Knowing These Life Lessons After 40 is Like Cheating. Literally. 

"Quotes" what are you guys doing ? I mean, you guys are making it seem impossible to just select one quote that I like the most. Every Single quote in this video is a goldmine in its own way. You guys are doing incredible job. This will be my favorite video of 2023.

3:55 Never brag about your success or tell people your plans as your friends today may become your worst enemies tomorrow. So true

Yeah this is stuff I wish I had learned long before hitting 40 but you can't tell young people anything. They have to learn on their own. Experience is the best teacher, but not a very kind one.

The next time someone complains about my behavior I’ll reply “If I took back the pain I caused you I would also take back the strength I gave you, you’re welcome!”

"We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them." - Epictetus

I was all on board until " the only people who will never let you down is your parents" I'm calling bullshit on that one!!😂

I heard or read this quote when I was a child. Have a friend and treat him well. To him your secrets never tell, for when your friend becomes your foe,out in the world your secret goes. Love these quotes. I listen to them everyday. They inspire me to live the life I choose. Blessings from Trinidad 🇹🇹 ❤

I don’t agree with the “you’ll never regret your silence”. Sometimes people don’t say things they wish they had

betrayal never comes from your enemies? i....HALF-agree with that. ever heard of fake people? they pretend to be your friend until their done using you.

I could see a younger me not seeing any value in these quotes but being older and realizing experiences tied to nearly all of them I wish I'd had them and used them when I was a younger me

Wishing that everyone who watches this video will be safe, healthy, have all their wishes fulfilled, and any prayers answered. May those who feel lonely find comfort, those in poverty escape hardship, and those without daily sustenance have enough to eat and wear.

When people say things like “own your truth “ or “living my truth “ you can be assured that person has lost the thread of objective reality and is not worth your time or attention.

Parents can also let you down, more than kids I in some cases

You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.” ―C. S. Lewis

I waste my OWN Life never blaming any one I am res ponsible for my Self

As a 59 year old man who has come far and learned a lot I concur with these gems. Thank you for your effort in compiling them.

Years ago, I put together my Readers Digest quote, just in case: When I was fifteen, I looked forward to sixteen, the year I'd be old enough to drive. It was wisdom I sought. Upon arriving at my sixteenth year, I was sorely disappointed to discover wisdom was not yet mine. Not undaunted, I again looked ahead. This time, to my eighteenth birthday. The age at which I could be called to defend my country and give my all, as a man. Surely that was when wisdom would be mine. Again, I met disappointment. But I held firmly to that I had merely been mistaken on the timing when wisdom would be mine. I, reasonably, chose twenty-one. After all, in law, and other ways, it was said that was the age at which I'd reached maturity, and I'd be established as an adult. Sadly, I came to be twenty-one and, was, yet again, sorely disappointed. In desperation, I came to rest my hopes on the age of twenty-four. The age at which my insurance rates dropped. Suffice it to say, I've reached my final conclusion: There are many eighty year old kids running around this world today. Kelly Craig

As i finish my coffee and head back to work, I realise I won't remember any of these by the time I complete my first task. Sad.

Definitely some great quotes here-- the older one is, the more relevant they are.

I agree if you have secrets be careful who you tell them too. But more importantly imo, don’t fear others knowing your secrets. Overcome that fear so if anyone does find out your secrets, you’re good with them. No one can use them to hurt you.

"No one in this world will stand up for you like the way your parents do." i dont agree with that. me and my dad were never close. and he spent most of my childhood bullying me then actually teaching me anything

#80 "Most people are a complete waste of time." All people do not have loving parents or guardians 😔

It takes a big man to cry, but it takes a bigger man to laugh at that man.

“You are not the Voice of the Mind-You are the one that hears it.” Wrap your listening mind around that!

Don't read a quote and say "this is wise". But read a quote and say "how could I relate this in my life?". Thank you Quotes.

This is the best 1 I ever saw on You Tube for quotes. Philosophy may be more important in life that any other form of communication. 1 of the best videos I saw on here in 2023.

I have a saying of my own , it goes like this "if you're going to step on somebody's toes make sure they have toes for you to step on !

