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PART 1: The Henry family is in crisis. Father Dwight is a serial cheater struggling with addiction, while mother Thelisha is an emotionally unavailable woman who seems numb to (or unaware of) the frequency of her husband’s infidelities. Throughout their dysfunctional relationship, both Dwight and Thelisha have sought support and comfort from their two daughters, Avanté and Lakesha. Will Iyanla be able to change this family dynamic? (Original air date: October 8, 2016) // Don’t miss the two-hour premiere of “Iyanla: Fix My Life,” on Saturday, October 31 at 9/8c on OWN. For more on #FIXMYLIFE, visit WatchOWN.tv/Iyanla
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@thelishaglover4852 3 года назад

I conducted an update that aired in January of this year that aired on OWN’s IFML. However to all those who haven’t seen the episode and are interested in an update...my children are doing well, I am happily divorced (Thelisha Glover) and dating. I am currently in med school to become a Physician Assistant (Morehouse School of Medicine) and me and my children are healing together from the wounds of our past. To those who are in toxic relationships, there is hope and a way of escape. You must have faith in God, believe in yourself, get the help needed to escape, and most of all DO THE WORK! Prayers and blessings unto you all.

@ceebee8255 3 года назад

I am so happy for you!!!!! God bless you and your family. Beautiful update. 🤍

@martaneledwards5325 3 года назад

Yes ma’am I’m so happy for you.

@TIJD19 3 года назад

Watching you go through all that pain really touched me deeply. You are so beautiful, I felt like crying looking at the hurt in your eyes.I am so angry you were treated so badly by a man you trusted to have your best interest at heart. Honestly hun, he never deserved you. I know you grieved for a very long time but know you are a queen, a real man will cherish you not destroy you. Keep sweet and thank you for giving so many of us women hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

@pennyc9235 3 года назад

I am so happy for you. You and your girls deserve the world ❤️

@VerSpnc 3 года назад

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@GoitseC 3 года назад

The moment that man lay on that couch like it's his house, I knew he was about to get on my nerves 🙄

@all_my90 3 года назад

Like a spoiled child.

@tayanacadena7008 3 года назад

Right! I was like “sitcho azz up!” 😂 😂 😂

@abaabeebeauty9170 3 года назад

Exactly

@carmieapples7737 3 года назад

He was out of order when he walked through the door. You could tell he was going to be "manipulative ".

@taishabrooks8806 3 года назад

Yeeees he irritated my soul

@newmank0217 3 года назад

Iyanla’s son rolled up and he started singing another tune. That man was ready to knock the coke outta his system for him.

@ellenicoletv4095 3 года назад

Lmaoooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀

@yahneyoung5505 3 года назад

Smoke🌬🌬🌬

@LoveFireWellness 3 года назад

And I love seeing it! 👏🏽👏🏽

@dre7821 3 года назад

Not the coke, but the son was on go!

@bulletpr00f101 3 года назад

Her son wanted all the smoke.

@Daniel23544 3 года назад

That man's energy is GROSS. From the first minute he sat down, I knew he was the problem. She should have left him in 1997.

@evalynmaina5347 3 месяца назад

😂😂😂

@lynn682 3 года назад

"I don't do well with masculine aggression. It's disrespectful." Periodt.

@ashpooh1231456 3 года назад

FACTS

@cladius2292 3 года назад

I thought they were at his home when the son stepped in... I probably would have one punched his @ss to sleep.... 😂 big dude, skinny arms, and close quarters🥊

@GoldSoulRetrospective 3 года назад

Right! He was so disrespectful I can only imagine how he treated his wife and children all those years.

@harmalalkaloid 3 года назад

This..

@JasonSmith-zv1rg 3 года назад

That's because you have a Jezebel spirit.

@maje4120 3 года назад

He probably picks fights just to go out and leave to cheat...

@MiamiPush2theLimit 3 года назад

Yep 💯

@urf4vvbrun3tt3s 3 года назад

Absolutely!

@faithe5251 3 года назад

Correct😂🤣😂

@MamiRicaaaa 3 года назад

Exactly right

@FOREVERPRETTY19 3 года назад

Well he not supposed to be cheating and also I'm 100%, he is cheating I've no doubt what that boy is doing

@briananordahl1605 3 года назад

I love how iyanla, continually expressed how she DIDN'T like his AGRESSIVE behavior. As a surviver of DV, seeing her do that made me feel her POSITIVE POWER she has

@karabomothupi9759 3 года назад

Garbage. Women love aggressive men.

@IraRochaa 3 года назад

@@karabomothupi9759 you’re sick

@karabomothupi9759 3 года назад

@@IraRochaa You know you want me

@xxxtrddy 3 года назад

@@karabomothupi9759 you’re a reject aren’t you...?

