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yeah i also like the saying mental health is a reason not an excuse for the actions. mental health can explain why things occur but it shouldn’t excuse them
I love how everyone is just yelling their opinions and Tom calms things down and encourages real critical thinking and alternative perspectives. Good conversation-leading.
I'm glad he does it because the other guys are literally just being the most annoying little shits pretending they are being some godsend for offering shit ass advice and "money opportunities"
I think Tom is a good moderator for debates. I have to ask though, regardless of how you feel about me, was I being too aggressive at any point? I felt like I was being pretty respectful the whole time, but I could be wrong.
Side note about the Oompaville situation: He still had money outside of the money he gave to the scammer. Still a bit of a dumb financial choice to trust the scammer so much without much of any evidence, but the scammer was an actual con man who probably scammed other people and businesses before. Certainly a lot less dumb then throwing life savings at internet money. Edit: He didn't actually dramatize his financial loss in an effort to bait a guilty response from the scammer, or at least I cannot find any evidence of that occurring. He still had more money than he let the scammer know as a way to get out of making another payment.
The scammer had a legit business. Scam isn't really the right word. It was more fraud. Cause the guy failed to deliver the product he said he would build for Oompa.
@@MastemaJack he delivered a product, but it wasnt built by him, and they charged like 150% extra than it cost to buy, they also didnt do the work they said they were doing which caused delays, mostly so they could say there was more roadblocks that required more money, so yeah, it is a scam of a sort
Imagine managing to lose against Keemstar and the commentary npc gang in general. The person with the most amount of respect here was Turkey tom and thats saying alot bro.
Tom was honestly the best person in this stream, watching grown men hurl insults at someone over and over gets boring very quick but Tom was constantly asking questions and talking to them like a real person so they could screw themself over and over with dumb statements
"i was extremely depressed." "isn't that where you are now?" "well i'm LESS majorly depressed." i've never heard someone nope around being shown that being on the internet literally hurts their mental health so fast.
24:07 I like how Tom’s GF just walks in probably hearing all this madness and just keeps doing normal house stuff. Like she’s thinking “Yeah I’m use to this.”
@hahahalice thats between tom and his girl, if she really did i dont think he would still be with her. he doesnt seem like that type of dude, but even if he is it shouldnt matter to us because we just watch his youtube videos. im not on that parasocial shit
Lol, last time I paid attention to Keem, he was doing some weird "respect prounouns" meme, and buddy-buddy with Keffals. I'm glad to hear THAT disappointing little arc is over...
Yeah this is 25 minutes I won't be getting back. Acheeto threw a temper tantrum like ten minutes into the call. I thought it was just gonna be Jalyn screaming, not them 💀
Watching this made me learn a lesson: - Everyone in that call in mentaly ill - Acheeto is unhinged and should and sounds like sneako - Tom and the other girl he invited into the call are the most sane people
“You need to stop watching Andrew Tate” “That’s an alt-right conspiracy” “You owned me” Good god Jalyn is the culmination of a leftist meme account comment section and it’s the most unfunny thing ever Also femyos is really bad at arguing and sounds like the nerd emoji every time they speak
"Ah yes, the nerd emoji. Truly a classic response of those who can't be bothered to actually listen to the other. Nothing nerdy was said, just the tiniest bit of argumentation amongst the yelling." ☝🤓
"i could pay five months of YOUR rent with the videos i've made on you" and "he is making more money off your life than you are making off your own life" are my new favorite ways to call someone poor
I'm kind of surprised at how angry and aggressive people like Sensitive, Acheeto, and even Optimus were getting during a verbal confrontation with someone like Jalyn, who is not at all intellectually intimidating. Tom is way more mature and graceful with his energy and intentions than he should be for his age.
They were mad cringe the entire conversation. The issue is the same as with Jalyn, they get too emotional about their thoughts (live; videos are a different story) and when anyone at all disagrees they hit the big mad button.
I think it’s kinda hard to not get angry at a group of people who get off to people believing their delusions and then project and encourage those delusions onto children I’d be angry that were so far gone that this is even being debated at all.
Yeah there's literally Zero point, they've completely closed themselves off to any opposing ideas because they've married their identity to their opinions.
