It's Not Your Fault [TW Sexual Violence] - Sad Multifandom 

(No vivid scenes were shown, although please don't watch if you can be triggered by this topic, your mental health comes first, please take care of yourself) I love you so so so much, it isn't your fault, the person who did that to you is at fault, they ruined you, but you are so strong, you can bounce back and take back the right to your own body and mind. they don't own you, you own you, and you have the strength to not let that person break you. I know it can be hard, but don't let the person win, you deserve so much happiness. I appreciate all your comments. Sharing your story can be so hard. If I dont reply it's not because I don't care but because it is too hard for me to say anything due to personal reasons. But I love every single one of you, you are all so strong ❤️

I love that they added The perks of being a wallflower. Female on male sexual assault isn't talked about enough. Powerful video. You are not a victim. You are a survivor. Wear your scars, external and internal, with pride.

My older brother’s friend would play this “game” with me. He would get on top of me, pull my trousers down and feel me. He would hold me by my wrists and press himself up against me. He was only 11 so he was probably a victim to but that doesn’t excuse him. I know that. Because I was only 6. SIX!!! I just can’t recover. I’m 13 and I still can’t believe it happened. I think it has an eternal effect on me. I still get flashes of the “game”. I can’t stand anyone touching me, especially on my wrists. I get infections too. I feel pain every day. I just wish it could end...

"Was it my fault?" Asked the mini skirt... "No, it happpened to me to" said the burqa.. "But I don't understand" said the kindergarten uniform... And the diaper in the corner couldn't even speak...

i'm feeling so validated after reading the comments which say that their brain blocked the bad stuff up until they were 19/20 bc i was 18 when i finally realized my brother assaulted me, & i constantly thought maybe i was bringing it up now for attention

8 months of my life I was abused by my ex boyfriend. I can still taste the sweat on his hands when he covered my mouth. His eyes were dead yet so full of rage for me. I didn't do anything.....for 8 months I was sexually,verbally and physically abused by him.....which has now resulted in a pregnancy. I will cherish MY son forever and ever.....but I'll never be able to recover from what he did to me

My “friend” touched me and put her fingers inside me and said it was a game and pretend to be Troy and Gabriella from high school musical. She always made me do things I didn’t want to do we were 7 to 9 years old and I blocked it out and remember when I was 19. I was also assaulted at 13 by a student we were 13 I was supposed to help him with math and he touched me every where I just didn’t know what to do I was shocked and I froze and I’m angry at myself for not saying no and run away.

I was 16 and I wouldn’t let myself process it. I hid every part of me and shut that out and I met someone who helped me realize what happened. This friend helped me through it. He helped me get my life back. I’m almost 20 and I spent most of my teenage years hiding instead of having fun. It was taken and I’m glad I get to have my twenties to live again

I was 20 years old and passed out drunk. I woke up to him on top of me holding me down and inside of me. My investigator told me "he's a rich white male, so I'm not gonna try and you shouldn't either." Gotta love the justice system

I was raped by my own uncle ...My brother sexually harassed me ... and I hate to see them both smile as if nothing happened ...I don’t trust anyone because trust makes me traumatized ... My parents didn't even know this ... to this day I am still harassed. it's not once or twice but many times ...sometimes I feel like suicide but I don't want my parents to be sad because of me

“Your God expects way to much from a 13 year old boy.”

Seeing these stories of others Traumas is so upsetting. The fact they all went through this is awful. Hope everyone is healing and staying strong ❤

I would like to say that you are not what happened to you. You don’t have to be guilty for what he did, she did, or they did. The fact that you are here makes you strong, and being able to speak out on your story makes you strong. You are allowed to be angry, or feel absolutely nothing because that experience is traumatic, and you shouldn’t have to live with the guilt of what happened to you.

Thank you for making this wow this is so powerful! In a weird sort of way it’s therapeutic and triggering at the same time. Incredible just incredible!

No Jessica. Not „we“ decided HE DECIDED❤️

I wasn’t raped. But I was drunk and almost unconscious and he wouldn’t stop touching and kissing me. I still feel his hands everywhere and it’s making me wanna throw up. But because I wasn’t raped I „am not allowed“ to go to the police and report it or something like that. I also can’t talk with my friends because he is popular and they would not do anything. Any tips? Have you experienced this in some way?

