak, extremely insecure, selfish and she seeks the worst in people rather than their best. She seeks to dominate him and he only tries to serve her for their collective good. She dines off Will's success, and there would be nothing wrong with doing that but for the fact that her behaviour around it is so toxic. She's the mess, more so than Will could ever be. He ends up having to share her mess around because she's still everything to him. It's a prime example of manipulation and abusive relationship. (Not saying it justifies in any way his violence towards Chris at the Oscars) Just saying
Tbh I would think of breaking up immediately if my SO plays the cool laid back always right character and just comments on what I say or do instead of being part of the conversation
she turns the camera towards her, says “can’t you see she’s helped us a lot” referring to how obviously they’re unhappy EVEN THOUGH SHES THE ONE MAKING HIM CRY. Like if it’s an issue then just stop you fucking witch. i also hope he gets free
I hope it continues to backfire on her if she was doing shit like this all the time... that video of him getting paparazzi'd in his own house was the most cringe shit ever
will seriously needs to get the fuck away from her. she's no good for him, and we all know he can be better than this. also i like your username and pfp
I can't say I understand how he must be feeling but I can say that when I was in an abusive relationship I was constantly stressed out and it showed in the way I acted. That slap looked like a cry for help.
I dont feel bad at all...you dont fucking ask for help by slapping some fucking comedian... Will is weak and deserves it all. Ironically Wills will is weak as fuck. Why is he still in this marriage? Does he not have the ability and opportunity to leave? If a weak fucker like me sees Will as weak...then he is a wimp beyond compare. Im fixing my shit right now, while this adult is not... Fuck Will, Fuck his wife (pun intended), fuck their marriage, and fuck this drama
IMO, jada manipulated this man and broke him down. This wasn’t sudden. She seems like the perfect example of a narcissist determined to destroy someone
I've seen friends in relationships like this but never so long term, or with kids, let alone in the public spotlight. I imagine that makes it a lot harder to escape for one's own sanity or safety. Especially because he's gotta be worried for his kids, too.
With a wife like that, poisoning his mind everyday no wonder he IS miserable, such a shame a actor like Will Smith who's done really well in society and entertainment, spoils his reputation through a glare from his wife that didn't even wanna be his wife
I called it. That was so out of character for him I knew he was doing it for her. "but she didn't say anything". Anyone thats been in a toxic relationship like that knows she doesn't have to. Just the look on her face lets you know if you don't do *something* you are going to be put through it for the next 48 hours after we leave her has cause lots of people to do stupid things.
That is honestly so heartbreaking but so true. I hope you're in a better situation now, Andrew. And I think we all hope eventually Will and their kids will be in a better situation too.
I'd do the only logical thing that situation, tie a rope on the fan and the swing out the window like Tarzan and fall into the trash and than get picked up by the truck and go somewhere far and get out of radar of wife and then get passports
I feel like Jada is manipulating Will and she affected him a lot with her toxicity and manipulation, Will is having a terrible time and no one really cares
I agree that their relationship has not been good for will, and I do recognize that will is hurting, and not in the place he wanted to be in his relationship. However, it's not like will is a mindless victim. He has agency, and is able to make his own decisions. The slap was 100% Will's fault and responsibility, no need to assault chris rock.
You make your bed. Lay in it. Just about everybody has had at least one terrible relationship. Most people have enough self respect to leave because they know that THIS is basically the outcome otherwise. If Will doesn’t respect or love himself enough to leave, that’s on him. He’s a grown ass man.
I remember watching his movies ever since I was a kid. Hurts to see him be this depressed and helpless. Hopefully man realises his mistake and finds a better relationship
This is how abusers work. When they cannot control a situation (example: someone else publicly laughing at them), they will control what they can: their partner. When you're the partner and you know that YOU will be the one who suffers the consequences for another person's actions, you try to stop that from happening. If Will does nothing, it's "his fault" for not standing up for her. If Will does something, it's "his fault" for creating drama. He can't win but he is trying to lessen the severity of what he knows he will have to deal with at home anyway by getting back at the other person for her, in the hopes of soothing her bruised ego. He wasn't defending her, he was trying to defend himself.
This is a lot of assumptions. It could just as easily be about him and his bruised ego with people constantly mentioning this failed aspect of his life. Maybe he just couldn't take another person pointing out his shitty wife he can't get rid of.
