You are 💯! Marc should have never left his then wife, for JLo. She used him to get over Ben. I Believe she rather would have had Kids w/ Ben!! My heart goes out to her Children and Marc’s Then wife- who he left JLO for.. She was devastated!! Heartbreaking 💔
@@rainbowskies5796 i think blacklisting him is going too far... he's not the settle down kind of person and i think thats what ruined him... ben's not the kind of man that can be a good husband, father, as well as deal with his inner demons effectively. When it comes to Jlo, i think her selfish, diva nature triggers some of his more unfavorable characteristics.
@@user-uk8qm6jd4o They were still together and she was pregnant when he left her. She said she was “devastated”. It’s one thing to have an affair and walk away from a marriage. It’s something entirely different to walk out on your pregnant wife.
Ben Affleck did some wild things years ago. That was before the Internet took off. The rag mags were much more truthful during those times. Ben was no slowpoke. He must have had confidence with women.
You marry a guy who hasn't conquered his addiction while being yourself a narcissist, of course it wasn't gonna work out. Garner was painted as jealous and tryna steal him by the media. If she goes back to him she's just as delusional as Lopez. She might also just be helping him because he's the father of her kids.
Get the hell out of here, I don’t care if Garner is the mother of his kids, she is really doing too much, going over Ben’s house without the kids, meddling all up in their business. I know damn well you ladies would have a problem with your man’s ex going over to his house alone on numerous occasions. And it ain’t got nothing to do with jealousy. Is just plain out right about respect! She knows what she’s doing, and so does Ben. 🙄
@@Isaidit129Don't be so worried and upset about it. Jlo did thos to others so if it's all coming back to her, this is nothing compared. If it's true she's trying to get A Rod back and he's in a relationship... go tell your girl jlo that worse is coming for going after taken men
"I always say, 'When his sun shines on you, you feel it.' But when the sun is shining elsewhere, it's cold. He can cast quite a shadow." - Jennifer Garner Seems like J. Lo is experiencing this up close and personal. A second time.
If we exhausted of her, I can only imagine what he is feeling. You can't make nobody want u. It was the greatest love story that NEVER should've been told...
It’s not rocket science, it’s sexism & racism. Ben Affleck is difficult AND an alcoholic AND a gambling addict AND cheated on his first wife with the nanny.
This is marriage # 4 or 5 for her.She have 1 pregnancy and 2 kids out of it.Maybe engaged a million times.Sweetheart it is def looking like you are the problem.Sit down for a second and learn how to keep yourself company.I say, just hang it up with fairytale ending.Start learning to love yourself and stop looking for validation from a man.Your kids are too old at this point for you to be running around looking for a man.Focus on your kids Kim Kardashian's eldest sister.
So because she was responsible and doesn’t have multiple baby daddy’s she’s the problem? Now I’ve heard it all. You do realize she was married to their father for 10 years, right? You know, maybe she just ends relationships when they don’t work out, unlike most people who rather stay in a miserable situation “ for the kids”. 🙄
WHY would JLo be helping Diddy unless he's blackmailing her to hide something? She could have MORE to do with the shooting or other business dealings with Diddy than we know.
Two over rated narcissistic actors, with tons of baggage, thinking getting married would be a good thing. NOT... Their union was doomed from the beginning. JLo needed a man to complete her and Ben was looking for a sugar momma. It looked to me a marriage of convenience. And it didnt take long for their marriage to explode magnificently.😮
Well if she wants to expose his secrets she needs to know that sword cuts both ways. Ben is definitely a POS but I’m so sick of people thinking it’s always the man whenever her relationships don’t go right. I just feel like she’s a super difficult person. I clocked JLo’s game years ago and been giving her the side eye.
She has secrets right there was a Dominican model that was fierce competition with her and she basically played as if she was a mentor in this and that and instead said that grow up to be brutally, SSA by several men in trafficking and now she’s strung out on drugs people see her here and there and Washington Heights roaming around New York City and they think she’s crazy but these people are not crazy everything is coming to light
@@user-uk8qm6jd4o she wasn’t alone…plenty of other Latinas she was being shady towards to get to where she is now. Not to mention stealing music intended for others. I’m not denying she hasn’t had it bad in the industry, but she definitely wasn’t alone. 😂
@@user-uk8qm6jd4o I admire her hustle and enjoy her work, particularly on the movie side BUT thru the years, her actions over and over make me give her side eye.
Why would JLo hook up with a cheater? Why would Ben hook up with a woman who loves celebrity and he loves his privacy? There was lust between them but lust doesn’t keep a relationship going.