@shanb.9690 2 года назад

Ikr I’ve watched these episodes over and over again and I must be honest and say that I have to find a episode and watch it when im feeling low battling depression going through all the hurt that I feel quite frequently to get myself bacc grounded, I know that I should seek therapy with the things going on inside of my head but until I can be brave for the inner little girl inside of me who harbors all of these different emotions good bad and indifferent I must say watching these episodes do help me, I wish that I could meet her one day her energy her spirit is electrifying her wisdom and knowledge her intellect and the way she carries herself the way she speaks even her tone is very comforting it draws you to her and makes you feel like you can open up idk her outside of this show and I know that ppl are ppl all over the world but I will just say that you can tell that she is anointed and has a special calling on her spirit on her soul and for what she’s allowed us the viewers to watch and consume I just wanted to say that I’m so grateful for that I can go on and on but I truly do thank God for using her as a vessel to help ppl of all different walks of life, SO IN CLOSING ID LIKE TO SAY THANK YOU MRS IYANLA FOR YOUR SERVICE FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE DONE AND CONTINUE TO DO YOU ARE TRULY A BLESSING TO SO MANY BROKEN AND HURT PPL ALL OVER THE WORLD‼️‼️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢 MAY GOD CONTINUE TO KEEP YOU SAFE AND MAY YOU OBTAINED EVERYTHING IN LIFE THAT YOUR HEART DESIRES ABUNDANTLY💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

@queenvee9729 3 года назад

I find that when you're pretty or kind-hearted, some people want to ruin you.

@mckenziepayne5185 3 года назад

Or they could already be pretty and broken and they still will try there way to crush you men do that to

@JM-qf1vb 3 года назад

Amen

@asmahayaat 3 года назад

So true

@airwreckajane 3 года назад

Y’all don’t know how badly I needed to read this

@ladyhoneybee6able 3 года назад

True

@Fee07 3 года назад

She is a prime example of people holding you back. She divorced him and now she's doing AMAZING! Sis is attending Morehouse SCHOOL OF MEDICINE!!! What he doing? Probably still cheating lol. I'm so proud of her!

@morganamugler1562 3 года назад

Are you serious? That is incredible!

@tiarra03 3 года назад

Omg I love that for her!!! Yeesss!! 😍

@hahnspetty5596 3 года назад

where she at I'm interested

@Fee07 3 года назад

@@hahnspetty5596 you can look for her on Instagram but her page is private.

@bettysmith1362 3 года назад

@@hahnspetty5596 ⁹

@nubiangold1296 3 года назад

This man is the true definition of a narcissist.. Gaslighting and blaming his behavior on everyone else. When he can't manipulate: he'll ghost you.

@Beth5171 3 года назад

That part!!! ☝🏾

@ameliagumende6337 3 года назад

Preach🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@tammie4272 3 года назад

Too Real!!! 👏🏿👏🏿

@blackbutterfly3008 3 года назад

YEEEEEEEESSSSSS!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏

@islandgirlruby2750 3 года назад

Exactly. Manipulation is their game. They want to be the center of attention. They throw tantrums like toddlers.

@sadejuanasealey7981 3 года назад

I knew her healing started once she walked away from that car ...That was the walk to freedom girl I'm so proud of you

@OdeeBee 2 года назад

Same. "If you want help" those were power golden words

@LeaFaye 3 года назад

yooo WHO ELSE LIT TF UP when iyanlas son stepped in to protect her. WHOOO gave me the chills! Thats a man right there!!!

@luzvega5069 3 года назад

Replayed it like 5 times

@karabomothupi9759 3 года назад

Shut up

@WatchHWuMove24 3 года назад

Most males would especially the ones with a good relationship with the mother....

@mb4635 3 года назад

@@karabomothupi9759 what’s wrong with that she said

@meriwhaa5095 3 года назад

@@mb4635 nothing Chile, trolls are going to troll

@moniquejohnson2465 3 года назад

The wife is gorgeous...she deserves so much better.

@Iconickhalif 3 года назад

SOOO MUCH BETTER

@4us2grow 3 года назад

actually Ms. Johnson.. she deserves what she has. She is as much the problem as he is. The only difference is.. this show is about saving the women.. not the men. She knew he was what he is long ago. It could be argued that.. if it wasn't for her inaction, he would have learned the things he needed to learn to move forward in his manhood.. a long long time ago. It could be argued that her apathy is just as toxic as his substance abuse and emotional manipulation.

@marquitaarnold285 3 года назад

@@4us2grow 👍👍👍 Yes women are fighters l just hate seeing one waste years fighting for the wrong man to try and keep her family together this man is a complete a****** and he didn't even try to pretend for the cameras he embarrassed his whole family 🙏🙏🙏 Going off on Mrs Vanzant 🤐

@angelawilliams6913 3 года назад

Exactly

@angelawilliams6913 3 года назад

As soon as she heard about the other women he had a child wit that the red flag for her to pack her bags along with the kids and left

@imaqtat16 3 года назад

The show wasn't even 5 minutes in before he started to act foolish.

@MiamiPush2theLimit 3 года назад

Cocaine does that 😩

@tyrarenae3486 3 года назад

He's like a child who demands attention! Sickening!! Very controlling and demonic! 🤭

@imaqtat16 3 года назад

@@tyrarenae3486 right!

@Shortlady82 3 года назад

Ikr you felt that too!

@serenity2655 3 года назад

A Whole Mess! Smh. He looked 10 on that couch.

@bellah.8796 3 года назад

"I'm not that, brah".... "I AM that though - this is my mom, son..."

@lindsayjohnson6560 3 года назад

When he said "you a life coach now?" to Iyanla I laughed. It's called fix your life- that's what she does!

@coacht1738 3 года назад

He's manipulative and will try anything.

@tisayvette 2 года назад

And he called her!

@eileensanchez2841 3 года назад

I love it when a man is so disrespectful his wife but as soon as a real man steps up to him he acts like a little punk that he is

@SarahR2D2 3 года назад

Exactly

@cecilemuntu5401 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌

@oldwalt4645 3 года назад

I was ready to jump through the screen and put hands on him myself. He acted like the coward he is when Iyanla's son stepped in.

