KAWIRA JOY - I REGRET KUOLEWA NIKIWA BIKIRA 

Maintaining purity before and in marriage is a godly principle that no matter what comes of the marriage, yiu shouldn't regret honouring God. And that's not the cause of the breakup actually.

Ubikira ni agano ya msichana na Mungu wake,kama ulijilinda utukufu kwa Mungu.wewe ni wa maana sana kwake.

One of the biggest red flags you are in a relationship with a narcissist is that you have never had this many 'misunderstandings' with anyone else in your life!

This interviews scares me about marriage ..waah but still there are still remnants of good people

Kawira in unpacking her pain in small bits & pieces, let’s give her time ataitoa Ukweli wote. Time is a healer

Kawira went through what I went through God 😢 tutapona tu

Psychological torture is the worst. Kawira God will see you through

I believe if you choose to be a virgin as a lady,do it for yourself not for a man's loyalty....do it because of your divinity with Christ not for a man to acknowledge you

Salvation is still important. Messes don't validate evil, it doesn't make sin turn to righteousness.

Don't regret getting married a virgin, you did a good job... keeping your body as the temple of the lord as a girl to woman was the best thing, kindly mummy remember the enemy fights God's people especially those who have identified themselves with Christ, those are storms of life, Jesus is still good and He still have good plans for you and your children, don't get tired he will make a way.

Mine ended after 18 years 😮kawira u did well.ur story is exactly mine but the difference is I have over stayed.

Kawira I would applaud you for being courageous, many are suffering out there in the name of what will people say, and especially the church, nevertheless, never ever regret being holy and obeying God. The fact that you kept yourself holy, please don't regret it, there's a heavenly reward. May God continue to heal your heart.

Kawira still I watch you on vionja mahakamani. So you just work hard for the future of your children.For me am with God trusting in him with hope and faith since I separated from the marriage, I thank God coz I hv peace of mind.

Verbally abuse is the worst thing that can kill you before someone kills you physically,Good Kawira you walked out.

Don't ever regret about virginity Kawira,you respected God with your body and that's enough. it's not your fault you were treated bad

Kawira worry not don't regret mungu you na wewe.

Big up 👏👏to supportive parents❤. It means a lot.

Kawira I know you before since the time of Papa shirandura.Marriage is good but if it comes to fight or quarrelsome and luck of respect??? Early is the best to move!!! Some of men are 😈 and they just hide in church but the actions are bitter.. May God bless the single parents forever.

I salute kawira, sometimes we need to stand up for our rights.

Pole joy I didn't knew this😢,I usually watch Yu vioja mahakamani

That was me 2019 being married to my self it's better single than being married to my self

Unless you have there, you'll never understand that some of these things can't be put in words. And apparently most narcissists have a sweet tongue.

Kawira anaprotect huyo jamaa. Mashoga saa hii wanakubalika Kenya. Ndio ilikuwa ya kuficha white.

Kawira I feel u.the narcissist will make u doubt ur own reality.u cannot pin point ur issues.

Mtu hajakua na such a jerk haezi elewa. Its so hard to explain exactly what happenned but you know where and how it hit you. Nakuelewa Kawira.

Yaani ndoa ziliisha kenya 🙄🤔I thought I was worse to have left with in less 90days yawa am happy n willing wish to get another cos nothing swt like marriage with real loving person 😊

One of the red flag of a person with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder is their unsuccessful past relationships. If your partner talk bad about their ex, called them crazy, playing victim to get sympathy, and sounds like everything is their ex's fault that's why their relationship didn't work out, then that's a sure sign. If you are in a relationship with a Narcissist, you will lost people in your life. It will affect your friends, family and love ones. Remember that narcissist, don't love you for who you are. They love you for what you can do for them, for what you can give them. They love your status, your popularity, your lifestyle, your money. Narcissists will only keep you and love you as long as you are beneficial to them. Once their need of you is done and you are no use to them, they will find ways to get rid of you just like what they did to their exes

My time is coming soon and very soon.... Regrets😥...I support ongea uskike....

