It never occurred to me there would be calles DURING a hurricane. Since her service was out, I assume that would include the landline, so she's wasting her cell phone battery when it's very likely she'll lose power as well.
That sounds like a good reason to keep her on the line and put up with her as long as possible, but you can lose internet while still having phone services during a hurricane.
22 is really too young to give up on a career goal for a girl/boyfriend. She's already shown she'll change her goals on a dime, so there's no telling what she'll want to do in a couple years. Also, starting a business is expensive. Most fail and those that succeed take years before the owners can even pay themselves a salary, so you'd be headed for financial hardship in the short term, at least.
Also, if she changes her mind about careers that fast, I bet she'd change her mind on her relationship easily as well & he needs to think about that too if he's thinking of giving up on his dreams for said girl.
Story 2: It is not difficult to figure out. The OP should focus on his career. Get on your grind, and focus on your purpose. If she can't support you, then find someone who will. OP needs to establish himself first, not to cater to her wants and whims.
Story 1: No one should have to risk their lives so that Karen can let the tech entertain her children during a hurricane. If that's typical behavior, the ISP would be better off ditching her as a customer.
Story 5: A classic case of a woman having an argument in her head with her significant other, getting mad at something "he" says in by her own thoughts, then slapping the guy as some sort of punishment. Probably the same type of woman that would slap you for something you did in one of HER dreams. Time to kick her to the curb.
Funny story, one night I was almost asleep when my wife came in and jumped in bed. Didn't think anything of it and was again starting to nod off when I felt a slap across my face. I was a little shocked (my wife and I didnt have any arguments lately or really got so mad at each other that would escalate to that response) but ignored it and tried to go back to sleep. After awhile I felt another harder slap on my face! I then sat up and asked why the heck she was slapping me? She then told me I was snoring in my sleep and that she always does that to make me stop😂. She doesn't do that anymore but at the time it was shocking and hilarious to me that she did that.
This is hilarious cause I used to work for an ISP doing the exact same job as the first OP. In fact I'm 90% sure I know which ISP. I've had to deal with those exact same customers.
Nah. That guy seems to have a serious addiction. Sure, the gf definetely has to compromise that he sometimes also wants some time for himself, if she can't handle that then he should break up with her. But he still definetely step away from gaming for some time, since his self control seems very pathetic right now.
The girlfriend slapping the guy while he's sleeping reminds me of a story where a woman shoots her husband in the middle of a game where he was blindfolded and she was pretending she had accidentally hurt him with something else and was trying to stall for time waiting for him to die and not calling 911. If I were him, I'd run. I mean, it's unlikely for things to get to that point, but I wouldn't take any chances
My advice to guys out there always choose the career never choose the woman. With a career you'll be set up for your future which is better than wasting your life for someone who will probably just either cheat or leave you anyways.
the fact that internet is even a thought DURING a hurricane is just so suprising like PRIORITIES you can think about it AFTER the hurricane but DURING IT? like come on people arent gonna fix something during a hurricane idk if this is quite how it works but the fact they wanted to fix it when a hurricane started it and the hurricane is still happening? whats stopping it from happening again
I gotta give the op ispn the first story some praise cause they are hella patient, I’ve were dealing with that kind of entitlement during a situation like that I would absolutely snap right away, and it’s not a temper that’s doing it, it’s me being absolutely serious and not dealing with that crap for about 15 minutes
Story 1. If it were me, I think I'd say we can't fix it now and hang up. How stupid is it possible to be? No normal person demands that someone come out and fix something during a hurricane
AITJ: You should check out the video of the Burger King on fire, with the Karen asking the workers to go inside the burning building to get her refund lol
Well, dang, what did kids DO during hurricanes before Internet??? Don't they have toys? Barbies? Action figures? Dress-up clothes? Coloring? Legos? For Pete's sake, I didn't start using Internet for entertainment purposes until I was 18!
For the second story, just give it a bit more time as you can bet she will change her life goals again before too long. If this doesn’t happen you need to stand up for yourself and state what you want in life.
Story 2: Sounds like the girlfriend lives on a whim. First it’s Europe, then it’s a small town. I think you should pursue your career as you put in your time to get where you are. There’s a lot of time for relationships. Enjoy your 20’s.
Lmao @ story 1. I haven't finished it but when I was a kid, I'd make sure my DS was charged before a big storm, since I didn't care about the internet side of the games I played. Karen just needs to plan better.
I have been in these things (Hurricanes) FIVE times. They are NOT a joke at all. When they tell you to get the h*ll, YOU GOT THE H*LL OUT. You also prepare for these things beforehand. Been there, done that.
Sadly I say dump her. She's not even willing to compromise after you already changed your whole life goals for her already. Clearly she has her only plans now and its not worth it. I also say dump the insecure girl. You have some experience now and now you can go find someone that will actually listen to you. Having to constantly reassure someone sounds exhausting.