@autumnsunsets5091 3 года назад

@TheBestFighter It's best to resolve issues without resulting in violence. Putting your hands on someone does not make you strong.

@autumnsunsets5091 3 года назад

@TheBestFighter That's true, I agree with you

@kashataylor6430 3 года назад

This man body language is wearing me out. He is sitting there worse then a child.

@arnishascott2438 3 года назад

My child is autistic and he doesn't even act like that.

@lumiere7216 3 года назад

not surprised. This man is a giant baby

@HereIAm731 3 года назад

I was looking for someone to mention that lol

@AnotherShyFlower 3 года назад

I said the same thing! Smh like sit up!

@Miz292 3 года назад

That’s the first thing I noticed. It’s so off putting.

@kjackson2693 3 года назад

He didnt know her son was on set though lmao sent him right back to his car

@Nayahpooh012 3 месяца назад

LOL!

@Bee-lieve623 3 месяца назад

LOL "Right back to his car." 😂😂😂😂

@apacademy 25 дней назад

Yeah but, Damn, Everything had him running to his car.

@stop08it 8 дней назад

😂

@Saturdayz_In_The_Fall 3 года назад

“Right now he’s being manipulative. He’s making YOU WRONG.” I felt that!

@erikaInDR 3 года назад

The fact that he back downed when a man came in the picture SPEAKS VOLUMES.

@abigailsimpson5904 3 года назад

Yes.. that's how these men are. Especially narcissistic men. They only have strength for women.

@alexdolye9717 3 года назад

@@abigailsimpson5904 "strength". It's a predatory move. They're weak and pathetic and go after those they think are easiest. Like a lion picking off the the baby animal in the group. I feel bad for his kids, hopefully the other child that doesn't live with him is shielded from his antics and grows up to be a good man. Cause he certainly isn't.

@abigailsimpson5904 3 года назад

@@alexdolye9717 it's very sad trust me. She moved on though. She divorced him and completed medical school or something of the sort.

@crossyroad2494 3 года назад

No its because its not one of those fight shows

@erikaInDR 3 года назад

@@crossyroad2494 I'm speaking of his tone and agression...those things disappeared when a male stepped to him.

@bokani79 3 года назад

This guy is everything our Mothers warned us about men. He is everything I hate about controlling men.

@nabintuizelte7194 3 года назад

And that's because he's not a real man but a boy

@buttercupslongnails 3 года назад

everything

@serene2414 3 года назад

U so right, and she betta run for the hills if he can't be fixed ,and i really doubt he can be. He is a complete narcissist manipulative for sure, and on top of that he is on drugs and drinking. That life of hell wont end until she leaves him, and she need to leave without him knowing til she is safe somewhere. He reminds me of my own father whom was very aggressive with women. I appreciate Iyanla interrupting the pattern, and trying to wake up this woman. God bless her because it's obvious he has installed fear in the household while he does whatever he wants while his wife and daughters suffer internally.

@serene2414 3 года назад

@Rochelle carmel 💯 you right!! She should of been left.

@bpt466 3 года назад

I was so proud of Thelisha when she walked away from the car and didn't let Dwight manipulate her. 23:40

@Coratime 3 года назад

Yes!!!!!!!!!! That part made me PROUD!!!

@karameldrip9703 2 года назад

She never should've went. Iyanla told her what it was but it's good that she went back.

@esethuntloko3288 3 года назад

He walks away all the time but the world comes to an end when others walk away from him 💀💀

@titubavengeance6623 3 года назад

His posturing in the beginning was completely child like.

@alisayoung 3 года назад

I'd sayyyyyy... About 4 years old!

@ninaedwards345 3 года назад

He’s the definition of a man child

@foxylilmimi 3 года назад

Exactly he shrank into a pure child. Not sitting up like a man. Leaning and slumps over nonchalantly

@justcathi427 3 года назад

💯

@5822huron 3 года назад

Unbelievable

@johnathanshacklefordjr2332 3 года назад

Iyanlas’ son was about to rock his world and fold him like a church program. Don’t roll up on moms like that, quick and permanent death.

@desmonaelloydadashofdes7853 3 года назад

When he popped up i said yeesssssssssssssssss you better act up son he not bout to respect her in front of you

@songspassion 3 года назад

Lol! Not like a church program though 😂

@taviadeann1596 3 года назад

@@songspassion that took me out lmao 🤣 😂 😆

@keepthechange1 3 года назад

More like a CHINESE fan! 🤣

@missj2559 3 года назад

😂😂😂💯

@betterthanemril988 3 месяца назад

I’m glad the son stepped in. Sometimes you need someone to step in and give that person the same energy

@RodneyDodson 3 года назад

I must be really stoned because Iyanla seems like a goddess of wisdom right now. Seriously, like she was an angel brought to earth to help create more peace. Now i have the munchies.

@Zanderthegrape 3 года назад

21:17 When Iyanla’s son said “IM THAT THO!” I felt it!! A good man defending his mother who is being disrespected by another man. YESSIR INFORM HIM!

@moniquejohnson2465 3 года назад

YES1

@msboone8796 3 года назад

I felt that in my soul. I love knowing she has that back up. She deserves to be protected.

@seektruth562 3 года назад

I felt that in my SOUL

@Clonehalle 3 года назад

EXACTLY!! As soon as they showed that he was her son, I shouted out "I know that's right" and "Son come through now"...so glad he was there 🙌🏾

@wintermistique3399 3 года назад

Yessssssssssss! Loved it! Her son was letting him know!

