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Kerry Cronin - Hanging Out and Hooking Up 

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Many observers find the prevalence of hook-up culture on college campuses to be a signal of the last gasps of traditional courtship and dating. Still others view that conclusion as the “moral panic” of the old and unhip. But what happens when a group of 15 college students find themselves with the unusual assignment of going on a date-no hooking up, no hanging out, no opting out-and reporting back about the strategy, the fear, “the rules,” the ask, the drama, and the A-frame hugs? In this discussion, let’s consider what has really been lost and found in the “case of the lost social script” of college dating.
Kerry Cronin earned her B.A. and M.A. in Philosophy from Boston College and is presently a doctoral candidate in the Lynch School of Education at Boston College, working in the area of moral reasoning research. She is the Associate Director of the Lonergan Institute at Boston College and the Faculty Fellow in BC’s Center for Student Formation. Fore the past 17 years, she has taught in Boston College’s interdisciplinary Perspectives Program (offering courses in the “Great Books” tradition). Additionally, she works extensively with undergraduates in retreat programs and is a regular speaker on college campuses, addressing topics of student culture and formation.

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@ivan_says_hi
@ivan_says_hi Год назад
This lady has so much charisma it's unbelievable!
@1.618Golden
@1.618Golden 2 года назад
Seems like these 'strong independent women' are not independent thinkers if they are forming their opinions based on their closest 100 friends. You can't have it both ways.
@mica4977
@mica4977 Год назад
Very enjoyable speech in both content spoken & the way she presented herself. Was lighthearted with an important topic that we should be discussing more.
@elizabethjennings667
@elizabethjennings667 4 года назад
If I'd had Kerry Cronin for a professor as an undergrad, I know I would be married today. Instead I'm 30 and just beginning to truly navigate this area of my life with understanding of the broken culture wars and how to find and create love in the rubble. Thank you Kerry; I believe it's never too late for "the dating assignment."
@outerspace6448
@outerspace6448 2 года назад
Amen
@davidsumner7604
@davidsumner7604 2 года назад
It's been two years. How you doing now?
@jarodbryant9411
@jarodbryant9411 4 года назад
Great video, Kerry knows the nature of the culture and can explain it well.
@MakhaBluWakpa-m5j
@MakhaBluWakpa-m5j 4 часа назад
@56:30 the sisterhood will sabotage dating advancements. “You deserve better” is the mantra. See “The Husband Store” on floor 6.
@Rbreaux87
@Rbreaux87 6 лет назад
this is a great talk ..
@markusschmitt8013
@markusschmitt8013 2 года назад
+1
@caribaez5711
@caribaez5711 4 года назад
I want a romantic relationship where we would put Christ in the center of the relationship. Something like a Marian consecration relationship. 🙏💗🤍
@tracyavent-costanza346
@tracyavent-costanza346 6 лет назад
i do feel inclined to comment about one thing: the comment/quote by Cronin in reference to (Pope) Francis, pertaining to the "most frightening thing"... for me it goes like this: I cannot KNOW that no one could ever affect me, since I have not "met everyone already". Rather the only way that a human could have such an arguably frightening experience of this ilk, would be either in the present or in retrospect. That is, either to become aware of "not being moved" during an immediate situation or reflect that some past situation which had the POTENTIAL to "Move me" did not. I am inclined to disagree with two aspects of the mostly-hypothetical assertion. First, I do not think it is the most frightening thing I can imagine, but I would agree that "lack of feeling" would be grounds for concern about mental health of self. I have to assert however that such sensations are in perspective of prior experiences. That is, were I summarily INCAPABLE of such feelings (over my entire lifetime for example), I might not notice at all. Conversely, were there to be some watershed event in my life, where I dramatically BEGAN TO FEEL or suddenly CEASED TO FEEL, that would be a very different matter. The latter I think, depending on other surrounding circumstances, could indeed be "frightening" if not genuinely and existentially terrifying. Second, I do not think it is generally the human gestalt, to "make oneself feel..." this or that sensation. This regardless of dating levels "one...two...three" or some other case... My personal experience of STRONG "feelings" is that there is little or NO conscious deliberation associated with "feeling something" and often it seems to be such an immediate reaction to circumstance or stimuli, that it is as though a truck were suddenly racing through your bedroom, from some unseen dimension. We are neither READY to FEEL nor have I any reason to presume that we can "train ourselves" to feel. I am somewhat tempted to guess that it might be possible (with conscious practice) to learn to not REACT too quickly to a "feeling" but at best my direct experience with this idea, is incomplete. I have in some cases sort of taught myself to hesitate, but the hesitation is about my REACTION to "feeling" and in such cases as at present, the "feeling" is often accompanied by CONFLICT since at least for a short (or longer) moment, the brain-stem and the cortex are indicating rather opposite "action" routines.
@tomrkba4685
@tomrkba4685 2 года назад
Why didn’t they just date within the class? Sheesh…
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