In story one if I was a internet technician AINT NO WAY UN HELL IM DRIVING MY FAT ASSS is driving a truck and dragging my tool bags into a truck and come back squeaky wet I’ll tell that lady listen here all of our techs are at home tryna not DIE
First story... Dear Karen we wouldn't even send someone out to fix service at the Whitehouse during a hurricane. 🌀 Why would we come fix your service until the hurricane passes? 🤷♀️🤦♀️
The game really isn't the issue. Uninstalling it doesn't change that the relationship isn't the guy's priority. Also, it sounds more like he's trying to alleviate his own guilt and get her to forgive him rather than get that he puts himself ahead of the relationship.
@@bluedragonfox its honestly focus time. YEAH! its his gf, and she probably want attention too. BUT heaven forbids to one time had a lot of crap throw at you to just forget about something too. Honestly i happen to me as well and is frustrating because you can't focus on everything unless the other person poke me again.
*Story 2:* The OP made a major concession to facilitate the move to Europe, the girlfriend did none so far and expects him to do more. She also refuses to compromise on any of her plans, that is not a healthy relationship. He should end the relationship, first because there is no mutual respect and secondly because spending most of your waking hours in a job you care nothing about, with the person that forced you into it, will cause stress and burnout.
I remember during a hurricane my father ran outside in the storm mind you just to "save his dumb truck" because in his mind a tree was about to fall on it I heard my mother mumble "dumbass" and she shook her head slowly in disappointment when my father came back my mother said what is more important your life or the damn vehicle my father choose to save the truck 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄😐😒
This lady is totally loopy if she thinks somebody is going to go out in the middle of a hurricane to fix something that could easily be fixed as soon as this storm is over I bet you she wouldn't go out in that storm if she was a service provider
So if I was the internet fixer I would be like bro you think I would be fixing your internet in a deadly hurricane and risking my life to fix your Internet I would never do that I would wait until that hurricane passes by and then your internet will be fixed and that's the end🤷
Story at 06 mins, Your career should be your top priority. please plan your life and don't live for any other persons dreams what if you loose that person forever due to any reason, you will have nothing in your life anymore left. so live for your goals!
It shows to me that she doesn't want to compromise in any way I've been no-brainer unless you're willing to give up your dreams you need to end this relationship
Story 2. Drop the girl man. In your early twenties you need to focus on getting yourself established. A good job and being as financially stable as you possibly can be. Giving up your dream at 22 years old for a girl that you've only been with for 2 years would be the worst mistake of your entire life. And if she really wants you to give up your dream just for her shows that she's never really considered your feelings. And just wants what she wants and that is extremely selfish and shows a lot of entitlement. Dump the girl. Down-the-line you'll find somebody.
Story 2 Dude should leave her now. She obviously has zero consideration for him. Not only is she asking him to give up his career and move to a small town but she never even so much as discussed it before arbitrarily changing the plan they'd both agreed on. That's a huge red flag. The second giant red flag is she isn't interested in compromise. He already brought up his incredibly valid concerns and she blew them off saying he should just work for her. I would say it might be a hard truth but she's not that into him. She's probably just there still because it's convenient. The smart move is to say hey we are not on the same page and it's been a great two years but I am not giving up my plans for the future and you aren't willing to even compromise yours so it's best we part as friends and just cheer each other on.
That slap would be dealbreaker for me, she wants to slap this guy but dont want consequences, so when she figures out how to do that while he is awake she will go for it. I dont know if i would confront her about it, but for sure i would leave.
Hhahaha, in the first story, the guy works in comcast, describes the system perfectly, and i know it cause i've worked there, and yes, those stories do happen
OPs gf sounds flighty and like she just makes life plans willy nilly. You cant just spend your life following her around and not having a career and life yourself. It not like her business is a passion of yours as well. Also, you already revamped your plans to move to Europe. You can't do this every couple years.