@skielahjayne2659 3 года назад

It really be the ugliest dudes with the most audacity. Women DO BETTER. Stop letting these fools take you for a ride

@mzquinn4 3 года назад

Yessss!!

@saharastorm179 3 года назад

PURE AUDACITY!!!!....Uuuughhhhhh, so unattractive 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

@ChiChichiwe01 3 года назад

Right!

@lateefajohnson61 3 года назад

Facts🙌🏾🙌🏾

@dspenderella9671 3 года назад

Ugly and fat I'm like wtf she has a cute face she could've done better.

@ellomgbofu1174 3 года назад

I like how Iyanla express’ herself. I don’t do well with masculine aggression. It’s wonderfully said.

@actualwakandangirl7121 3 года назад

His body language said it all at the beginning, the way he sat on that couch swaying his legs while talking to Iyanla showed his character already.

@meauxjojo 3 года назад

Iyanla’s son: “I’M THAT” YES! Dwight turned into a little boy real quick.

@lifeisbeautiful9455 3 года назад

Exactly he didn’t want his butt whoooped

@gloria_o 3 года назад

REALLL QUICK!

@MoBetta08 3 года назад

Like iyanla said this can happen in the world. Someone will whoop u azz being disrespectful.

@shaquoyag1484 3 года назад

😂😂😂 facts

@kimora7964 3 года назад

Coz he is a coward

@shelocsher2396 3 года назад

“Trusting ppl is not good for me.” Usually spoken by a person that can’t be trusted. Like himself.

@paigelee3563 3 года назад

Yessss 👏🏾

@BrookeAppleton 3 года назад

💯🎯

@tannamoorer6119 3 года назад

Exactly

@alethiamillner5603 3 года назад

Yup projection!

@catherha1 3 года назад

Yes my ex husband 😂

@serenelibra61 3 года назад

Husband: "I would love to see you turn and walk away from me because she call you, I would love to see it"... Wife: Turns and walks away.... Husband: sileeeenceeee

@christaldunaway1256 3 года назад

That show me that he’s physical with her

@serenelibra61 3 года назад

@@christaldunaway1256 Agreed. He's clearly abusive and I'm sure in more ways than one.

@kamarabbrown9697 3 года назад

She had so much power then

@Coratime 3 года назад

That took so much courage for her to walk away. It wasn’t as easy as it looked.

@serenelibra61 3 года назад

@@Coratime Oh I know it wasn't easy at all. Breaking free in fear from all of that abuse, control, manipulation, and chaos... Never easy...

@bellagrace9812 3 года назад

I'm 60 seconds in and see what the problem is. This buffoon never grew up and is a child who has an excuse for every asinine thing he's ever done. Time for this beautiful lady to move on.

@kendeeceez 3 года назад

Hit the nail right on the head! The “buffoon” part SENT me! 😂😂😂

@brittanyjackson38 3 года назад

Girl what....u ain't never lied😂. Not even 60 seconds in I knew he was the problem. His whole demeanor

@lumiere7216 3 года назад

@@brittanyjackson38 This man is a G I A N T baby. Whew, Lord!

@ToriEats 3 года назад

Yessss way too gorgeous to be on the arm of this fool smh

@Mipasse 3 года назад

😂😂😂 Hilarious but sad! SMH

@rainypuddz 3 года назад

Ms. Iyanla’s son was ready to pull Dwight’s muffin cap back, Blue! 🙌🏾🙌🏾😂😂 Don’t jump up in my mom’s face while I’m around. Anybody can get it. 💯

@mspryce 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@sodiecakes5901 3 года назад

😂😂😂😂 that part!

@tiffanyyoung4786 3 года назад

I hollered when the yellow shirt popped up👀👀👀Dwight said "I'm not about that", but Queen Iyanla's son was about this and that!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@autobotdiva9268 3 года назад

knuck if you buck

@labellefemme886 3 года назад

Yes, this man defended his mother like a lion

@hiscountrigal1764 3 года назад

"I wanna get out." The voice change! The clarity! The straightening of her head! I still have chills from the joy I feel for her breakthrough👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

@cb4664 Месяц назад

I heard that. It was almost guttural. 😂

@0r0r0 3 года назад

Iyanla is so amazing for still seeing a hurt little boy inside of him, while the rest of us see someone who isn't worth any time or effort. She really is an angel.

@RachaelJohn 2 года назад

Right?! 😍

@sipesihlenonxuba6187 3 года назад

Not only is he aggressive, he is disrespectful AF!!!!

@jazthing1 3 года назад

@chaneliswell89 Wilson ... she can do better by herself. I hope she realizes that.

@faith6575 3 года назад

@chaneliswell89 Wilson I literally laughed out loud at your comment. Took me off guard. 😂😂😂

@LoveAshleyCash1 3 года назад

It’s the coke

@kimanderson2342 3 года назад

And gross af

@lolastj 3 года назад

its easier to make Iyanla his enemy than for him to face his faults. This man is a master manipulator.

@monawoods707 3 года назад

Yep he's a narcissist and have some deep issues he refuse to talk about it.

@PaperMario64 3 года назад

Exactly

@sweetlow8805 3 года назад

Exactly!!!!

@fckyofeelinzhoe 3 года назад

Yup from the time he came in

@amapleh 3 года назад

This guy is a sorry excuse for a man but a master manipulator he is not....when a person knows their worth...