“You are not the voice of the Mind-You are the one that hears it.” Wrap your listening Mind around that!

Many great lessons. Personnally I strongly disagree with "forgiving = healing." Forgiving is atroceously overrated in our cultures and we need to relearn that not-forgiving and accepting that others might not want to forgive those who hurt them is often important. By expecting others to forgive, we involontarily blame people for the hurt that was done to them or make them responsible for the consequences of what they were victim of. Think of disrespect, condescension and insults. Having someone disrespect you or talk to you with condescension can be exhausting and can strongly alter your behaviour, even more so when the perpetrator does it on purpose. At family gatherings for example, if you allow someone to be an asshole to another person and expect the other to "understand" to "cope with it" you allow an asshole to feel comfortable and happy and to steal happiness from his victim. And at the same time, the target will grow resentful, distant and susceptible and will be judge by everybody according to his attitude. The victim is deprived of being considered carefree, enthusiastic, positive etc... people will perceive them as withdrawn and moody, when the reason why they are that way is right in front of everybody's eyes. So, forgiveness... no. Forgiveness as opposed to revenge, ok, but not as a synonym of "shut up and cope" and certainly not as the main road to "healing." Absolutely not. The biggest part of healing is having everybody acknowledge what happened to you, who did it to you, and why. What heals the most is the victory of truth.

The Only 2 people who will not let you down are your parents, Stop the Nonsense, some people have dreadful parents who cause horrific pain .

I don't know about the parent quote. Both of mine turned down jobs on my behalf when I wasn't home and they were good jobs. One even went so far as to deleting the phone number off of the caller ID. The other one waited to tell me three months later about the call and that missed opportunity was for a major fashion designer. Parents can easily get jealous of their kids especially when the kid is better looking than the parents.

Having 0 friends frees you up to write that book, write that song or write that movie.

People generally say what they mean when angry

17:57 Be a doer, not just a mere listener 👌🏽

And Kelly said: That which I least wish to do is most oft that which I most should do; and, When you hurt me and I pray for you, I help heal us both;

Remember ,there is no such thing as fair,

Woke up to see this on my feed. Perfect. Thank you so much!

I needed this today 😢

Threw the years. You find out that people only talk to you because they want something from you. Then. When people don't talk to you. They watch you. To sew what you have. So they can take it from you. How did I come up with that. Watch and listen. You will also come up with it as well. A sad fact.

Revenge. Ruining my own life... that's a keeper. Thank you kindly..I wrote that down... I can relate to revenge in so many instances where trash instigates and provokes.

There can be alot of good things they saved u from unknowingly. Nothing meant for u will ever miss u and nothing not meant for u will ever get u. When its meant for u somehw u will be right place or with right person n u will get it. U can blame them that they turn down the opportunity for u but also u can choose to look on other side that u dont knw what bad experience wud av come frm those jobs. Perhaps u needed a different job that wud make u mature differently n where u r right now is providing the necessary experience needed. In truth,we never really knw what is good or bad for us, same time whatever good or bad that comes our way is good for us if in the end if we take proper lessons from this incidents. Man had been given all the necessary tools to make his life better.For Gold to be pure..its heated in fire n it comes out of pure...u r Gold my Friend😊

a real man, never shouts what he has found

I love all your sensible quote!! I wished I had heard them 40 years ago. Anywho, I am now benefiting and passing them on to my younger friends. Thank you!! Thank you!!

Thank you so much for these wonderful life lessons.

Amazing!!! Most of these struck a cord!! Some from experience and some I need to take a closer look at within!!! Thank you!!!!!

A real uplifter…

"When you laugh, people laugh with you. When you cry, you cry alone." -O Daisu ("Old Boy" original)

I like all of them. Learning new things is great.

All thoughts are correct! If you apply them to your own life, since high school, there were first best friends who turned into bitter enemies towards the end of their studies. Then already in adulthood met on my way women in whom I was very much mistaken, although I have a high degree of intuition as the heroine of the series "Anna. Medium." I see people through photos and their speeches. Just when you meet great "actresses", you may not guess that in fact in front of you wolves in the skin of sheep .... In my case, the last true love and passion I feel for a person is the only small joy that allows me to hope for the best and that the prophetic dreams of a fabulous future are still in force)! 💘

What a truly beautiful voice.

