Let's be frank with one another. No woman leaves her marriage without a reason. When you hurt a woman and you don't value her. She will just shut but one day she will walk out of that toxic marriage. Men just treat your ladies well and marriages will be sweet.
Not nowadays. Ladies of these days wako Na kiburi Sana. Especially if earning more than you. Some of them even her own family will tell you how Narcissistic they are. Mental illnesses.
Did Kawira gave reason why she left??all her interview she is like oooh it was not meant to work,I have watched 4 of her interview Na hasemi specific reason mbona alitoka... when you involve your mother in your marriage or relative it will go bad...let her keep quiet...All the best Ephantus.
Exactly how narcissists behave when they loses their preys ...Kawira you are strong you lived with this pride and manipulation for 6 good years ....go go girl , do not look back
even though woman walk out wakifika mwisho this guy care for his kids n i like that he is ready for responsibilities for kids and co-parenting.most men dont support their kids when marriage fail.big up to this dad👍
You can’t tell us you’re wife just woke up and left her marriage with kids, you had to sleep and even not reach out to her the ego in you is way too much… I respect women who know their worth.
Kawira if this was the kind of pride you took for all the yrs you were married then then you are strong.go girl don't look back.sisi wameru tukichoka tumechoka
I love this guy the way he's talking and answering questions. He's not pining anyone. No matter the issue it's good to sit down and talk. I know how it feels for you not seeing your kids. Even though she wanted a breakup angem innvolve for the sake of the kids. She acted like the kids were only hers. 😢😢 i wonder how she didn't care when he said he's dying 😢
Manipulative how,how many time has he been calling her..how heartless us this Kawira,you see someone dying and just bluetick😢 😢afterall Ni Watoto wake...
Wow wow i like this guy how he's talking jamani he's not blaming his wife instead anasema yy anawork akue better for future ,congratulations i like how he's thinking ❤.
Narcissist wako na ulimi tamu. There is no way u abuse someone physically and emotionally then useme hujui alienda kwa nini. Kwani yeye ni mwenda wazimu. So called 'Pastor'
Have never seen a woman walking out of their marriage due to too much love. There was a problem that needs to be addressed by both the exes before they get into new relationships.
Ata siwezi maliza kuwatch😢😢.... I don't know the two individuals,but huu msee story yake ni ya jaba😢😢.....A pure narcissist 😢😢😢.... No woman in her right mind will leave her marriage 😮😮😮😮.....Am happy Kawira left 😊😊...
I don't believe a single word from this man's mouth. He has not taken any specific responsibility on his part, he speaks so many words trying to convince us and himself of the 'truth'. Kawira, kaa huko uliko...God will fight for you.
A narcissist will always be a narcissist... there is no pure truth in his words ..ego and pride in him is so much...danganyweni kabisaa while we all know he is the bad guy
Alafu ati alipiga picha picha akiwa Kwa ambulance na under oxygen alafu ati walipofika ICU zilikuwa zimejaa kwani mtu anapelekwa ICU Huwa anajifahamu???alot of questions
@@teclawanjiru7211 my worry too in abundance they always make calls in advance to know hospital they are taking patient if they have facility they need
@@maurinesiele4634si umejaribu kudrfend this man,,uko on every comment defending him,,mtafute umfungulie roho badala ya ku.attack wenye hawabuy hii story😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I heard stories za hii gaidi back home 🏡 he can Never be a husband to anyone not even to my anemies 😢for Kawira keep winning girl this was a wrong choice sweetie
Narc abuse you privately and act saint out here .be cautious the reason they act good out here is because when you come out to speak no one will believe you ..I have been in one relationship with a narc .let me tell you maina 😢 hell !! Hell of life with this type of creature
Huyu jamaa ako na chembe chembe za narcist and maybe he is,Narcist usually look innocent before people but deep down they are vampires.Haimaanishi mtu akiwa wa church hawezi kuwa narcist its only the blood of Jesus that saves
I was married for 11 years and now am out! I can clearly see what this lady was handling for six years. Those who have been with a narcissist will get what is going on even before you pass the intro to this story. Congrats gal for getting out. May God bless you and your kids as you move on from this pride, pretence and toxicity.
Im a woman but I bilieve men too have a right of reply. We have sons, brothers, nephews , uncles and male friends we love and wouldn't like them to be judged unfairly so lets not pretend. This guy may have had erred but also it is common knowledge most pipo will take advantage of orphans for example why would you let your mother stay with you in your marital home?? Both probably contributed , so dont judge the man only!
