Khuv Xim Lub Cev Nkauj Xwb Zoo Nkauj. 2/17/23 

You’re in the right! Continue to hold your ground girl you deserve the best from here on out. ❤

I enjoyed the story. It is true we have to love ourselves first and foremost. At the end of the day it is our parents and siblings that will love and be there for us to the end. Hmong women are stronger then we give them credit for. I apppluad you for having the courage to walk away and learn to love yourself! Very empowering!!!

He wasn’t there for you at your worst, now he don’t deserve you at your best. Love yourself and forget those who weren’t there for you when you fell ill.

I love this story! Give people that are sick hope.

So proud of you sister. You are a true warrior. Congratulations for being cancer free. God has great plans for you. The trial you went thru was just to help you see the true colors of your ex husband. Continue to fight n live yourself. I'm still fighting breast cancer and I hope n pray that I become cancer free one day. It's all in God's hands. You made it!

Sister I'm proud of you. At the end of the day it is you fighting for another chance to survive and it was for your kids. I experienced the same in terms of health. I woke up telling myself I had to fight this.

Happy to hear that you’re cancer free. I am so glad that you did not stay with your ex husband. Him and his family don’t deserve to get a second chance from you because they didn’t help you through your battle. I totally agree with you on why is it that if the husband is sick, his family want the wife to stay with him and take care of him but if the wife was to be sick then his family want him to go marry another wife.

God bless you sister. may you live a long and healthier happy life.

I'm so glad you divorced your husband. If he can't love you and be there for you at your worst, he don't deserve you. You deserve better. I'm so glad you beat cancer! May love find you and you live a happy life.

God bless you sister . God gave you a second chance, cherish you life and seek his kingdom.

Tu siab tshaj li os niam yug los ob poj niam tus me niam laus aw caa kv nim mloog kj zaj dab neeg es kv nim mloog quaj mloog quaj li os 😭😭

Txiv neej ces yeej phem li no xwb os me niam hluas aws. Txhob cia siab tias lawv yuav hlub yus os mog. Thaum muaj mob kiag lawm ces thov saib xyuas yus tus kheej kom zoo xwb os mog.

He didn’t love you at your worst. He doesn’t deserve you now. If he truly loved you he would’ve been there for you all those years. He gets what he deserves

Zoo siab rau koj yeej koj tus mob lawm thiab zoo rau qhov koj muaj niam thiab txiv hlub koj os koj ua yog lawm vim luag twb tsis tu koj ne .

Tu siab heev li os yom..hlub koj os nawb

God was testing him and he failed. Love yourself!

Bravo!!! I love this story! Proud of you for standing your ground and a true fighter! 💪💪

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I'm glad you survived and got rid of the trash. May your remaining life be filled with love and joy. Good luck

Ua tau yog kawg.

Kicking someone’s car out of jealousy does not translate to love lmao it means one day..that car door will be your head…should’ve ran and never look back

Cov me viv ncaus aw...thaum peb ib tus viv ncaus khiav tawm thaum tus txiv tab tom mob2 los peb txhob cem2 thiab os hmloog tej zaj no xwb thov hlub peb cov poj niam thiab nawb. Vaj tswv hlub koj os..

The true test of love is when your sick. That's when you know the true love of your spouse

Finally, a story I am proud of.😊

So sorry you went through this. Only your parents and siblings will be there to lift you through the goods/bad time. You are blessed with a loving family standing beside you.

You're a true warrior! Don't ever take back that cheater jerk. Best wishes to you sister

Txhob tu siab os Mi Niam tsev aw, tsis yog NWS yuav txawj plhis os ib Leeg yeej ev rawv ib tug mob os mog ib hnub NWS Tus mob yuav Los txog es luag yuav TSO NWS tseg li NWS TSO yus tseg ib yam thiab os nawb, be strong kom yus yeej yus Tus mob nawb mog 🙏🙏

You go sister! 👏👏👏 I'm proud of you! 🤗❤️

Hmoob yeej zoo li

Hlub koj heev os vivncaus aw. Kuv mloog cov neej neeg mas ua rau kuv haj ham hlub kuv cov me Poj niam hmoob heev os

I so proud of you 33:12

Hate relatives like the guy’s side! Remember if he/she’s hurting you and leave you to die, don’t ever go back!

Go's bless you sister, stay healthy & well hlub koj os

I'm glad that she knows her worth and left that man for good! This is such an inspiring story!

Tus niam tsev no hais lus muaj tseeb thiab hais yog lus kawg

Cov txiv neej ua thaum tuaj tham koj es npav tuag thiab tua neeg ces cov no yog cov lim hliam tshaj.

Txhob tu siab ma niam laug ua tsaug rau qhov koj zoo lawm zoo siab nrog kj uas koj tus mob zoo lawm

Sister you still have your family to support you...I don't have any one to help me...I only drove myself to the Dr every time no one was there to help me...I am glad you have good ending and happy..