I love how the Internet loved him pre-slap, hated him post-slap, and now that we know how awful Jada is, feel sorry for him. My man lost on all fronts.
Eh, I didn't really hate him. Just found the situation hilarious. To be clear, I only find the _slap_ funny, the whole ordeal is pretty soul-crushing to me.
@@3dsmaster537 a slap, in front of a lot of people, over a harmless joke, while he's on air, with him being a public figure too. I think he deserves it. You reap what you sow, after all. It wasn't like it's an accidental mistake. He stalked up stage slowly, he can stop whenever he wanted, he didn't.
@@juhalight5921 do you not know how love works? It takes a lot of courage to leave someone you love. Will clearly doesn’t have that courage yet. You don’t even know the full story lol
I’m glad everyone is in agreement that Will is the victim here. This is a great step towards helping male abuse victims Edit: Okay so because people want to include Chris even though the topic was about Will and his wife, yes, of course Chris is also a victim in this situation. Why would anyone say he isn’t? He got hit by Will.
@@sarenareth689 yeah. It was of course out of line to hit him over the joke. But when you see the bigger picture you can’t help but feel like he did it because of what she’s like.
@@onyxserenitatem7636 I mean you see him laugh but as soon as he sees Jada's expression he goes apeshit, probably out fear that she would torture him at home if did nothing about it. I bet she threatens to say he abuses her and stuff like that to keep him in line.
@@sarenareth689 same. Had no respect for Will after that slap but now that we see the big picture, I have sympathy for him. What he did was still wrong but this man is struggling and needs help.. and I don't think Chris really cares that much, probably just found the whole thing funny. He didn't even press charges.
For real though. His older daughters grew up pretty normal, but are now being hella manipulated by momma, Jaden growing up weird as all fuck, though he has mellowed quite a bit since the pandemic started. His wife absolutely rode his coat tails to improve her own career, and its now becoming more and more obvious how's she's manipulated him through their whole marriage, as his mental state publicly deteriorates and she PUBLICLY pushes that deterioration further without a care in the world, because a small subset of society VERY loudly and and vocally supports her thinking she's some tough independent woman role model, when she's in fact a narcissistic snake in the grass, USING those around her while she pretends she is as innocent as can be.
Sane? People really do be seeing people in bad situations and forget their faults in a second don't they? The fact that there might be more to why fucked up the Oscars doesn't mean that he didnt fuck up the Oscars. None of them are sane.
Jada: uses the idea of healing their relationship as an interrogative weapon to further wreck their relationship. The manipulation levels are through the roof
No, she's beyond toxic. It's almost pathologic the way she's manipulating everyone and enjoys the attention at all cost. His reaction and demeanor reminds me of what people dealing with CPTSD do when triggered. Jaden and Willow are certainly part of the "game" she's playing. It'll not come as a surprise if they turn against him too
i agree, seeing Will here puts off the same vibe i used to get from my brother during his marriage with a woman who also played that "game", and she ultimately did turn their kids against him too. this is only a small window into will and jadas relationship but man its jam packed with red flags.
She gives me hella narcissist vibes. She acts like my incredibly vitriolic and intentionally harmful narcissist mother. Everything about her does. I never did like her...
He's enjoying it too. Far too often guys in powerful positions have an abusive wife because they like it. They're so used to being on top, that they crave being on bottom at home.
At this point, this feels like she's just a straight up sociopath. The word 'toxic' is too lighthearted for me to use regarding what she's done to this poor dude.
Jada: “Have you ever been in an institution? Cells.” Will: “Cells” Jada: “When you’re not performing your duties, do they keep you in a little box? Cells.” Will: “Cells” Jada: “Interlinked” Will: “Interlinked” Jada: “What’s it like to hold the hand of someone you love? Interlinked” Will: “……….. Interlinked” **beep beep!** *Anomaly Detected*
I hate females like this fr. My last relationship was one with a chick that thought/acted like that and I'm compleeetely good on relationships since then. Been over a year but ima just let pussy stay pussy
Ester Perel, the person she was talking about, is a relationship therapist who is an apologist for cheaters - she pushes the notion that something the innocent victim did also contributed to them being victimized by their partner. That's why Jada was so insistent, Ester Perel is her enabler.
