Good to see a new video from you 🖤 I do think that femininity is a complicated topic, we still "enjoy" the oppression that any interest, hobby, whatever genredized to be "feminine" is automatically somehow gets degraded. In the 2000s era feminine women were mocked and for tearing women down the "not like the other girls" appeared more stronger than ever. Dividing women by social acceptance is a cruel weapon (by calling out classical feminine traits) aganist us, but if we form up, there would be less people who'd try to harass/bully/catcall us in publoc spaces. As a goth woman I had to press off my feminine side, because I was harassed so many times- other women1s victim blaming didn't really help. Even today when I walk with my partner people are tend to do some stupid stuff to me less, than seeing a woman walking alone, even with girlfriends we seem threatening enough so we can dress up more feminine 😂😂
objectification... erm so my other tabs, then, is that bad? I absolutely struggle with when to do it and when not to. Actually, it seems like when I don't I wish I did, and when I do I wish I didn't. Also, longer-term relationships have a very different dynamic in that department. Unfortunately.
It does work that way in relationships as well you focus on being seen as a person as a personality instead of something to lust for it also builds a very long lasting relationship because they end up dating you not because of their lust but because they genuinely see you as a best friend for life :D
@@avampirechick740 ^sounds good. I keep thinking about objectification, and how bodies are indeed objects. I'm guessing what you mean is based on an experience of a kind of pressure in your life, unwanted attention,, like from 'mashers' or worse, not strangers but persons you know in a distinctly non-romantic context. And then gradually, maybe, it seems like from absolutely everywhere. Okay so we reject it, or suppose we reject it. But its not enough to simply pass on beauty. We already know that some people do it for us, and some do not. It would be impossible to love what one finds unattractive. But what we find attractive, we do so for surprisingly mysterious reasons. After a while we may also notice that, for any gender, the power of your other half in any relationship comes from how he or she makes you look to other people. More exactly: how one *thinks* it makes you look to other people (so: your idea of what other peoples idea is; what you think they think). This logic kinda creeps in, insidious and deadening to the sensual and intimate reasoning. But to me, this is very much what I know as objectification. So is a government's treatment of prisoners or criminals and a sanitariums' treatment of the institutionalized or a psychiatrists freedom with mandatory anti-psychotic injections, to name a few cases from the top of my head. Any way one can escape the terrible, simple, unavoidable logic of ownership and transaction, in the sphere of romance at least, I want to find. But it keeps finding its way back in... okay that's enough Nice show for sure. You seem to have an instinct for stage craft.
Name me one right that men have that you don't. Also, if you and your boyfriend are attacked, you won't expect him to defend you, right? After all, you're equal. And I can't believe you brought up the "pay gap". That's been debunked a trillion times.
Theyre taken way more seriously in medical fields. A lot of times women will be denied medication or surgeries simply because of a "what if" baby they dont plan on having and they end up having to suffer their whole lives. For men they actually get taken seriously
@@avampirechick740 Lol a "what if" baby? There's this thing called a pregnancy test. And they end up "suffering their whole lives"? So even when they're in their 50's and 60's, they're denied pain medicine because they might be pregnant? Or I think you may also be talking about when doctors refuse to tie women's tubes because they're too young. They did that to my sister. She wanted her tubes tied after her first child. The doctor refused because she was only 22 at the time. She argued and argued with the doctor, who was also a female. 4 years later she was in a different relationship and had a baby that she loves. She's extremely thankful that the doctor refused.