Therapy make people smarter. Cov neeg txhawb txoj kev phem yuav niam yau ces yog dev ibyam.

niam luas aw koj zaj neej neeg zoo ib yam li kuv lub neej tag niam luas lub neej muaj muaj mob mag tu tu siab heev

Nrog koj tu siab tau ib tug txiv siab ntais ntuj hlub tsis tau koj li nws cov lus cog tseg. Zoo siab koj rov zoo los lawm

You look very young in this beautiful picture

Tus vivncaus, kuv hlub koj thiab nrog koj tus siab kawg li. Kuv zoo siab hais tias koj qhov cancer ploj lawm. Koj zaj neej neeg xws kuv zaj. Kuv qhov cancer ploj lawm thiab txij li thaum lub 4 hlis ntuj los txog rau tamsim no. When I was going through cancer, I longed for a cancer buddy. I was so lonely and depressed and felt no one could understand me. I am so proud of you. I am a mental health therapist so I work with a few women that are going through cancer and am glad that we can be there for each other. If you ever need someone to talk to please reach out.

Tu mi niam tsev aw txob tu siab os mog. Nrog koj zoo siab. Tu txiv zoo li koj tu ntawv ca txob suav tias yog koj tu txiv os. Ma nriag dua tu tsiab os nawb

Be brave sister. I'm so proud of you. Yep, drop that potato like it's hot. He already did that to you when you first got sick....his parents are the worst for not backing you up.

Me koj niam aw..cas koj yuav hais tau zaj neej neeg no tu siab ua luaj 💔💔Thov kom tus me niam tsev ko tsuas muaj zoo muaj zog hlub koj tus kheej kom zoo2 nawj mog

Ua li koj thiaj paij tau kev ntsim siab. Tos tam sim no poj niam pib mus yuav txiv mos ab lawm los vim yog txiv neej qhia. Txij no no ces kawm txoj kev uas poj niam muaj mob ces txiv neej tsis tus es cia li mus yuav dua ib tug niam yau. Poj niam yuav tau kawm txiv neej lub maib no thiab nawb. Yog hnub twb muaj mob ces poj niam kav tsim mus nrhiav tus tshiab thiab tsis txob tu lawv lawm.

THIS TYPE OF STORY MADE MY BLOOD BOILING TO THE SKY... HMOOB MEN ALWAYS HAD THE RIGHT OF WAY ON EVERYTHING. GOD BLESSED. YOU SURIVED THIS HORRIBLE DISEASE. HAPPY YOU LET OF HIM. HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU 2ND TIME. LOVE YOURSELF SISTER. SO SUPPORT FROM YOUR SIDE OF THE FAMILY.

This story is worth listening to. What a strong mama. I am so proud of you sister. Keep doing you and focus on your children.

Tus me niam tsev txhob tu siab nawb mog koj twb yeej Tus mob lawm ces yeej meem zoo siab rau yus tus kheej xwb nawb mog

tsuas yg peb cov poj niam xb o thiaj ua tau lub siab loj tu tau ib tug txiv neej xb. O txiv neej ces 99℅ yeej tu g tau cov poj niam muaj mob

I’m eating and crying. 😢😢😢 praying for you,sister.

Thaum txiv neej mob es peb cov poj niam thiaj li tu lawv yoo kev hlub tos lawv ho yog thaum peb cov poj niam mob ces lawv cov txiv neej yeej tsis tu peb tsis hlub peb tsis yoo tos peb li os cov niam tsev aw lawv nrhiav khiav ua txuj keb ub keb no Kom dim peb xwb os

I’m so happy to hear you are cancer free:) love yourself only.

Such a sad sad story, congratulations on your recovery. Cancer free.

Hlub koj heev os sister aw. Zoo siab tshaj uas koj zoo rov qab los lawm. Hlub koj tus kheej os mog.

Txiv neej cesaiv xaim yog nws muaj mob ces yuav kom yus tu nws koj mob ces nws yeej siab xub li ntuw mog

Family is love.. your spouse is not a guarantee of love but family love is forever...

Zoo siab Koj zoo lawm os tus mi Niam tsev aws saib xyuas Koj tus kheej kom zoo nawb mog

This lady just like a Tundra!!❤❤….Now that Tundra has a bad engine….Lady’s ya get it??…✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Love you sister, gald you left that him. Keep loving yourself...

Hmoob ua ntej rov quav lawm os.

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Mloog tau kv ma chim tiag2 rau cov txiv neej ko

Koj pab kwv tij thiaj coj lis ko xwb os luag pej kum tsi coj lis ko nawb.

You’re a fighter, sister! I’m so happy you are healthy and better now. Your husband took the easy way out and didn’t honor your vows. He doesn’t deserve you.

Never go back to a person who doesn’t love you…😩🤠…!!!

😭😔🙏

Hey stop feeling sad. Whip those tears and thank God and love yourself. Because it could be worse if you was to stay with him. Go to church and let God bless you and let him give you strength and guidance and move forward. One day you will see his new wife torcher him for you. You will be fine. This might be a test to see how much he love you. In this way you can be stronger.

yog ma yus hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog

A lot of good hmong men out there, this story is just about one man only..