@35aturner 3 месяца назад

Their baby girl broke my heart. She loves her daddy but she is numb to his abusive ways just like her mother.

@conolivia 2 года назад

The chills I got when I saw the numbness one of the daughters had. That’s scary

@daryllyons6853 3 года назад

He's dangerous, all signs are there. Get out and don't look back.

@headmaster6261 3 года назад

Not that. He was led astray, he was alone for a long time. Maturity Wise.

@yukicross989 3 года назад

@@headmaster6261 he’s abusive point blank period. He has no respect for woman and is quite hostile towards woman. He also does not know how to take accountability and would rather manipulate. Ain’t no lonely in this he is just a damn demon.

@headmaster6261 3 года назад

@@yukicross989 A woman made him like that.

@ckimon 3 года назад

I completely agree!!!

@ontherisewithcandyceevette3037 3 года назад

Yes!

@shemekalg 3 года назад

Iyanla's son stepping in made my heart and soul smile.

@divaqueenbgrant2782 3 года назад

Chiiilee

@keethemortgagequeen-kedram9665 3 года назад

Agreed!!!

@ldenirg 3 года назад

I smiled so big. I wish the men in my family would step in and do just that with what I'm going through.

@adannastlouis4783 3 года назад

11111111111111111

@tracyporter2921 3 года назад

Ok O

@genesisshollins9326 3 года назад

What Iyanla says: "Okay, take a breath." What she really means: Get yourself self together before I get you together😅🗣

@pinkcashmeres 3 года назад

She’s so good at telling folks off.

@adryprincess5069 3 года назад

When Ivanya's son came to her rescue....I got chills!

@endeeyah 3 года назад

Did he say trusting people is not good for him!? You literally cheated😭

@cjandlayyy6837 3 года назад

Lmaooo

@jazs2300 3 года назад

Lmaoooo i knew he was full of it from jump

@sidel3080 3 года назад

Right and had a baby! Like gtfoh!!! He’s childish, he’s a liar and has no self control. I feel sorry for him. She can always leave and find better. him on the other hand, he’ll never change.

@aconi9836 3 года назад

Him trying to set the tone but iyanla wasnt having it

@shatoriarose5421 3 года назад

Right! And then laid back on the couch like a bratty 9 year old. Whoo I can’t. 🙄

@MrBeautiful2908 3 года назад

I could never cheat on my wife in a million years. She means too damn much to me.

@bplatonova 3 года назад

How can you compare yourself to a boy?

@ErikaDenise1603 3 года назад

Speak on it

@krysj7087 3 года назад

Amen brotha

@chevonjosephs7296 3 года назад

His a boy Jamil dont compare yourself. Continue to love your queen sir, she loves you dearly too.

@nikita6013 3 года назад

A REAL MAN , that’s doesn’t need Xtra marital affairs and Brags on how much she means to Him 👑Take Notes Men & Woman .. that DONT respect Loyalty

@problemchild170 3 года назад

He started crying and walked out only 8 minutes in, I hope she leaves this man

@lexiemendoza3450 3 года назад

Damon came in and that Brooklyn came out with the quickness

@parisprince1602 3 года назад

All he did was sit in the couch and I knew everything about him!!

@TiffanyTalksRealEstate 3 года назад

Preach!! Girl

@slayvega1714 3 года назад

Yoooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yes!

@starting21over 3 года назад

Exactly! Body language is everything.

@phreshking5747 3 года назад

Hes annoying and disgusting

@exquisite_f1213 3 года назад

😂😂🤣💀

@patriotcoleman9945 3 года назад

Women, ESPECIALLY MARRIED women, please remember : you can’t raise a man!

@lisachavez3538 3 года назад

Omg girl the days (I do have days where I just hate men) I will hear that song from K. Michelle and waiste of time from snow the product

@baizeenamz 3 года назад

I learnt this the hard way.

@hairhealing5437 3 года назад

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@thematrix3663 3 года назад

@Victoria Akoms wrong, its not the mother's job but the father's. A woman is not a man. She can take care of him but cannot teach him to be a real man. Similarly, fathers cannot teach girls how to be feminine women.

@thankthelord4536 3 года назад

@@thematrix3663 that's so right!

@michellecamara9714 3 года назад

I love how Iyana is still able to remain calm and not let his behavior take over

@mayaali455 3 года назад

You can tell that he was out of control, out of his element, and powerless. Pattern Broken= He didn’t know how to respond without running

@trezelleinc8106 3 года назад

That’s EXACTLY HOW THEY ACT. Like a deer in the head lights lol

@cheerTILidie 3 года назад

POWERLESS!

@camdenhunt7565 3 года назад

The way Iyanla called out his toxic masculinity phew, she don't waste no time! LOL

@diangoodas 3 года назад

Rapid response, wow.

@nixxb449 3 года назад

With respect, I really don't agree with that term toxic masculinity. To be masculine is not toxic. The behaviour of the individual that is exhibiting negative or toxic behaviour is toxic whether you are a man or woman. We need to stop buying into this term.

@SynterraSteen 3 года назад

@Andrea Mackintosh I’m so over this anti man “men are trash” rhetoric. Women can be/are trash too. If toxic masculinity is a thing, toxic feminism needs to be too. I’ve met some terrible “feminists”

@Ash2beauty 3 года назад

@@SynterraSteen toxic masculinity is simply a man using his stature, strength etc(natural God given traits) to intimidate/manipulate a woman. And it is a thing , I would know as a woman that survived a marriage filled with mental/emotional/physical abuse. I have a problem when people flip a man’s issue and says “women r this and that too”, ignorant to the fact that God has given the man the divine role as the “HEAD”. If the boss is acting a dang fool, you can expect the workers to do the same.

