As a therapist, I find her behavior towards Will to be absolutely vile. She seems intent upon punishing him for something. Her lack of respect for him is evident.
Ive heard rumors of Will being secretly gay...and thus using Jada as a beard. Thats the only reason I could think of as to why shes so set on destroying him
I'm speaking from my own experiences coming from an abusive home and entering into relationships with abusive people here, but after a certain point you start looking at it like, "Well the bad times aren't that bad, are they?" It becomes familiar to be in this position, and getting out of it seems more of a hassle. Add onto that the pressure of being a celebrity, it's just hard, I think.
Both kids are grown now, so that's not a reason anymore. Sad thing is, I feel like even if he leaves, she won't shut up. Her thirst for attention is so off putting.
@@dashzag he also mentioned not believing in divorce. I think he said his previous marriage ended in divorce and he said it would never happen again. I think he doesn’t want to feel like a failure even though it’s clearly not his fault.
@@tarabooartarmy3654 That's sad, but I remember seeing a video of him talking about it, and basically he left his previous wife _for_ Jada... This is pure speculation on my part but that may also affect his decisions 🤷🏻♀️
I'll never forget seeing a clip of how she admitted she would deliberately not comfort Willow when she cried as a child, and would get angry when Willow was upset, because Jada's internal issues were more important than being a nurturing mother. It's absolutely horrendous and if anything I'm more impressed by Willow for not continuing generational trauma and getting therapy and expressing herself through her music. Jada sucks.
She’s always seemed…not so nice to me. Then I heard her and her mom talking about hers and will’s wedding day and how she was sobbing uncontrollably all day cause she “didn’t really wanna get married” Who outs that kind of shit out into the world where your hubby and KIDS live?! Like WTF? It just seems she only speaks in order to hurt. And she was TOTALLY “poking the bear” with Will in thes clip… she WANTS him to blow up or show his ass so she can go to the shrink and be like “look at THIS!! This is how i live. What a horrible monster. Etc etc” but all her abusive behavior is conveniently cut from the video she made.
Filming without his permission is bad enough, but filming and asking an intimate question about your relationship without his permission is straight up abusive imo.
@@bloom4807 she's airing out their private business publicly and trying to humiliate him... intimacy isn't just physical, it can be emotional. She put him in a venerable position and asked him a loaded question with a clear intention to publicly embarrass him.
@@bloom4807 Intimacy is not just sex. If that’s what you think I feel very sorry for you. I’m not trying to be an asshole but being emotionally intimate with someone is just as beautiful as physical intimacy and by your comment it just seems like you’ve never experienced that which is very sad to me.
I find her weird and manipulative. When I listen to her talk I feel like I can't fully believe her. I kind of feel that way about Will too. I think they have been trying to hide who they really are for so long that they don't know how to reverse it.
Men can be emotionally abused, too. If you watch the video of the slap, he laughed at the joke until he looked at her and saw the look she gave him. His attitude completely changed.
Jada got friend zoned by Pac and never recovered, now its like shes taking her bitterness out on Will. Also I don't believe for a SECOND Pac ever proposed or saw Jada as anything more than a friend, shes evil for lying like this.
She has the behaviour of a narcissist. Her behavour makes sense when you look at through that lens. She does not expect anybody can challenge her view of things that happened to Tupac but people are doing their research. Tupac was engaged to someone else when he was in prison. He married her when he was released. Jada is delusional, like other narcissists. She wants attention and to be the center of attention. She is a typical narcissist. Similar to Meghan Markle.
It honestly feels like Jada hates Will. Maybe she thought she could leverage his fame into a better career, or maybe she beat him into submission and now hates him. I don’t know, but how she’S treating him is just gross at this point.
Yes! I feel like at one time they were both doing movies. Then his career skyrocketed and hers just sank. I feel like she resents his success because she has to admit she has a failed movie career. If she was married to a plumber even if it was a small role it would still be a big deal but married to Will Smith she knows it’s a small role. She is not a wife that supports. She is a wife that competes with her husband. She knows she has failed and hates him for it. Sad because she could be living her best life.
She is such an awful person. As someone pointed out, this may be the first time Will's hearing that they're "separated". He literally shot his own foot to "defend" her, although that was extremely cringe and why on earth Will digs himself to these holes, we dunno. But still. She is just an awful human being and i hope Will gets some therapy and mentally paces himself. Good on him to get away from her clutches.
