Life Lessons I Learned at 30, to Avoid Regrets When I'm 60 

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Thanks for the Quates it teaches me a lots God bless you 👍❤

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@@ladyhonor822 ☦Trad, go msot!

Family has been my biggest enemy.😢

I agree. I have family members that I don't associate with at all. I think some family members think they can say or do whatever they want to you because they are family and you have to forgive them. Wrong.

Maybe not the family you're born into, but perhaps the family you create for yourself. Family can also just mean your closest knit friends, or partner. But I agree with you that your original family may not be best for you. Not everyone is fortunate. But maybe you can cultivate a better family. Good luck internet stranger :)

Agree. Not everyone is ment to have a wonderful life journey with their "genetic" family.

Agree. family members are your biggest haters.

Your comment is on point...

Amen

great words!

Yep i have to save that quote lol

Who Can make a stupide thing like this. Watchaa the level

I totally understand as have some similar experiences. Don't try to help people who don't give a damn about helping themselves or others. Always observe what the other person brings to your table, so to speak.😊

I got dragged down toooooooo!!!

Great advice.

do u mean your friends take advantage of u?

Yea most cant retire, and even those that coud stay active. I think he means here more so be ready to retire from your job/9-5. Not to become inactive all together. But Ive seen many older people who continute to work a job when not needed because they'd rather that than sit at home doing other things.

Your grandma was lucky, loved her farm and to work for it! She did it for herself because of the right reasons! She was a free soul and not a slave of others! That is what the speaker is telling us here.... retire if you are only a slave...

so true

I will stay active I will never resign

Your grandmother was as good inspiration for you

They want us to fall down in life.

That's a fact!!!!!

Yes! Sad but true. They ( family members) stab you in the back for being too helpful! I’m. A fool to care. Hurts when they do that and you find out. I live my life without them in now. Is more calm but I’m sad inside to relate to this. I thought differently at one time. But at peace with knowing they can bash others now but not me. I don’t mind not hearing. Or twisted stories of my doings . Broke my heart, but I do good for neighbours and people. They don’t seem to mind kindness and my giving. Move on and lead a peaceful life. ❤

Thankyou!

The post doesn't Come from simple mind. Thanks you

Hey beta could you apply what you write

Can you explain this one? If I am sad or happy I let my friends know

@@WD40318 People can seem like they care and or act like it, But over time I've learned to differentiate between fake people and sincere people (It comes with age and life experiences and whether you evolve intellectually or you devolve). The things that helped me is studying Psychology and Philosophy. My favorite form of philosophy is Stoicism. Take a look at some of my playlists Also learn about the differences between Perception and Perspective. Also you don't need to share anything with anyone, except maybe? those that you think are closest to you? Other than that the video is self explanatory.

I have a family member that likes to bring up things I've told them in confidence. They like to mock...so I don't share anything with them anymore.

​@@WD40318 Sometimes people are jealous of you and don't appreciate you being too happy. Also your sadness can bring joy to some people they don't want to see you win but they keep a smiling face to trick you. Sometimes we best take our situations to God.

Ditto!

This is Quote from the book of Job. First time I heard that was like a bolt of lightning.

DITTO!

Interesting, because I for get if it's the Chinese or Japanese, but they say the opposite. They say you didn't come into the world alone so you shouldn't go out of it alone. Culture is a funny thing.

The only person you Can truely trust in life is yourself People will come and go But only you will remain in the Long run

Never become to cynical of people. Trust is earned, but openness to trusting is the beginning.

that really;ly puts a low bar on life. Communistic governments breed distrust. This distrust is absurd when there is no power over you. When you have free speech, who cares? Why accustom yourself to this?

Draugs - raugs - augs - vaga =Guarde - vārds - ard =rad it - dar it - Grauds =Seed. From one Word comes many meanings =Grauds - Guarde - Guardians.

Truth!

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Agree!!!

When it is your child most people care

Agree

Friend can be closer to your significant others 😉.. boom boom

Sometimes family is the worst and will be the first in line to get envious... and you know what always follows envy... hate. There is no envy without hate.

Amen you have a chance please pay attention to these words, God bless you

You are very lucky it’s good time you realise your worth ! Happily I was slightly younger when I realise that no body cares. ! Now enjoy your life

Never take problems of the others. 👽

I have told so many , how much i love them, but still, they fight me for who i am. They envy, brings jealousy and tearshed.

36 years old I have a wife and five children, I work a day job and give my wife 100% of my check. I ask for nothing and consume the minimum. Any extra work/side projects I do and earn money from is solely mine to do with as I please. This is the foundation I will use to build generational wealth. I come from extreme poverty and have carried my created family out of that disaster of a hole... I will be a millionaire before 50.

@@thedude5740 Thank you so much for sharing your experience and I hope you will reach your desired goal. 🙏🙏👍👍

@@thedude5740Sure you will!!