She made me put my legs around her. I was frozen in place but she just kept pulling me closer towards her body. I remember trembling and not bring able to talk. She just kept repeating "It's ok." I remember her hands being dangerously close to my chest, her hand being close to my vulva not once did she ask permission we were 13-14. We were 13-14

I was sexually assaulted in my school and this guy touched my butt, it felt so wrong and it happened last week on Tuesday. I felt scared and had so much different emotions here when that happened to me. But I do have a lot of people on my side with this. I hope nobody else goes through this or anything else like this.

Now I haven’t experienced sexual assault but seeing this is absolutely heartbreaking. This is the reason why I am so scared of “men” nowadays. Still can’t believe people are going through this pain 😞❤️‍🩹

Some of us will never get an apology much less a trial to prove they're guilty. I'm one of them on all fronts. The reason why is because mine is in complete denial about any of it and all that transpired after.

My dad sexually abused me and raped me since I was a baby and years after. I’m still recovering my memories and I’m still learning how to get through all the excruciating pain and shame he inflicted on me until now. I hate him so much I can’t stand it!! I’m crying so hard reading all your comments and seeing that I’m not alone. I feel so sorry for myself and for everyone who went through sexual abuse. It really wasn’t our fault

whatever we wear wherever we go yes means yes and no means no we didnt ASK for it we didnt lead you on we were ruined not just by men not just by women but by both NOT ALL MEN but most NOT ALL WOMEN but most ITS NOT YOUR FAULT, ITS NOT MINE. its theirs

I was assaulted when I was 3-4 years old. My parents had left us with a babysitter and our babysitter had a boyfriend. He would give me candy and toys and special treatment everytime he came over. My mother had a bad feeling and so she decided to ban him from the house. He kept going behind their backs and assaulted me. He wasn’t even allowed to see his own daughter. But yet he was allowed to roam the streets and hurt others. He took away my childhood and most of my teen years. He took away my peace and my freedom. The two things I am suppose to have a right to in this country. What’s peace? I panic to the point where I’m screaming at the top of my lungs and can’t trust a soul around me? What’s freedom? The nightmares I get each night about what he did to me? I spent years and years confused on what had happened to me and being terrified to tell someone. Worse of all I blamed me. Even though I was just a little girl and it was his fault it was my fault somehow. I couldn’t fight him off or know to that or to scream or anything. I was still. I slept in my parents room until I was 12, I wet the bed till 7-8, I have high anxiety and high depression, I get nightmares about it, I can’t trust anyone, I’m insecure, I have no confidence or self esteem, I do not love myself, I am mad and I am sad, I fight each and everyday for my life. The worse feeling to me is the weakening feeling I get. I always have dreams about how weak I am. Dreams where I’m so weak I can’t even pick up a stick. The world terrifies me. I scare myself sometimes I’m scared of very irrational things. Then what I hate the most is the extreme hate for who I am. Because what made me who I am is mostly because of what he did to me.

I was raped. It was my first sex, but not my choice. He knew where I live. He knew where my family was and threatened me. I cried and begged him to leave me alone, begged him to stop. It only turned him on. I can't stop thinking like it's my fault. Like i should've been more careful. It's like a fight with ur own mind. I hate person who did this to me. I really hope he don't see tomorrow. Damn, rape more violently then murder. Because you continue to live with the memories of what happened. I don't think I can ever forget it. The hardest part is that I will never be able to sleep peacefully. I feel guilty. And the one who did this continues to live a happy life. This is not fair. All who have experienced this - I am with you. I am so sorry. The world is so cruel. sometimes i feel like I just can't take it no more

my daughter went through this nearly 11 years and she would be mortified

To anyone watching this: I BELIEVE YOU❤

I’m a survivor and I love all those who stand with me. Stay strong ladies and your not broken in promise. ❤️❤️❤️

The ,, it’s not your fault “ part got me good bruh. Real good.

It never leaves you.

I was sexually molested several times between the ages of 6 to 17.....it ruined me completely and I cannot stand to get into any physical relationship now even though m 30 now. ..words aren't enough to write it here and no feelings or details can describe those horrendous experiences that have killed my heart. My heart goes out to the sufferers.....please its not your fault it never was.