She seemed to expect the rest of the world to treat her with the same adoration and devotion that Will showed her, and is genuinely confused that they don't.
She has never only been known as Will Smith wife. Her career in the 90s was HUGE. She was in so many successful great movies with tons of other famous and amazing artists. After the early 2000s her career dropped but that do not mean she became know ONLY as will smith's wife. U can't take credit away from this woman there was not a movie coming out without her in it at one point in time.
There is validity in people’s opinions about her being awful in behavior. To say you’re getting hate for being black and woman is such a cop out, when people have only ever pointed out what’s underneath the skin.
There is validity in peoples opinion but the misogyny and race comes from the fact that she’s never admitting to doing anything her husband hasn’t openly admitted to doing. Yet white people specifically brush that off and she’s the sole villain. From my experience..very very typical.
Right? Imagine what she's telling her own daughter about Tupac that made her wrote that letter. She probably has said more good things about Tupac who died decades ago than her own husband.
I’ve seen her tear up at the very mention of Tupac BUT smile and laugh when referring to real betrayal and hurt she done to Will. It’s crazy! I’m not saying he hasn’t done anything but she shows more emotion over a dead dude than someone alive in her life.
No offense, as I respect everyone's opinions, but he is not just some "dead dude". I agree with your statement, though, that she is lingering in the past. Someone she has had no relationship or contact with in 30 years is more important than Will to her. He has been by her side all these years while she has repeatedly publicly shamed him. She's exposed their most intimate family and marriage details for the world to scrutinize. It's almost as if she's punishing him.
@chelelee6321 he is really just some dead dude. He wasn't perfect, and he's said that pretty famous, sexist quote for men and incels to hse for eternity, so there's that
This kills me bc Will Smith seems to be a really good guy and Jada is a narcissist. How fucked up to bring your man onto a video diacussing your personal issues and call it "foolishness " when he sets a boundary!!
She reminds me of those people on TikTok and RU-vid who are a menace to the public because they're doing dumb shit and filming strangers who don't want to be filmed.
She seems narcy to me. Considering Willow's mental health struggles, the letters the kids wrote... I hope they're well. I have to go to therapy already, but at least i didn't have a mom like this. This lady is nuts.
Do Tupac fans feel like Jada is using his name just to garner more attention? I’m not an avid Tupac fan and I know pretty much nothing about him besides the type of artist he was and his death, but when I first heard this whole thing, I just immediately felt this because of how Jada acts and how she’s talked about other men such as Will.
That’s what I thought! Of course, it’s wrong to assume we know their entire relationship. But every time she talks about him, revealing things he didn’t tell the public like his alopecia, it rubs me the wrong way.
She’s obsessed with him and I think Tupac loved her more like a sister than what she claims. Jada needs to move on. Will needs to get out while he can. She keeps on humiliating him and I feel bad for Jayden and Willow too. They all need therapy! Airing out your dirty laundry like that is not cool.
@@ALT-vz3jn. Yea, even when growing up in the 90s, I don’t ever recall hearing either his name or hers in a sentence together that even hinted towards a fling, lust, no scandals, nothing … and the tabloids were wild during that time with that type of info. If they were going to dig up dirt and spill it, they would. If they even had an inkling on what they _thought_ someone felt … they’d put it in the papers. Never got that with her lol. For someone to be so madly in love with her to where they’re asking for her hand in marriage in a prison facility that is listened in on at all times … extremely unbelievable that it was never spoken about by anyone or even leaked. Nothing by his friends, entourage, family, set crew, anyone within a mile of his circle … Jada was never mentioned like that lol. She is pulling a dead man’s name solely for clout to say “I was that girl” when she wasn’t and is doing it in the most unbelievable manner to where it comes off as her fawning after him and it never being reciprocated.
She's feeding us information that we don't want to know and even care enough to know...Another way of embarrassing Will so she can feel good about herself🤦🏾♀️
It feels like she constantly wants to humiliate Will and also control the narrative around everything involving them. Much like a narcissist, she feeds off of all the attention.