I think it's a defense mechanism to avoid being vulnerable, and I don't even blame her, she obviously feels like the commentary community is out to get her, which a lot of it genuinely is. If you actually talk to her behind the scenes in good faith for long enough, she'll open up to you and is one of the nicest people. I'm not defending everything she's ever said, but I do believe that she genuinely has a good heart deep down inside.
Jalyn's MO is to being the most boring, unresponsive person ever until a word or thought worms into their brain and then they're activated like a sleeper agent.
Yeah fr. I had no idea Jalyn was this dull to talk to omg. And like you said, as soon as someone says something they can latch onto, she just comes up with the most ridiculous counterargument in hopes of having a "gotcha" moment but it fails every time cos she's terrible at debate. All she's been doing is committing ad hominem and having some of the worst cases of cognitive dissonance I've ever seen
It's more about having self destructive ideations due to being emotionally stunted/ mentally ill more than a humiliation fetish. I've seen this exact same scenario play out in people so many times, most commonly among teenagers with behavioral issues (i.e., narcissists or those with oppositional defiance disorder, BPD, etc.), drug addicts, and non-binary/ gender fluid people.
@@slidersides Or an opioids addict, which is what he looked like in that early interview where he would contstantly ask what the question was and take 10 minutes to respond each time
He doesn't want to defend his beliefs, he *knows* he's right and isn't interested in "bigots" opinions. Like he's just fully indoctrinated in his values and thinks that he's fighting some type of jihad for Trans rights while making them all look ridiculous (as someone who uses Trans issues as their main soapbox) in the process.
absolutely. tom is the only one amongst his peers who can play devils advocate and genuinely see things from a different point of view, regardless of his own personal bias. i absolutely love this type of content from him for this exact reason
I'm mean to be fair, there's another video of keem and Packgod trying to do the exact same thing that Tom did here, but Jalyn is just so impossibly stupid they realized it's just not worth it.
I knew someone once who was on a medication and one of the side effects was that it blocked their puberty. The doctor took them off it on their 16 birthday - they looked 10 at the time. Their growth is stunted and they still act like a child at 30. Yeah based on that - I’ve got concerns. Puberty isn’t just physical it’s mental and emotional maturity too.
Honestly if the trans community want to use puberty blockers and hrt they to decide a common age where mentality is least affected, so if they want to stop, they can enter society effectively
Look I'm not american and I do not presume to understand this topic of dicussion in depth, but, as a med student, it really irritates me that people whi are not medical professionals are discussing very serious medical procedures like this (Im talking about the discussion as a whole, not this comment). I don't think this is an argument someone who's not an endocrinologist or a psychiatrist etc. can take part in. And that really irritates me. Sorry for sharing my personal opinion on the internet.
@@idilkocaefe2451 is it just me but acheeto was kinda bad faith, doesn’t matter if jalyn and femnoys are wrong he was pretty bad faith (adhomes and so on)
Thank you Tom. I listened to this on the treadmill and the audio fried my brain to the point where I hadn’t realized I was running for 30 minutes. This random braindead stream caused me to burn 350 calories
>voice deeper than me >6'4'' >thinks ratioing on twitter is a form of activism >mad as any hatter >claims to be progressive but is an enormous hypocrite >hides behind "Transphobia" when losing >looks like Gorg Jr. from fraggle rock >sounds zonked on zannys normal trans
Like my goodness, Jalyn, are you that much of a fatherless child and affected you? I've met gangsters with no father actually grow up well and reformed themselves, not be a dream stan
@@КГБКолДжорджКостанцаstraight up fatherless behavior. No accountability and always pushing goals to never be in the wrong, and when they can't push the goal they just turn deadpan and sarcastic like they really got something to say but can't be bothered to lower her IQ to our level.
Hearing Jalyn doing hard 180s from a topic is like seeing someone break pasta into dust, make the pasta dust into more pasta, and then get angry at someone for not making spaghetti.
Jalyn is so thick when it comes to grooming kids to be trans. Yes it happens and plenty have come out recently to discuss how they were groomed into it and how it never felt right which is exactly what the gay people who went through conversion therapy said about trying to be straight. You can groom/influence people into doing just about anything but that doesn't mean it is who they are at their core and it almost always ends up with the people going back to the way they were before they were groomed/influenced. Seriously, they just care about their side and winning the argument and i hate it.