Thats crap, how many people these days can afford to grow xhildrwn in their 30ies?

@@dianageorgieva952 it depends on how much struggle you are willing to go through. It's doable, it won't be easy.

In your 20's you should have a husband who can support you and the children you're going to want to have.

@@thetrumpnewsnetwork7503 LMAO!!!

Care full who you give your time too. What we allow in is what we will become

@@ericducas3590 It can also be a massive waste of your time, I've learned over time that while some people may be interested in what you are knowledgeable on, Most won't do anything with what you share with them. So be quiet and stay low key.

Can i give you advise my son is 31 i told him many years get your act together he would not listen to me now he works at dead end job no car having many issues he says i cannot belive time past me by i help as much as i could now i cut him lose he refused to change.

Please stay strong and encourage I trust you will be fine along with your two sons

ST.VINCENT de Paul Society can help,look into it. Alot of food Pantries give food out once a week.God bless u keep t BFF e "FAITH".

being on you tube is not helping your sons…send your prayers to the lord, not an audience…❤

Yes!

Thank you to this life beauuutiful Quotes ,messages . Lesson learned. Thank You sooomuch 🙏🏻

Or at least don't discourage people. Even if I can't be happy for the person I'll just keep my mouth shut but there are people who discourage and even sabotage if they can

My song “no sleep” Will blowup soon trust me 🤞

Exactly Pretty cynical actually.

So damn sad! Trust Jesus!

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Let them be a challenge,a guide for change. Don't allow them to make you a victim.

I am grateful that you appreciate these wise words. The wisdom and experiences shared by adults can be a great source of inspiration for young people

80 and still learning

Almost In my 40s 😂 it's better to learn things late than never

The two of you are in your 30s, meaning that you're both millennials. Unfortunately for most millennials in Western countries, society has made it such that we never grew up in the same way as our parents and grandparents. We are an entitled generation, who recieved participation trophies,, same as whatever generation came after us. That being said, people in their 30s (aka the age men typically should be, at the very least, thinking about having children), are the ones who should be looking at this video

@@michaelmichael8314 and growing up yes, I've been thinking actually. about talking to a whole host of different people. because I realized Im actually very intelligent person/guy. and there is a lot of stories I could tell someone. people who are on much similar wavelengths to me in thought.. and so on. but this 13 years are gonna be period to massive growth. I believe people are way more powerful than they well may realize. we must get rid of bad actors who try to trick us in their own snide ways. take back what you deserve.