@@ShawnMadeInUSAIf it is true, Margot Robbie was a star on the rise when they worked on Focus together, and is getting roles left and right. Probably a blow to Jada’s ego as opposed to Will sleeping with someone that’s lower profiled.
@@reikun86 my theory is that Jada ended up with Will because she's pregnant or she wanted the wealth and fame came along with the marriage, also Will can't divorce Jada because she has so much dirt on him. 1) cheating 2) gay rumors. Jada also can't divorce Will because she's no longer eligible for child support and she can't make money off Will.
I hate how he asked her to not flim and then pointed out his social media is how he make money so doesnt want this out there but not only that tells her his not comfortable again being flimed in his own home and she still keeps going. Instead of as soon as he pointed it out dropping the camera and ending the live while apologising because he is completely right this is both of their safe spaces and shouldnt have to worry about being filmed.
He looked so small and uncomfortable when he told her he didn't want to be filmed, like he knew she wasn't going to take it well. Then she dismissed his concerns and called them foolishness to her audience, and kept going like his opinion didn't matter. It's crushing to watch.
@FullMoonOctober I just can't imagine doing that to any one in a public setting let alone their home, what is meant to be their safe place. Just because they both live in the public eye means he want everything out there and honestly the more I see about her the more I'm disgusted with how she has and is treating him.
She's nasty, oversharing and cruel! Can you imagine having your 11 yr old daughter writing a letter to Tupac asking him to come back and make her mommy happy? They're both horrible people, but I hate the way she has stepped on him and broken him in order to make herself relevant . She's so TOXIC 😢.
If she did write the letter on her own, she probably heard her mother talk and sob about Tupac and how he was her soul mate since she was a young kid, that's really not okay 😣
Jada seems to have a whole lot of words to say a whole lot of nothing. She just rehashes drama over and over and over, without adding anything of substance. Maybe it’s how she fuels her own ego and sense of self importance, because I’ve got a feeling Will’s name will be in her mouth for a LONG time after they divorce.
The crazy thing is everyone in Tupac’s inner circle has said flat out that he was never romantically interested or involved with Jada. She got friendzoned and settled for Will, and has spent the last 20 years making Will suffer for it.
Either he's signed something to say he can't say anything or he's playing the long game of letting her look bad. IF He continues to be the bigger person and not play dirty he'll still have an opportunity to work in Hollywood unlike her.
So I knew like nothing about Jada until the on air smack. I grew up watching Will Smith in almost everything he was in, and it's really sad seeing him look so miserable and tired.
She’s so narcissistic and naturally disrespectful to Will that she had to make it known that they haven’t called each other “husband” & “wife” in so long bc it sends the message that she controls him so much that he’ll stand up in her honor despite how dismissive she is about him as an individual, a man and her perceived husband. She is despicable.
I used to really like and admire her, her presence, her force, her way to speak about women and the world, and now I'm like, maan, this is so dissapointing but necessary to see the reality.
I met her on that facebook tv show she made with her daughter and mother, never liked her from the beginning. When her children by that time were having scandal after scandal with drugs, parties and alcohol, i found it hypocrite that her daughter called her a great mother, few episodes later… the scandal and memes of the broken heart of will smith with a guy as young as the son in the said scandals before. Like idk about her daughter… but having a son in drugs, having sex with the friend of your son… like…
I use to think people were exaggerating with the whole "Jada trying to humiliate Will" thing, at this point I genuinely believe it. There is no need to ever say this much about your own relationship publicly ever
This is junior high 101. She hasn’t been with him for a long time, he hasn’t been paying attention to her, she’s feeling a bit unlovely and unloved…so how does she alleviate these feelings of anxiety and loneliness? She says all these juvenile things that are bound to get a rise out of him (no pun intended - not that kind of rise). He’s being very smart about all this now, he wasn’t before, and knows that not addressing her, because that’s what she wants him to do…to pay attention to her, he will get a ride out of her. It’s just a big game. Unfortunately, there are kids involved who are not to far gone to come to some kind of healing from the damage their parents are obliviously heaping upon their heads. Guess it boils down to the old adage and a 11 year old kid’s way of showing affection…you either pull her ponytail or dip it in a inkwell (as evidenced by Jada’s new book). We all know the old adage: negative attention is better than no attention at all.
I feel like she's intentionally being hurtful and disrespectful. Hate it. Will isn't free of his own BS but like, she's abusing publicly and hoping that the public gets on her side.