Life changing lessons ❤

Hey, thanks for sharing this insightful piece! It's like a crash course in life wisdom. So many nuggets of truth packed into one transcript. I found myself nodding along with so many points, especially about valuing relationships over appearances and the importance of self-growth. Really eye-opening stuff!

perfect channel. one of the best on RU-vid !!! many thanks. much appreciated 🙂

I'm 45, and I either know, or agree with 99% of these quotes, a couple of them didn't really seat right with me. Anyhow, I don't think this allows me to cheat at anything, I'd rather say that to reach this point I had to go through a lot of fkd up shit, and like one of the quotes states, it's the hard lessons that teach you the most, that make you strong, give you thick skin, which allows you to go through the next battle with better armour, and a better chance to win.

Amazing life lessons 👌🏽

Found this channel a few weeks ago, and have listened to a few videos. Thank you, and subscribed.

The world DOES NOT care about your potential or skills NOR does the world care about what you have done or say.

Fantastic thanks for the video,

A loss of a good friend, even if it hasn't happened, it hurts.

Thank you so much.

thank u so much for this lessons 😊

Powerful voice, l feel it, congratulations!!

Thank you🙏🏾

I always try my best to help and forget myself from now on i will learn thank you so much GOd bless

Thank you, creators, you.🌸

The dreamer are the one who waste their time in hallucinations. Appreciate people, most people doesn't not what journey their came from, a fine trivia could be good example for a good footstep, Quotes. Thanks

Neh! Both my parents left me down.

Some brilliant quotes.

Thanks for sharing this vital information and wisdom

Thank you.

These wise notes propelled me to add this of my own - If it is of the mind, it would be, or had been engaging, If it is ironic, sarcastic or a humorous distraction It is a blip, of insanity that leads to paranoias, causing offence or worse..? And all philosophies can be encumbered & used by good & evil... ?

Excelente...thanks you❤

7:52 or spite us, if we're in a bad mood. your mood influences your perception. i feel depressed and a tad angry (best way i can describe it), as i write this. anything i want, and earn without working for it, i'd accept it begrudgingly - or get angry. 17:30-17:38 wisest one i've ever heard.

Thank you

Fascinating knowledge from this youtube channel!

What a great lesson on stoicism.

True!

Fantastic!❤

Great quotes as usual. There r too many nice ones some quotes pierce through heart and liver.

Mixed Quotes Got Me Right In My Core. The Background Music Makes All The Difference -

Best I have ever seen ❤

Love this

I would give anything to argue this sad commentary on the human condition. Certainly not everyone, but damn! God please protect me from my family and friends.

Thank you ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

Theres frenemies and opportunist also , beware of them . Tell a intentional lie to them and see if it comes back to you. A lie will travel around the world, but truth will put its shoes on.

THANK YOU

That parent thing is very wrong buddy. Although I have forgiven.

Excellent! Thank you ❤

Powerful!

Outstanding!!!

These quotes provide the kind of insight one gets during their life review in the afterlife! ❤😅 Brilliant work!

Sometimes in one's life, in a matter of minutes your best friend can become your worst enemy + there is no such thing natural justice ( just saying )

Did you guys steal a bowl of Fortune Cookies from a Chinese restaurant?

How could I relate this to my life? 😊

The one lesson "every person has 3 faces, one you show the world, one you show to close people, and one only to yourself". This is often true, but I find if you can show your true self all the time, if it is discipline and in line with God, that is the best, you are then more honest with the world, with people close to you, and with yourself. I find this is only possible if I keep in line with that God would have me be, not my animal instincts.

Preach!!!!!

Some good ones here but also plenty that are highly questionable. An interesting mix nonetheless.

My home was not a failure, failure was the children who didnt believe in you.

These quotes are all well and good, but when it says the only two people who will not let you down are your parents lol get real there are a lot of bad parents out there.

It all relates ✨✅