Great comment. Ester is absolutely insane. I work in music. Worked with an artist I didn't get on with very well, to be fair; no one did. They were a fucking jerk. I talked to their best friend since childhood and found at that they went to Ester Perel. She's horrible, horrible. She's goes the "your partner made you do this"-route 100% of the time. It's couples therapy, but they do a "women only" session between every session. As the man wanting to heal a relationship, it's very difficult to do anything but blame yourself when two women confront you with what you've "done wrong". You'll do it, but you start taking it out on others. It's a horrible, toxic cycle.
For those wondering why Will Smith just doesn't get a divorce, it's because after his first divorce he took it very hard. In an interview he said it was the greatest failure of his entire life. It was the worst day he ever could have made. He's just sticking with her so he doesn't have to divorce her and be considered a failure again.
That's weird man. What's worse than being known far and wide as a cu-ck? Jada cheated on him with his son's friend, that's a double kill there. Not only did she fuck over her husband, but her son as well. And when she talks about it it's almost as if she's proud of what she did, absolutely ZERO remorse. I mean, you can hate your husband but to emotionally f**k with your own son like that as well? That woman should is the devil.
I thought everyone knew Will is a broken man after his wife cheated on him with someone younger than him yet still commit somewhat with their relationship. Honestly, the dude doesn't look the same anymore.
Reading sections of his memoirs the dude has been broken for YEARS. The whole vomitting after the copious amount of sex he was having with as many women as possible was a big warning sign. THEN he got with Jada and even in the beginning it was rocky, we are just now seeing the inside of whats been going on for decades. But I do agree certainly she has only made his mental health state worse and worse. She saw someone vunerable and messed up and fucked him up hard.
he looks so tired nowadays, i was never invested in their relationship but ive heard people talking about wishing they had a relationship like them. guess it looked better on the outside but ffs hes a great guy i personally dont think he deserves all this crap, i hope he made it up with chris or atleast chris understands that dudes wife is a controlling bitch. give jada all the hate
cheating fucks you up....leaves you scarred af. you CAN recover....unless you're still with the person, specifically if they don't try to stop being an absolute pos. that's still an open wound and open wounds fester and destroy a person. he needs to get tf away from her toxic ass
this is so crazy when you realize how much of an icon Will was in the 90s, he was in some action movies and fresh prince of bel air was/is watched by millions. Will should be living it up right now but here he is. I really hope these two get divorced, poor guy.
... _in the 90s?_ dude was an icon until March of this year. he's been consistently one of the highest grossing actors _since_ the 90s. and all he really did was slap someone. not to diminish the assault - but i've seen actors survive _a lot worse._ he'll bounce back, he just needs to lose the bald weight first.
i think that’s why he’s kinda swayed people away from making comments on his behalf about it. i think he knows more about their relationship than we do tbh. would be an awesome and righteous act if he helped him
@@cameronhardy2920 Hard agree. And I feel like Chris would be the best positioned man on earth to shift the narrative in Will's favor. That act of forgiveness and a public defense of Will's character could turn the tide.
@@cameronhardy2920 it’s not his job, Will needs to have some grit and leave this bitch. If someone can help him, it’s his lawyer and the US family law (which eternally favors wh*res) in trying to make the split more favorable and smooth for Will.
As much as I condemn Will for slapping Chris, I feel kinda bad for him in this situation He’s stuck with a toxic, manipulative, narcissistic, attention hungry wife who treats him like a punching bag and material for her shitty ass show I wouldn’t be surprised if she was physically abusing him as well
Will Smith is like one of those guys that thought they met "the one" and clung to that belief no matter what, even knowing much later on that he was definitely wrong.
At first some people thought Chris Rock was the villain because they thought the joke went too far, then Will Smith posed as the villain for the slap and now Jayda starts to become the villain for just everything. Very good writing by the authors, that is some good character development and not just black and white. Loving it
Except, Will was never the villain in the first place, he is a cuck that was manipulated by Jada even before the slap occurred. Jada is a covert narcissist and has been using him for his own misery
That slap, as uncalculated and bad as it was, ended up having a useful result, in the end. It exposed everything we needed to know about this woman who will throw her husband to the dogs as they eat him alive to rise herself up to some stupid level of "redemption." She never deserved that slap. Hope him and Chris make up.