Oh my god that first story had a moment that reminded me of my first encounter with a karen at work. I work at a restaurant as a host, and it was kind of a busy day. Our girl who was bagging to-go orders was new as well so that didn't help our situation. Well, this lady came in to pick up her online order, and she left right after that. Seemed like a nice lady but hoo boy was I wrong with that assumption. She called in and I gave the signature customer service greeting line and she tells me she got an order of Cajun chicken that she didn't order, as well as not receiving her burger. Now I was going to have the kitchen remake her food no questions asked. But I wanted to make sure that she wasn't given a different order entirely. We use stickers to put the ticket with the name on the bag, and I wanted to be sure that the tickets weren't put on the wrong bag. So, I grabbed a dry erase marker and asked her to go over what was in her bag and would take notes on the counter. She said, "well that doesn't matter now does it?" So I calmly explain why I asked and once again asked if she could tell me what was in her bag. It wouldn't take a genius to figure out why I was asking and why is it so hard to just answer? So she kept saying that she got the chicken and not her burger and wouldn't tell me what else she had. I even told her I was going to have her food remade, I just needed to make sure I didn't need anything else from a different order to also be remade. So, she again, repeats what she's been saying but also says, "I don't know how many more times I have to say it!" and kind of laughed about it. At this point I was very annoyed, and that comment made me really mad since I was just trying to do my job. So, I replied, "Ma'am there's no need to get disrespectful." Yeah, she didn't like that. She tried to defend herself and then said, "You know what? I want to talk to a manager and get a refund instead of coming to get my food." Thank god. I didn't want to keep dealing with her. So I went and got my manager, told her the story, and she told me to get her name and tell her we'll refund it. Great. So, I went back up front and took her off hold and told her our manage would get her name and we'd refund it. She went silent for a minute and went, "I think you need more training in customer service. I've worked in it before, and your priority should be the person on call." So I again explained why I was asking and she kept repeating the same thing. In my defense, we actually did have an order of cajun chicken on another online order, so I was worried they got her burger and not their chicken. Then she proceeded to say, "I get you're worried about her and wanting to make sure she's okay, but her needs are not my problem." Excuse me? Isn't me being worried about customers EXACTLY what good customer service should be? So she goes into this long rant about how she thinks she saw this person walk out with her burger. 1. People can order the same thing. 2. They are in white togo bags and boxes that aren't see through. So unless she's superwoman she didn't see jack shiz. So at that point I'd had enough and said, "Our manager will refund your order bye!" and hung up. She then kept calling back and we kept hanging up. So to make sure our manager wouldn't get angry, I went and explained what happened and she said the next time she called she would take it. And take it she did. She was on the phone with her for a good ten minutes and apparently from what I heard walked out of the office and said "mother trucker." Glad to know it wasn't just me. And for context, I've been working there for over a year now and haven't had a single complaint on my service. I always have a smile on and all my coworkers like me. Even my managers. From what I'm told they brag about me and they don't even check my outs when I close anymore. Even our general manager doesn't. I'm also autistic. So for me all of that feedback means a lot since I'm socially awkward naturally. So it's just funny to me how I've been told I'm the nicest person in the place, and this lady tried to tell me to work on my customer service. But yeah. That's my story. And the lady saying the hurricane wasn't her problem is what reminded me of this whole situation.
Last story: op should get rid of him as fast as possible or she herself might end up in lifelong circle of debt. That is really scary story. I have a friend who is still paying dept even after 20 years that he didn't make, it can ruin a persons whole life.
Opinion only: A HURRICANE IS DANGEROUS SO EXPECT INTERNET AND COMMUNICATION SERVICE INTERRUPTION ON THE AREAS AFFECTED BY THE HURRICANE and the karen doesnt understand it so i want to stay during the story no. 1 those words that i typed in all caps and also EXPECT THAT THOSE SERVICES WOULD BE FIXED AFTER THE HURRICANE NOT DURING THE HURRICANE
my internet was down for week and i called customer care everyday and i got same respond everytime that they will send engineer tomorrow ...so i finally decided to go to their office and then got fixed ...These people never works and just want money
For that third story, original poster, bros before hoes, don't let your significant others stop you from what you love to do. You uninstalled a game that you like and played with your homies because you forgot to send a reply and she got mad. Had you explain the situation and she still try to gaslight you, that's when you should have broken up with her I'm not saying that she was all I'm saying if she did. Honestly you guys are weak and pathetic, grow a spine tell her you're sorry and if she gets mad and defensive about it then say bet this relationship is done. Don't deal with b*******. Also men treat women like the last thing that's important to you. Your family, your dog, and your best friends or friends come before them, be on your grind above All Else.
wow! that sounds like "i'm sexist without telling you I'm sexist" i agree if the gf was toxic and demand to much attention. What i agee is the gf blew it out of proportion on a distant relationship too. People has life outside there, and as much as i agree she was for him and he should be for her as well, for one time crap get thrown an OP she should understand as well.
"How out of touch with reality do you have to be to allow that to be your reaction when you don't get your way?" Oh, you have NO idea! In fact, it's reasons like this why I made a list(which I'll explain in a post later), because not even doing something dangerous themselves, like crashing into a trashcan gate/speakerbox at the drive thru(one example, it actually happened) is any way shape or form important, let alone as much as their precious order.
Story 3: Obviously, there is a problem with gaming, but the GF needs to realize that OP has a life outside of his relationship with her. So he forgot to send a reply cuz he got flash banged by the game and then helping family. So what? Sure, she has a right to be a little upset, but not to the point where OP feels like his whole world is caving in. Bros before hoes, OP.
Story at 15 mins your GF physically assaulting you, if anything more serious happens in future she might even harm you very seriously. Do not be present in a relationship which you do not have a guarantee of being physically safe!