I feel like it's my fault tho but every one says it's not but I just feel like it was and he lied to me abt everything and I just hate him for everything that he did to me and I hate him so much

I'm crying reading these comments. I am so so incredibly sorry that any of you had to go through this terror. My heart breaks for you. But remember just keep swimming. ❤

it has happened to me twice, i was raped when i was 12, but it happened again a few months ago n i stayed quiet abt it for too long n ion know who to tell or what to say. n i am now 16 abt to be 17. w a whole kid of my own, n ion even know how i would tell him when he grows up

I was 8 It hurts I can't dress how i want to I am not giving up bcz of my family It hurts so bad

She was my babysitter. I was only six I resembled my dad and she wanted him and she couldn’t have him so she took me instead. Told me it’s a game to make us “feel good” Force my mouth on her breast, use my hands to please herself, forced her lips on me. Still traumatizes me when my hand gets grabbed randomly by people without my consent

Morgan and Charlie's stories really hit me. I haven't seen them all but damn any scene similar just reaches into my soul takes that helpess girl who so desperately needed someone to care out. Just someone to tell to listen to be there. I was alone through it all, and i still dont talk about my trauma. I have to because if i dont i never will.

It’s sad to see this, but it’s also very comforting to see this sort of representation. Rape is the “bad stuff”, the stuff that people don’t talk about/want to hear about. But it’s such a big thing. It’s also great to see more female on male sexual assault because it’s not always male on female. Sometimes women can be worse than men, especially when you’re a little kid.

My family member assaulted me I couldn't believe it a monster was living with me for years and it's true colours only came out then. I get really anxious and upset and destructive when it's near or even the thought of it, the reality in the form of a nightmare was also a realisation day of when before my teenage years it attempted to do it to me in a taxi and no one payed much attention to it...

Reading these comments make me realise I’m not alone. I was raped by my ex partner and his friends I don’t know if I can ever get past it but I have to for my daughter I’m the only person she has in life. We are all survivors and we have to be strong ❤❤

I always feel so invalidated bc we were both kids and it was only ever over the clothes but it was a lot of grabbing and touching and taunting in broad daylight with hundreds of other kids and 5 different teachers usually. it went on for a whole year and this was 6-7 years ago and I'm 15 now. thought I was over it but I walked past him on the way home last week and while he is younger than me I felt completely powerless and cried the rest of the way home

Very well made video!!!congrats

seeing some of the comments here is like...seeing through a window society doesn't look at enough times. it's sad and frustrating that sometimes people actually get away with this stuff. stay strong out there, everyone!( is the optimism working?)

when you say no to your boyfriend but he still forces it when you are sleeping

i was sexually assaulted at school he touched me and that wasn’t even the worst. he was supposed to be my friend and he couldn’t accept that and he went to my house one day after school with me and my friend and he told my friend to go downstairs to dance in my heels and he wouldn’t stop touching me and he got further i couldn’t say no he manipulated me into it and he took my power and innocence away i have nothing left, he didn’t take my virginity he almost did but my friend walked in and he stopped, a person i thought i could trust used me for his own god damn wants, that was 7 months ago i was 14. 2/9/22. there was a case but they had no evidence so they closed it and i felt so un spoken because the cop told my mom peer pressure and manipulation isn’t a crime i was sexually assaulted still and they let that slide i lost my hope because of that. today i felt so good today because we finally have evidence to put him away and i need to do this not only for myself for the other woman he’s been sexually harassing and using. he is a predator who needs to get it straight that this isn’t okay he’s 16 how did he ever think it was okay to touch and assault woman. my last words i haft to say on this i hope if there is a god he gives him hell without no mercy.

Nice edit keep going love your channel 2✌✌✌

It happens over Years, he used to be my ‚best friend‘. I hope I’ll be able to recover from it bc rn I can’t.

I was sexually abused when i was 4 to 5 years old i have never told anyone in my family i blocked out what happened to me for years until I was a teenager im 33 year's old now because of what happened to to me it's forever left me damaged it's taken so much from me 😢

My dad "Touches" me and it makes me feel extremely uncomfortable and i have told him and mum many times they just say to shut up and i don't know what to do about it and I'm stuck here forever, we live in a small appartment there is no getting away from it. Ik the comment section is not the right place for this but i just don't know what to do

My brother would have me play the “love” game where I would say how much I loved him he would say “if you love me you won’t tell” he would touch me and to this day I haven’t told anyone I was 8-10 now I’m 13 I’m still healing but I don’t think I’ll ever forgive him…

I will do my best I will study as well as i can i will be a doctor i promise my self i will skip what I am passing in i will have the life that i deserve cus life too short to be sad you gotta wake up and work to have the life you wish for in sha allah

my coach, old friend, and my half cousin SA’ed me. this happened within the same year and it happens a year ago and im still not over it

I was 12-13 it lasted 2 years. It was my teacher who did it.

