Its interesting that people will take advice from a person married 50 years thats clearly unhealthy vs someone who is divorced who had to save themselves from toxicity. There are lessons in to learn from so many people.
For me it was always allowing black men to mistreat me. I was blinded by low self esteem. Even the ugly ones had me fooled. I thank God for my breakdown which led to my breakthrough. I've been free for years and will never ever be bound again.
Loving yourself first. Setting boundaries. Sarcasm is the first sign and red flag of abuse. No, what you said about my (fill in the blank) is not funny, I'm not too sensative. You are not teasing. I, for me, realize my happiness and peace is my GPS. I only experience this being a Bachelorette. I love her honesty.
“ You always believe your mama unless she tell you the boy you bring home not good for you “ 😂😂😂😂 i should of listened mama but you always say who won’t hear shall feel and i defintely feel now 🤣💔🥺
I didn't know how to matter--my God given gift of being highly sensitive set me up to be easily manipulated and taken advantage of. It took me over 20 years to love myself and realize that I matter. I am learning to thank God, understand my journey, embrace my gift and know my true shelf. Love yourself first!!!
Awww, yes, I know exactly what you are saying!! I think as women, we don't/didn't know HOW to love ourselves. For me, it was about putting others first, but not anymore!!! 😊
I love this woman not only for her strength but for her story I recently finished a book that once finished made me realize that my entire family is yes being current dysfunctional although there are no names mentioned once they begin to hear and or decide to read it I promise they will know who plays the victim and who chooses to be the survivor
I’ve had this conversation with myself. She’s right and most were innate fears from being “not good enough,” for someone: mainly family. I am doing all I can to deconstruct this fear of inadequacy, by loving myself a little more (my mother has it too..)
So glad when she became my angel when I watched her on fix my life. She teaches you wisdom, survivor, and loving yourself. She has such a smoothing voice that easy to listen to.
“Is it your thought? Or is it a thought that was given to you” The amount of conditioning I realized I had was ridiculous. It’s time to reprogram the mind. 🧠
We as women should matter.before any relationships stop disrespecting ourselves.we act like we afraid to date out of oir race.to find real love sometimes we have to go another route.stop letting men tell us what do We're above this.we don't always have to have a relationship to be love .love ourselves stand for something pr we're fall for anything.
Thing is things are clear to you when it's not your mess and you're not emotionally invested. So she's been divorced three times because she wasn't clear on her own mess, but she sees 20/20 when it comes to other people's mess. She's demonstrated that thousands of times.
Who care s the more things you go. Through in life ,the more relatable you become and better able to help someone else we live in an imperfect world, with imperfect human s.
@@bettymiller6629 I don't think she was bashing Iyanla, she was stating that it's easier to see things clearly from the outside vs when you're the one emotionally invested. That's why people get lawyers.
I love Iyanla. She is a blessing. Im glad God gave her the gift to help people. She has helped many and I hope she continues that journey. I thank God for her. 💕💚😇👍👊
Anybody know some women empowerment or black women empowerment retreats for the depressed lost young and lonely?? Much positivity prayer and meditation is needed.
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We are born perfectly into a society where we are taught who to be , how and when. We are conditioned both negatively and positively. Our assignment is to then figure out who we truly are, what we believe and why. My journey wont look like mine, and thats ok. Its. My. Life. Journey.
I love this woman Omg is she real Beautiful woman I could listen to her all day Omg she speaks the truth My type of woman I know she would tell me what I need to hear even if I didn't want to hear it She would tell me the truth I like people like this I don't want people telling me what I want to hear I want the truth
+Crystal Grose I don't think you'll get the entire video, unless you make inquires of the organsiers for the event. I found this link below - there are hyperlinks to various participants kissdetroit.com/3769591/iyanla-vanzant-has-a-message-that-every-women-needs-to-hear-exclusive-video/ rnbphilly.com/2828729/iyanla-vanzant-has-a-message-that-every-woman-needs-to-hear-exclusive-video/ rnbphilly.com/tag/womens-empowerment-expo-2015/ hdvidz.me/video/file/How-to-Know-Yourself-Completely?id=iCJkgsUWYzk hdvidz.me/video/iyanla-vanzant
im a victim of my own thoughts. i cant seem to no think negative... sometimes I am paranoid....and for what!? for what?!! why?! lol I keep thinking im gonna get hurt...i think of all the things that can go wrong and then i sabotage...why? smh I dont get it
Think new thoughts. Clean,Strong and Powerful thoughts. Learn to become "cause in a world of total effect". To conceive of yourself as half beaten is to be already defeated. Learn to rely on your inner strength. You are as strong and powerful as you chose to be!