I bet Ben was going to those Diddler parties with Matt Damon, Leonardo DiCaprio and the rest of the A-Listers. Ben friends want him to ditch JLo so they can have leas light shed on them when all the indictments start. It might be scrubbed from the internet now but I do rwcall Puff buying both J-Lo and Ben matching Bentleys back in the day... Why for??? Were they all dating, just saying.
Yes that’s when Ben started eying Jennifer at the Diddy parties and started taking an interest her. Ben and his brother Casey have their own pasts. Harvey Weinstein?
Ben is a ouchebag 🥃 he's still drinking. He's about to spiral & take JLo, Jen & the kids with him. His mum will clean it up. Jen will be with someone by her birthday.
@@patriciabouchard5296 While Jlo was in Italy, he was barreling down the driveway, got out of the car a yelled at the paps. It was when he was moving out. He had a few drinks, facts.
He had stop drinking only smoke cigarettes Stress pushed him. He treated her kids as his own just like his children. He is not perfect what man you know is perfect we tolerate certain things. Likes and dislikes and love each other respectfully. Wish the best to both find peace
She’s behaving like a crazy lady. Who put out and shared private letters. She did!! Ben has his shortcomings, but she knew them going into the marriage. She’s too occupied going to the gym, “working harder” than everyone else.
Ohhh! It all makes sense now! Poor fragile Ben has his sensitive, insecure ego bruised when he learned she was friendly & helping Diddy. He is so immature & miserable to go around talking *ish about her. It makes me sick how Ben was not even willing to work on his marriage.
Never force a man into a relationship especially marriage it will never last natural love between the two persons and makes it worst a repeated onesided love .let J lo takes a break from the affair and relax with her two children and stop giving them problems with different faces moving from west coast to East coast with the disruptive life of the children. Let Ben go on with the life he choosed and turn your page J.Lo.
Let go and Let God. This man just wanted an excuse to leave. He just wants to drink. Period. He will always choose alcohol. Let J Garner give up her life to save him. Don’t look like she’s tired either. It’s time to walk away. This too shall pass. He knew what came with JLo lifestyle.
As a Leo, 1000% agree. Its not like other signs. One has to love being submissive at all times, and usually neither want to completely submit all the time.
Both had serious problems and besides not being meant to be, getting together piled up problems over their already problems and both messed up. The problem is not wanting to see it and instead of letting go trying to force something that isn't. You have to be very crazy to want to doom yourself that way and then try to say it's the other person's fault when in reality it's both. It's better to say "I made a mistake and I was warned by my friends and fans, sorry" than to keep pride and say I tried to work things out knowing well it wouldn't ever but trying to make yourself look like the one who tried but he didn't... that's the stupidity she comes out with and always trying to day they're cheaters
Exactly!💯 She truly believed him, and he played her once again. He is probably saying, " I tried! I really tried" No he didn't! He went after her, got what he wanted, and then he was done. She just fell for it. First time shame on them, second time shame on you.
Ben, had a lot of rules for JLo. She made a mistake by not having at least Marc Anthony at her side ( for her kids ). Leaving a cheater unfortunately, she needed space from him ( ARod ). She could have sent them a simple quick note ( Keep your grades up. I am here for you. ) once a month.
Ben has always been portrayed as a literal Butthead on South Park along with his parents. Why? His 20 year flailing career? His continuing substance abuse? His perpetual resting long face? His lack of emotional, professional & relational integrity? His reliance on an expensive PR team to minimize, infantilize & and deflect from any of his missteps? (a la Justin Timberlake) Well, take your pick. Any Jennifer or otherwise named hopeful, would be well advised to admire or co parent from afar.
The wife is always at fault, especially if the man has an addiction. People said the same about his other Jennifer. Angelina is to blame for Brad. Amber for Johnny. Men bare none of the blame and get all of the empathy
It's because women seem almost programmed to put up with bad behaviors in men and think it is normal and good. Men will always be "over" women, and women are always "pining" after men, catering to their needs.
Tisa, please explain love bombing in one of your videos so your followers will understand how Ben played her AND Jen Garner, and probably the nanny too. I don’t care for JLo’s narcissism or exploitation of black women’s voices. (I’m a black womsn.) However, I think some of the sexism and unstated but implied racism in the comments are going too far. We need to be able to critique Jlo’s narcissism without being so horribly sexist.
JLO, Ben is not the right person for you he is just playing game with you and using you. Get rid of him you will be much happier his been in rehab back and forth. Don't give him a single penny.
Ben cheated on JG? He’s No Angel ???? Everyone forgets what he did TO HIS WIFE Jennifer Garner that all of you say he Loved her so much more than Jlo ????