Jada is an example of ehy you never get married or attach yourself to one woman. Most of us have been there thankfully only during teenage years young adulthood.
this comment made me laugh, but thinking about it im just... saddened. he only did something after he noticed Jada's reaction to Chris. he reacted in the extreme to her upset, like hes used to it. its not uncommon of someone to attempt desperately to mitigate their partner's anger or proactively dissuade their disapproval by doing something that they think makes them appear in a good light to their partner. in this case, itd be Will's 'defending' of Jada. damn it charlie, now _im_ invested
He probably hates himself for even thinking about lashing out at Jada, if that is true: his father was very physically abusive to his mother and he's publicly vowed that he never wants to be like him. Jada has probably used that fact to emotionally abuse and manipulate him even more
Well considering Jada's definition of "healing" was fucking August no wonder Will was nervous. "It just felt soo good to heal someone" and talking about how she needed that "deep healing".
@@MisterSandmanAU Just report 'ehm that's what I do, that's literally the kind of garbage the report feature is there for, copy pasted hateful garbage that targets content creators in rather unimaginative ways. I don't think Charlie gives a shit, but if you're a good fan you help keep the comments clean 👍
Will should’ve just fully let out his laugh when Chris made his joke. Will shouldn’t have “defended“ his wife knowing she had been kind of a dick to him and should’ve let her be annoyed at Chris.
If you look back at the video, you will see he was laughing until he looked over at her and she gave him a look. Clearly she is insecure and couldn't handle it.a secure person would have just rolled with it.
@@user-uk6yz1my8h he should have let her handle her own issues if it bothered her so much Didn’t she also say that she didn’t approve what he did. Like who the fuck just stabs their husband after they’ve been defended by them
@@baddestpuppet696 a narcissistic bitch who doesn't care. Thats exactly who. I feel sorry for the poor guy. No he wasn't justified but i can definitely see his perspective. The fact he was laughing until she gave him a look show it all. Its disgusting.
Jada is like a Parody Character that you'd meet in GTA but what's depressing is that she's a real individual who does not care who she hurts. Her own son disowned her & she's also in the Church of Scientology. That should tell you about the kind of person she is.
@@silverblank1139 the same way a parent can say “you’re not my real son” when they do some really fucked up stuff and don’t want to associate yourself with them. It works both ways.
@@silverblank1139 Literally a joke in King of the Hill; Hank says it in regards to his father Cotton. "I know you can disown a child... There must be something like that for a parent." A marriage so toxic it makes a cartoon joke gain realistic plausibility. Not that that *should* be a joke, considering there are an unfortunate number of awful parents in the world.
@@silverblank1139 plenty of children who grow up abused "disown" the abusers. Usually means cutting off contact and avoiding sny way possible, speaking from experience.
@@SeeJay804 he had to resign from The Academy and is banned the Oscars Ceremony for the next 10 years. Directors are gonna start dropping him, and choose to not work with him anymore. This isn't going to be easy to come back from.
@@floatingdisembodiedhead8975 it’s called narcissism I see very few people acknowledging this- every single toxic behavior she has revealed to the public are all symptoms of narcissism. These types live a grand illusion and they can’t see the wrong in any of their behavior.
@@margarethmichelina5146 the issue is that she's going to take the majority of his assets in the divorce. She'll take him to the cleaners. I hate to say it, but I think mah boi is fucked.
Apparently Wills mother was a lot like this, and they do say, because you're used to the treatment your mother showed you, you usually fall in love with similar woman unless you actively fight it.
My mother taught me to look for the exact opposite of a person she is. If any woman reminds me even for a second of my mom I'm ready to head for the hills.
I know at least 3 other men right now outside of Hollywood that pretty much follow this exact pattern. And they can't see it when they are in it. The wife is big time narcissist and he is trauma bonded to her .....
@Nonaya Bidness ah but the behavior was encouraged......you just have to know the relationship dynamic to see that. Jada is a narcissist that had no accountability and has to get everything she wants. Will is a submissive cuckold who must give and do everything she wants no matter how stupid it makes him look. This whole slap thing should disqualify him from ever playing another super hero.