So many Hmong guys here upset about the D being compared in this story. But y'all missed the point of her story. She finally found someone who treated her right and love her. Lucky her, he happened to have a big D. But whether your D is big or small, your woman will love you as long as you love and respect her. Most women just want to be loved and want to hear kind words from their husbands. They don't want to constantly hear that they're going to be getting a second wife or be traded in for a younger wife.
Glad you found a wonderful, caring, and loving husband. My husband is hmong but he does a lot for me and our family. My husband always encourages me to be beautiful. There's always good and bad in ppl.
I totally agree 👍 👌 👏 🙌 💯 I'm married to a non Hmong husband too, he treated me far better than my ex husband which was Hmong. Life is great as ever so thankful to God.
I agree with you sister! My ex husband is Hmong and i went through a lot of hardships especially from his parents amd relatives. After divorce him and being single for a few yrs, i met my non-Hmong bf and he treats me very well along with his family. They do not judge and always give me hugs. Im grateful!
So happy you found happiness! Not All Hmong Men are old fashion like your Ex-husband. Only those with a Mindset of 1975, No matter how old they are. My husband is Hmong and we live a stress free & happy life because he's a God loving man.
Everything’s in your story are true and thank you for the kind words for the all the Hmong ladies around the world to learn then love themselves more ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I agree with everything this lady said. I came from a traditional BIG Hmong family and we women are overworked, overused and way under appreciated. Lady....I am glad you found someone who loves you.
It takes a strong and smart woman to know her worth and leave that kind of man behind. Good for you for standing up for yourself and finding a real man that loves you and respects you.
Sister, I'm glad you did what you did. You deserve to be happy. Please don't live the life of niam hlob niam yau. Be strong and stand your ground. Let go of tus txiv dev no. Karma will get them.
Very nice story, thanks for sharing sister, if only all hmong sister learn to do and walk the way you walk, we all hmong sister will be free,from abuse hmong husband.....well said sister,, I'm glad you come out and share your beautiful life with other racist....well said... ❤❤
A lot of Hmoob men’s Booty hole is hurt from this story. Hmong men, if the story doesn’t pertain to you, don’t let it bother you! This is her point of view. I know A LOT of Hmong men are NOT like this but A LOT also are! I’ve seen 50% bad and 50% good. It is what it is. Hmong women can also be bad too. She is just letting her talk from her experience. 🙄
I’m so thankful and blessed to have found my husband now. He’s hmong but he was raised and grew up with so many meka, he genuinely loves me differently from typical hmong mens. I totally understand where this lady is coming from. Hmong mens has no love and respect for their wife. I’m so glad this lady found her true love
You have only met Hmong boys. There are plenty of Hmong men’s who respect and love their wife unconditionally. Plus, just because you grew up with meka doesn’t mean they will all love and respect their wife.
That could go both ways. Your ethnicity doesn’t mean you act a certain way but what influence are culture and religion. Hmong culture/religion just have a very very low care for morality/justice/righteousness.
Not ALL men r like that...hmong or meka men they can still cheat on you...no matter what color they r....this story is more of I choose a BIG dingdong over a SMALL dingdong....😅😅😅
Only old hmong guys are what she describes. Not us all guys are like that. We younger guys are more modernized. Hate beaches like this that categorized us as one.
Love that you've found the right person for you. But I really dislike how so many hmong women talk down on our hmong men. Not all are as you say, only compare your man and not all hmong men. Our hmong brothers has come a long way and I still stand by them. If meeka ppl are as great as you say there wouldn't be any divorces and split up. Every race/ethnicity has its own good and bad, every human being is their own, don't group them. Thanks 😊
It’s only your own experience, don’t make all Hmong men look bad. Some of us Hmong men cook and clean and love our wives and don’t force our wives to do all that.
Ua ntej koj hais Tus txiv hmoob ua li nes koj hos puas tau hlub koj Tus txiv hmoob li nws xav thiab dua li nws coj koj mus taug kev koj puas kam ntag nws mus thiab mas, nco ntsoov ua neeg nyob feem coob yog koj hlub luag lawm ces luag yeej hlub koj ib yam thiab Nco ntsoov tias peb txiv neej hmoob tsis phem txhua Tus mog cov phem yog feem tsawg xwb, hos txiv neej meskas yuav tsis zoo txhua Tus li thiab mog.
Koj tau txiv mekas zoo koj siab txhob tuaj khav2 kom peb cov poj niam khiav raws koj qab tsam koj tsis tau zoo neej ua nawb hmoob muaj kab li kev cai tsis mekas kev cai kom koj paub li ntawd.
