you're really missing the point... men started saying they were the prize the day women lost all sense of reality... always asking for more but mostly giving nothing... pretending to be the prize is simply a way of turning platitudes on you... but it seems that many of you don't have the faculties to understand this... it must be said that with an oversized ego it's easy to lie to yourself... and continuing in this direction only makes the answer worse... today MEN ARE NOT OBSESSED WITH WOMEN ANYMORE... it's as simple as that...
This is MOST ethnic women’s mindset. It’s common everywhere except in the western and many European countries. I’ve never fit in the western society because even though I’ve been raised here my actual ethnic culture is the complete opposite. I’m kind of glad ppl are adapting these cultural practices because I was always the “odd” one because my beliefs didn’t match my peers who were mostly white/european .
Hey Shera, I'm in Zimbabwe. I started listening to you a month ago and levelling up. Everything you say is true. I been turning heads lately. Exes are coming back and paying damages 😂😂😂 yes a compensation, but still ain't getting none cause I'm getting me PROVIDERS 😊
Ladies Shera is right, ya’ll need to shut up and let the guy say more. Tried it and the guy keeps saying you are so mysterious. I also answer with “maybe” “will see” “time will tell” “you have to prove it to me”… they can’t stop chasing mystery.
Hey ladies! Just learned a new trick with asking for money, tell potential that you will figure it out (bills, car problem, etc) and will just get a payday loan..a provider will definitely not let you do that!🚫
Wow. You are so brainwashed that you have lost your integrity. Imagine having to play tricks just to get some money out of a man, when there are men who will give you some just for keeping it real. This is what yall fail to understand. You probably think you’re a catch too.
Hey guys, so a guy called me spoilt for having standards so I said to them exactly what Shera said in her other videos: " Yes I know only certain types of men meet those standards so if you're not one of them, please excuse yourself" then he got mad triggered and said "Certain types of men ? Um excuse me but just who do u think you are 😂, you get what you're given." I said "You're excused, now go about your day😘" then walked off. Do you think that was a great response or I should've said smth else?
@@amanahbrookins5487thank you. I got scared. I have a history of not standing up to men and just letting them rule me . I am ending my pickme era, improving myself watching Shera
@@BLESSEDME222like she said find one with ED or thats too old && shakes too much to do anything. Sprinkle Sprinkle! Never do something you dont wana do
@@j-tenn226 Become super boring, only say 1 or 2 words as a response and eventually stop responding to them. I always felt too guilty to stop responding when I was younger but it would've saved me so much drama and stress from these kind of self-absorbed people
🎉✨ Go head Ms. Shera Ma'am with the Yale ethics course!🥰 It's absolutely all about PURPOSE. I tend to say vocation... Its within an amazing alignment to YOU unlike a job a degree or even a career, those are not the same as knowledge of self resonating Okurrrx!
“Just remember this phrase, if this comes out of your mouth you might be a pickmesha: but I like him, but he is so cute, but I really want him 🤣🤣🤣🤣 If he ain’t chasing he can’t have it - Shera ❤ This should be your next book or slogan Shera! Hope you trademarked this too 🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️sprinkle sprinkle✨✨✨
work on your looks, dress in a feminine way with light colors. work on your posture and pay attention to your body language; is it closed and intimidating or light and confident? notice if you have a resting b*tch face; if so, try to have a lighter facial expression. if you feel that a man wants to approach you, gently indicate that it's okay if he does; look at each other and give a subtle smile. it's all about self-awareness
My babydaddy wants to tie me down but he need to pay more! Yes he pays all my bills but i need more extra spending money & a new car! If he doesn't do it ill be getting me a couple that will 😂
Shera I’ve been wearing makeup and dressing up daily now for years!! I can’t go a day without. On those days I’m running late and don’t wear makeup I just feel like the ugliest thing! Can you help me? It’s like I don’t wanna be around ppl/ not confident without my makeup?😭
Take care of your skin regularly, go to spa, get massages and body scrubs, facials etc so that you don’t need things like heavy makeup on ur lazy days. Invest in individual lashes every 2 weeks so it looks like u already have on mascara. etc etc. that way you will look pretty naturally. Get ur eyebrows shaped regularly shave ya mustache etc etc.
try new hobbies, whatever you’re interested in. and you can talk about that. men like when you have things you’re passionate about. also, don’t always be available.
I met a girl in my beautysalon, she was going from time to time to other city’s doing staycation and met an billionair…. But it was a Lot of work… always traveling. But of it works, its worth it. I rather stay in between 1 hour
She says these tips apply to married women as well….however You can also search “shera seven marriage/married women” and RU-vid will give you her marriage content.
Does anyone have the time stamp for when she answered that question about "men keep staring at me all the time but never pay for me, I smile but nothing happen"?