Oo, when I was I think about 11 in Korea, I met this maganda girl in school she was so pretty we became friends but when we were 13 she used to say disgusting things about my body parts and touched me when I was in class. I told her I didn’t felt comfortable but she said “this is how best friends love”. And i actually felt bad and let her continue to do it for an while now. I’m 17 and me and her still friends I told her and she said she’ll go easy for now on

I cant even count how many people did that to me

I was sexually abused by my mother forcing me to do things to her at age 16 Horrible things and when i refused to do things to pleased my mother She just punished me and hit me until i couldn't move I kept this serect until age 23 was the hardest thing i dealt with I get nightmares about all of it, have random breakdowns, and it hurts so much

I am 15 and I was raped many times. Last year I was an drug addict I had sex for drugs unwanted I will never forget it. And now it traumatized me after it happend it was not a big deal but now? I will never get over it

The tv show with the guy confronting his abuser what is it called?

To anyone watching this, I believe in your STRONGLY and you are never alone, plus if this happens, NEVER blame yourself for it. Also, out of curiosity, which show is 4:55 from? :)

Most of my 7th grade year I was SAd a couple times in 8th grade July 2021( the summer after my 8th grade year) I was SAd again. December of 2021 and April of 2022 it happened again

derek from cm

what episode was the Riverdale one? I love the show but I really want t see that episode again so sry for bothering u

not steve harvey in the first part

Hearing the comments and the video just gives me chilled of when 7 people decide to rape me and I don’t know when it started with my two cousins and then a grown man and then my three cousins and then my uncle I can’t get rid of it it hurts so much I couldn’t even say anything to anyone about it until my family found out back to the two cousins I don’t know how young I was all I know is what we’re they trying to do the grown man Idk what to say about him my three cousins made me feel empty sad and nothing and then my uncle he wasn’t what he seemed he felt wears like he was going to hurt me and that’s what he did also pls don’t tell anyone else

rn im 13. when i was younger (5) I lived in a orphanage called santa maria and I went to get groceries bc a sister told me to and I was followed and raped by one of the boys in the orphanage( he was 16) . they said it was a game called house and all the ̈cool kids¨ play it. i never fitted in so I played. i played for 6 years until I realized it was wrong. he came in at night to rape me again and I said no. he slapped me, pulled my hair, and ripped my clothes off. ofc I wont go into detail but that night I started bleeding and went to the hospital to find out I had a yeast infection AND I was pregnant. :/ now I live with my mom and dad and they help me take care of my kid. ofc I don't go anywhere near my dad (bc I'm still...yk) but we can shake hands now! baby steps

4:32 how show is it?

Whats the video with the guy talking about going to church from

When I was 5 my friend and where having a sleepover and out of nowhere she said she saw a girl a in a white covered in blood holding a baby and then pretended the black out I thought that she was being funny but then she got up and started choking me and every time I said no she would squeeze Tighter I was running out of air so I said yes I WAS 5 AND SHE WAS 6 AND I think about this all the time and i still think it’s my fault when I know it’s not but I can’t not think it’s my fault

Does anyone know the movie/show that the clip at 4:33 is? It looks really interesting.

I am bullied,laughed at,called crazy,called mad,stalked ,all because i am full of love and want and need a girl and yes some xxx that most people do. Many.many girls really hurt my feelings by calling me ugly in the past and playing with me as well. I am not perfect,but i am honest,good and fair, i want fair-play and justice for me and others who are bullied and stalked etc. My looks is not my fault!

Let me clear this Even if it is consensual it's still a rape 👍👍🙏🏻because logically a kid and a victim don't know about the consent itself don't know what this things is called 👍her trust can be gained she can be manipulated by the abuser that I have seen you that a small kid can be manipulated easily thinking that it's their fault now they have to agree with them too 🙏🏻🙏🏻👍 it's not a free consent... The age of consent really matters 👍👍👍 if you r a minor you don't really have a knowledge of consent yourself 🙄🙄🙄🙄 so even if somebody agrees for it in innocence it's still a rape you cannot expect a 6 or a 9 year old not to give her consent she can be manipulated easily 🙄🙄👍 even if she don't want it abuser will still rape them so the age of consent really matters an abuse is an abuse even if it's consensual

