Yog muaj tu ua tau li koj ma zoo txhaj li os kuv tseem xav kom ua ntau ntsaj koj os yog ntsib tu txiv lo yog tsev neeg tsi hlub yu thiab saib tsi tau yu li koj na
Unlike majority of our Hmong mothers & sisters, I'm so glad that you did not stay and live with the mistreatment/disrespect from those people. You are smart so you stood your ground and left. Ain't nobody got time for their BS.
Girl don’t go back to him. Love yourself. You DID it right!!! I’m very proud of you!! Girl power!! Let them talk all they want!! They can do whatever they want but the sky know.. Just keep doing you boo..
I applaud you 👏👏👏 for standing up for yourself. This gives our Hmong women an eye opening that we don't always have to do what they want. You did the right thing sister. Also I'm really proud that your neejtsa didn't force you like all the other stories we heard. Your neejtsa is definitely a neejtsa not a neej qhau. You are super lucky to have someone like him who took your side. I wish alot of Hmong neejtsa are like him but overall, you great a great job. No karma. Your ex mother in law already got her retribution.
My life is kind of like yours too. No matter how hard I tried to raise and love his kids, it wasn’t good enough for his family and him. I couldn’t even assign them chores and tell them to do chores, if I do, my husband’s mom would say I’m slaving his kids. Since that day, I don’t tell them to do chores or do anything. Their mom would tell them to fight me. My goal was to help my husband and his ex wife raised their kids in a loving environment together as parents, but all it was was to turn them against me. I’m living for myself and my kids only now. They don’t matter to me anymore and I learned to accept things the way is. Zoo li koj tus txiv ces pov tseg xwb os! Tsis npam li nawb. Yog koj npam ces yeej npam lawm, yog lawv npam xwb os mog! Koj tus txiv thiab niam pog yeej saib tsis taus koj, tej kev koj ua ntawv yeej tsis npam li.
Wow, I read all people's comments and they're all on your side. Don't feel bad,no regrets no sorrow, you did the right thing, I wish alot of Hmong women are as strong as you...
You are a smart woman. Give yourself a pat on the back for me. We need more smart Hmong women like you! I am so proud of you! Tus uas yuav npam ces yog koj niag txiv dev thiab koj tus niam pog xwb. Tsam no ces koj niag txiv tsis muaj poj niam hos txiv yawg los tuag lawm cia koj niam pog mam kav koj niag txiv siab phem tsis muaj hlwb ntawd xwb. You have not done anything wrong, your mistake was loving him, his children, and family but got nothing in return.
Restraining order to protect you lady. Never know if he has the heart to pop your tires and loosen the lug nuts from the tire. He’ll do it again or have people to come do bad things to you. I say protect yourself and your love ones before it’s too late. Plus get cameras around your house to capture those idiots then report them.
Haha you are a strong woman! I would have done the same thing too! So awesome! Don’t worry about all that curse. It usually just goes and bite them back since you didn’t do anything wrong.
You haven't done anything, karma will not touch you. It touched him! Be in peace. You have and are blessed! I wish we woman be strong like you out there.
Keep up your strong ambition! He just used you through his hardship. You did everything as a faithful wife and caring and loving stepmother to his kids. You did no wrong! Stay strong and forget your ex.
Take control of your life or your life will take control you. Never put somebody ahead of youl, love yourself first, respect yourself only love the ones that love you back. You did everything right, I’m so proud of you sister
Way to go sister! So happy for you! You did the right thing. There will always be good karma coming your way. Live happily and always let the sun shine in your life. They wronged you that’s why karma got them so bad. Good luck to you and your future endeavors. I love your story so much I had to listen to it twice! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You did nothing wrong! I'd do the same in your situation! They can't curse you if they're in the wrong to begin with! And do not give the money back, that's for raising/taking care of his kids and putting money into their marriages and wasting yrs of your life!
Me nyuam ces tsis yog yus yug ces yus hlub npaum cas los luag yeej tsis hlub yus. Only a few step children will love you and care for you. Just like a few step parents will love their step children. You did the right thing. When you’re no longer welcome or respected in a family, it’s best to remove yourself from them. You give them all already, you’ll leave without regret. We as human can only do and tolerate so much. You’re a smart lady. Glad you did what you did. We need more women like you. Block them from your life. No need to stay in touch. Only God know and see everything. If you did nothing wrong, no need to worry about their cursed.
Kj ua yog, tsi muaj mpam,, tsi tshuav txiv dev nqi yuav los ua qhi tu, thaum kawg kj ts tsu kev mus. Txhob ua tus txiv dev nqi, kev ksj siab yog nyob deb ntawm tus neeg siab qias mog
Easy answer lady, only the higher power can determine when your judgement day is. Lastly, you already changed the locks on the house, now it's time to shut the door permanently and move on and forward with you life. If you do go back, you will be getting a death sentence. If it makes you feel any better and washed away all the curses from your ex, you may give him back some $$$$ and properties. If it was me, I wouldn't give him a penny.
