Naturally Lynn Lol, she was sleeping with a man who was with his bm and she had a bf he found out she left him. & side dude bm bust in one day and caught them.
^No. She left her man to be with someone she thought was worth it. Also a BM isn't a relationship lmao. You literally will always be BM and BD to someone you had a kid with, sounding stupid with that... She did fuck up though being in a relationship and doing that, both were messy but the point is she thought the guy was worth the risk/chance. But he was just using her instead. So she lost in all regards. So she's an asshole for cheating but the guy's an asshole for leading her to believe leaving her man would mean they'd be properly together.
She's so raw with her lyrics. Ppl actually overlook the part about her cheating as well. She said she didn't want to hurt bf but she thought it was worth it, just to find out it wasn't. Cheated with someone who took advantage of her who also cheated on her. Love me some Jhene her story telling is impeccable
i overlooked that bar..... when she said cheated with someone who took advantage I thought she meant the current bf was the one she cheated with then got in a relationship with and she didnt mean to hurt her ex.... interpretation is a helluva thing huh
You know Sean actually mentioned that too in his feature with queen naija in they hate our love. 👀 This song was definitely about Sean because he said he was there when her brother was dying
After hearing this song for YEARS this is what I got: Verse 1: She's yelling at herself at all her ex's that used her for their needs. She was cheated on and it hurt her to the point where she went to another guy. Verse 2: The new guy and her were really vibing and the sex was amazing. She was enjoying everything until " 'Quis" (I'm guessing Marquis from verse 1) found out. She left Quis for him and the new guy's baby mama caught them together. She was devastated to know that he was cheating on her too. Verse 3: Jhene reveals to us she was in a dark place and deeply sad because her brother was dying. She thought the new guy was her comfort and showed her vulnerability only for him to do the same thing everyone did to her. I'm pretty sure Marquis was cheating on her and she cheated back for revenge, but ended up falling in love with the wrong person.
This is one of those song that I would be chilling with a glass of wine in hand while tears trickle down my cheeks exiting my beautiful left and right eyes. Thinking of all the fuk up mistakes I've made allowing punk ass men in my life. After the tears have dried I would be back to my normal happy self.
Ended up in a toxic relationship around the time my brother was killed, 3.15.14, 10 years ago tomorrow. This song always helps me get my anger out about that whole period of time when it haunts me. Thank you Jhene.
Best advice is that noone can take the piss out of u if u dont let them, listen to ur brain instead of ur heart, stop letting a feeling u feel for someone to be more important than how u feel towards urself
looking at the comments 😯 this song displays after effects of Narcissistic abuse . Remember who you were before they tainted your esteem . You are worthy and deserving of a happy , beautiful life baby .😘
2 abusive relationships, toxic as poison. Suicidal was the end result. But then i found my worth in Jesus christ. Hes the one and only man who will remain faithful, even in death.
Been there. Never thought I’d end up dealing with a narcissist. Long story short they are toxic and will put you down and bring you back up just to do it all over again with no remorse or regrets. He saw every flaw he had in himself in me because of his own insecurities and guilt. And that was a part of the cycle. It went from perfect to bad to worst without anything happening. And to top it all off I lost our son at a week old due to his “bad habits “🤷🏾♀️, while for all of six years I was dating him while he was single and chasing everybody else....no matter how much you think someone is there for you always ❤️ yourself first and harder. Everybody isn’t worth it....
When she says "Cause my brother was dying, and you gave me a shoulder to cry on" WOOH I FALL APART. Imagine singing about losing a loved one, going through it is already enough. I commend her for that.
Revisiting this song after so many years… but really just an observation. I’m glad she called out some of the questions like “why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn’t” “if this is not love than please tell me what was it” at the end of the day, the amount of love that you have for that person pour it into yourself. A unhealed/broken man, even sometimes lacking self awareness, will look for comfort and bury their hurt feelings into women when those unsuspecting women think it’s actually love. Guard your heart and your love ladies! Because that deep hurt, sorry will never be enough because it’s as though they stole a piece of you and threw it into the ocean when it doesn’t work out. Be open to pure love but only after you know and love yourself, and can trust what a man is offering you is intentional and fulfilling.