Niam hmoob lawv tsuas cob qhia lawv tej ntxhais kom ua txiv neej qhev, ces thiaj qhia 1 phaum dhau ib phaum es poj niam hmoob thiaj tsis paub hlub lawv tus kheej. I stopped slave away since newly married and not teaching my children that way. Son or daughter, they are do chores. I don’t ever use words like you are the girl, you do such chores or you do such chores because you are a boy. My children, whoever available at the moment do the chores. Whoever see something dirty, clean. Whoever want to eat, cook. My now young adult daughter started dating and the boy would comes over, my husband would say to her to offer her boyfriend drinks or food. She just goes, - do you want to drink or eat? - water is there. And if we eat, she just say let’s eat. And if he wants, he come join. If he’s not, he just seat out, no pressure.
It just depends on the guy. My husband is Hmong, raised in a traditional Hmong house. But he loves me and loves me exactly the way I dreamed of. Not all Hmong mam have the “Hmong men” mentality!
Yog tshaj li os yav tag dhau lo kuv kuj muaj ib tug txiv hmoob ma cem tau tshaj plaws li ziag no kuv mam mu yuav tau ib tug txiv neeg txawv teb chaw lawv yeej txawj hlub yu tshaj li tsi nco qab nyuaj siab tsi nco txhawj txog dab tsi lawm tiag
Nrog koj zoo siab o tso tus neeg phem pog tseg. Tau tus neeg zoo Los hlub koj tshaj qub lawm. Yog neeg zoo ces txawm li cas Los yeej yuav tau tus zoo xwb o. Sib sib hlub nawb.
I agree with you that Hmong culture does need to be revised to fit our Hmong American lifestyle. However, my Hmong husband treats me the same way your white husband treats you, but in his own way, of course. I think you were just married to the wrong guy.
Yeej yog li koj hais lawm feem coob2 txiv neej hmong ces yeej yuav poj niam hmong los ua qhev .lawv txoj hauj lwm tseem ceeb ces nrog phooj ywg qaug cawv yos hav zoov and cheated to younger grass xwb . So proud of your happiness life
Yog ma kv yuav txiv hmoob ces ua qhev xb kv los tham tau ib tug hluas nraug nplog zoo2 lawv hlub yus kv nyiam li cas yeej txaus siab rau yam kv nyiam thb nws ua rau kv noj xb ho nws g khes txog tias neeg yg txiv neej li nws saib yus muaj nqis heev yus ces nyob2 cia li tub nkeeg lm o
First off , before I even start to comment on this story : I wanna hear the ex husband's side of the story as well. To me , her side of the story sounds more like she cheated on her husband with the mekas guy. Ain't no woman would go to some strangers house on there first meeting. She's just making her story look so good. You said the mekas guy is so nice , why did his ex wife left him. He wants to keep you around, wait until he finds someone else. He'll surprised you by kicking you out to the streets and you'll realize that your living in a fantasy. Better enjoy your moment because the thunderstorms coming. PLEASE, keep me updated when he done with you!!!!
Um, she divorced her husband.... before she got with the meka husband. But the Hmong man she was dating, is the one that she was cheating on with, the meka guy.
Great story! Glad you have a happy life . I totally agree hmong life style is different from others kind they don’t respect and don’t treat woman right.
Yeap… it’s our Hmong cultural. I call it Stone Age ways/mindset. The men Treat women like a possession… they own women, kinda thing. It’s so retarded. But, I called these selfish perverted Hmong men weak! Weak to pussies… 😂
Not all Hmong men are bad, it depends on how they were raised that’s all. All of my brothers cooked, cleaned, and raised their own kids. My husband is Chinese and he does everything. Yog yus tau tus txiv hlub2 lawm ces lawv yeej ua tau txhua2 yam pab tau yus. Tsis hais tias nws yuav Yog Hmoob, American, Chinese, los yog haiv neeg twg li.