I have a theory that he want's to counter the Black men 'leave'/don't stay married, social view. It's kinda admirable, if there's authenticity to it, but this seems dysfunctional
At this point it feels like she’s pissed at him about something, like she’s humiliating this man it feels like emotional abuse at this point. Why doesn’t he just leave
There are lots of possible reasons, it's probably many things rolled up into one. 1) Messy public divorce would cause drama and could land him losing a good chunk of his wealth and propety (insert rich people losing a fraction of their wealth commentary here) 2) She has dirt on him about something he does not want public and uses it was leverage 3) She is abusive and controlling and he is down brow-beaten he doesn't know how to escape, ask for help or otherwise because of shame,pride or some combo of that. 4) NDAs or possible legal contracts, the Smiths have been known to be somewhat entangled with the shady Scientology or it could simply be a personal documentation of some sort. 5) Most likely, Jada gets some kind of power-high from her ivory tower of a talk-show. She very much has an air of Hollywood elites who are so much more enlightened, intelligent and ahead of the curb of society. It feeds her ego to be some radical talking head and even more so to control a powerful rich man in Hollywood. 6) Will could possibly have some humilitation fetish, but that's a bit more far fetched. He apparently had a wild-sex-life prior to his marriage, came from a broken home. Here you can insert your various Epstein conspiracies or "omg he's gay" stuff. I think this is probably the least likely to be true though. TL;DR Will is too prideful and too ashamed to divorce her, he can't have a perfect picture-esque Hollywood marriage especially for a wealthy black couple he so desires. He's most likely so abused or conditioned he won't fight it. Jada loves the power and ego-feeding her positions holds. They most likely have some weird legal contract with Scientology or some legal-agreement between themselves that makes a formal divorce out of the question. Will perhaps thinks he can 'fix her' and Jada likes having a punching bag.
The sad thing about this is I've never heard anyone spread gossip about Jada. Every single thing I know that has helped to form the negative opinion I have of her has been from her own mouth/over sharing.
So Will really slapped Chris Rock for nothing. I was on Will's side during the initial slap but now I just think they need a divorce. She's clearly not healthy for him.
I’d imagine the reason she doesn’t answer questions in interviews about subjects we know she’s going to bring up in the book is a) to drive sales for the book and b) to have complete control of the narrative, how her words are presented, and to not have any comments made on her version of events printed in the same text (like how the one article threw in little digs). Is that a good thing or bad thing? I’m not sure, but that’s what I think she’s doing
I don’t know what to think of their relationship. Has JPS mentally abused WS and does he stay in an abusive relationship the same as others do? Is it all a sham?? Outwardly she seems like a horrible person who keeps kicking her husband while he’s down and if she doesn’t see it that way she is stupid or evil
As a celebrity, it must be difficult to realise your very spouse is the one violating your privacy and revealing private details (that nobody needs to know) about your relationships ; not the paparazzi. I wonder if she feels some form of jealousy and resentment towards Will Smith, relating to the different directions their careers have gone. So, she is just being petty, make Will looks as bad as she can.
Will has his own issues, but he doesn't deserve this abuse from this terrible woman. I feel bad for him, and I ESPECIALLY feel bad for him and Jada's children. I can't imagine being raised by these two childish "adults", one of which is a huge narcissist, and having the upbringing that they had.
Confounding to imagine what it is that Will Smith saw in Jada in the first place. Everything i've learned about her has given me the image of a horrible, horrible person.
She is beautiful and as a narcissist she is probably incredibly charming when she wants to be and is no doubt highly manipulative. I think also that Jada triggered a childhood wound in Will that he didn't even understand, and on a subconscious level she was familiar and that registered as "right." Attraction is deeply personal and largely subconscious, and what we consider "chemistry" is all too often rooted in unhealed trauma from our forgotten past.
Why is she hell bent on punishing Will, like sorry he's never gonna be Tupac, and she needs to deal with this? But it's so fucked that she's sooooo determined to destroy him.
Honestly, this is just another case of getting too close to the sun. Every time people act like they are the pinnacle, it all falls apart. I imagine that when Beyonce finally falls, it's gonna leave a literal crater.