Seeing her cry in the car is a different kind of pain you think u can never over come but I’m here to let u know that it gets better it always hurts when you deeply love someone & u won’t forget fast or easy but I promise it gets better with time 💜 self love is the best love
This song hit different when you did your real soul mate dirty and she warned about the ones who was never gonna have genuine love for you like she did and always will
Lyrics One, two, one two Thought I told you not to trust these hoes Say they love you, when you know they don't Say they will, but shit, you know they won't Yeah, you hear me, you don't feel me, though And you are not the only one You are not the only one You are not the only one You are not the only one Okay, fuck it It was Dominik, David, Braden All of them did the same to you Marquis and Sean and Brian All of them had they way with you Ever so often you get lost and miss out on everything Shout-out to Krissy That's my bitch 'cause she tells me everything And I was not the only one I was not the only one to you So I was the only lonely one Really, we had the perfect end That night we shared at the Comfort Inn We made love like the world would have ended If either of us had admitted We were in love But I was the only one So I was the only lonely one And I should've never took you on a boat for your birthday And I should've never fucked you on a boat on your birthday And I never would've came into your house in the first place If I would've known that you would hurt me like in the worst way 'Cause that night turned into every weekend and Every weekend turned to every evening You took me out and left me in the deep end then Quis found out and then I had to leave him 'Cause I couldn't be the one to hurt him Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it But really we should've just ended it That day I was at your crib when Your baby mama just burst in, damn I was weak then and you knew it I was so weak then and you proved it 'Cause my brother was dying And you gave me a shoulder to cry on It was nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing If it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing, it's nothing Then why'd you Then why'd you call it love? Oh oh And I was not only one who was hurting And you were not the only one with the burdens But if we're nothing, we're nothing, we're nothing, we're nothing, We're nothing, we're nothing Why would you call this love when you knew that it wasn't? Why would you call it love when you knew that it wasn't? If this was not love then please tell me what was it If this was not love then please tell me what was it 'Cause when I met you at my favorite store And I saw you working at the door Traduire en français
Dear heartbroken people...nothing in this world is forever , not even life here on earth...Its ok to feel pain but you have to know everything is a beginning to an end..my boyfriend left me and I grieved for about two weeks and I was back living my life because I know heartbreak is apart of life experiences. I know it won't be the first or last heartbreak in my life..I am ready for the next one..People leave us through life or through death..its envitable...Nobody or nothing is forever..Even the seasons leave before another comes back the next year...you will find a new season a new 💘 love...
Very beautiful message. I was touched when reading this and I needed to read that for sure I really believe your comment was meant for me. Thank you for sharing such wise words. Very well said. God bless you!
I once loved a man soo much that I was fixing him, while he was breaking me. Why would you call it love when you know that it wasn’t, this words helped me moved on
I remember listening to this almost every single day during my last year of high school. I was so young and heartbroken lol to this day it still slaps ❤
The worst feeling is when someone you love so much, someone you thought was the right one..tells you they don't love you and never did😔💯. This is why I don't date anymore, I'm not getting my heart broke by some dumb ass nigga.
Sometimes you gotta avoid a whole entire artist because you don't want to hear your life in a song. A very painful memory. A nightmare. Cruel. Mine as well gave me an empty box. Now you opened Pandora's box
I love the part when the beat changes / "I was weak then and you knew it .. I was so weak then and you proved it ....... " THEN THE BEAT CHANGE AND IT REALLY STARTS TO HIT
Amennn !! God bless you all don't forget to read your word today and represent Christ in all you do and say , walk by faith and not by sight ! Please always remember to SPEAK GODLY (not cursing) things that will benefit you spiritually ! 🤍💗😊
She's telling a story! That's what she does with her music! You need to listen to ALL her music and then judge. Or at least listen to more than just this song! Her albums always tell a story
Such an honest song. You never hear of a woman admitting to cheating. She had someone who loved her. She became interested in someone else. Turns out that relationship was not meant to be. Her dude found out so she had to leave him. In the end she was going through a lot. Making unwise decisions coping with losing a brother.
spoo man people interpret it in a personal way. I love her as an artist so I always listen to her lyrics. Without honesty and good lyricism a song is pointless.