Sometimes it's easier to just 'let-injustice' happen to another individual, and 'sit-there' thinking your are moralous/virtuous for not doing a thing, not getting involved. but let me tell you this.. If you slow-poison another individual in their time of need. Remember they will also hold same-slow-poison in your wake, in other-words don't expect anything from me in the future when your in your time of need, and perhaps that's just WHY your suffering because where could have let someone take-hand against the other, you let them wale and be injusticed.. (NONE to their OWN). every day I lived it, every day I sat there.. THINKING i was doing RIGHT THING. (I can well tell you it was not). And maybe they are people who could have CONTRIBUTED to your own situation. Thinking that being all passive, weak, timid, and non-involving is the way to go, story of my life!!. I used to live that same story every day of my living life. and look where it got me.. and in fact THOSE people.. turns out not getting involved is just as bad as getting involved. and from an individual whom really had no right to be abused in that way. so Ill tell people. KEEP telling yourself that.. Lets see how far you go. Today I live in regret because of it, wishing I had helped those individuals and brought them back, I lived for years just sitting back and letting it fold in front of me, and what did I get for it? nothing... The right thing would have been to 'step-In' and 'call-it-out'. falls into human-rights act (1998), the human-care act (2014), which means to protect another individuals rights. in protecting own rights, we also have a duty to protect other's right too. In fact... letting a thing happen, just makes you as bad as those very people who enabled the injustice to begin with.. peoples RIGHTS must be protected.. and when you get stuck in a bother, I will defend yours.. because we have each others back. and we know things happen for shit-reasons (which should not occurrr). those shit reasons being other people. (whom would like to brainwash you and make-it-out that they are not perpetrators but the people they pick on, who are innocent/minding their own business). it's just the same as bacteria, you could be ultra clean, and think you are clean of it. but its still on your hands.. more don't do anything more you have 'blood'. but carry on let yourself see another get injusticed in your very wake. I will treat you like japanese-people who use to torture-people in jail, by moving away from others 'distastefully'. who don't deserve to be on same sitee/couch/whatever. It is all about what is fair to individual, regardless of what relation rank they are in your circle. friend or foe. and why I base new friends on friends-of-fairness. than friends-of-agenda. if viewed as immoral then be viewed as immoral for the right reasons.. (idc because I know its right too), it's time to grow a spine... Those ''PEOPLE'' could very well be your next advocates/next helpers... (great helpers). to be there in your own battle. we do a thing because its RIGHT, because its FAIR. not because we owe allegiance to people. allegiance comes from fair, not from personal-agenda. which makes just as bad, but eventually come to see it when you are in a pickle and have sheer pressing weight on top of you and then you will remember all those times when you did not throw in support. and have nothing but fiddlesticks/ashes/empty crowns in your hand, The actual TRUTH, lies inbetween. Just as I would also wish you to fight me when i do a thing unfair (on another individual), you must also fight other people. that way by upholding everyones fairness, THATS how we win.. and we will come to respect each other 1000x more (THEN). then ever not.. had in first-place. True love is showing us the error of our ways and these people need to hear it just as well. because right now they are in their 'UNLISTENING' phase and need to be pulled out of it. the best source of love is someone TELLING YOU, you are wrongggg. Once we transform ourselves we transform others too to also correct themselves. but doing nothing is NOT MAKING SITUATION BETTER.. It is allowingggg. EVIL to spread. evil that others know deep down are within themselves. once we come to tolerate other evil we can allow them to stop their self-evil ways. or at best make an effort. and I would expect the same if I did something evil/injust. by showing peacefully error of our ways. people who are so blinded by their own pain they've been conditioned to think in way they have. (past-injustice). we must allow them to see the light.. (again). that is REALLY why people do things. They have been blinded (along the way), but they don't know it.. (or do). but need to see it again.. they are upset individuals who are in need of help. we only do that by loving them and showing them. because it is what they have come to EXPECT, of other-people. they have been put through it. and need HELP.. need our help.. not to pity them but to feel genuine sorrow. their like a person who is angry and anger is affecting their internal mind to think properly. and to that we must validate their pain. (but don't think still completely won't still do it). people who have been dealt mortal blows (in their life). it's because that pain is the thing we don't see. they don't want us to see. (and its killing them inside, they are not weak, the situation is weak). not see someone as ANOTHER/The other, but as our own PERSONAL friend.. the systems/people/world isn't righttt. But we don't see that, we don't see people's injustice affecting them. and wish them the best, even if we sadly must distance ourselves from them (thus protecting them from own selves, this is much more kind view don't you think?). so that they don't have to suffer no-more.. in that way come to see societies as a whole.. and it's not right. perhaps if roles reversed I would feel same. the real reason isn't because hate them but because.... sigh we love them... turmoil. perhaps all their ghosts would flee if we Finally RELEASED them from it. (all). see the sun shine on them once more.. (not the dark). sun equating to kind.. dark as unkind. think of them as 'Anakin-Skywalkers'/'Darth-Vaders'. things may not be right, but we help them to do right nontheless. (same with maul and obi-won). we must forgiveee. but keep distance (if still must). maybe they had that abusive mother or abusive dad that talked down to them EVERY SINGLE day of their lives.. (how worthless they are, how this or that they are). and now they are fleeing from that coming to expect that of everyone else too... they are so far ahead in their lives, the darkness they don't see is so deep.. it's altered their view/picture. they don't even see it in their own actions.. a deeper upset that cant be UNWRITTEN. but must pull their binds away.. again. That is why we must show them kindness and show how they come to error in their ways. cause ther blind.. dark has made them blind. but perhaps blind they don't even know it. (that their blind). for all you know they are THANOS/Morgoth (opposite-hero) who was pulled into that direction. whom was so great at one point. that it pulled away from them. Ill tell them, to the contrary that is NOT how im going to treat them.. not to add to their baggage. which perhaps was not their fault. we show them the opposite. (but be careful not to be pulled in with them, toxic stuff). we must try and re-bring out best in people... INTWERNAL LAW, not SOCIETIAL LAW (fuck society, fuck the world). I'm not here to add to people's pain.. here to make it better, to soothe it. to heal them. that is why they have come to you.. so you can squeeze out last bit of goodness within. kind of people to have a deep pain but never ever ever tell someone, because their not that PERSON/guy to do it. its understanding why people are way they are, the Scars/Deep-Scars lie within. and not act out of fear, but compassion. for all you know it could be saddest thing here on this planet/Earth.. never assume you know what people been through.. 1. People don't like to tell you, but subtly hint to it (it's not in the gentlemanly nature to do so/nature). 2. doing so could mean being exploited and they also don't want that, by wrong-people. must show people opposite, but unfortunately has made come to expect of other people too. why don't instead of seeing people as enemies, we see them as friends instead. friends who are flawed. (look down with sadness). maybe been forced into secrecy, taught how to never show emotions because too afraid. but's it telling them.. this is not the wayy.. broo.. all I detect is deeper sadness within. and is what I say, that's not WHYYY they do it.. (it's never to do with another soul), it's to do with THEM.. THEMMM. THEM. crime ridden neighborhood.

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My song “no sleep” Will blowup soon trust me 🤞

Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV “Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.