@nixxb449 3 года назад

@Love Jones completely agree. Being masculine or feminine should not be linked with the word toxic. It's purely the behaviour of the individual that should be considered as toxic behaviour. People really need to break down the meaning of words. This guys in this series clearly exhibits emotional abuse, manipulation, deception (among other things) towards his family. I would say the same thing if the roles were reversed in this situation.

@therozziedozzie 3 года назад

Iyanla's son wanted ALL THE SMOKE, and Dwight wasn't ready for that!

@4glo728 3 года назад

We were just yelling at how noble and sexy Damon is!! BK, Baby!!

@baileywilder2964 3 года назад

That’s what cowards do he stepped to the women but men is a differnt story

@cherrlynnmurray 3 года назад

@@baileywilder2964 HE'S TOTALLY A COWARD...I CAN TELL BY HIM SAYING TO HER "I WANT TO SEE YOU WALK AWAY FROM THIS CAR", THAT HE HAS BEEN VERBALLY AND PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE TO HER AND THE FISTY DAUGHTER.

@justice4896 3 года назад

Right...

@barikiwa22 3 года назад

Men narcs are powerless infront of real men lols

@J9eve 3 года назад

Her son stepping in made me smile so big

@SuperTruthful 3 года назад

He didn't have that same angry energy for Iyanla's son..he backed the f up and left.

@lovebutton2933 3 года назад

When Iyanla’s son jumped in... she had that...”Das ma baby!” Look on her face. I was proud... he ain’t even my son.. 🤣

@ms.kmorrow 3 года назад

Right!?! Me too! I loved that!

@TheeMichellesMind 3 года назад

Same!!! 💯

@TWills-tg6fc 3 года назад

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@HoneyPie1978 3 года назад

Brooklyn Nyc in the house, didn't even know he stays on set with her!👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏾

@iamDavidaRose 3 года назад

YES!!!!

@rachaelBT 3 года назад

He doesn’t respect women. Whew child. I CANNOT. And he gave his life to Christ? Which Christ?

@MoTravelz 3 года назад

WHICH ONE? 🗣🗣🗣🗣

@miriameclipse7953 3 года назад

The anti christ

@rossee2033 3 года назад

@@miriameclipse7953 exactly...

@tyelting6276 3 года назад

Not the Christ we serve.

@pastelfudge5011 3 года назад

He is his mother that he cannot forgive

@darksister7660 3 года назад

Kudos to her son. Standing in. I think Dwight was shocked that he did step in, because he is not used to people doing that.

@locdbeauty1922 3 года назад

The way he initially came there laying out on the couch when Iyanla was trying to access the situation spoke volumes. It showed exactly who he was and what he does to his family on a regular.

@randomchizz8668 3 года назад

That woman is so broken , she has no tears left . It’s so sad .

@10062898 3 года назад

She is DRAINED

@camielledavis7664 3 года назад

Yes so true

@YTD07 3 года назад

@laurence Mackey I agree, too young to be even thinking about marrying someone, should be focusing on a career or passion fr

@cassandrafreeman3461 3 года назад

I agree

@MariamTalks 3 года назад

@@10062898 yep she’s cut off numb drained

@sabrina.natalie 3 года назад

Update: I looked up Thelisha on social media. Looks like she divorced him, as she goes by Thelisha Glover now, which I’m assuming is her maiden name. (If they did divorce, I’m glad. Never thought I would be so happy for a dissolution of someone else’s marriage, but oh boy, that marriage was so incredibly unhealthy and toxic.) And it looks like she’s currently in medical school to become a Physician Assistant, which is incredible! I pray that Thelisha is healing and I pray that she has a happy and more fulfilling life.

@bellagrace9812 3 года назад

Thanks for the info. So good to hear she left buffoon.

@gloriadoucette6787 3 года назад

Wow !!!!! That's awesome. He is not a man or a husband.

@deond5248 3 года назад

I went to look as well. It looks as if she already is physician assistant. She graduated in 2019. She looks way happier! If you look through her pictures, she is stunning compared to how numb she looks in this video.

@dododiva387 3 года назад

I'm glad she moved on from him. He's the biggest gaslighter and manipulator I've ever seen

@Queensofafrica8 3 года назад

Thank Goodness....

@kitthecat6543 3 года назад

This man came back to control the show at the end, like I get to decide when I come back and you will accept me! Iyanla was like I ain't ya wife, see ya tomorrow lol

@rennaeh6682 3 года назад

When iyanla said the lady’s kids have already been threw it, you can tell that woke her up! I felt that!!

@bethewalt7385 3 месяца назад

Through it not threw it in this case, they went through it not thrown like a ball...

@cb4664 Месяц назад

Yessss

@iambreannaa 3 года назад

That woman was TIRED. it’s all in her face.

@Butterfly-sp4hr 3 года назад

He is robbing her of her sanity and beauty.