Kids are highly influential, if you put a kid to be raised by an angry person they’re probably gonna turn out to be similar. This isn’t how it is all the time, but chances are there are a lot of kids who get influenced and don’t go back to how they were simply for the fact they’ve already wrapped their head around being who they were influenced into being. Another thing is it’s easy to say someone can just revert to how they were before, but it’s not so simple. If their body is already altered, it can be hard because it can feel like it’s already too late. Especially if surgery has already happened.
what is it about a certain type of trans individual that just seem to be an ordinary, white male, yet repugnant, that are the most terrified of being an ordinary, white male..but of course still remain repugnant..
Just gonna put this out there - I think it's hilarious how people will release one mid-ass iOS app in 2010, then they spend the rest of their lives calling themselves a "game developer"
Permanent body modification has always been a thing, for cosmetic reasons, for body enhancement reasons, for medical reasons, etc. Some people who get these sorts of modifications do regret it and wish they never did them. Some love that they did them and love their body and themselves more because of it. Yes, undoing some of these modifications *can* have negative effects. That's why it's extremely important to be 100% sure that you want those modifications before getting them and informed of the risks you take if you choose to undo them later down the line. That's why we have written rules about what needs to happen before gender affirming surgery takes place, like amount of time spent feeling dysphoria, certain things you need to grow beforehand, etc. The fact that some doctors bypass these rules is another problem in itself that we seriously need to fix, but it doesn't de-legitimize gender affirming surgery itself. The same goes for the problem of certain individuals grooming children into it. If a trans person is above the age of medical consent and is fully and completely aware of what could happen should they detransition, all of the risks, and they still want to go for a surgery, I see no reason why anyone should have a problem with that. I don't support Jaelyn, but Acheeto's opinion here is dumb.
Wait, how are they discounting the testimonials from People that detransitioned, that spoke out about their situation? Like their voices should also matter. The conversation is counter productive when people are issuing personal attacks or being disingenuous.
I’m queer and pro-trans rights, but I won’t support any trans content creator who belittles or won’t acknowledge detransitioners. It DOES happen, everyone has different life experiences, and I have no patience for people choosing and willingly deciding to stay ignorant of such a fact.
im trans and ive met a couple people who detransitioned due to multitude of reasons and their stories matter a lot, but i think its okay to discount people who use it as a grifting opportunity i.e. oli london. (who was never transgender to begin with) a lot of twitter leftists will discount people who disagree with them but any reasonable person knows personally attacking someone over their life experience is wrong no matter what side of the fence they are on because these issues are very complex.
@@youkiimatsuri agreed. I think anyone far left, in the middle, or far right discounting other peoples personal experiences due to their own bias is an unfortunate epidemic on and off-line. I am equally disgusted by those using the same type of personal experiences in order to grift by Weaponizing pain. Sadly because of grifters it’s difficult to tell who’s sincere. Oli, never passed the vibe check; IMO Oli is one strange Bird. Since I’m not part of the LBGTQ community I try to not speak on certain matters unless it’s appropriate for an outsider looking in. That when I hear someone minimizing another person struggle in the trans community that is baffling and the same goes for the gay community because there’s kind of a hierarchy within that community as well from what I’ve observed. I’m not trying to be an ally because I think that’s too big of a role for me to play in anybody’s existence. I just want to be a better friend to those that I know that are within certain communities. So I try to learn more about it, without overwhelming them with questions because it seems to make them feel “other’d” I really appreciate these comments.
Hearing Jalyn talk really made me rethink how I carry myself, especially how I talk. Now I want to remove every trait from my personality that resembles Jalyn.
I just have to say, I really despise the "it's a simple yes or no," mentality when it comes to any adult conversation. Literally any situation has nuance and complexities, let alone when you're asking about such a personally and politically charged topic as transgenderism. Diluting it down to pure black and white logic is just plain stupid It's not even that I necessarily disagree with the guy, I just hate when people are so afraid of a response being longer than one word that they get mad and demand that it be simpler lmao
They do that because people actively avoid answering when they know they're morally wrong for saying one answer and yet can't go against their own community with the other answer. Look at the congressional college hearings recently. You had 3 presidents of 3 colleges refusing to give yes or no answers in regards to calling for the genocide of jews being hate speech on campus. They can't say no because we all know it is hate speech, but they can't say yes because then they go against their community.