Koj muaj hmoo xwb os tsis yog txhua tus os mog lawv xav yuav ces yuav tsis xav yuav ces lawv kuj nrauj yus thiab os mog tsis txhob tuaj qhua2 li ko mog
Ua neeg nyob ces tus twg zoo lawm yuav tau qhuas thiab hnub twg nws qheb qhov rooj yuas tawm los tsuav nws g tau tsim yus kom mob npaum cov niag txiv hmoob tsim os txiv hmoob nab nws twb g xav yuav yus lawm los nws lam dag kom nws tau cai xwb naj nws twb tsis hlub yuv lawm los nws tseem tsis kam tso yus mus muab yus khuam2 yus laus tag thaum twg nws ua hluag nraug txaus thiab nws muaj mob lawm nws mam rov los rau yus xwb muaj mekas zoo npaum no kam tsij yuav ntag kav tsij coj los qhia rau peb cov viv ncaus hmoob thiab yog tus twg lub neej lwj2 siab thiaj li yuav pab tau dim txoj lwj siab thiab kuv tseeg tias koj hlub txog peb cov poj niam hmoob koj thiaj qhia xwb
Peb cov viv ncaus hmoob, yua txog thaum twg es peb mam tsis txhob cia txiv neej hmoob tsim txom peb mus ntxiv lawm. Nco ntsoov thiab yuav tsum paub tias txog txij peb tus txiv txiav txim siab xaiv dua 1 tug poj niam ces peb twb tsis muaj nuj nqi thiab tus txiv twb tsis hlub peb lawm, Thiab nco ntsoov tias peb muaj nuj nqi thiab Muaj peev xwm thiab zoo, tshaj lawm vim tus txiv tsis zoo npaum peb. Txiv neej tsis nyiam cov poj niam zoo ces cia tus txiv xaiv tus tsis zoo li nws. Hmong men do not like strong hard work and caring women. They likes weak women like them let them pick the weak one because hmong men cannot handle strong women
I am Hmong guy in my early 50's not all Hmong men are 1975. I was raised here in America at 5 year old. It depends on who you date or married to. Race are not important it's the person in the race that are important. There's good and bad men and women in every race.
I don’t agree with the feet part, I work really hard but I take care of my feet, it’s always smooth and painted. It’s really up to the person to take care of themselves.
She's biased because she's sharing her own experiences. She states alot of false claims about Hmong or Hmong men. She's saying that she's better because she's married to a white guy.
@@ouradventuresnspecialmoments lol, buy one of those smoothing rocks, every time you take a shower, just smooth out your feet. Put lotion on after and your feet will be smooth. You don’t have to spend money in pedicures.
Hmob ces kev sib hlub sib pab tsua yog kev hau dej hau cawv xwb ho cov poj niam ces khwv ua txiv neej qhev tuag ntis twb tsi muaj txiv neej hmoob yuav lo hlub lo pab li
How can you come on here and bash our Hmong men?? You speak for yourself only. We have great Hmong men too. I’d respect your story more if you just preach to our sisters to love themselves and find someone to love them back, but you started bashing our Hmong brothers, I’ve lost respect for you. Yes, we all can work every day to be better but that applies to all HUMANS, not just Hmong.
Moral of the story again, don’t listen your parents and relatives when you’re relationship is not working out. Make your own decision to leave or stay. Don’t listen to anyone else’s opinion especially old Hmong timers!
I learn how to do my dish that way too. Wash and wipe down dry right away n put them in place!! Done!! ( back in the days in high school, cooking classes)😂
Hmong, black or white, it all depends on who you meet. If you’re lucky you meet the nice ones. Doesn’t matter who you meet or with, Koj yuav hmoob yuav Mikas, yog koj yog ib tug pojniam nquag ua noj ua haus, tu vaj tu tsev, nquag thiab txawj tu koj tus kheej ces koj yeej ua tau kawg. Txhob mus ntseeg hais tias yuav Mikas es thiaj tau zoo. That is not true! Hmoob thiab Mikas los yog koj xaiv tau tus zoo txiv ces nws yeej zoo thiab hlub koj, yog koj xaiv tau phem txiv ces nws yeej phem.
Hahaha, Hmoob khwv khwv vim peb muaj cov coj noj coj ua coob heev ne. Hmoob tsis tseg ces tsiv ntev peb cov poj niam yuav khiav mus yuav Meskas tag lawm tiag. Cov Hmoob coj qub qub li no ib txwm ruam ces tsawg tiam los yeej tseem ruam
Quav dev tiag tiag koj tus txiv Hmoob naj. Koj tus txiv Meskas musb koj ua cas es koj qhov khoom ho qias neeg tag lawm nas pog awd. Txhob rawm zoo siab.
Not all hmong men are bad and not all Miskas men are good. Nyias muaj nyias txoj hmoo. Tabsis yuav hmoob mas txoj kev noj haus loj dhau lawm. Txoj kev khwv ces khwv heev.
Thanks for sharing your story sister! You are not wrong for putting yourself firs. It's true, not all Hmong men are the same, but I have yet to see it.
Ab yog li ntshe kuv yuav mu yuav ib tug txiv me kas thiab lauv yog li na viv ncau aw vim kuv ntshaw2 ib lub tshoob thiab os ib sim neej tsis tau muaj dua li os ...
