Juliette Ross opens up about Tim overcoming his addiction, her 'jealousy', and more 

Preach

Exactly

Same. This is REAL marriage ministry

It’s not right but it’s excitement he is missing. He may just miss you talking to him like that or miss something else. Just my thoughts though.

You’re not dumb for wanting your marriage to work. You’re not an idiot for staying in hopes that things would change for the better. We can’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to do. If the heart is sick, out of it will flow deeds to perpetuate sickness. And that’s not your fault. I’m so sorry this happened to you. I know it goes against everything you dreamed of for your life. In our weakest points is the perfect time for God to show us just how strong He really is. Take your burdens to Him and read His word, allow Him to reintroduce you to who you are in Him. Oh and never feel bad for demanding more/what you deserve ❤

I pray the LORD redeems your heart mind soul and SIGHT. I pray the LORD who is a rock and DEUTERONOMY says there is NO ROCK LIKE OUR ROCK I pray by the same blood that Jesus shed on Calvary I pray that HE BE YOUR PORTION AND BE YOUR BREAD AS A FULFILLMENT OF HIS COVENANT AND HIS PROMISE TO ABRAHAM AND YOU I PRAY THE LORD KEEPS YOU IN THE COVERING OF HIS PRESENCE. HE PROMISED NEVER TO LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU. 1 Corinthians 13, Isaiah 43:18-19. IN JESUS NAME OF NAZARETH THE SON OF THE TRUE LIVING GOD, THE SON OF DAVID MAY HAVE SHINE GRACE, MERCY, LOVE, and FAVOR IN YOUR LIGHT JOSIE HERNANDEZ IN THE NAME OF YESHUA THE MESSIAH I PRAY. AMEN. No weapon fashioned against you shall prosper. You’re safe now.

@@widdd_Thank you so much truly for this. I feel very seen. Reading this made me cry. It’s so hard to navigate through this and I’m really trying to form the habit of leaning on God and turning to Him first.

@@tariqcollins2609Thank you so much for your powerful prayer over me and for praying scripture over me. I cried reading this prayer. I’m going to go back to these bereaved and pray them over myself and daughters as well. Thank you!

@@josiehernandez8943 for now we see dimly but then face to face, we know in part, we prophesy in part, but when (His) perfect comes the partial and imperfect shall pass away and we shall known just as we are fully known (by Him). He sees you. ““You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule. “You’re blessed when you feel you’ve lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:3-4‬ ‭MSG‬‬

Amen brother 🙏🏾🙏🏾. This reminded me of Mark 6:4.

For a man to say this... This shows growth. First of all I am proud of you for putting God first. Don't worry brother just keep shining for God... You don't need to defend your character God will be your vindicator. Paul did many things but he lived a changed, transformed life. Let your light 🔆 shine.

Yeah man. I've heard that this disconnect is called the Paradox of Change. You are a different person, yet people still see you as who you used to be and how you used to act. It takes some time for people to realize that you're different, better, and have grown. Remember to maintain the growth for you. Some of the greatest people that we look up to and admire had to go blaze a path by themselves...and THEN have people fall in line/start to believe in them. I'm not just speaking to you. I'm also speaking to my own journey, so understand that this message is personal. Hope the best for you.

Thank y'all for the encouraging messages. It really is helpful and greatly appreciated my brothas and sistas 🙏🏽💯

😂😂😂 yes

I came here to say the same 😂

So true now that you mention it! lol!

I heard the exact same thing lol Blown away by how identical their voices are 😳

I was listening and started looking for this comment. LOL

This was a delicious description 😂 so accurate!

Me too.

GOOD FOR YOU!

not even remotley the same. They are married and you're talking about a BF. Also, in general people speak in generalites. It's very rare that any message will be exactly like what you experienced, you have to be able to understand the concept that's being shared.

@@jcfisher4988exactly

@jcfisher4988 - yes! I agreed to the concept. But disagreed to the factual foundation. It was actually a fiancé and not a BF. And if you're married or not. People bring habitual behaviors into a marriage. So I took notice to the red flag. In a different view...some people pacify insecurities that need to be dealt with, with their therapist. But YES! I do agree with the content! - thank you for sharing you POV. 💯

I think the inherent difference in your situation, and what’s being presented is they both were aware of their weaknesses, and we’re working together to solve the issue. It’s clear that your fiancé has some unresolved trauma that manifested in insecurities, that neither one of you address maybe you yourself are unaware of what was driving it, and he was unwilling to look at it head on. Glad you were able to step away because it’s supposed to be to hold people coming together for a union. It’s too much work trying to parent /heal I a significant other.

I get it. When a person has trust issues, it is usually from some trauma they experienced and they never healed. It’s very tiring. 😢

it feels that way for everyone who is hiding something - someone labeling you doesn’t make it truth ❤

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Yup

If it doesn’t sit right with you then it’s not right for you. The fact that he tries to justify after you brought it up 3 times means it’s not something he wants to change. If this is not something that you want to live with forever you may have to leave him. It doesn’t seem like he is motivated to change despite knowing that it hurts you.

Your gut already told you! Stop denying your intuition and you won’t need to be asking strangers about your life. Good luck.

Ruuuuunnnn...and don't look back 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

Leave. You are 100% and be is not. There are billions of people on this planet. LEAVE.

Hey before I even say anything I’m just letting you know to read at your own risk As someone who is trying to do the deep work and permanently walk out of a porn addiction. I don’t think myself or any other men that I’ve talked to, look up a picture of a naked woman without intent of looking at her in “that” way. He most definitely is looking at those women in that way because if he wasn’t, there wouldn’t be a need to look in the first place. And yes he might have “ curiosities”but that doesn’t mean every curiosity is good in nature. Biggest advice I can give to your boyfriend, is he has to ask himself what he wants for himself in the future. And he has to understand that even though pornography might feel satisfying in the moment, it will only lead him to lose his sense of loyalty. Because I doubt every time he looks at a pornographic image that it’s the same women. If he can’t even be loyal to a picture in no way is he gonna be loyal to a women. My other suggestion to him would be he has to learn how to be honest about his wants and needs even if expressing those might hurt you he still needs to express how he’s feeling. I wanna say to you ma’am, you’re doing an amazing job and I’m proud of you. You’re very kindhearted to continue to support thus far. But I think you need to make a decision, if I knew your boyfriend I probably could give a better assessment but if he is saying he’s trying to get better but is taking no action to better himself. Then I’d suggest leaving that relationship, not for his sake but for yours. Words are empty, actions are full. When a person says they’re gonna better themselves don’t listen to their words, watch their actions. You need to be honest with what you want and who you want as a partner. But if he is actually taking action in healing himself and fixing his addiction then I’d suggest staying in the relationship and continue to support him. But like I said be honest with yourself and with what you want in a relationship/partner and no matter what happens whether you decide stay or not. I’d hate for this situation to make your heart bitter I’m gonna pray for you and your boyfriend rn. I believe God will guide you to make the right decision. I’m proud of you for even speaking up, that takes a lot of effort.