@shaneglover423 3 года назад

🙄 Baby & you're Gorgeous 🌹Bree⚘..it's All n yours 🤷🏽‍♂️ 😗

@iambreannaa 3 года назад

@@shaneglover423 haha thanks💕

@shaneglover423 3 года назад

🙆🏽‍♂️ Ha Ha hell 😚 u ARE Gorgeous but u'r welcome🌹👸🏽 @@iambreannaa ⚘ 🤔 .. i wuz wondering thO where u were frum & if u'r on ig❓😗

@vegvixxxen829 3 года назад

just like the wig honey shes given up.. smh

@monax9243 3 года назад

"Afforded me to have a son outside my marriage". He actually thinks it is a privilege because he brought home a son? He never even acknowledged and apologize for the hurt he caused her. 😭😭😢. We must no longer invest the best years of our lives with men who want a victim not a partner.

@ashekkam5094 3 года назад

When he said that crap, I think my neck broke, looking at the screen....Like did he just say THATTTT

@chiamakankorikailechukwu9189 3 года назад

Afforded!, as if the presence of the male chromosomes boosts your 401K. How ignorant?

@chrissy1448 3 года назад

He said that as an underhanded comment to his wife. To make her feel less than for not having a son for him...it's disgusting and vile... This guy is not a man, just a little immature boy...

@ogookpala 3 года назад

To be honest, I think I and hope it’s just his lack of mastery of the English language. I always remember that magic Johnson said he “achieved the HIV virus”. Always found that funny.

@LovinMe60 3 года назад

Clearly he didnt know what the word "afforded" meant🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

@Itz_lovelyes 3 года назад

He is so sarcastic and disrespectful as soon as he sat the couch I knew I was gonna get mad

@wendyrondon1895 2 года назад

Iyanla looks like she gives the best hugs. I wish I could receive one of her hugs...

@staceylane5515 2 месяца назад

Me Too❤

@intentionalhome7357 3 года назад

This husband is a true narcissist.

@mzTayTay17 3 года назад

Exactly that he’s all for self👀 n a total manipulator💆🏽‍♀️

@carolynwhite9975 3 года назад

@Tiffany M Exactly 💯

@allysonjones8234 3 года назад

@@mzTayTay17 yes, and can't handle when they come across someone who doesn't fall for it!

@alethiamillner5603 3 года назад

He had his eyes closed in the beginning like he was supposed to be feeling shame but he was really trying to hide the lies behind them from the camera

@monawoods707 3 года назад

Thats exactly what he is!

@centellvasilopoulos 3 года назад

Dominate/toxic masculinity runs rapid in the black community. Ladies, when you see a man like this, RUN!

@centellvasilopoulos 3 года назад

Toxic masculinity is thus defined by adherence to traditional male gender roles that consequently stigmatize and limit the emotions boys and men may comfortably express while elevating other emotions such as anger.

@malakaimusa1476 3 года назад

@@centellvasilopoulos This man doesn't have that. He is just a lunatic

@dondemarco9092 3 года назад

Women are dominant in the black community and men like him come from female-led homes.

@dondemarco9092 3 года назад

@@centellvasilopoulos “Toxic masculinity “ is a concept of Feminist Theory, which came from radical feminism, not even mainstream. It’s not a diagnostic term, stop throwing it around at men. It stereotypes traditionalists.

@centellvasilopoulos 3 года назад

@@dondemarco9092 are you a man?

@cayej 3 года назад

He doesn't trust people b/c he's not to be trusted. The statement about padding is SO true.

@ForeverFit72 3 года назад

This would have been a wrap when he flopped down and slouched his big behind on that sofa.

@bonnie-sylvierwemalika3302 3 года назад

I was thinking the same thing! "Boyyy you better sit straight"

@bellagrace9812 3 года назад

Right? He told me all I need to know about him.

@kashataylor6430 3 года назад

😂😂😂😀😀

@lumiere7216 3 года назад

@@kashataylor6430 Iyanla see him for who he is a mile away.

@bammytingy 3 года назад

No person who has pride in themselves would even hold their body like that in a conversation with a stranger. Such an odd man!

@lashundaknowles9651 3 года назад

He is losing his mind about his wife not answering him.. This joker is crazy as hell!!!

@abigailsimpson5904 3 года назад

Narcissist ..... once they lose control over you.. hell breaks loose

@Hfgv281 3 года назад

Insane insane. Even in front of people and cameras.

@m.daniellagreen9856 3 года назад

Malignant narcissist at its finest

@masmodiba 3 года назад

He's a narcassist and a sociopath

@florastewart7957 3 года назад

Did his mama or his daddy not keep that ego in check. I’d slap the silly out of my son if he acted that way, grown or not.

@priscillak88 3 месяца назад

“I’M THAT THOUGH”, come through son🤗 I wonder what his daughters thought when they saw this episode. Hard to see your parents in a certain light.

@user-gm2ix2ii3k 3 года назад

I loved when Iyanla's son defended her. I need that type if son for my future son 💯💯

@clipaqua8848 3 года назад

She reads these people like a BOOK. Dangerous woman. It’s like watching national geography

@Pink_celeb420 3 года назад

🤣🤣🤣 spot on!

@cjandlayyy6837 3 года назад

Frll

@memberperks674 3 года назад

And, she does NOT miss

@looknbakatu 3 года назад

she's EDUCATED & LIFE EXPERIENCED!, BUT! some people have that "gift', she's VERY! intuitive!

@GoddessFactor007 3 года назад

@@memberperks674 Never. She's also Yoruba priestess; her connection to spirit is undeniable.