I was 10. He was 8. I was told that it was my fault bc I was older and I should have made it more clear. I was fighting him, begging him to get off of me. He knew about my trauma with my dad and he did it anyway. I trusted him. I loved him. He was my fucking boyfriend. We’d snuck alcohol up and I’d drank most of it. It was a party and no one heard me over the music. Hours passed and no one came to help. I couldn’t escape. I was terrified. I was numb. He told me that he did this with everyone else so just to enjoy it, otherwise I couldn’t be his girlfriend. I thought I loved him so I did it. The next morning I remembered everything and all he said was that I was too drunk to remember it properly. Now I can’t be around boys or men alone, I can’t have people touching me and I can’t be in a room alone with someone. Anyone I told said it was my fault. I guess I started to believe them and still do. I mean I was older, I should have been able to escape and get help. I should have made him listen. I was older. I knew better than to trust someone. But I rlly did trust him. I thought he was a good one.

I know this isn't bad compared to the things other people go through but a few months ago a guy messaged me on Instagram telling me my smile was pretty or something like that..I replied saying it wasn't and we ended up talking...I told him my age, which was 13 at the time and he told me he was 21...I genuinely thought he just wanted to be friends. I told him about all my problems with my bf at the time and he tole me he liked me and that I was the only girl he finds attractive and ever since he got kidnapped, beaten and r**** he would hurt himself instead of touching himself sexually...I got worried for him and I ended up leaving my bf for him. Not even a day went by and he told me he would hurt himself or end himself if I didn't call him so he could touch himself while looking at my face...I agreed after a while of him persisting and not long after it wasn't enough for him. He would tell me to touch myself too either that or get my breasts out to show him I would tell him no but he would scream at me to...I was so scared but I though that he loved me...I just wanted to feel loved for once. Once I had enough of all that I tried to end things with him, he agreed and told me that he wanted to call me again so he could touch himself and if I didn't then he would leak screenshots if my breasts everywhere and I believed him so I called him, I broke down in the middle of that call and ended it and he messaged me saying that it was good enough and not long after he deleted his social media accounts...his face won't get put of my head...I thought I was okay but I was lying to myself and I can't help but feel like it was all my fault. Please be careful online...

Of course it's not our fault

I am sorry to my self for not helping myself I am hope less

I was 6 he was 17 he told me we were going to watch a movie in our grandmother's room ( he was my cousin) he told me it was a secret game everyone does it I was 6 FUCKING YEARS OLD.

Have ever had someone threatened to beat and rape you online and you know that because you go to school with him and he didnt take no for an answer and to top it off he would text me on instagram to do things for him and when we were in school he would tell my friends i was imagination his behavior but he would say it to me at school telling me not to tell anyone what happened because if i did he would he me😢

I'm 17 now have remembered for years probably a years after I started to remember again I just can't remember exactly what age I was but don't think I want to and mine was my brother he's 7 years older thane me i think i may have be 8 or 9 but can remember, me and one of my friends were sexually harrased in yr 9 by in our history class by one of the boys and his friends thought they were funny but he was doing it to my friend since yr7 and nothing was done he didnt even really get spoken to till it happened to me as well and majority of the time it would be in class and hed say across the classroom that he wanted to fuck and touch us what made it worse that the class was basically just us two and him and his friends

I was eight and he was fifthteen

I was only 6💔

what is the movie With this blond boy and father

What show is 0:12 ?

When I was asleep my older cousins SA/almost raped me I was 12/13 he was 18/19 I would wake up to him touching me but I couldn’t move I was scared I cried when he left my room it hurt so much I cried myself back to sleep one day I fell asleep on the couch and again I woke up to touching me but this time he manage to get the tip in before my mom’s friend got home from work i am 16 now I still live with the pain and nightmares/replays I don’t see him no more it went on for two months straight every time he stayed a night at my house

what scene is 1:50

What is the show/movie at 0:03

what is the movie or the series on the cover of the video?

0:02 which show

It was my fault though. Every time.

I got sexually abused right next to my best friend

Can someone please tell me the movie / show at 57 seconds?

What is the name of the movie in 0:54 the little boy scene.

Nobody tried to touch me but I alway get blamed for older looking at me in a sexual way I feel so gross with myself I hate my body

2:22 what show?

4:29 does anyone know where this is from?

movie names please

What show is at 00:23?

What show at 3:35 ?