What u said at 5:30 is exactly the way I've always been. I don't want to know about their private business and/or opinions. Usually the more I know about them the less I care about them. 😊
You are so right! Her narrative is to spin as much ambiguity as possible. She just wants to sell more books. This is the ugly side of greed and jealousy on the part of Jada.
That lady is straight up creepy imo. She seems manipulative and tries to portray this aura of wisdom and honesty but it’s just apart of her game. They played to be married until it benefited her more to be separated, like wtf. Leave that man alone
I’m currently trying to get away from my mom, because like Jada, there’s nothing more exciting to her than publicly embarrassing me to family, friends, coworkers, and even strangers. I’ve become so used to being humiliated and lied about that I don’t even bother arguing anymore. With everything being so unaffordable I can’t leave right now. Will obviously can afford to leave, but he has kids. With his family history, that could be a figurative shackle causing him to stay with her even though things clearly aren’t working out. When someone frequently demeans you as a person, you won’t believe how easy it is not just to feel like you can’t get out, but also like you don’t deserve it. I hope one day he realizes he can and deserves to find better, and that he doesn’t have to be the family clown in order for his kids to have a “happy” family.
The confidence she has when she like, speaks this entire narrative about what a dead guy was thinking deep inside about how she's brilliant and also the best and exactly what he needed at a certain time in his life. Kinda giving me stalker vibes actually. I wonder if Tupac knew that they were this close?
To me it feels like she wants to just say “I never liked him but I got married just because 🤷🏻♀️” or at least that’s the vibe I get. It almost feels like she’s jealous of Will in some way, and is now trying to tear him down in front of everyone. But she’s only making herself look worse 🤦🏻♀️
She reminds me of when you have a bucket filled with mud and water. You wait for the mud to settle so you can see the water clearer, but she keeps stirring the bucket, making the water seem murkier rather than clearer.
So, they’re “separated”, but she can still force him to answer painful questions that he clearly doesn’t want to answer, live, in what I’d assume is his own home?
Jada seems determined to break Will mentally. She throws out all the dirt for attention and even to save herself from that Oscar-slap incident. And Jada not answering questions about the marriage at first is because she probably saw how she could earn a quick buck by publishing a book about it instead of delivering the answers out for free.
I love your use of Language, your title to "Reveal" exactly expresses the facts and pattern of her total toxic poison self...... Jada seems to be textbook Monster.... Happy Friday the 13th...... 🕊️
It doesn't have anything to do with race or gender, Jada does nothing but humiliate Will and he destroyed his career for someone that couldn't care less about him. Imo I think Will needs to take a page from Martin Lawrence by laying low.
Your videos always make me feel validated in my thought processes. And you speak the things that I often think but am too afraid to say out loud lol 💜💜
I reached my limit when she said that Tupac had alopecia. That was when I realized that she is just going to do this for the rest of her life on this planet.
This woman lacks boundaries and self-awareness. Kids, this is what happens when you feel entitled and are a psedo intellectual. Her poor family, but they all seem codependent and literally used to being embarrassed.. i mean, she had her entagelment but with her sons friend who was having a crisis.. she is not a good person. A red flag with legs.
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I don’t understand why she’s so intent to attaching herself to 2Pac. It’s like she’s trying to create a mystic about their relationship and turn it into more than it probably was. She is so cringy.
Her lies are strange. She claims they didn't call each other "husband or wife" for 7 years, but they did all the time on Red Table Talk, right up until the show was recently cancelled. Why lie about something so petty when the truth is seen by all on video? She claims Tupac was her soulmate? My late husband was my soulmate, married 23 years, together since teenagers, having 6 babies together, building a life and having every experience together. Tupac was just her crush and fantasy. Fact she doesn't know the difference at this age shows huge lack of emotional maturity.
I’ve always felt like she has always wanted Tupac and when she looks at Will she gets deeply disappointed and that disappointment turned into hate and that she decided to treat and do whatever to Will and use Will just because he wasn’t Tupac. So I feel like she might have “tried” in the beginning but over time she realized she doesn’t care and doesn’t like him and now she’s at the place where she doesn’t care and is putting it out there while trying to also save face at the same time to elevate herself over him.
Well because he’s not here to say it never happened. I think when he died she just ran with whatever she wanted the world to believe… I don’t believe anything that comes out of her mouth..