That's how it happens sometimes in relationships where when the promises to change one's way and the crying and begging doesn't work, THAT'S when the anger comes out and the threats begin. If there's truth to this, Jlo will go there 'cause her ego can't take it, she's not used to being dumped, and she refuses to look like the bad guy by herself, so Ben better look out and get ready 'cause her vindictiveness is coming for him. However, if he's that kind of person, too, then she better be on the lookout as well 'cause it goes both ways. This may get nasty!
Ive said FROM THE JUMP she went after him because hes weak and she thought she can control him. Hes an addict and shes a control freak. Control freaks cant control strong minded people. Ben caved in thinking she can help him. I think hes broke too. She wanted him for her image to still be sexy since she cant be alone . Jlo isnt in love with love . Shes in love with the idea of power couple in marriage.
And let’s not forget he cheated on Jennifer Lopez with Jennifer Gardner I could always see through him she probably just wanted to make it work for her children!
If Ben got back with her to enhance his failing career the thing with diddy could have triggered his detaching from JLo. If he loved her this should not have made him leave.
I think he got back with her to try to make it up to her for breaking her heart and hoped she could help him stay sober. He knew she’d been carrying a torch for him all those years. I think his intentions were good but he couldn’t cut it. The paparazzi were 10 times worse than before. Again he looks like a fool.
Jlo has her issues but no one wants to deal with his Issues ??? I blame her she picked him ??? We sometimes as Women Need to be Held Accountable for OUR Choices????
Y would Ben need to use her for her celebrity ism. He's already got it AND he doesn't even like to be in the spotlight. not even for his own film success. Thought?
Hey, Tisa!🔍 The sooner JLo realizes she's the problem and deals with it, the happier she'll be. Did she forget about TikTokkers who hate her? Also media hosts who can't stand her? Lest we forget ALL the fans who she turned away with her attitude? As long as JLo treats people like mess, she will be branded difficult. In or out of her marriage💔
I ask myself that all time. Like how do you even know this, and it’s said so matter of fact it helps to feel like it’s real, who knows I take it with a grain of salt
Is he "tryin" to make her look bad? Because rumours existed about her "off" moments. No-one's PERFECT. They COULD HAVE Both tried to be better People and work Charities together and BOTH come up ON TOP. But he JUMPED SHIP. WHY? LEAVING Her High and DRY, but ALSO, in saying that He was crazy for MARRYING Her.... implies that She's even crazier than his alleged "temporary insanity" because She must be Someone whom EVEN He CAN'T Work-It-Out WITH....--And he's a REASONABLE an EASY-GOING FELLA, right?! That's a MESSED UP IMPLICATION for him to make. DANG!
Both of them are Leo's. It gonna be hard for them to get along in a harmonious way and yes she is full of drama. Ben ain't innocent hun he is a leo male. LOl!
Tisa you are so Right about Ben ???? Jlo needs to Held Accountable she Picked 7:20 the Loser Ben??? Let the Loser Go ??? Bye Ben that’s what I say ???? Bye??????????
I think these two are both sex and love addicts, but I do think she was willing to work things out and he wasn’t having it. On her part she was going on tour and Ben most likely didn’t like the idea. They should have had a long engagement just to make sure this would work out.
I don’t know why Jlo made him so Big ??? He’s not all that ? They keep saying he got all these awards that was a 100 years ago ??? He’s not a Good Actor ??? I don’t care for him ? To me he’s Racist????
She never should have went back to him. I get that sometimes we want to prove the world wrong and have our happy ending with the person they said it would never work with. But he talked soooo bad about her after the 1st time.
Tisa, I thinkbyoubtruly come off On Ben Affleck. But JLo has really messed up a lot of people are lr lives. Becsusebin my opinion dhr always had allegedly had Pid diddy in her back pocket. J-Lo wants to act as if she is On top of her games. J-Lo own children said that they no longer want to be with. For how she had been treated.
JHo is a narcissist! Ben should have never married her. JHo, need to take a year off from dating and focus on her children and get to know herself. She's too thirsty!! She's really pathetic!! Poor kinds
So sad, she went right back to someone who is alcoholic and so broken. She thought she was beautiful enough to fix him, but he's not happy. She could have worked things out with A - Rod, but she claimed Ben Affleck is the true love of her life. They are not good for each other. They both need to drop the Hollywood lifestyles, and both of them separately seek SALVATION ON JESUS CHRIST.
HE NEVER WANTED TO SERIOUSLY MARRY HER HE WAS BACKING OUT OF IT, THEN HERE COMES THIS JUSTICE OF THE PIECE WEDDING, THAT WAS TO RUSH HIS TAIL TO THE ALTER . HASTE MAKES WASTE