Cov neeg zoo li koj tus txiv ces thaum nws tau koj tus mob nws mam li nco koj mog

Well said sister! So glad u divorced that loser. Well wishes & good luck to u!

Yog kawg o hmoob tus cwj pwm no mas ntxim2 ntxub tshaj nplaws li ua cuag li poj niam yog ib tug neeg g muaj siab ntsw li hais mas npaw taw kawg li

Peb cov txiv Hmoob yeej phem heev, tshua hlub pojniam thaum pojniam zoo2 xwb. Yog niag txiv mob ces pojniam yuav tsum tu…Hmoob cas yuav phem ua luaj

Peb txiv neej hmoob ces yeej tsis hlub poj niam lis os mog tus le niam tsev koj hais yog 100% feem lawm os ... Peb txiv neej hmoob ces 90 % feem zoo lis koj hais es 10% feem ces yog cov zoo xwb mog ..... Zoo siab tías koj yuav tau zoo mus rau Yam tos ntej os mog ...

He doesn’t deserve you. So happy you know your worth.

Zoo siab tshaj uas koj txoj kev mob zoo lawm os sister🙏 Thiab zoo, zoo siab rau koj niam koj txiv, koj cov viv ncaus thiab koj cov nus uas lawv pab, pab koj thaum koj niag txiv siab phem ntawv tsis hlub tsis tu thiab tsis saib xyuas koj. Yeej yog li koj hais os, tsuas yog yus tsev neeg thiaj hlub yus xwb. Zoo qhov koj tsis nrog ib tug neeg siab phem2 li koj niag qub txiv nyob vim nws tsis deserve koj txoj kev hlub os. Thiab Hmoob ces tsuas tsa tus txiv neeg cai xwb es tus niam tsev ces lawv yeej muab lov cai tag li xwb. Hmoob ces txawm yuav mus nyob txog lub ntuj twg los Hmoob yeej saib poj niam tsis muaj nqis/tsis muaj cai li no. Txawm li cas los koj twb zoo lawm ces hlub koj tus koj kheej os mog. Take care!

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You are a strong woman! You are blessed to have such great parents and siblings that supported you through it. Lesson for all: never go to clan “leaders” for help or resolution because they are all chauvinistic men that will only side with the husband. Next time just find a lawyer and go to court. In America, no need to go to clan leaders. They can’t do jack for women.

In this world and life only the love of a parent is real. Doesn't matter if you are man or woman. Never expect your significant other to love you unconditionally. Taking care of yourself is most important and if it must happen, be grateful fake friends and lover are filtered out.

Love yourself don't care about him

Perfect example of people who only want to "be there" during your successes/wins/goods. But when you're dying, they act like they don't know you so proud of this lady! Some people don't understand "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, til death do us part"

qhov ntawm ko mas zoo heev

Tus viv ncaus aw, txhob muab xav xwb, xav ces yeej Tu siab heev li os. Tabsis vim yog lub ntuj txawj tso peb yug los txawj loj ces yuav txawj laus yuav txawj phem txawj laus es tsis txawj phlis es yuav txawj tuag es yog yug los tau ntawv phem tau txij nkawm tsis raws siab xav ces tag ib sim thiab mas lawv.

Kuv hlub tus viv ncaus ngob rau zaj neeg no heev

“You’ve got to know when to hold them, know when to fold them, know when to run” by Kenny Roger

Tim niam pog thiab txiv yawm xb o yog niam pog txiv txiv yawm hlub yus ce yeej g hai li ntv li o thiab tsawg2 tu niam pog xwb thj hai li ntawv xb i

I am so proud of you sister. Leave that txiv dev and his dab family!

Cov niag txivneej zoo li koj niag txiv liam ntawm ko ces twb qhia kiag thawm xubthawj tias nws yog in niag neeg selfish lawm no mas.., he only think about himself…

👏👏👏 Good Job Sister!!!

He didn't love you when you needed him the most. That's sad. I'm happy that you are better. Stay strong and positive!❤

Not good to have friends, friends are just bad influence, friends are not worth having sometimes...

Zaj no phim kuv heev li niam lau aw

Sister you are so strong, God bless you and wishing you a everlasting love after this ordeal.

But congratulations on winning cancer! What you did in this story is 100% right. Plus, you didnt use him, he actually OWED you because he vowed to love you. So the leader has no rights to say that to you. That the reason I dont take advices from hmong leaders because they sided with hmong men only.

Koj tus me ntxiv no siab phem kawg li os me niam hluas zoo siab uas koj yeej lawm mog hlub yu tus kheej os mog

Ua li kj ua mam yog nkawg o

What a miracle - wow I fighting for so long! And the true colors of everyone came out. I’m so happy for you and wish you the best because you deserve it. May you live your best life.

Hmong people don’t have thru sickness or health for the Hmong men. They demanded for the Hmong women to follow the laws

Never listen to og's old way...use your judgement and help yourself...we are in America...time to make your own decisions and not listen to anybody that is not helping you...