Casey Walker ‘Cause that night turned into every weekend and Every weekend turned to every evening You took me out and left me in the deep end then Quis found out and then I had to leave him 'Cause I couldn’t be the one to hurt him Plus I thought you were the one so it was worth it I had to listen again too! Never picked up on that. Love when a person is lyrical like this
I’m crying🥲🥹her voice is so sincere🥲🥹 and so touching🥲🥹. As a woman I feel her pain🥲🥹. She sung this song so beautifully🥲🥹 and so touching🥲🥹. She sung the soul🥲🥹outta this song. She touched me to the core of my heart♥️ with this song. I wish I can meet her and hug😢❤her. And tell her I’m here🥲❤️ for you sis. ❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹😫😫😫😫😫🥲🥲🥲🥲🥹🥹🥹😘😘😘♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I've never been cheated on, but if a guy ever cheated on me and I found out, forget burning clothes and Jordan's, I'm spreading rumors! From that point on, his ass has HIV. And he'll be guilty until proven otherwise.
It's crazy how most of the guys commenting on this video, only seems to notice her burning up the shit SHE probably BOUGHT HIS BROKE ASS, n completely missing the point of the song/video.... HE CHEATED ON A WOMAN THAT PRETTY, HE DESERVES HIS SHIT TO BE BURNT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't cheat, once I fukk another nigga its already a wrap for the now "EX BF"..... I don't fukk multiple people at one time Kids do that! N my BD cut up a bunch of my clothes before, but material things come n go, bet u I have a much better wardrobe now.... lol..... When I wrote this comment though, I was going thru a cheating incident with my BF n a co worker, all I did was cut up n pour cooking grease n bleach on the mattress I bought, so he n the next hoe don't enjoy the fruits of my labor, ya know!
You missed the point of the song. She cheated on her BF to be with him. And she was mad cause he never stopped stroking his BM. That's what happens when you play that game. The video didn't fit the song. SN: If that was my stuff, I'm coming back 10 times worse.
Lol..... Basically can we all admit that when angry, the possibilities of doing something outta rage, can occur? He started as her friend while being with another guy, he comforted her during the time her brother was battling brain cancer, so in a weakened state, people do things they may later regret, but instead of continuing to hurt the other guy, she left him, feeling as though the friend was worth it, but later found that he was still meeting on the side with his bench players, lol..... It happens in life..... Ya'll been through it before....
to all the girls watching this, dont feel encouraged to burn or damage a man's belongings, you're probably not as pretty as Jhene, so he'll have no problem fucking you up, and he has good reason.
It would just be fukkin stupid lmao... All a smart guy would do is take yo ass to court and force you to pay for it all... Gawd forbid the guy was the soruce of income... Now you broke, paying shit tons of $$$ for damages, AND yo income gone
found out after 20 years of being loyal he cheated and lied for years. It destroyed my heart my trust my soul. It was the worse feeling I've ever felt. He broke me but it made me stronger and wiser And that broke him at the end seeing me soaring like a Phoenix from the crumbles he left behind.
@@DavidGarcia-xu2ki Haha, for this post I meant.. It’s been a long time since we shot that. Almost forgot about it. And… we snapped on it, as in… did a lot with very little. Did a good job. Exceeded expectations.
Luba Makwelo "Pose to Be" has a great dance beat, a subject matter of degrading women, lyrics loved by many of today's young people and the collaboration of 3 (make that 2) of today's hottest artists each with their own very large fan base. I would not be surprised if the song won an award next year.
I'm a MAN n I rocc wit dis shit heavy....U never know the pain u cause your significant other....when a woman loves she loves with everything she has.... they try to fully blend there life into yours....took me a long time to "fully" understand this n I'm still learning......Their God's greatest gift.....fellas treat your queens right
Damn, this is classic timeless music. I don't think this song will ever get old. The lyrics are beautiful, the meaning is therapeutic, the beat is amazing. The perfect musical "EARGASIM". PERFECTLY POETIC!!!!
