This woman is real she is not fake. She has probably suffered alot from this man so i dnt blame her. Maybe once the shock is over she will be able to calm down
She really sounds broken shame, This guy look like those guys who will go away with Contracts, nd never send money home,not judging,but shame this lady is broken
I was never welcome in my father's house with my sister . We change ppl's houses with my mother untill i was a teenager. I thank a lot of families who took me in with my sister and my mother may God bless them. Section E at umlazi and section A . Now i live abroad i have my own family.
Thank God the gut on the second story found his family u can see hope in his eyes. The acceptance from his father's brother n his brother was everything.
It's true when they say "Hurt people, hurt people" the mother in the first story is very hurt, hence she doesn't care whether her behaviour hurt others or not. However, the daughter was mature enough the way she handled the situation.
I happy for Sibusiso. He a very handsome and upright guy. I wish all the best for you and family. Your sad unfortunate past must motivate you to grow uour
I'm crying for this Mama with red hat, unknown to her that she's planting a rotten seeds to her children, the poor girl did not apply forms to come to this world but her mom and dad did, even the father was wrong for what he did to his wife
Ooooh shame mama the poor girl has got nothing to do with your suffering she has suffered too because you took her father away from her only nto abuse him and also don't forget that it's God who blesses people one day that girl you are bitter at for nothing you will need her abantwana bakho sebeduke nezwe
She has probably suffered too much. This man emotionally and financially abused his wife. This is what bitterness looks like when you "forgive" your useless husband 🙆
but you can see from the brother's wife shck that it was just a hard issue to just embrace....i can put myself on her shoes...imagine being told on cameras...he shud have at least told her that there will be visitors...he is selfish...care less of other's emotions
@@thandoc3934 I disagree she was supposed to be decent even for the sake of the cameras and deal with the husband later. Secondly the poor girl did nothing wrong
Mina she found me there. When she married my dad I was already born,but there's something she said which made me be alert. She was telling someone while I was there that my father doesn't want girl children... At that stage she was pregnant, guess what she gave birth to a girl and another one after that... And I said" God is not sleeping "...but I still respect her as an adult, I just cannot get over what she said. That was 20 years ago💔💔💔💔
So this man expect the wife to just say yes....he is not apologetic and the wife can be furious as well....he should at least have told the wife that Khumbulekhaya is coming
Sometimes kids will suffer because of their parents deeds..💔... That Mother is really hurt 😢 ,She really suffered She really need help,,n we can Tell she's been through alot because of what Her husband put her through in the past...She can't even fake smile not even minding the Cameras because of bitterness.. The Husband Should have been honest from the 1st place.... It's really sad 😢 the lady was not welcomed well...
You're right, I'm sure the father left her with kids and chowed all this money with siphiwe's mother. The father is to blame for all of this, raising children alone in a rural area was hard that time.
I don’t appreciate the wife she lost her honour in my eyes the child humbled herself before her plus she can have four children n not even 1 of them will remember her in the long run she mustn’t punish that sister for her husbands actions
they went through a lot bcoz of de father .and the child remind the stepmothers of the tragedy they went through wen their husband was cheating also not supporting his family takinng all the money to his mistress which resulted in conceving baby
@@ndumisotwala5197 I agree,but it doesn't help how she feels. I don't think we can understand the level of hurt she's endured. Children born through cheating in a marriage are a constant reminder that your husband was unfaithful. You heard her say he did nothing for the family and never supported her. This man abused his wife emotionally and financially. It's evident
@@ramoshabaramoshaba9561 probably this lady was born before. How old are the other children. The woman should have atleast allowed her meet her siblings. Mathata.
Thank you admin... the shock of his brother’s wife said it all...she couldn’t even greet umntwana... uyatsha la tata emzini wakhe, for sure his own children don’t value him... I bet uyakufumana uthando kwindodakazi yakhe... The Ngiba clan... such a loving warm men...they welcome him ❤️... if only his mom would’ve left him noMaZungu, 💔💔🙈
This situation are created when you get married to a man who neglects his family duties. As a woman you end up disrespecting the husband she built the home by herself
How come that Robert married this disrespectful woman? Sphiwe don't worry, as long as you found your father and the important thing is thay he loves you!
My goodness on the first scene the father was scared, de aunt was also scared maybe because they know the attitude of the wife, I was also scared before they could even get to her Jesuuu😨😲
Umndeni ka Sbusiso ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ufundile na. Yena no mina ngazi kuthi a mazulu asaba iskolo. Bathi mawufuna ukufihla into for bona uyifake encwadini they will never find it😂😂🤣. You blessed Sbusiso what a loving family you have. Please respect and cherish one another God bless you all. ❤️♥️♥️😇🙏
I don't blame the step mother, imagine your husband working and not even helping you support the children but busy cheating and end up making a baby. The woman is hurting and it's unfortunate taking out the anger on the wrong person.
I am 43 years old but I still remember when I came home to see my dad my stepmother will tell me that my is not home and let me starve and sit outside in the cold or heat up until my dad comes home, imagine my dad was a taxi driver he will come home close to midnight ngyababonga abanye omama.
Truth is there young people like lo mama on the first video. naturally bitter and spiteful peopleand they grow into it. they dont need anything to happen to the in order to be this rude.its just in her nature sadly. ke phaga.
The aunty's reaction suggests that she already knew how the red hat wife would react to the day's event hey. It means vele o jwalo. A difficult person to live with in general. Ja neh.
The aunty knows the pain the wife went through when the husband was running around with women in JHB. You can see that she hasn't recovered from the pain. It's only unfortunate that the daughter is being punished for it.
Mma pls don't this, Siphiwe is innocent, she doesn't not know anything, Remember the truth will set u free Ntate, pls !!!pls!! , Mma theletsa Sesi gore O reng? Pls...pls...pls...pls... Mma, Siphiwe all the best Sesi, am sorry to say that,but let it go ,am sorry Sesi
The first episode well its so sad and the woman is so bitter with her husband, poor guy is so scared of the wife, some man are so subjected to abuse by their spouse, its really hard when the mother also brain washes the children against their father. Hate does not build a stable home, but it destroys it. Second episode was so touching and we wish Sibusiso all the best with his long lost family.
The woman from the first episode is pure rude regardless of what she went through this is no manner to carry yourself in society, she's busy saying it's her house but i'm 100% sure she's there buy marriage therefore it's not her home.
I wouldn't want that kind of step mother stress at my age,That woman just wanted to know where she comes from not the stupid damn house! She's a wicked witch taking all her husband wrong doings on an innocent woman
@@nthabisengmaleka4102 if you were to read what I wrote you will understand whom I'm responding to, if you saying 90% of Balobedu house holds are toxic it would mean you know the population of Balobedu you can't base your argument or statement on what you saw on TV or maybe in one village
but you can see from the brother's wife shck that it was just a hard issue to just embrace....i can put myself on her shoes...imagine being told on cameras...he shud have at least told her that there will be visitors...he is selfish...care less of other's emotions i guess he does not even support at home