14:20 Oompa was actively being lied to and deceived by someone about the product he was supposed to get. Jayln was just being extorted by someone they knew where the money was going and what it was being used for.
Tom is so relatable here. You have this intense debate about trans people meanwhile Tom's just chilling and gaming not saying a word unless it's to make some kind of joke or to try to get them to all chill a bit. I'm gaming with this on in the background myself so I feel like I'm right there with him.
Not really a huge Keem fan, but he's got some cold one liners "You are a lolcow. There's no way around it..." Just straight to the point, ripping the band-aid
the problem with a lot of the talking points in this whole stream is that they discuss topics that are so individualized and should really have so much more nuance than they are actually given in the stream that many of these points can be argued back and forth and no one would get anywhere even if a proper debate were to be held. Acheeto especially was making asking very open questions that could have a multitude of legitimate responses and then saying "it's a very simple question; yes or no answer," like dude not only is that not how it works but he's also not giving any room for a proper response and giving neither the question nor the answerer the respect they are due, regardless of if you completely disagree with them or not.
Yeah, that was extremely frustrating to me too. It's not reasonable to make bad faith arguments that aren't based in reality like repeatedly trying to assert that 8 year olds are being castrated. Nobody is doing gender affirming surgeries on young kids. It's a long complicated process to medically transition and there are a lot of hoops to jump through. These are personal medical decisions and it's so exhausting for this topic to be brought up as something to debate. The percentage of the population that's trans is so small, I'd wager to say most people's lives won't be personally affected by trans people. Find something else to worry about. I do appreciate Tom trying to keep it a civil conversation.
The problem these ppl have is they say they want to have a debate and that word definitions are not important, in one sentence xD they mean something when it suits their point but when the opponent makes a good point with it, they suddenly mean something else or "what they mean is not important here". Fools arguing fools. Pointless
I mean to be fair there were times where the question was being side skirted. I dont remeber exactly but it was along the lines of "Something something do you believe trans women are women" "Wait hold on let me ask YOU a question, is sex and gender the same thing" Idk to me it just seems like a pointless question that i always see get brought up. Wheater or not they say yes or no its not really going to change their opinion on the former question. They will simply answer with whatever conforms to their beliefs, and that goes for both sides
I love how the comeback from things like 'you are grooming people' is just to say things like 'oh yeah the far left is the only people who can groom people' instead of saying why they arent trying to groom minors. Thats not a defense lmao.
It’s just “you did this thing” and “you did this thing too” it’s an argument that’ll go nowhere every time because it’s just the two spidermen pointing at each other
@@automaticcaptions Yeah they really didn't argue very well, but I'd say that's because its a dumb argument. People finding right wing content like Steven Crowder and agreeing with it is not grooming, if they weren't meant to hold that opinion they would have not accepted the ideas provided by the video. Most people have inclinations towards certain ideas, but that doesn't necessarily mean they are groomed. On the side of trans you can only make two arguments, being not all trans people do it or that it doesn't happen. They tried both of those then deflected because those are both bad arguments that don't address the actual issue, being that it is happening. They even hold these beliefs in the face of evidence, coming from exposed hospitals, individuals, and testimonials from medical staff, family, detransitioners and other trans people.
I guess a third argument on the side of trans is that the grooming is good, which is a harder point to make but is also brought up in the video. In regards to the "pipeline" part of the right wing argument, I would put forth the same argument that some people are inclined to how far they are willing to go towards one side. I consider myself to be on the right, and have watched a lot of videos through the "pipeline" and have found the opinions that I disagree with, Nick Fuentes being one of them. I've done the same with the left and found my cutoff as well, being Hasan and his like.
@@fancyelk2373Because we need to stop identifying millions of different individuals with vastly different life experiences and life journeys into two retarded boxes that divide our thoughts and ideas. The only reason the left and right exist is to distract us from the ruling class and its underworld henchmen that are plundering our communities.
THANK YOU, Tom, for actually being reasonable. I hesitate giving Jalyn the W, because she’s done so much harm to the very people she claims to want to protect, but the beginning did seem so much like just flat out bullying. I really valued your commitment to reason, logic, and talking things out. Listening to everyone being so unwilling to listen to each other is SO obnoxious.