@JohnnyFaith 3 года назад

i once had the privilege of meeting iyanla at the Mall of AMerica!! she hugged me in her bosoms' and i felt more in those 10 seconds then i ever have my whole life. them are healing hands

@karmenwashington2760 3 года назад

Lololll

@isciasoverall6393 3 года назад

I envy you! ❤

@jomaema 3 года назад

That's beautiful to hear

@CassieCas0106 3 года назад

Awww man! What a privilege! I’m sure if I ever met her and she hugged me I would probably start crying.

@zionstayfit920 3 года назад

Coffee with Cassie same lol

@sierrahines1804 3 года назад

Iyanala was so nice yet straight forward with her. The lady was extremely pleasant and receptive of help. This was a great episode for women going through all walks of life.

@mitravaruna 3 года назад

I feel afraid for his wife. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s physically abusive to her in addition to being mentally and emotionally abusive.

@charissew4798 3 года назад

Iyanla is from Brownsville, Brooklyn. Her son is about that life, he protected his mom.

@sheliajohnson4540 3 года назад

Brooklyn in the house

@bigb4078 3 года назад

Brooooooooklyn 😜💪🏽🤟🏽

@sallymatanhirre 3 года назад

When Iyanla said, "I ain't sending you home tonight, I'm sending you and your girls to a hotel so that you can eat pizza and watch movies." That's it right there...Life goes on. Ain't no need to worry about that narcissist

@sharondavis3535 3 года назад

People need a break to think...some people don’t want you to have clarity. Some of us are soo beautiful and talented

@KEESHWASH 3 года назад

Right!

@sexyblackjag 3 года назад

Narcissist are the devil in flesh

@Hfgv281 3 года назад

@@sharondavis3535 thisssss

@Hfgv281 3 года назад

@@sexyblackjag they show up as such but they're unwell. Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental illness. One of the most difficult to treat. Most self medicate and are also addicts. Not justifying their behaviour or toxicity. Just noting their behavior is related to an illness. One they'll likely live and die with. One that makes their lives horribly miserable and they project that outward.

@Adelina24244 3 года назад

His wife is so gorgeous, that poor soul had to endure his toxicity

@m.alequin1049 3 года назад

Iyanla's son was not having it.

@Keira_Kay 3 года назад

The smile on iyanla face when her son stepped up... she was so proud!!

@SuperTruthful 3 года назад

I saw that too...all teef's were showing. He was like, that's my moms...lol coward backed down from his anger.

@lavalentina5318 3 года назад

Kudos!!! To her son

@washkie7626 3 года назад

Yh😂😂😂

@aliciousdaqueen6385 3 года назад

This is me though have not finished the episode yet I don’t know how to take care of myself but I want out I know this will work for me and I will get it all back and I’m strong and firm

@berrystraw2667 3 года назад

Her son meant business and she knew it.

@toreybovie2435 3 года назад

20:48 “Oh she’s your life coach now?!”... yes she’s literally a certified life coach, THATS WHY SHES THERE!! 😭💀

@jacqulynwebster6591 3 года назад

That's when I hollered! 🤣😭🤣😭

@misstinahamilton5714 3 года назад

This dude is a piece of work fr

@cjandlayyy6837 3 года назад

I CANNOTT😭😂

@candicevance8190 3 года назад

Haha dude is all over the place

@Beybappe 3 года назад

😂

@SandfieldBunny84 3 года назад

Come thru SON, he said I AM THAT!!!! Baby I felt that, that was a real man right there. All that mouf was gone in an instant.

@lockito123 2 года назад

Can we just have a moment of how beautiful thelisha is 😮‍💨

@brittanystephenson7355 3 года назад

This guy is a punk. Notice that he doesn't mind stepping to a female, but when a real man steps to him, he backs down. If he doesn't change, I hope she divorces this guy.

@CalamityJane831 3 года назад

She did divorce him.

@Omo21000 3 года назад

He definitely has hit a woman before, he can’t control is anger

@TheFeliciakelley 3 года назад

A lot of so called men do that!!

@treasureokoh4722 3 года назад

She divorced him like the Queen she is

@laughing513stock 3 года назад

No more time for change he was cheating on this woman for 20 plus years it’s over!

@KeenasKorner 3 года назад

You can tell he’s physically abusive. Iyanla called him manipulative and he switched. Instantly. Every time he got mad he looked like he was gonna hit one of them or wanted to.

@naynaimyles754 3 года назад

Iyanla hugs look so loving and nurturing😍🤗

@andreaholmes5697 Месяц назад

I say that all the time. I know there’s so much healing in her hugs!!!

@Soundsliketara 3 года назад

Iyanla: no mind altering drugs Him: 🤨

@ATeamAnticsMiami136 3 года назад

Knowing he on cocaine.. he was tweaking

@StarChyld4IamHere 3 года назад

He says he doesn't trust people... but he's trusting his loins with strangers having community peen.

@jessicaaudate 3 года назад

COMMUNITY PEEN!!!!!!!!!!

@whitneym54321wm 3 года назад

Girl, you betta preach!! 👏🏾👏🏾😂😂

@cellyjohnson 3 года назад

Hello?!!

@mykel1990 3 года назад

Chileee.....I fell over.

@barbaramandela1371 3 года назад

He is disgusting

@loveleighladey7945 3 года назад

Iyanla is such a classy queen. She handled that cowardly bully wonderfully.

@anovemberstar 3 года назад

"he just gotta be glad he got his bits and parts in the places God put em" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@meelahmanifestslove 3 года назад

What she said about women and their attraction to men based off their relationship or lack thereof with their father is so accurate and profound. It goes the same way with men and their moms.