Don’t fall into their trap You are very smart You got away with every Super proud of you You will not be fall on their curse Their curse will haunt them for life Don’t worry You’re a good person don’t be scare You will never npam
HELL YES!!! So deserving of those husbands and in-laws who hate their daughter in law. That's right! Bravo! Finally a woman who stood up for herself and show those back in laos, tradition, no seeing hmong woman value, sorry cultural losers fall on their knees. The husband deserved every bit of it what she did because she did nothing wrong but take what's rightfully hers for years and years of being a mother, wife and hard working hmong woman putting up with all the crap from her husband and mother in law. How sweet to see the tide is turning. More hmong woman who are mistreated in this way should stand up for themselves and see their own value is worth more than just being a slave to controlling hmong man.. To this woman, I congratulate you on a decision well made. You did everything you could as a wife and daughter in law. YOU OWE NO ONE. Keep loving your children and yourself. trust me. No harm will be done to you from god or shaman. Live your life to the fullest. Forget about yesterday. You owe no apologies to anyone. You deserve to be happy away from suffering. Go do you sister. Take care
Niam laus aw...koj ua yog tshaj plaws li lawm os ua tsaug rau koj lub tswv yim thiab kuv xav tias yeej tsis ua cas rau koj li os koj yog ib tug poj niam ua ntse heev
I can't say you are wrong or wright, but yog koj tsi ruaj siab, or tsi fell good no ces mus ntseeg Vajtswv thiab cia nws txoj lus ua tus nplig thiab qhia koj ua neej mus Tom ntej os sister. God bless you.
Me niam laus ua li kj ua yog lawm vim luag ua saib g taus koj los yog kj tej neej tej tsav thiab ua li kj ua ma yog tshaj nplolaws li os kj ma ua tau haum peb cov poj niam hmoob sawv daws lub siab tshaj li os mog
You are correct in every way and you will never be "cursed" because of their deceptions. It's them that should be cursed if anything so forget about them and continue on with your life. Love will find you again, I promise 😊
Tus Niam laus peb tsi yog Vajtswv peb yuav txiv txim tsi tau tau kj tabsi kv ntseeg tus tus neeg zoo yuav tau ntuj ntoo nws txoj kev zoo yuav coj nws mus rau txoj kev zoo Kajsiab lug yuav tsi muaj mob dawm tes hluas dawm taw mog vim peb txhua tus nyob hauv ntuj lub qab plab kj tus txiv nws twb tau txais yam nws ua lawm ces kj cia li zoo siab Thov lub ntuj foom Koob moov rau kj kom Nyob Kajsiab lug lawm yav Tom ntej xwb nawb mog.
For me life/marriage is about honor, respect, trust and love. Your story, you’ve not received any from your husband nor MIL. It’s best you stay away and move on with your life. After all, he did attempt to cause you harm by loosing the lug nuts on your car.
Koj yeej ua yog lawm ua neeg nyob luag saib yus tsis yog neeg koj muab muab koj pob nyiaj los nchuav los yeej tsis Tau ntsej muag txiaj ntsim li os ua li koj yeej yog kawg tsis npam li os
You dont need to go back to someone who doesn't respect you and regarding the elders fong you dont worry about it. If you haven't done anything wrong to them they can fong you all they want. It will never hit you cause God is always watching over you. Bless your soul and may you live life with happiness....
Tu me niam lau kuv hai rau koj tia txhua yam koj ua ntawv twb yog lawv txoj kev npam lawm ntag hnub no ntuj pab koj lawm e koj thiaj tau txhua yam lawm e cav koj ho tseem ne siab thiab ntshai txhob me siab rau tej kev lawv foom ntawv vim lawv yeej ua tsi yog lawm ce txawm lawm yuav foom npauj cav los rov raug lawv xwb mog......
Koj ua yog kawg lawm os tus sister aw. Kuv thov qhuas koj uas koj ua tau zoo thiab niam qhuav ntxim lawv kawg. I would do the same thing too don’t let man like that walk all over you.
Tsis tuag tsis npa koj li os lawv rov ua rov npam lawv xwb os sister aw.....koj mas keej tiag tiag thov has koj os nawb mog nyuj ua nyuj thauj nees ua nees ris no nas tej laus hais lawv hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv ntau lwm hnub cov pa xyab pa ntawv . Ntawv yuav rov los kauj tus neeg hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv ntawv os mog txhob ntshai os
Tus me niam tsev ua li koj ua yeej yog lawm koj yog tus zoo lawm ces yeej tsis npam koj li os lawv foom lawv, yeej rov npam lawv xwb os ua siab loj mog..
👏 👏 👏 I’m so proud of you… That man is a liar, a cheater… you owe him nothing… mus lawb dab kom Vajtswv tiv thaiv koj xwb ces tau lawm… DO NOT Go BACK TO HIM!!!!!!!!!!!
Cov Neeg Uas Tseem Xav Yuav Nws Tus Qub Poj Niam Mas Ntxiv Ntxub Tshaj Yog Tus Niam Zoo Los Tom Qab Hlub Nws Uas Cas Tseem Yuav Uas Lub Siab Phem, Yuav Npam Xwb Mas! Tseem Hlub Hlub Tus Niam Qub Mas Ruam Tshaj! Uas Cas Hov Tsis Sib Yuav Mas Txiv Neej Neej Mas Ruam! She’s Also Lucky To Have Someone Tell Her Somethings! Hate It When They Lie She’s The One To Blame, Years Later They Go Back! Life Isn’t A Game! Karma When She Hurts You Again!! Vim Lub Siab Phem, Koj Yuav Tsis Npam O! Tsis Txhawb O! Be Happy! You Help As Much As You Did! Nws Twg Tsis Hlub Koj, You Did The Right Thing! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Tus niam laug koj mas keej tiag2 koj ua tau raug kuv siab kawg le os thiab koj yeej tsi npam kiag le tus ua npam cais twb yog lv lv twb npam es lv thiaj ua le rau koj os koj yeej tsi tshaum kiag le nv thov qhua koj os koj muaj peev xim tshaj plawg le lm os