Huyo ni jini makata kazi yake ni kuaribu ndoa za watu, continue praying my dear sister, ndoa ita itakuwa poa, sheitani, uja kwa, kuaribu, kuuwa

I have realized that the person you loved most,,, the person you love most with all your heart will hurt you alot.

I was married for 19 years now am single with my kids and am happy

Some people face alot in life but they stand firm ...strong woman indeed may God bless you

Through experience,I believe you

She seems to be filled with vengeance....love of a father to his kids is unconditional and most ladies come to realize this when its too late

Dealing with narcissistic relationships can be quite an emotional load. Time heals

This has been hurt deeply,she needs psychological counseling seriously.its deep.

I wish you healing kawira..you are still hurting inside,may God give you strength to love again and to bring up those kids .. Please don't give up on your faith

Chaste life is a command from God. How can you regret obeying God? Concealing so much.. Speak it out girl that you may help others!

Kawira may the Almighty God heal you and always protect you and your children

We went through all that no happiness but he provides everything.It was toxic marriage.

Kwa kifupi saidi karambu umejitoa kwa ujinga na ukumbavu mapema sana, kuna wengi sana wamefumilia hizo vitu kwasababu ya uoga ta aina mingi, mungu akusaindie sana kwasababu musichana kama wewe wa kuolewa akiqa sealed pia huwa changa moto zake katika ndoa

Being a single married i can imagine that situation

Joy you are a Pretty woman. Beautiful soul.There's still someone out there for you gorgeous.

Kawira pia Mimi nkona twins wako four years nilitoka kwangu wakiwa two years story yako na yangu n the same mambo ya ndoa n ngumu sana ,Tukona twins boy and girl wako four years tulitoka Kwa ndoa wakiwa two years labda niitwe interview pia Mimi niseme yangu

I undersyand her very well coz i too went through a lot but i kept quiet thinking things would change.

Both should ask God to change them. Humble and admit their weaknesses to God. God is able to restore their marriage.

In marriage if you wait for someone to change it will cost you later.

This lady needs to heal before appearing for interviews coz bado ako na machungu sana in her words. Second, as she has said their marriage failure was the fault of both of them, sometimes we should stop blaming the church yet we have as well seen good marriages from the church. Sometimes we make our own mistakes and lay the consequences of our actions on the church. The church is a group of humans not Gods. Humans whose thoughts are limited. Firsts it's like aliolewa juu ya 'ulimi' ya huyu mwanaume, she didn't consider other factors. Pastors are not God, they are humans , thats why ladies should stop looking for good husbands in pastors. Not everyone in the church makes a good husband. See a husband for a husband not a pastor for a husband.

The things I hear every day scare me.. I love marriage but wuueee

Do you regret being saved as in being pure as the lord commands.

Pole dear

Wow! wow! wow! "Arûme tî banyakwe" my mum once told me😏

Kawira pia wewe husemi ukienda,utaundwa.He is human

Kawera I feel u.i got married to a man serving in church who was toxic but extremely trusted by the servants of God,bishop and the rest.he was 2 faced.up to today I don't know how I survived it all and left while still sane.bottom line no one believes me cz he is the holy one.

I lived 2 yrs na nersccist wueh!! Nikajiambia wacha nijipende ..red flag 🚩 5 niligiff up ...imagine going to a live band in a club ..I.node my head to my rhumba music niliwekwa Kofi ati najipendekeza kwa Hao wakongo wanione 😆wacha nicheke sahi juu hakuna Ile haichekwi, I moved out n nikapumua

True pastors really act holy but their spouses go through hell they know the devil

Mtu akiamua kuja out na afunguke aseme kilichotokea wazi ili watu waweze kurelate na wasaidike...sasa kusema ni mambo siwezi sema iyo ni nini surely...half truths doesn't make sense

Imagine hii story ya kawira nikama yangu tu😢😢I feel for you girl.hata mmi ilibidi nijitoe nipate peace of mind 😢

I wish I could find a chance to talk to you kawira,am really in a hard situation,,and am confused what to do

Lakini I thank God Kawira ni Dem anajua kujitafutia.