Uh, there is no W to be had on Jalyn's side either, I'm nip that shit in the bud. You can argue against those 3, but Jalyn started it and somewhat had it coming. After her breakdowns and slur tossing... no. She has no Ws. She's the whole L. And that's just the tip.
What I heard in that convo are the death rattles of peoples' patience with someone who refuses to help themselves no matter how much other people try to help them.
You mean the type of person who screams at other people that they need to conform to their beliefs or they'll hate you, actually doesn't live up to the love, peace, and acceptance message they preach? Oh wow.
have u ever been in a call with pornsick goblins ? yeah probably everyday since yuor so god handle on this topic. its normal, what is not is yui're complete lack of thinking here- but ofcourse, its not that deep bro
The puberty blockers discussion is so mind numbing. Yes, puberty blockers are reversible when used for precocious puberty, their intended purposes. But used off-label for GD we have no idea and there are not enough studies to say if effects are reversible. Multiple European countries have paused their use now including Norway, Sweden, UK because there is a lack of data. To say that they're safe and reversible is just not true. We don't know if they are. There are concerns it can stunt brain development in particular if they miss natural puberty, as well as the case of Jazz Jennings who was 100% harmed by them. These activists have no facts, that's why they call everyone a Nazi or transphobe to distract from that.
Not to mention that the Tavistock clinic scandal in the UK showed many doctors just threw puberty blockers at kids who were often gay or autistic, who would benefit from therapy to talk through their confusion, and almost all the time if a kid starts on puberty blockers they'll move on to hormones because they want to see the process through. That route is almost certainly going to lead to lifelong infertility. It's harmful to willy nilly throw puberty blockers at kids, especially with such a huge crossover between autism and gender dysphoria.
@@tamedprocess4415Not only that but I heard that it gave them bone damage as well and also since pubirty blockers block, well pubirty boys will never feel masculine and girls will never feel feminine which they might likem
I can understand confronting someone who says and does what Jalyn does, but how many of the people in that call were grown men just yelling 😭 I dont care who you are, almost no one will respond positively or even listen if they're being yelled at, even if they're in the wrong. What Tom and I think one other did worked. Asking calm questions, just trying to figure out the situation and their mindset without screaming like a child.
We literally live in a society where the Catholic Church treats exorcisms infinitely more scientifically than trained professionals in the field of medicine. No one is exhaustively researching the situation before writing a prescription. I went through a series of devastating events and ended up seeking help because I was so emotionally fucked that I was just done. At one point I was on 8 different medications, one of them costing just my insurance company nearly $2000 for a 30 day supply and all it did was amplify the effects of another medication by about 20%. The medication it was amplifying cost less than $30 for a 30 day supply, combined between me and my insurance, The doctor could have safely increased that primary medications dosage by 20 times and the cost for a 30 day supply would still have been below $100. I was basically on a micro dose of a drug and rather than even marginally increasing it, they chose to prescribe a medication that was never necessary and was insanely expensive. And this same doctor sees people specifically for "identity" issues of various types.
Well, the Catholic Church has always said that science is tue greatest tool to understand God's creation so them being meticulous in their exorcisms is standard (I mean the amount of red tape and rules you have to follow is actually insane) Compared to a doctor when you discuss gender for one nano second recommending you a bunch of experimental treatments that will leave you as a permanent consumer of said pharmaceutical products. This is what science divorced from morals looks like
I won’t pretend to understand exactly what you went through, but I understand how horrific Big Pharma can be, and I’m sorry for whatever you’re going through
How can some people accept and agree that bullying can lead people to suicide, but categorically deny that one of the reasons trans people kill themselves at a higher rate is that they are bullied at a higher rate, as well as constant harassment online, in person, and from the government. Blows my mind
Here's the issue with these kinds of people. Jalyn is trying to talk about good points, the problem is that they are too stupid to actually understand them or turn them into decent arguments. That and the people she is talking with don't want to change their minds.
Sorry, Tom, I must correct your title. JALYN IS CURRENTLY IN THE PROCESS OF HAVING A CONSTANT PERPETUAL MENTAL BREAKDOWN THAT HAS BEEN PLAGUING THEM SINCE THEY WERE CONCEIVED IN THEIR MOTHERS WOMB. LOL
I remember when the Chris Chan docs first started coming out ppl were like "there will never be another lolcow more entertaining than Chris" ad since then we got Daniel Larson and more! Stay Tuned!