May God heal marriages.These marriages need God completely but the Trendz is scarily across the world .learn from your mistakes forgive yourself and move past the pain and loss .you are not the first nor will be the last .may God heal both you and your x . thanks for sharing
Elphantus Waah 😢kiburi yako iko juu,you don't even sound like a pastor you are too much carnality. There is no way that a woman can just walk away from her Husband/Home!!!! Yaani ulikuwa naenda gym na vile your wife kawira akitoka kwako alikuwa amekonda??? Something is wrong then pia kuona hayuko you didn't call her😢. You can't call your wife together with your kids until you're advised by your friend.😢😢
Women r petty and selfish and I don't know why...so akitoka alikuwa ana expect apigiwe surely..she is a grown up and she has made her decision to leave so let it be so...ata mimi ningekuwa yeye singempigia..wanawake ni maubwa sana
but sometimes the relatives destroy marriages. Marriage should be between the two. family support them and let them visit once not coming to stay with you. You won't understand until you wear the same shoes...@@rachaelw580
Why didn't he call her that night....my friend you knew what you did before leaving that morning...the picture you paint of how you behaved the day she left tells it all....interview za huyu dame hakuwahi kuongelelea infact she avoided talking ill of you
Thankyou for asking hio question ya chaod support coz the woman when she was asked pale 'reke ciume na ene' show, she said she isnt willing to answer ndio the man aonekane mbaya through out. wemen can be very dangerously self righteous 🤔
There are enough issues here that give us signs as to how they needed up here! Both of them are victims 1. The pregnancy they lost 2. The child they lost in triplet preg 3. Normal Post paturm depression koz of small baby (now twins) 4. Staying in hospital for months after the delivery that came in just 6 months 5. Mother in law living with them Too much loss and pain in a span of short time. Without counselling CAN definately finish a marriage
@Kenya-fh9kp I couldn't agree more. Because the two parties seems like very good people and they genuinely loved each other. May God heal their wounds and help them raise their kids atleast co parent if getting back together is not possible.
He is definitely lying. If things happened normally like he is saying when he left for work, how comes he arrives home to an empty house and never calls? Marriage Counsellors always cheat with the clients.
People who have narcissistic personality whether man or woman , always play victim, blame game so as to paint the other person ( partner) in bad light ,and are ego centred
Women love marriage so much l don't believe a woman can just walk out for no good reason. The many things women persevere wachaneni na Kawira, don't judge her!
I appreciate the fact that he is healed, taken responsibility and is working at taking lessons to do better. That to me is maturity. May God guide you two, and fir the sake of children,kindly Kawera do not deny those children their father.
Pray for this marriage, the devil is at work, tka thambiu Kwa mathabau ya mungu na uombe ukikemea all divorce spirits, shetani atakurudisha nyuma Sana kuanzia another family and that's his happiness, fast and pray genuinely to God and request God to return what the devil stole from you people, it will be my happiness to hear you are back to marriage as husband and wife. I attended your wedding coz I work in KEFRI and live there, my so who J's twelve years now and by then he was three years is always happy to see the pictures we were taken with you people, I really strained to get a chance to have a photo with you, I loved you people from the beginning to and I pray God to restore your marriage, GOD IS ABLE.
Hope they consuder counseling also as it makes people understand things about themselves that are hidden. Watched both videos, Kawira's too and it breaks my heart to see how the enemy fights the marriage institution. With better understanding of self and the other person this marriage can be salvaged. But mostly with prayers as the LORD is the one who starred the marriage institution and HE flights for it. If only we would go before HIM in genuine prayer.
I think I once watched kawiras interview and I never saw anywhere she discussed about his husband, she said they were not made for each other and things were not working,
But ulikuwa na madharau na kiburi , I remember nikitoka off ulikuwa unaniambia nisipite karibu na ww juu na Nuka nkt , you were the problem for those months I worked for you
Why does this guy think that talking much and using many words will fool anybody? He had a wonderful partner and he messed up. Swallow that and move on bro. Wacha kujaribu kutuonyesha u r good......in your heart u know you are a toxic individual and the only person you are capable of loving is yourself. Just my two cents. 😢
May you find happiness again😊,and this time not the 'mother of your children' but your WIFE❤ No one has the right to judge.Our stories don't define us!
I once met the guy before he got married,he was a motivational speaker in hiighschool,saved,such a humbled guy who was looking forward to get married.May you find your perfect match Ephantus.
Uuuuwi ati saved and humble 😂😂😂. Ruuuuun so fast. Those are character traits of a narcissist. They pretend to be so good to outsiders but ni mashaito Kwa familia especially to the wives. These are two people who have shared a blanket, they are the one's who know what the truth is.
Kwa oxygen ,uchukue video ,unatoa nguvu wapi😂😂😂, Kawira never talked il of you, sge just said you were not ment for each other, tena alikua amekonda sana
Safri records ni wale walifanyia Jowie his first song after prison... Euphantus was my school mate but 3 years ahead of me he was a prefect he's been a leader since way back...pole sana watched his story somewhee and was shocked ati depression led him to alcohol 🤦🏿♀️ sikuamini alikua ameokoka mbaya kuna watu huezi expect wakifanya vitu zingine ogopa depression but am happy he overcame everything.
I pray that God will keep comforting you and bless you. Hold on to the word of God.. najua that God will touch the heart of kawira according to the will of God May you both Heal and May God intervene
People don't understand depression, it's the worst disease but people mistake it with pretends......may we become our brothers keeper no matter the mistakes
You are not you are still sick 🤢 and heart broken,,💔 everyone can see through your words,, let them be walikua wako ukashindwa kuwachunga , a good man will ,or they will be fine with their mom
Why are people crufying this man?😢i feel bad for him #always stop judging people based on one side,Divine healing to you Ephantus ..To presenter Ali congratulations for good job ❤😊
Move on. Starting dating, find out a good partner. Don't mind about that family. Ngonjea u get married and prosper in life. Utapelekwa kwa FINDA NA COURT njuu ya child support.