Be open kawira

Exactly what I felt with my Ex and he was an Orphan too.

I would love to work In radio jambo

Uweeeee.....it ain't easy kwanza hii kujificha in the name of public figure ndo inakill watu psychologically n n even leading to suicidal depression

Similar story to me😭 But nivile ni opposite direction

The mistake that she made was to not date and experience being in relationships before getting married (you can date/be in a relationship without having sex)

Kawira you leave and you are not saying where you are going,you said in interview ushindwi,is better you step out instead of arguing with a man .may God give you grace

I salute you kawira

She was in a toxic marriage with a narcisist - chances are he has threatened her , there is abit of fear in her voice - May she find peace

Aki hatumpati meru country

It's true , ata mimi nilikuwa na mtu kama huyo ulimi tamu akikosa makosa inaningeukia mimi

To have stayed for those years with a absent husband,,she rely, suffered,,morever marriage is a nice thing thou no one is perfect,,u realize the importance of it when kids grow to adulthood n u become old or one of u dies becoming a widow or widower,,those small thing u ignore can be very vital to sustain any union. It's ok if it happy gal.

Some people here are commenting badly you need to know kama mtu ana acha ndoa yake si mjinga kuna sababu inamfanya atoke kwa ndoa,siku ile utapatana na mambo ndiyo utaelewa.

I relate

1. There is a difference bewteen a saved person and a discipled person. One is only saved and the other is discipled. 2. Virginity is never purity so more than being a virgin is paramount. 3. Ministry is done under mentorship. It can be an idol and a stumbling block to your personal devotion with Christ. Kawira was not enlightened before and sadly she is blaming 'other' things and people. I just hope she is still a believer despite stepping back from ministry. She needs to be wise in choosing her words. She may not still get it being a child of God. Lord have mercy.

Pole kawira

Life is hard 😪 single for life

Headline lazima ingekuwa hiyo ndo muweze kuongea vibaya,,,,,kawiraaaa thankyou for healing,,,haters and deputy Jesuses shauri yenu

Kawii pole mwaari ona kumaka muno

But surely you are digging what is not meant for you, and you can do nothing even if you are told exactly what transpired 😢

Don't regret getting married virgin,it's one way of respecting yourself. Okey i got married when i was virgin and my husband keep on telling me, "by marrying you when you are virgin won't be a reason of not leaving you" so some times you can cleave to a marriage which can never work.

Nipitieni guys

Mine too was a pastor.

To understand this lady, there is more than you see and hear, !!!

Pole

Truth

Am single and i want to get married....then these stories 😢😢

Seems she is telling us small truth

Joy kawira, the problem with ladies is that that look for things which appear good, good sweet words, good show off, excellent language, perfect satisfying sex, material gifts like money, cars etc. Men do not learn these things from starehe boys nor Mangu high school. It's all through experience and ability. They've tried it on a chain of girlfriends and found them working. While you think you've gotten the best, that woman who picks "reject" ndio kweli amepata. Secondly, the mentality of women waiting to be put in a box attracts the folly tricky men with experience. You'll hear good words but that language is adapted from the chain of women he has met. Unafikiria ni wewe tu kumbe iko one million ahead of you. Sasa hata akikutesa, hana hisia kwa sababu ako na many

😢soo bitter

Zinaitwa Ati marriage Circle.

I left my marriage of 12 years I was single in marriage

I want to hear the side of pastor Ephantas that's all

Why I didn't see this video before?? Your story is the same as mine. Kupelekea virginity mtu kama huyo is just like putting sugar in flowing water. Yes I know.

I get what Kawira is saying.Leaving was the best decision she made.

You have nothing to regret coz being married a virgin. Ulifanya sawaaaa. Ubikira uhifadhiwe ni vyema. May be God wanted to teach you something.

My views,,, masawe ungefanyia the husband interview ndo tujue vile kawira'sresponse 1st...anyway. Pole Kwa yaliyo kupata

Tunajuaje hizo ni zako

I love the clues😂😂😂😂😂😂

men make sure wamewin yr heart later they use u n cme out with true colour